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Patrick May Obituary
Patrick Richard May, 42, of Sturgeon Bay, died unexpectedly at home on September 2, 2012. Patrick was born on May 4, 1970, in Sturgeon Bay, to Karl and Erika (Fleig) May. He graduated from Sturgeon Bay High School and earned his Bachelor's degree in biology from UW Stevens Point. For 13 years he was a Sturgeon Bay firefighter. After his graduation from Stevens Point until the time of his death, Patrick worked with his father, Karl, at May Realty as a Realtor and tax preparer. He was a licensed Real Estate Broker and member of the Door County Board of Realtors, Wisconsin Realtors Association, National Association of Realtors and National Association of Tax Practitioners. He was also a former member of the Sturgeon Bay Rotary Club. Patrick was a compassionate, loving and caring father, son and brother who is sadly missed by family and friends.
Patrick loved spending time with his children, attending Badger games, especially the flights with the Sowles, going to White Sox games with the Viti family and reminiscing with family around the kitchen table. He was active in many sports during high school and was a trombone player in the band. He loved to play golf, participate in Fantasy Football and most recently sail the sunfish in the bay. More importantly, Patrick loved attending Sunday Church with his parents and breakfasts that followed.
Survivors include a daughter, Sophia; a son, Brody, both of Sturgeon Bay; parents, Karl and Erika May, Sturgeon Bay; sisters, Tia (Scott Bellisle), Algoma; and Gretchen (Mike Cihlar), Sturgeon Bay; and one brother, Erik (Shawn), Sturgeon Bay; nephews, Drew (Kendell) Kramer and their daughter, Jordan; Derek Kramer and his daughter, Iris; Emmett Cihlar; and niece, Lilly Cihlar. He was preceded in death by his older brother, David; uncle, Thomas Fleig; grandparents, Richard and Helene Fleig, Bernard "Pat" and Dorothy May, and his favorite uncle, Leon May.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be at 10:00 a.m. Saturday, September 8, 2012, at Corpus Christi Catholic Church with Rev. Douglas Leonhardt, Rev. Carl Schmitt, and Rev. Robert Konkol O.F.M. officiating. Visitation will be from 9:00 a.m. until the time of services. The family will also greet visitors after mass at church. In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund is being established for Patrick's children at North Shore Bank (225 N. 5th Ave.). Forbes Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements. On-line condolences may be offered at www.forbesfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Patrick May
Laura Wake Wiesner
August 30, 2022
I hope you're able to take time and share cherished memories in remembrance of Patrick. Fill his children's heads with memories of their beloved father. May his memory be a blessing.
Rebecca Madson
September 24, 2012
I have thought of you daily..at a loss of words for your family. Sending prayers to your mom and dad and Sophie and Brady. I miss you so much....
Marco Santi
September 13, 2012
My sincere condolences to the entire May family. Pat, you were a close friend and someone that always made me smile. Wish you were still here. I know that you are resting peacefully in Gods hands now.
Dorcas Wagenknecht
September 12, 2012
Such sad news. Patrick's professional support through the years was excellent and very much appreciated. Unfortunately I didn't have the opportunity to get to know him well but always was impressed by his friendliness, good sense of humor and sunny disposition. My thoughts are with his family, and especially with his dear children.
Paula and Scott Talmadge
September 10, 2012
We are so sorry for the loss of Patrick, he was such a joy to work with and to visit with. Miss his warm smile. Karl, Erika and family we are just so saddened to hear this prayers to all of you.
Randy Glesner
September 10, 2012
Lots of good times buddy! Gonna miss ya...
Karl, Erika and Family, our prayers are with you.
Darlings
September 8, 2012
Karl and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you loss your son and brother and father. God bless you all!
Dale and Bonnie, Family
Erik May
September 8, 2012
Rest In Peace Brother! I Love You Patrick!
Erik
September 7, 2012
Dear Karl and Erika and family,
May God give you strength and comfort during this difficult time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Dan and Deb Swanson
September 7, 2012
you are much loved and greatly missed.
Sondra Stuewer
September 6, 2012
So sorry to hear of Pats passing. He will be sadly missed, glad I had the chance to know him and his smile. He loved his kids so much and I hope he finds peace now.
Rich Bardon
September 6, 2012
R.I.P. Pat.....really enjoyed our time on the golf course....Godspeed
Robin Moore
September 6, 2012
I have very fond memories of Pat from all of our experiences in high school and working together at the Bay Shore Inn. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you. Patrick you will be missed.
September 5, 2012
May happy memories give you strength during this difficult time. Pat was well loved and will be missed by many. Our prayers are with you.
Laura Wake Wiesner
Greg Weisheipl
September 5, 2012
Karl and Family:
Pat will be dearly missed - I always enjoyed chatting with him at City Hall over the years when I served as the City Assessor.
Greg Weisheipl
Omaha, Nebraska
Steve and sue Lenius and kids
September 5, 2012
We were so sorry to hear about your son. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jeff & Giovanna Buhl
September 5, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Dennis Allen
September 5, 2012
Karl, Erika and Family. We were so saddened to hear of Patrick's death. Had such good times with him as a young man at the Badger Games. Please accept or deepest condolences. Our love, prayers and sympathy are with all of you. Dennis & Judy Allen
Rosalie and Paul Langekamp
September 5, 2012
Dear Erika and Karl, I was so shocked and saddened to learn of Patrick's passing. I can't imagine the heartbreak you both are going through.
Please accept our sincere sympathy.
Bill Guth
September 5, 2012
Dear Karl & Erica,
My deepest sympathy to you two on your loss. God works in mysterious ways, we are not suppose to out live our children.
God bless you and your family.
Bill Guth
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