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Scott Harrington Obituary

Scott J. Harrington
Scott J. Harrington, of Riverside, CT passed away sadly on August 3, 2022, at age 59. He was the best husband and father you could ever imagine.
Scott was born April 2, 1963 in Norwood, MA to John Charles & Lois Ellen Harrington. He grew up in Westwood, MA and spent summers on Cape Cod. He was a graduate of Boston College where he played football and was captain of the 1985 Cotton Bowl team.
Scott's love of sports set the foundation for giving back to the Greenwich community. What started as coaching his two boys in football quickly escalated into coaching most of the football players in Old Greenwich and Riverside. Scott could be found every fall for the past 15 years on the sidelines with the Putnam Generals. His coaching style embodied a quick wit and a passion for teaching kids to do things the right way. He eventually became President of the Generals and served many years on the board of the GYFL. He also served on the board of the Greenwich Old Timers Association and the Cardinal Quarterback Club at Greenwich High School. He truly demonstrated his love for the entire Greenwich community through countless hours and unwavering dedication.
Scott's career on Wall Street was equally as impressive. After earning his MBA at the Wharton School at UPenn, he quickly rose through the ranks at JP Morgan, eventually running North American Institutional Equities. As his career progressed, he wound up in Client Relations taking care of some of JP Morgan's largest customers.
At home, Scott couldn't be more proud of his two sons John "Jack" and Scott Jr. "Scooter." He followed their athletic careers - enduring countless hours of flight time (which he hated), flying all over the country just to watch them and their teammates every weekend for 7 years. In recent years, since both boys now work in the city, he would finagle his work schedule so that he was free for 20 minutes to walk through Bryant Park, picking up lunch and catching up on their days. He was literally the best father imaginable.
Scott loved his wife Kathy. He loved doing anything as long as they did it together. He enthusiastically went blueberry picking or to the grocery store or for long walks around Oyster Harbors and Riverside. Scott and Kathy played golf together literally every afternoon possible both at Oyster Harbors all summer and at Innis Arden all spring and fall. He didn't hit a golf ball very straight but he loved hitting them often! He was the best husband imaginable.
Scott's other love was Cape Cod. He spent many hours every weekend driving back and forth from Greenwich to the Cape just so that his boys could enjoy the same idyllic childhood he remembered. His favorite spot was sitting on the beach, deck or firepit at The Beach Club. He would repeat over and over, to anyone who would listen, "This is the best spot on Cape Cod, I challenge anyone to find somewhere better!"
Many called Scott a friend, but some of the special ones developed into the "Window Crew" so named because anytime one needed to talk, they would find a "Window" of time to meet up. These men were one of Scott's sources of strength and inspiration over his lifetime. They will miss him and he misses them. He was the best friend imaginable.
He is the loving brother of John Charles "JC" Harrington (Linda), Steven Harrington (Meg), and Brian Harrington (Lynn). He is also survived by his mother-in-law, Anna Schiliro; stepmother-in-law Kathy Schiliro and siblings-in-law, Christine Stewart (Robert), Karen Brennfleck (Robert), Kenneth Schiliro (Kristy) and John Schiliro (Lizzie); along with many nieces and nephews who will fondly remember Uncle Scott's grilling skills, and S'mores making ability. He was the best brother, uncle, son, imaginable.
To honor Scott's life, family and friends will gather on Monday 4-8pm at COXE & GRAZIANO FUNERAL HOME, 134 Hamilton Ave., Greenwich, 203-869-5968. Funeral Mass Tuesday 11am at St. Catherine of Sienna followed by private committal. Memorial donations can be sent to the Greenwich Old Timers Association, https://www.greenwicholdtimers.org/. For more information or to place an online condolence, www.coxeandgraziano.com

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Published by Greenwich Time on Aug. 5, 2022.

