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Charles Williams
June 13, 2025
Thinking of you today, as the love of your life, your husband, my Uncle Mickey, has gone to be with youyou have both been such a huge part of our lives, and we miss you bother terribly. Until we see each other again. All my love. Chuck
Ava Gossinger
October 28, 2024
A wonderful woman. Her impact on all of us will never be forgotten.
Ava Gossinger
October 28, 2023
When my husband and I first moved to Gainesville, we became neighbors of Mary and Mickey Milam. Mary always had a way of making you feel welcomed. Her smile and laugh showed her kind heartedness and her friendly spirit. She has touched so many lives and we are so very grateful to have known her and her wonderful family.
Ava Gossinger
October 28, 2022
Through the passing years I can still see Mary K´s smiling face, hear her laughter, and feel the warmth of her kind and welcoming nature. You have left quite an impression and you are missed.
Ava Gossinger
October 28, 2021
Mary K had an incredible smile. She could light up a room. She was warm and welcoming and enriched the lives of those who had the good fortune to know her and her lovely family, including Lady.
Ava Gossinger
October 28, 2020
Wonderful neighbor. Wonderful woman. She had such a great impact in everyone she met. Her smile was contagious.
Daryl & Lara Watson
November 19, 2010
Dear Family, Today Nov. Fri. 19th, is the first time I am hearing about your incrediable loss. What a wonderful woman- as you all know we had not spent much time together, but the times we had were very much rememberable. What a heart this woman has, I was so blessed by God to have met her in this life, what another incredible person to spend eternity with. I know how the family must be feeling and my prayers go out to you for strength and encouragement to continue her incredible legacy through you all. I have never been around a family, a mother, a father, two daughters, and their children, that set such a high standand of what love really is in a family-- your family loves and is loved. We love you all, I would like to tell Taylor, you are as your grandmother, someone, somebody will never forget, I think of you often and wonder how your doing, I miss you and love you, Thank you Taylor for being just who you are, which is authentic and very genuine. I want you to know If I can be the GG to Riley , that your grandmother was to you, I know I will have an incrediable relationship with her, because I know how much you loved your grandmother and she loved you.You two have been my role models-- Thank you both for showing me love. God Bless You All, JUST REMEMBER THIS, THAT YOUR WIFE, MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHER MAY NOT PHYISCALLY BE HER, BUT SHE HAS NEVER LEFT, SHE IS WITH YOU ALL IN HEARTS AND IN YOU MINDS, I PRAY YOU ALL HAVE SOME COMFORT IN THAT THIS HOLIDAY SEASON. God Bless You All
Francine, Mark, Emily & Mark Milam
November 11, 2010
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Lori Eubanks
November 9, 2010
I pray that the spirit of the Lord will comfort you. Blessings.
November 7, 2010
I knew and worked with Mary K.years ago when the kids were attending school. We also went to the same hair stylist.
Mary K. was a true Lady of Gainesville. Always ready to help and a light so bright that she will be missed by so many, so often. My prayers and thoughts will be with her loving family.
With much love and sympathy,
Jane Hulslander Goff
Judy Martin
November 6, 2010
Mickey and Gene, Bobby and I feel so sad for the loss of your wife and sister. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always cherish the time I spent with Mary Kay when we worked together at Citizens Bank in the 1960's. We also will always remember your kindness in the loss of our daughter.
Aldyn Douglas Keefer
November 6, 2010
Dear Milam Family,
I have been thinking of you all week. I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Mrs. Milam's joy for life and can still hear her laugh! She was a special lady with a love for life and family. I will be praying for you in the days ahead.
Leann Slaughter
November 5, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time, Miss Mary was such a special lady, even though I didn't know her for a long time, our paths crossed at a very special time. I will miss seeing her at her appointments.
Cardinal Casket
November 5, 2010
No person is truly ever alone.......those who live no more, Whom we loved, Echo still within our thoughts, Our words, our hearts....
Our Prayers go out to the entire Milam & Williams Families....May God Bless You All.......
