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April 14, 2019
Hi Danny, Wow, it's been a while since I've written to you. Dad and I are getting ready to visit with Reid in Knoxville, TN. for his birthday.
It seems that you always come up in conversation. We laugh and cry about our times together. Dad and I couldn't have loved you more and I think you knew that. We never thought we would lose you so very soon. We often talk and wonder what you would have done with your life. You were such a giving person, I can imagine you would have helped others out no matter what you ended up doing or where you would have gone in life. Take care my dear love. We miss you so much.
Love and hugs, Mom
July 3, 2017
Hi Danny, I didn't forget your 42nd birthday on the 29th. There was so much going on that day in my life with friends and family calling and meeting me for lunch and dinner, and having my hair done, but you were in my thoughts that entire day. It's very interesting that the night before on the 28th this month at 11p.m., I thought of you and that is the exact same time 42 years ago that I felt your first urge to be born, and I awakened dad to take me to Cook County Hospital. On the way there, the car muffler broke and we were dragging it all the way from Hyde Park on Lake Shore Drive to the hospital. What a memory! Dad was so tired from helping our friends move into their new home that day, that he went to sleep on the delivery floor. You didn't join us until 9 in the morning, and you came out with some powerful lungs. You were so cute! Diane said you were the cutest baby in the nursery, and you were, if I must say so myself. Your cuteness continued until the day you died. You were always so full of fun and sweetness. Reid was so very happy to have a little brother. He had asked for you for years and you were finally in our lives. I brought you home to the Lower Flint Dorm at the University of Chicago where dad and I were dorm parents. The students couldn't get enough of you. You were the table centerpiece at all the dorm meals for months. The rest is history, but I will never forget how happy we all were that you were strong enough to come home even though you were only 5 lbs. You were small but mighty and remained so for the rest of your life. Sleep with the angels my love. Love and hugs, Mom
Catherine Ipser
December 25, 2016
Hi Danny, I erased what I had written you today, Christmas 2016, but you know what I said. I will talk to you tonight, as I do each night, when I say my prayers. Dad, Reid and I are in Gatlinburg, TN, in a fab cabin that you would love. You would be in the hot tub about now. Love you much and miss you lots, Mom
Danny with Grandma Hazel
September 22, 2015
Dear Danny, I didn't write to you on the anniversary of your passing this year because I was in route from Knoxville, TN. back to Gainesville. It was a really tough day for me. Every time I read an email, text or received a call from a family member or friends, I would tear up. The security people and others who saw me looked at me kind of funny as my eyes were all red at various times. I had visited Reid for a week in his new home. We enjoyed each other and talked about you and old times. We laughed a lot and talked about how much we miss you. It's been 6 years since you left us. We were saying that you and aunt Rozie must be having a blast together. We miss you both so very much. Please put in a good word upstairs for those of us left behind. You are always in my thoughts and in my heart. I love and miss you dear son. It never gets any easier. Mom
Danny's first day in the world
Catherine V. Ipser
June 28, 2015
Well Danny, 40 years ago at 11:00 p.m, June 28, 1975, I woke dad up to take me to the hospital. I was having contractions. You weren't due for another 3 weeks, oh well. Poor dad had helped friends move into their new home that day, and he was out like a light. But up he flew and we were in the car and off to Michael Reese Hospital in Chicago. On the way there, the tail pipe on our Lemans fell off part way, and there were sparks flying out of it. Your entrance into the world was starting with a bang! The docs told me that they couldn't give me any medication because they were afraid it would hurt you in some way. Of course, I agreed and so it went for the next several hours. Dad fell asleep on the floor next to the delivery bed I was in. He was exhausted, poor guy! The contractions grew closer and closer, and by 9 a.m. you were ready to say hello to the world. The doctor was called and got to the hospital just in time to deliver you. He entered the room, kicked dad to wake him up and before I knew it, you were here. You screamed hello and the nurse gave you to me. They needed to take you away to be circumcised, so they cut the umbilical cord. They then had a bit of a problem with the after birth, but it eventually came out ok. You were the most beautiful baby in the nursery, as our good friend Diane said when she came to visit me in the hospital. Dad and Reid came to visit that day. I remember what Reid was wearing, a light blue and white shirt and white shorts. He was so cute and was so excited to see you. He wanted a brother or sister so badly. You and I got to know each other in the hospital for the next couple of days. You were so precious. Dad and I took you home, and the rest is history. Tomorrow is your 40th birthday. God bless you my sweet son. Love, Mom
