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Vernon Yingling Jr.

1945 - 2020

Vernon Yingling Jr. obituary, 1945-2020, Adamstown, MD

BORN

1945

DIED

2020

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Keeney & Basford Funeral Homes, P.A.

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Frederick, Maryland

Vernon Yingling Obituary

Vernon Windsor Yingling, Jr. beloved husband, father, grandfather and friend got his final hole-in-one Saturday, August 1st, doing what he loved. Playing golf at Holly Hills with his friends, he left us at hole 13 and we are extremely grateful to his friends and Holly Hills Country Club for being with him during this time. Vernon was as passionate about his golf as he was about life in general, and anyone that met Vernon knew this. From the twinkle in his eyes to the little smile he gave you, you could see the joy for life he carried with him. He was compassionate about his fellow person, as he believed you never did something for another based on a return - you do it out of the kindness of your heart. And he had a huge heart - from his past involvement in the construction industry and owner of Yingling Construction for 30 years and past president of the builders association, to his 203k's that he did for over 20 years. Anyone that was in the construction industry knew Vernon. He was proud to continue working with MSS, a GSA contractor up until his last day. He was a member of the Army Reserve where he was known for his sharp-shooting skills. He was a graduate of Frederick High School, past board member of the Frederick HIstorical Society, member of Frederick Elks Lodge, and a member of Mountain View Community Church.

He is remembered by his loving wife of 55 years, Diane Yingling, his sons Jerry and Steve along with their wives (Lynda Wagner and Kelly Yingling), his grandchildren Alexis, Alaina, Jacob, Dylan, Jordan and Mollie along with his great-grandchildren. He was the son of Vernon and Grace Yingling.

Vernon's two favorite quotes will stay with us always "The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good." And "May you always have a strong foundation when the winds of change shift."

In lieu of flowers, a memorial donation in Vernon's name to: St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

Due to the COVID-19 restrictions, the funeral service will be private. Please view and sign Mr. Yingling's guest book at www.keeneybasford.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Frederick News-Post from Aug. 4 to Aug. 5, 2020.

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Floyd Brown

August 10, 2022

First of all, I had no idea my good friend passed away until this day. I was actually in the process of looking for his phone number and browsed his name - only to find him here posted since August 1. I just missed him before I could anything. But I will share my thoughts. You see during my initial stages at work back in 2012, I was not treated very well. And as I stood at my duty station, Mr. Yingling stood with me often to engage in great conversation. Ever since that day, he was my good friend. And every time I saw him, he shared knowledge and wisdom just as an uncle or Grandfather would do. I deeply valued him. And I can't think of anyone who did not think highly of Mr. Yingling. We often discussed his love for God and how he knew God was a big part of his life. Well, what I can see is that God used him to show tremendous support and kindness to others. A true blessing he was to many... I am deeply saddened over this loss.

Take Care My Friend,
Floyd Brown II

Chris Gauss

August 22, 2020

Diane, Jim and I are so sorry for your loss. I didn't find out until Thursday when I talked to Jerry. Vernon was a great man to work for and will always be remembered as one of our best clients, and for the stories he would share with us. Also for the Krispy Creme donuts he would bring every time he would come to the office.

Our condolences
Chris, Kathy, Jim and Shannon Gauss

Walter and Pat Wratchford

August 16, 2020

To Diane, We are so sorry for not seeing Vernon"s obituary. This is such a sad bit of info. Vernon was one of the best people we have had the opportunity to speak of with such delight. How much we loved all the times we had with your family, the Church Class, the picknics at your house and all other times. He was indeed a true friend. Diane, we miss seeing you and our prayers are there for you and your family. A true friend always! Walter and Pat Wratchford

Roland Pyle

August 10, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Dianne I am very sad to here about Vernon I remember all the times we played golf and the wonderful meals we had at Holly Hills. I will miss him.
My prayers are with you.

John Franco

August 10, 2020

It is with deep sadness that I have learned of Vernon’s passing. He was a great golfing buddy & our days teeing off together with Randy, Roland, Vernon (& sometimes Diane) will forever be cherished. His words of wisdom, sense of humor & kindness will be etched in my memories. May The Lord Our Father welcome him into the heavenly kingdom. With love from John Franco.

Gene & Trudy Gillispie

August 7, 2020

Trudy and I knew Vernon for 20 years. We wish it was longer. He was a fair, honest, faithful friend who understood people and loved everyone. He understood the world and only wanted it better. He knew the Lord and was a dedicated servant. We are all diminished by his passing but enriched by having shared a part of his life.

I will always remember how his face brightened and his posture improved when he played golf, spoke of God’s hand in his life and when he told stories of his precious Diane.