Janet Lewis
November 5, 2010
i was deeply saddened to learn of your family's death. Words feel so indequate to express the sorrow of her death. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and i hope you are comforted by happy memories of your time together. she remains in our hearts and thoughts. may god's grace and strength be with you during this time .
Terri Hicks
November 5, 2010
Katy and family - My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Carol and Matt Cannon
November 5, 2010
We are sorry to hear of your loss. May the strength of your wonderful family and many friends guide you through this sad time.
Shirley Allen
November 5, 2010
Milam Family:
I have known and worked with Mickey and Ashley for many, many years. Although I never got to know Mary K., the love she had for her family was evident in the way Mickey and Ashley spoke of her. You are all in my thoughts and I was so glad that I could give Mickey a big hug. Love you all.
Manny Adams
November 5, 2010
A smile and wit that could light up a room, in our hearts always.
Manny Adams, Orlando, Fla
Anne Prevost
November 4, 2010
Those sparkling eyes so filled with enthusiasm and joy, that smile that reached out to all of us and shown through her voice and never left her beautiful face for long: this is the Mary Kathryn that will always remain in our hearts. She has been a loving and faithful friend to countless people, near and far, and I feel very fortunate indeed to have been a best friend in our youth. There are wonderful memories of our growing up together, all of the laughter and confidences, sharing each step of that steep learning curve that one must navigate as adolescents and as teenagers. We shared a deep passion for dogs (we bought our first poodles together) and "What-A-Burgers" (we used to sneak off campus at P.K.Young at lunchtime just as often as we possibly could) and we loved to dance and learned to jitterbug and 'bop' together. We were always at her house or mine, and my family adored her. When we played with our dolls, we shared the same certainty that our children, our family, would be our work and our fulfilment in life. At this Mary Kathryn has certainly excelled beyond measure. Mickey, Ashley, Katy, Taylor, Jimmy, Lauren, and Tiffany, you have been very, very blessed
God gave Mary Kathryn that enormous, warm, generous heart that won us all over and made us love her and treasure her, just as we always will. I shall be with you in my prayers tomorrow and wish so much that I could be there with you to honor her.
My deepest sympathy and love to all of you.
November 4, 2010
MICKEY I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF MARY KAYS DEATH. MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF I CAN DO ANYTHING FOR YOU.BYRON MCMILLAN
Don Wimberly
November 4, 2010
Eternal rest grant her O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon her. My thoughts and Prayers are with you Mickey and the family.
Sharon Townsend
November 4, 2010
To the Milam Family,
My heart goes out to you in the loss of Mary K. I will never forget our visit in Katy's shop, we shared so many laughs. Little did I know this would be the last time I ever saw her. I am glad I shared my love to her of how much I loved and cared for her family. It brought a big smile to such a beautiful face I will always remember. She loved each of you dearly. Remember all the fond memories you have and know she is with Dick dancing around having a blast. May God Bless each of you and Know you are loved and appreciated for all your kindness.
Sharon Townsend
Joey and Carl Johnson,Lake Wales, Fla.
Ava & Gary Gossinger
November 4, 2010
We were terribly saddened to read about Mary Kay's passing. It has been both an honor and a privelilege to have been your neighbors. Mary Kay always had a special sparkle as well as a warm and welcoming smile. She will truly be missed. Our hearts go out to your entire family. The Gossinger Family
November 4, 2010
Dear Mickey and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bruce and Janice Gordon
Julie Brabham
November 4, 2010
Bruce and I were so sorry to hear the sad news. Please remember Mary Kathryn will live on in your hearts and memories. We are praying your family finds comfort in this time of sorry. Bruce & Julie Brabham
Johnny Chapman
November 4, 2010
Joyce and I want to send our condolence and Prayers to each of you. I hope you can remember the good times!