Danny's Birthday 6-29-1975
Catherine V. Ipser
June 28, 2015
Valenti Reunion Photo
Catherine Ipser
June 25, 2015
Dear Danny, Dad and I were in New Orleans last week and we laid flowers on the steps of your home there where you passed away. It was an emotional day. We were there to celebrate dad's 55th Jesuit class reunion and to celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary. Being there brought back mixed emotions for both of us. We miss you very much and wish you were here to help us celebrate milestones. Save a place for us in heaven with you and the other angels. I love you, mom
Roz & Danny
June 25, 2015
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Catherine Ipser
December 27, 2014
We missed you at Christmas. Dad and I flew to Reid's in Cali in Davis where he now lives. We did as usual, had breakfast, opened gifts, took a long walk then had dinner later after relaxing. The weather is gorgeous and we are planning on sightseeing some while here. You will be with us in our hearts at all times. Missing you never gets easier, but our good times together is what sustains us. Love and miss you dear son, Mom
Ron Schram
February 26, 2014
Jim, Cathy and Reid-
I just became aware of Danny's passing and wanted to belatedly extend my heartfelt sorrow at your loss. My lasting memory of Danny is of a fun loving, slightly mischievous boy of about nine, the present age of my youngest. Reading the ongoing entries in the Guest Book, especially Cathy's, is both heartbreaking and inspirational. I believe that the pain of a loss such as yours never goes away, but hope and pray that your wonderful memories of Danny bring you some comfort.
January 11, 2014
Hi My Love and Sidekick, I didn't write at Thanksgiving nor at Christmas, This doesn't mean that I haven't thought about you during that time. You are always in my thoughts. This year I decorated our home the way you would remember from the past. It was fun and I put on some of the Christmas music you were fond of.By the way, Susie and Richard, Diane and Marc and Hank and Laura joined us for Thanksgiving . It was a fun evening. Many of my thoughts were about you and how grateful I feel about having you for a son.You gave me so much happiness. I know that you have been looking down o us.Wasn't our trip to Paris the bomb!!? I know you would have enjoyed it. I remember when we were in London when you were only 13, you loved the adventure. Our travels have all been a blessing, but not quite the same without you. I just wish that we had more time together, but that's not up to us I suppose. I love and miss you more than anyone can imagine. Your Mom
September 13, 2013
I think of you often, friend. You will always present a great example of friendship; to me, my boys, and your other friends.I was blessed to make your friendship. Little Ben has, now, a fourth grade friend; this to me is too cool!!! Fourth graders rule forever, buddy.
September 13, 2013
September 9, 2013
Danny Boy, It's hard to believe that you are gone 4 years from those who love and miss you. I suppose it's because I think of you every day many times a day. Whenever I think of how much fun you were, I start to smile. Until I write again, stay in God's loving arms. Love, Mom
July 7, 2013
Dear Danny, Your birthday was June 29 and it was hard for Dad and me, but we talked about the night before you were born and how funny it was. We must have told you the story. It made us laugh, and we really needed that. Friends and family called and that made us feel good. Aunt Sue and Uncle Art were hear last week and we had a great time together. Suzie ad Richard were here last night,and we talked about you a lot. Mostly about how talented you were, and how much we miss you. Take care dear one. I'll write again soon. Love you, Mom
Elizabeth Ipser Carlson
June 24, 2013
Happy Birthday, Danny.
June 16, 2013
Dearest Danny, It is Father's Day today, and I know dad is missing your call and poem. I've saved them all. In fact, I was going through some of your belongings yesterday for the first time. I found "Picky" "Toughie" and "Cornie." Andrew sent them to me in '09 with a very nice note that I found with them.It's taken me a while to do this, and Dad just can't; he gets too emotional. I mostly smile, especially when I find some of your writings and poems. You were always such an eloquent writer. Anyway, I must close for now. I will write again soon. Oh, by the way, your 20th GHS high school reunion is this coming weekend.Robin Munnis Campen has asked me to send her some photos of you. There's going to be a memorial segment of the three classmates who have passed away since graduation. I know that you remember Jeff Davis who passed away. You liked him a lot. He was in wrestling with you. Robin asked if dad and I would like to attend. Don't think Dad can handle it, but I might attend. I'll let you know if I do. Love you tooooooooooo much, Mom
May 6, 2013
Dearest Danny, Alissa's luncheon was lovely. She has really turned out to be a neat young lady. Wish you could be with us at her wedding on June 1. We talked about you this weekend at the Shortridges--fond memories. Love and miss you more and more each day. xoMom
May 4, 2013
Not a day, my friend. You will always make a great impression on my life, and are like the shark teeth fossils we found;strong.