Rest In Peace my friend. Gene & Trudy

Roxie Tyeryar

August 7, 2020

Diane and family, We want to express our sincere and heartfelt sympathy to you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please know we are thinking of you! Sincerely, Ronnie and Roxie Tyeryar

Kaye Shoemaker

August 6, 2020

Diane and family,
Vernon was always special. He and I went through the old Urbana Elementary School together and there are so many memories. I especially remember the square dancing in Baker Park. We were in the same "square" and made our sit-upons for the big day. He was always a happy and friendly soul. I really enjoyed sharing time with him and Larry Hopwood at the 50th reunion of the class of '63. It was great to visit with them.
Diane, you and Vernon seemed like the best married couple since "Leave it to Beaver". You were definitely meant for each other.
My sincere sympathy on the passing of a wonderful guy,
Kaye (Weatherholt) Shoemaker

Becky Smith

August 6, 2020

What wonderful memories we will always have about Vernon. He was a kind and generous man...always a smile and always a wonderful story about my Dad. Our deepest sympathy to Diane and the family.

Rodney and Becky Smith

Francina Baldi

August 6, 2020

Diane and family,
Joe and I are so sorry about your loss! Vernon always had a ready smile and pleasant word for everyone he met. He’ll be missed. Hugs and prayers.
Joe and Francina Baldi and Family

Terre Rhoderick

August 6, 2020

Diane and family,
My prayers are with you and your family. I am so fortunate to have known Vernon since high school and had the pleasure of working with him professionally. He was a quiet leader and respected among all in the construction industry. He was dedicated to his profession and a mentor to many. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. May God surround you with His love now and in the future.
Terre

August 6, 2020

Our thought and prayers are with you and your family. Jim and Jenny Boyer

Walter and Myrna Mills

August 5, 2020

Vernon was the consummate professional, coworker and friend. Always with a smile, a gentle laugh, and words of wisdom that were to be heeded yet entertained by. Vernon, you will forever be and already are, sorely missed. Be at peace, our dear friend.

Bonnie & Ron Lennox

August 5, 2020

Vernon always did have that twinkle in his eye and a smile on his face. We will fondly remember the golf games we had with him and Diane at Holly Hills. He was a truly genuine person and friend and we will keep Diane and family in our thoughts and prayers.

Jane Hahn

August 5, 2020

So many wonderful memories of years ago, he will never be forgotten. I know he and Herb have reunited.

HERBERT AKERS

August 5, 2020

Keep it in the fairway

Mary (Pixie) Yingling- Kauffman

August 5, 2020

Diane and family,
I am truly sorry to hear about Vernie's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Fran & Mike Denmark

August 5, 2020

Diane, I am so very sorry for your loss. Vernon was a good man. May your happy memories with Vernon always keep you company. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys.

Randy Clifton

August 5, 2020

When Diane called and told me Vernon had a massive heart attack and passed away on the 13th hole at Holly Hills I was crushed.
It brought back so many memories. Vernon and I played a lot of golf together. As a matter of fact that's how I met him, joining Holly Hills. We were a regular group.
Our friendship turned into much more than playing golf. Vernon, Diane, me and my wife Courtney had many meals together.
One of our favorite places was Edgewater Restaurant. I remember Vernon asking me one day if I like crab cakes? My reply was "I love them." Vernon said, " I know where they have the biggest and best. Crab cakes the size of softballs and no filler." He was right on! We made many trips to Edgewater along with anyone who visited us and wanted Maryland crab cakes.
When my wife and I moved to Southport, NC I stayed in touch with Vernon and invited him down many times. I never saw him again.
Vernon loved golf but I believe he used golf as a venue to be with people. That's what he loved. We didn't see eye to eye on some things, politics for instance, however he never used harsh words or tones to express himself. His humor was off the charts. Vernon was who I call a "Gentle Soul."
I will miss him!
I hope Diane will come visit us in Southport and we can laugh and cry while remembering my good friend, Vernon.

Donna Denison

August 5, 2020

Diane,
We will miss Vernon’s smiling face at Holly Hills. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Dave and Donna Denison

Bre Bybel (Roys)

August 5, 2020

Vernon was undoubtedly the most kind human being. His passion for teaching and love of Christ transcended to all who have had the honor of being taught by him. Four years of Sundays being molded by such a great man is a true honor. I pray the Lord puts a "Vernon" in my children's lives. To Diane and family, we feel this great loss with you and will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Daryl & Sharon Murphy

August 5, 2020

So sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family.

Judith Brown

August 5, 2020

Vernon was one of the truly nice guys in this world. We were former FHS Classmates and friends. We didn't see much of each other, except at reunions; but he always had a smile for everyone. So kind to everyone. I know he'll be missed by so many, and the world has lost another beautiful soul. Rest in peace my friend.

Deborah Cole

August 5, 2020

Diane,
Deepest sympathies to you and your family.

August 5, 2020

Sincerest condolences to the Yingling family from the Frederick County Building Industry Association. Vernon, thank you for your leadership and friendship during your time as association President (1983 - 1984). You will certainly be missed.