Johnny & Joyce Chapman
November 4, 2010
With tears in my eyes with sadness in my heart as I look at a picture of Annie I see Mary Catherine smile. That days that seem like a life time ago just to see Mickey and Mary Catherine come to tenderly take Annie away I see Mary Catherine and Annie smiling in my heart. God Bless you all Harry and Debbie Nichols
November 4, 2010
Condolences to the Milam family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
The Owens Family
Archer, FL
November 4, 2010
Mr. Micky, Ash, Katy, Tay and Lolly....Praying for peace and comfort in your time of sorrow. We love you all!!! Jay, Melinda and Madison
Jenny Hogue
November 4, 2010
Mickey, Ashley, and Katy,
All of you are in my prayers. Find strength in God and allow him to help you heal and most of all remember Mary Kathryn will always be with you in your memories and heart. She will know help the Lord watch over you and guide you..
love to all
Jenny Hogue (Adams)
jennifer priest-strawser
November 4, 2010
Mickey,Ashley,and Katy,
Your family helped us out so much thru the loss of my brothers,Doyle and Randy Priest, Mary K was such a blessing to me in my time of need,I hope you can find peace in your life thru the life she lived and taught to all of you.
love to you all,
Jennifer [Priest] Strawser
Darrow & Peggy Mixon
November 4, 2010
Mickey and Ashley, we offer our comfort and sympathy as you have the personal experience that you have helped so many pass through. Blessings on all your family -
Jennifer Feagin
November 3, 2010
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. We had so many fun times growing up and there so so many fond memories! Much Love, Jennifer Feagin and Mom (Karen) xoxoxoxo
Keene Steve & Thereasa
November 3, 2010
Katy, Our deepest sympathy for you and your family. We pray you will continue to find peace and comfort during this time of need. We love you all.
Dee Watson
November 3, 2010
Mickey, Ashley,Katy,and Family,
The good Lord has picked a most special lady to call to the heaven above, what an angel with wings of beauty for the person that she is. I know that she is looking down on us with big smiles. Hold on to those wonderful memories. Our special thoughts and prayers ae with each of you at this time.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Dee and Rodger Watson
Gainesville, Florida
November 3, 2010
Mickey, our deepest sympathy & love to you & your family. Mary K was one of a kind, the best kind!! She always made me laugh. She will be deeply missed.
Mary Ellen & Freddie MacKenzie
Marvin Graham, Jr.
November 3, 2010
Mickey,Ashley & Katy
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.Our hearts are filled with love for you and each member of your extended families.May God give you the strength to find your way through this.
With all our love & prayers!!!
Kathy & Marvin Graham Jr.
Christie Hodge
November 3, 2010
Mickey, Ashley, and Katy,
My heart aches for you and the pain you must be feeling now. Words cannot express how Mary Katherine and all of you have meant to My Father (Tom Brewer) and the rest of our family. My Thoughts and prayers are with you all. I hope the pain is eased a little by knowing that she is no longer suffering. My family and I love you dearly. Love you all
Christie Brewer-Hodge
Gayle Whitley
November 3, 2010
Katy and family!
I was so shocked and sorry to read of Mary Katherine's passing. She was such a joy to be around. When she came into the first shop you worked in, she was like a breath of fresh air! She knew the secret of appreciating and living life to the fullest!!!
November 3, 2010
Mickey, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. Our sympathy to you and your family. Graham Haile (Bradenton,fl)
Suzette Sherouse
November 3, 2010
We will deeply miss Mary K she was a wonderful person we are grateful we had the pleasure of being part of her life. The Sherouse Family David, Suzette, Dillon and Carson
November 3, 2010
Mickey and Ashley, I am very sorry to have read about your wife and mom. I have known the Williams' family and Mickey since I was a child. My grandfather and Dad knew all of you well. My thoughts are with you and the rest of the family during this sad time. Memories will always be there.
Kathy Ward (Grandfather - Judge John H. Ward and my parents - J. Howard and Jessie Ward)
Vivian Spear
November 3, 2010
Mickey, Ashley, Katy, Taylor, and Lauren...