April 28, 2013
Wish you were here to see me get married. 5 more weeks and I'll be a Mrs.! Your mother and my aunt are throwing me a shower next Saturday. Thinking of you as I show my fiancé photos of my loved ones. Happy one month til your birthday.
Mom
June 30, 2012
Hi Sweet Danny, Yesterday would have been your 37th birthday. Many people remembered and sent me emails or called. It was very sweet of them. Dad wasn't home so Laura and Hank took me out for dinner downtown. You wouldn't believe how jumping downtown was! It's a happening place these days for all ages. I miss you loads, and many others do also. Almost forgot --saw Farrah and her husband last night while downtown. They have two little boys now who are adorable. Later Gator! Lots of love, Mom
Cathy Ipser
March 19, 2012
Dad and I went to two weddings this weekend--Lindsay Kratka & Julie Bitton got married. Reid was At Julie & Tom's. We all missed you as usual. It's a gorgeous day in Atlanta. We are headed for the airport now. Love ya Danno,Mom
Dylan Saperstein
March 18, 2012
I luv you ipdog
You will be missed
Your lionheart and wonderful soul blessed us all
January 17, 2012
January 16, 2012
It's one of those days again, and I've found myself thinking of you. Wish you were here to give some 'brother'ly advice like you would when we were just kids.
October 4, 2011
Catherine Ipser
October 4, 2011
Dearest Danny, Today one of your special cousins was put to rest in New Orleans. Cousin Catherine loved you very much, so I hope you are there to welcome her into Our Father's home. It's amazing how fast time is flying by. You are gone from us in body for over two years now, but you are still very much here in our hearts. I see some of your friends now and then, and get sweet notes from them from time to time. I don't think you realize how much you were loved. I found some old music of yours, and I have been playing your songs just so that I can hear your voice. And by the way, Evan and Coleen are having twins after the new year. Also, Jason Hedges is kicking butt with his music. Sleep with the angels my love. Mom
mitch & Pam Mitchell
September 15, 2011
Danny, I just got through reading all the wonderful notes all your friends and family have sent to you. You were so loved to so many people in so many ways. We all miss you so much and if there is a heaven I sure hope we all get to see each other again. Mitch and I are are in your parents lives and traveling and talking to them all the time and watching over them so we have them in our care and prayers. Take care Danny and we will take care of your parents. We promise this to you!!!!Love, Mitch and Pam
June 29, 2011
Happy Birthday Danny, I thought about you all day today. You would be 36 today. It's 11 p.m. and you were born at 11 a.m. this day 36 years ago. Dad and I felt very blessed to have you join our family. Reid was so very happy to have a brother. He couldn't hold you enough and love on you enough. Reid is here today, and we both jumped in the pool with all of our clothes on in memory of you. It felt great; you would have been in there with us, and I felt that you were in spirit. Sleep with the angels "snoochies." Love, Mom
October 18, 2010
Happy Homecoming! Keeping it real for you & still telling legends of camping with the great Ipdog. PS: I don't hafta ask to know Bryan misses you...
danny holler
October 3, 2010
My 2cnd favorite jam mate,we were drinkin beer and jammin hours before you left.thank you for the help you and the rest of the ipsers gave,I miss you.mexican money lol!
Noey H
September 14, 2010
Played some Floyd for u last week. Mikey & I miss u SO MUCH! Thank God u r in His hands... No doubt rockin out with the stars! Luv u man!!!XOXOX ~N~
The Florida Sopranos
September 11, 2010
Troy
September 7, 2010
Love You!!
Troy
September 6, 2010
Can't believe you've been gone this long. Hoping you're yelling "cannonball!" into God's swimming pool, much like we used to do in yours. Miss you, big brother.
September 6, 2010
Jay Isom
August 30, 2010
Hope you're making loud, beautiful noise upstairs Danny.