Dennis Smith

August 5, 2020

Fondest memories beginning as a customer, FCBA member, pig cooker mentor, and good friend. Always a smile and positive encouragement. Fond memories to Diane and family.

charlie Smith

August 5, 2020

At the Frederick Co. Home Builders golf outing being held on Friday, August 14th, Hole 13 is being sponsored in Vernon's name. The Golf outing is being held at Maryland National Course on Hollow Rd. in Middletown

Jayne Bongard

August 5, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.

Terry & Oland

August 5, 2020

Vernon, THANKS SO MUCH for your friendship !!! Will miss our talks, breaking bread at the Atlantic Grill, & chasing birds with Dave !!! Save a TEE-TIME for me BUDDY and will will enjoy a round of golf when we meet again !!! To Vernon's family, I'm so sorry for your loss and my God Bless you all in this time of need !!!

Pete Hamilton

August 4, 2020

I met Mr. Vernon May of 2010 he was the Army Corp. Inspector on the job that I was Superintendent on. I worked with him every day till September 2011 about 16 months. The first day I met Mr. Vernon I made the mistake of calling him Vern. I got an ear full and thought to my self this ain’t going to be fun. Could not have been more wrong, you see Mr. Vernon was not your average man, he had compassion, was kind and became a great friend in a short period of time. On December 5, 2011Mr. Vernon called to tell me he had a small stroke, his speech was a little off but still the same old Vernon up beat and not down. He called me again on Christmas Day and I was glad to hear he was much better and could not wait to get out and play golf. Mr. Vernon and I would sit in his office and eat peanuts and talk almost every day. He talked about his kids, grand kids and Mrs. Diane. He was with his grandson when he got his first buck so proud of him and said he made a great shot. He was happy Mrs. Diane was playing golf and was good at it of course he took credit for teaching her. He called me every year on my birthday I don’t even know how he knew the date. When my wife fell ill 2 years ago it wasn’t my friends of 50 years I called it was a man I worked with 16 months and talked to maybe 40 minutes a year for the last 9 years. I knew Mr. Vernon would know what to say and give me advice to help me through this and when he said he would pray for Jackie I knew he actually would. I am grateful I met Mr. Vernon he would not want us to mourn too long he would want his family and close friends to look after the love of his life Mrs. Diane and I know Vernon will always be with us no matter where we are and what we’re doing.
Love you Mr.Vernon
God Speed

Jeff Harris and family

August 4, 2020

We are so sorry for your loss may God bless you in this time of need

David Kuykendall

August 4, 2020

I had the great fortune of working with Vernon for a number of years. More importantly, I had the privilege of becoming his friend. He and Diane were the life of any group: just couple’s or big get-togethers. His wit was quick, and his stories were exceptional. But his kindness, burnished by life’s ups and downs, his wisdom, and his deep concern for others will always be what I remember most. He took me under his wing when I thought I knew a lot, and with both encouragement and gentle but unmistakable critiques he taught me a great deal, including allowing me to see how much I still had to learn. I will miss our annual birthday calls to each other, but I will cherish the many years of them I’ve had since moving away. May God provide great comfort to Diane, Jerry, Steve and the rest of the family. Vernon was truly one of a kind, in the very best way possible.

We love you and will miss you Vern. Love, Kelly, Steve, Alexis, Alains, Dylan and Mollie Grace d

Kelly Yingling

August 4, 2020

We love you and will miss you Vern. Love, Kelly, Steve, Alexis, Alain’s, Dylan and Mollie Grace ❤

Bertram Edmonston IV

August 4, 2020

Vernon was a very special man. He will be missed.

Joyce & Eddie Smith

August 4, 2020

Vernon wasn't just a great friend, he was our family. We will miss his bright smile and wonderful friendship. His passing has left a hole in our hearts. Golf and chocolate martinis will never be the same. Rest in Peace with the Lord, Vernon, until me meet again. We love you.

Ed Esworthy

August 4, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kimberlee Ballenger

August 4, 2020

I only met Vernon a couple of times, and each time I was struck by his smile and his ability to give you his full attention. He was sincerely interested in others. He'll be missed, greatly missed.

Raymond Frye

August 4, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

charlie Smith

August 4, 2020

Vernon Yingling was a good person and a great contractor. If you knew Vernon, then you had a story to tell. It was always an adventure to visit a job site with Vernon, Steve Oden, Herb Hahn, and Phil Zimmerman. It was a delight to be with them and their wonderful outlook on life. There was never a dull moment with that group. I loved every minute I spent with them as a young contractor and learning from them.

Mark Carter

August 4, 2020

Vernon was a wonderful person and an exceptional business colleague. He was also truly a man of God with a heart of gold. God Bless you Vernon Yingling you will be sorely missed. Your Brother in Christ, Mark Carter

Ginger Memmott

August 4, 2020

Sunday school teacher. Beloved Friend. He loved us. We loved him.

Frances Lee

August 4, 2020

Best friend since elementary school thru life. We did much together including the army and the day he passed on to the heaven he deserved. I will truly miss him.

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