Your family is in our hearts, always! Aunt Mary Kathryn was one of a kind. We could visit with her for hours and never be bored. She always had fun and entertaining stories.
Lauren and Taylor were the world to her and there was nothing she wouldn't do for them. She was so proud of the girls, her angels!
We had so many special moments at the river, she was our pool buddy. We spent so many hours there chit-chatting and baking under the sun.
We loved her very much and we have many fond memories of her. We are priviledged that she was part of our life.
Thank you for always making us feel like we are part of the family. We love you all and would like you to know that we are here for you for anything you need-now and in the future.
God Bless you all.
All our love,
Vivian, Allan & Kids
Melissa Eldard
November 3, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. Mary Katherine was an amazing woman with an abundance of spunk and zest for life. She shared her love of dancing with so many and it was a joy to watch and dance with her. I am so sorry that I can't be there to support your family but please know that my Dad will be there representing Bonnie, myself and our families. I am keeping all y'all in my thoughts and prayers and wishing all of you love and peace. All my love, Melissa Burch Eldard
B.J. Toney Clontz
November 3, 2010
"Mickey" I am so sorry to read about Mary K. My deepest sympathy
are with you and your family at this sad time. B.J. (Toney) Clontz
November 3, 2010
Mickey,
We are so sorry for your loss.You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Anne and Buster Bantly
November 3, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you! Wish we could be with ya'll but Mom and Dad will be our presence. All our love! Lisa, Taylor and Angela Daniel
Traci Paulling Black
November 3, 2010
Mickey, Ashley and Katy, our thoughts and prayers are with your family
Natalie Kitlen
November 3, 2010
Mickey,Ashley and Katy,
We are so very sorry for the passing of your wife/mother, please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Always hold your memories close to your hearts and always remember that Mary K is looking over all of you and will be your angel.
Love, The Kitlen family
Jan,Jay,Casey Murray
November 3, 2010
Ashley and family,
Sorry to hear about your loss.Someone once told my family a poem that I hope is true.
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there I do not sleep
I am the thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn's rain
When you awaken it the mornings hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the soft star that shines at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there,I did not die
Becky Allen
November 3, 2010
Mickey, I am so sorry to read about Mary Katherine. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Wendy (Foster) Hammock
November 3, 2010
To my Mama MK, Siters KT and Ash, Mr Mikey, TO and Lala and the rest of the Milam family,
Mama MK was a very special lady and over the past couple years has become like a mother to me.I will never forget her spunkiness, honesty and love that she has shared with me over the years. She was the best friend that my Daddy (Jerry Foster) couldve ever asked for. I will never forget them visits at NFRMC when they would miss each other on the elevators going to visit each other on different floors. They kept each other laughing through some of the most difficult times of our lives. To Papa Mikey,Ash, KT, TO, Lala ...I love you so so much and mourn the loss of Mama MK together. May God provide the family with peace and comfort that WE will see her again. May we remember the wonderful memories volleyball games 2010 and all the laughs we shared! Here is a little poem as we celebrate her life here with us and her eternal life with our Lord! We love you!!! Chop, Wendy, Mad, Tata, Evan and Gavin AND Jerry, Effie Foster
If tears could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
We would walk right up to heaven
And bring you back again
No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it
And only God knows why
Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No one can ever know
But now we know you want us
To mourn for you no more
To remember all the happy times
Life still has much in store
Since you’ll never be forgotten
We pledge to you today
A hallowed place within our hearts
Is where you’ll always stay
The author is unknown
Sue (Cooper) Nelson
November 3, 2010
Mickey and family,
We were saddened to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May you find comfort in knowing that others share in your loss.
Gloria & Bob Jones
November 3, 2010
Sending love and our sympathy to the Milam family. Fond memories of Mary Kay during Jr. High especially during Home Ec class. We helped each other pass the sewing part!
Patricia Hunt
November 3, 2010
Katy, Mickey and Ashley, Sorry to hear about your Mom. Yall will all be in our prayers. I remember all the stories that Katy used to tell me about her mom when we lived across the street from each other. I know you will miss her.