Noelle Hilton
August 30, 2010
WISH YOU WERE HERE Ipdog... Everlovin, Noey
Troy Mitchell
July 28, 2010
Dan,
Today I told Ben you were in heaven. I miss you an awful lot my friend!! I finally watched your memorial the other day, I was not ready to loose you dude. I feel like you will always be with me in spirit. I know your lookin' down on us, and keep on smiling! I love you. from Troy, your friend
June 30, 2010
Dearest Danny, Yesterday was your birthday. You would have been 35. It was a hard day for Reid, dad and me but we got through it. Lee and Janet sent us beautiful flowers; Jeff, Irene, Eileen and Stu and others called. Eileen sent you a beautiful card. The best news though is that Katie had a baby boy on your birthday. His name is John Mark. Uncle Jay said that this is a blessing. I feel that it is also. The circle of life goes on. Sleep with the angels my love. Mom
May 31, 2010
My Dearest Danny, It is Memorial Day when we celebrate our fallen military heroes. You are my fallen hero, and I celebrate your life every day. I love and miss you. Mom
Roger
February 22, 2010
I will forever remember Danny as the happy-go-lucky boy who would walk into my classroom every morning with a smile on his face... he was an amazing student who brightened my day regularly... I will miss you, Danny!
December 19, 2009
My Sweet Danny, I hope you are enjoying your heavenly home. Wish you were here for the Christmas holidays, but you can probably see that I've put up the tree and decorations around the house. One day I'll be able to join you in celebrating Christmas with our Heavenly Father. Let me feel your presence. I love you, Mom
Eric Clayton
November 16, 2009
Danny and I were good friends in elementry school.
I will always remember him from those days as the most confident, fearless and brave kid. He had the strength and courage of a heavy-weight packed into an 80-lb body.
Our deepest sympathies go out to the Ipser family.
Yvonne Howard (Boettcher)
November 2, 2009
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
October 17, 2009
Dear Cathy, Jim and Reid -
We are so sorry to hear of Danny's passing. We remember the fun times we had babysitting Danny & Reid in the dorm and at your house. Loving hugs to all of you.
Steve and Linda Brown
Deborah Bpylan Humphreville
October 14, 2009
Dear Jim, Cathy and Reid, Iam so sorry and have so many found memories of my freshman year in Lower Flint with Danny. Deborah Boylan Humphreville Surrey UK
October 13, 2009
Dear Cathy, Reid & Jim, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I recall him as being a beautiful baby during my 1st year stay @ Lower Flint.
Stephen Cha, LA, CA
Bonnie Humphrey
October 12, 2009
Dear Cathy, Jim & Reid:
I have many fond memories of little Danny and the wonderful warmth the Ipser family brought to the entire dormitory experience at UofC.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
October 12, 2009
Dear Jim and Cathy:
I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. I have strong and wonderful memories of you and your family and my thoughts and sympathies are with you during this time.
Richie Goldstein
Sharon, Massachusetts
Leslie Lapides
October 12, 2009
Dear Jim, Cathy and Reid,
My heart goes out to all of you. Danny was fortunate to grow up in such a loving family. I remember him as a beautiful baby. All my sympathy.
October 12, 2009
Dear Jim, Kathy, and Reid,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have fond memories of Danny as a toddler in Lower Flint. Our thoughts are with you.
Adam Gamoran
October 11, 2009
Jim, Kathy, and Reid,
I am so sorry to hear you lost your son and brother. It's very sad. I am sure your hearts are broken. You'll all be in my prayers.
Ann Fischer
David Oates
October 11, 2009
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of you all from Lower Flint.
John MacDougall
October 10, 2009
Jim & Cathy,
Peter Hirschfeld called and told me of Danny's death. I know there is nothing that can be said to ease the pain, but know that our prayers are with you.
I can remember Danny running around the dorm all those years ago and thinking that it was kind of a cool place to grow up. We appreciated having a family around to ground us a bit.
Stephen Maxwell
October 10, 2009
Danny was a great friend. He was always so funny and he would always make me laugh. I was very sad to hear of his passing. Me and my family's prayers are with his family and friends.
Jack Stripling
October 8, 2009
Sorry to be late coming with my condolences. Danny was a kind and generous person, and I am so sorry he couldn't have shared that with more people. My thoughts are with his family and friends.
Miriam Fitch
October 8, 2009
To the Ipser family, my heart goes out to you in your time of grief. Danny is the reason I know my Husband, William Fitch. He was a great friend to William and to me. I am so sorry for your loss, Danny will be missed by all who knew him.
William Fitch
October 6, 2009
Danny and I shared many of the same troubles in life. He above many others could understand the pain that ran deep in my heart. I say thank you Cathy and Jim for giving me a friend to help lift my heavy soul. He helped save my life and mind from a place of darkness. You will always be a part of me my friend. May you forever play your music and be happy.