God Bless you all
Patricia Hunt
Terri Coleman
Tinney Family
November 3, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. You all are always so nice and a joy to be around. MK will always be remmebered as such a wonderful person.
November 3, 2010
My family and I will always remember MC. She was such a wonderful, funny and caring person who made you feel good just being around her. May the Milam family have peace and remember all the good memories and love she had for you. Love you guys and thinking of you in this sad time.
Tammy Wadsworth & Family
Jerry Wadsworth, family
November 3, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
November 3, 2010
Our family would like to extend our heart felt sympathy on the loss of your beloved Mary Kathryn.
Linda Phillips, Annie Lane and John Warren,Box Springs, GA
Rod Canon
November 3, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless you during this time of sorrow.
Pauline Coleman
November 3, 2010
Katy, I am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. Please know that you are in our families prayers to get through this difficult time. If I can help you with anything, please let me know. Blake and I still care for you, Taylor and Lauren and want to be there for you all.
Pauline Coleman & Blake Roberts
Dolly and Brandy Henley
November 3, 2010
Our hearts ache for your loss.
May she guide us all now in this sorrowful time.
She is loved and missed terribly!
REST IN PEACE MARY KATHRYN:
Timothy Knight
November 3, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jerry & Gail Roberts
November 3, 2010
Katy Ashley and Mickey,
We are so sorry for your loss. You all are in our our thoughts and prayers.
Brenda Cassels
November 3, 2010
Mickey,Ashley and Katy, I am so so sorry to hear about Mary Kathryn... I was so heart broken and in shock... My thoughts and prayers are with each and every one of yall.. I love you guys..... If yall need anything please feel free to let me no....Love Always, Brenda Warnick Cassels
Julie Newman
November 3, 2010
Mickey, Katy and Ashley, know that our thoughts and prayers are with you today, tomorrow and the weeks ahead. MC was one in a million and I was thankful to call her my friend. I will miss her mischievious laugh, her sense of humor and her delightful look at life. I thank you for allowing me to spend time with her. May God bless you with love, and comfort you in your loss.
Julie & Ronny Newman
Amy, JD, Carrie and Aaron Caines
DeRosa Family
November 3, 2010
Katy, Our deepest sympathy for you and your family. we continue to pray you will find peace and comfort in this time of need. We love you.
DeRosa Family
November 3, 2010
Katy, Our deepest sympathy for you and your family. We continue to pray that you will find peace and comfort in this time of need. Love to you all.
Danny and Linda Cowart
November 3, 2010
Katy, Our deepest sympathies and prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow.
Sherry Thomas
November 3, 2010
Mickey, Ashley, Katy and Girls,
A Letter From Heaven
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from Heaven.
Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness;
here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you
when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me
and said, "I welcome you.
It's good to have you back again,
you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family,
they'll be here later on.
There's so much that we have to do,
to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things,
that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list,
was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night,
the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you...
in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth,
and all those loving years.
Because you are only human,
they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry:
it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers,
unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
If I was to tell you , you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, through my life on earth is over.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you
and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too;
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and in pain;
Then you can say to God at night....
"my day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....
that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way
I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody
who is sad and feeling low;
Just lend a hand to pick him up,
as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street
and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps
only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go....
from that body to be free.
Remember you're not going...
your coming here to me.
Author Ruth Ann Mahaffey,
James Nazworth
November 3, 2010
Mickey I am so sorry to hear about your wife I have knowed her since she has been in the world The Williams have been very close to me all my life. Since we all came from Hawthorne. God bless you Jim Nazworth
Janet (Richey) Russell
November 3, 2010
Katy and family sorry for the loss of your Mom, I will remember you in my prayers.
Cindy & Scott Hedgcoth
November 3, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Eddie Skipper
November 3, 2010
May God be with you during your time of sorrow. Our prayer is that God will be with the family and help you all get through this together.
Skipper Jr Family
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