Rachel Hohman Morgan
October 4, 2009
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have known Danny since Westwood and last remember having banana chocolate cake at the Ipser home back in college. Danny was so blessed to be part of such a loving family. I have thought of you all over the years, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you now.
October 4, 2009
To all who knew Danny and/or his family and who would like to attend the celebration of Danny's life, please know that you are most welcome at the Ipser's home on Oct. 10, beginning at 5:00 p.m. Sincerely, Cathy & Jim Ipser, 2516 N.W. 22nd Drive, Gainesville, Fl., 32606 P.S. We have appreciated your comments and memories of Danny.
Colin Clifton
October 3, 2009
Danny has been my closest buddy since I met him at a wrestling meet in 9th grade. I loved him like a brother and kept in touch with him through his travels. I will never forget when Danny took me in to live with him 8yrs ago at Arbor Loft one summer. Those were the best times of my life! I will miss him always. Colin Clifton
Greg Woodworth
October 3, 2009
Even though I did not know Danny, what wonderful writing of his life. I to went to many of the same schools he did. I to love the Gators.
May peace be with Danny.
Greg Woodworth-Bedford, va
Emily Piazza
October 1, 2009
Cathy, Jim and Reid - although I haven't spoken to any of you in a very long time, I want very much for you to know how deeply sorry we all are for your loss. I had not seen Danny for quite a few years but was able to reconnect with him through myspace and spent some time together last year with him when he was visiting during hurricane season. Danny was a friend to all and had "enough charm to fill a river and the talent to become a star" He will be forever missed and never forgotten. Love, Emily Piazza, Micanopy, FL
DeAnn Hernandez
September 29, 2009
Last time I saw Danny was at our last High School reunion. I think I even have a picture of him. He was such a great guy, fun to be around. I recently just got in touch with him via facebook. He will be missed. My prayers are with his family. DeAnn Hernandez (castor).
Chris Fisher
September 29, 2009
To the Ipser Family -
Danny always made us laugh. He was pound for pound, the strongest, toughest and funniest person I knew.
Our deepest condolences to you.
The Skidmore Family
September 29, 2009
Cathy, Jim, and Reid. We send our love during this difficult time.
ian gottesman
September 29, 2009
I went all the way from elementary school to high school with Danny. Our father's worked together at the University. Danny & I played soccer together as kids. So it was hard to hear of someone I knew well passing.
I'm not really sure what to say or do to provide comfort in a situation like this but the Ipser family has definitely been on my mind.
Shawn Swal
September 29, 2009
I knew Danny when we were going to GHS. He had a great personality and made everyone he was around feel good. He had a presence that would light up a room. So sorry for your loss.
Shawn Swal
Kathleen Olson (Moorhead)
September 28, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. Danny was a great friend through Westwood and GHS. He will be missed. Know that you and your family are in my prayers during this difficult.
Jenny Wynn Simmons
September 28, 2009
Lots of good times spent just hanging out. My thoughts go out to the family. He will be missed.
September 28, 2009
Dr. and Mrs. Ipser,
I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tom McCallum
Victoria Laughlin(Ross)
September 28, 2009
Reid and Family,
I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am to hear of the passing of Daniel. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Rick Carbaugh
September 28, 2009
Well me and Ip-dog spent alot of time together in 11th and 12th grade and I will never forget all the good times we had together!!
Brad McKenna
September 28, 2009
I'm terribly saddened for your loss. I'll never forget the Finley Breakers.
Jesse Bennett
September 28, 2009
At age 12, I met Danny upon moving to Gainesville... we were inseparable for many years. Although we drifted apart, and hadn't spoken in a while, I will always remember him as one of my best friends ever. Missin' ya Ipdog.
September 28, 2009
We are so sad. Danny always had a way to make all of us laugh. I know you will miss him and we're so very sorry for your loss.
Cindy and George Stern, Missoula, Montana
Greg Gresh
September 27, 2009
Danny will always be in our hearts and prayers. We are in sorrow for the loss of one of your fine family. We always appreciated seeing him at 11:30 mass on Sundays. God bless you all.
The Greshes
Linda Bennett
September 27, 2009
We are saddened to hear of Danny's passing. Our hearts go out to your entire family. Miss all of you. Phil and Linda Bennett
Katy Gallagher
September 27, 2009
Your family and friends are in my prayers. I'm so sorry for your loss. We were Hermitage kids together.
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