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Laura

July 30, 2024

Thinking of you so often, Kathy. Hugs, Bob and Laura

Bob and Laura

December 12, 2023

Hi Kathy, we are thinking of you often and hoping you and the boys are moving forward with the wonderful memories that Scott left us with. Do reach out at any time, we send our thoughts and love to you all this holiday season. Hugs, Bob and Laura Andolina

Russ Scarlata

August 15, 2022

My deepest sympathies and condolences to the Harrington Family. I am very sorry to hear about Scott's passing. I have many great memories of playing sports with him from Youth Leagues through High School. He was a great friend to everyone and a gentleman! He was someone that always led by example...he will be missed.

Christina Trudeau

August 11, 2022

I met Scott as a coach of the generals football team when we first moved to old greenwich. He coached my son and as a single mom his impacts were definitely felt throughout my household - the trade of my son and the coaches award just meant a lot. Scott was humble, kind and friendly. I never thought of all his successes until now - when I saw him just the warmth he emitted from one human being to another like on the train - the adult school bus to nyc or with Kathy out and about around town. He will live on through every life he touched so hopefully Kathy, Jack and Scooter that helps a little to know. With sympathy and love, Christina

Jerry Malloy

August 10, 2022

Fond memories at WHS and sports with Scott. He and Harrington family are in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace.

Peggy and Frank Bell

August 10, 2022

Our deepest sympathies to the Harrington Family on the loss of such a wonderful man

Paul Wright

August 9, 2022

Scott was an incredible colleague and partner. He was also a trusted friend and mentor. His intelligence, professionalism, affability, and leadership will be sorely missed.

Beth Sullivan Flanagan

August 8, 2022

Sending prayers and condolences to Kathy and the Harrington family. I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Scott.

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Amy Gordon

August 8, 2022

Peace be with you, Scott! My deepest condolences to your family. I grew up around the corner from Scott and his family in the Martha Jones neighborhood of Westwood. I remember clearly when Scott moved in and was "the new kid" in the neighborhood. He seemed like a man compared to all of us little kids. I think of Scott´s quick wit, his love of sports and his strong leadership presence in every way - on the field, in the classroom and among all his many friends. Even as a young kid Scott kind of rose above all of us with his intellect, charm and sense of humor. Gone too soon. I can only imagine your loss. Please know Scott was loved and admired by all the kids he grew up with... Again, may PEACE be with you - especially with Scott.

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Kathy Baker

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Mary Baker-Balady

August 8, 2022

Scott was a wonderful colleague and friend; always willing to make time to help, educate and share. I am merely one of so very many that had this experience with Scott. He was a legend and will be missed.
Rest easy Scott; sending my prayers and love to your family.

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Sue Zhu

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Richard Watson Jr.

August 8, 2022

Rest In Peace, Scott

Our friend and classmate of WHS 81´,
you have impacted some many lives.
We will always remember you for your gentle spirit, competitive nature, leadership, intelligence and sense of humor.

May your loved ones memories of you always be a source of strength and comfort.

My heartfelt condolences,

Richie Watson

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Philip Murphy

August 7, 2022

Growing up in Westwood I came to know Scott as a larger-than-life character whose radiated a love of life that was entirely infectious. I am surprised not at all to learn of the positive impacts that he had on so many people's lives. Now that his work in this life has concluded, may he know eternal peace.

All blessings to Scott's family and friends.

Anna Margulio Schiliro

August 6, 2022

As Scott´s mother-in-law I can truly sa that he was a wonderful husband and father.Why was he a great husband because he always tried to make Kathy happy. He proudly hung his favorite motto in his kitchen! When Mama aint happyAin´t Nobody Happy! Smart man as well! Thank you Scott! How do I know he was a great father? It was so simple to see. He once told me that he made the boys sleep in the same bedroom at the Cape when they were young so that they would stay close as brothers! Trust me he adored his sons and was proud of them but probably even more so because he got his wish, they are best friends forever! Thank you Scott RIP

John Hand

August 6, 2022

Hi Kathy, I am so sad for you and your family. I loved Scott and think of him often even though he was my favorite boss of all time so long ago, 32 years ago. He managed with skill and Quite differently for each person he taught at EMC. I have so many great stories that you probably know but no one was better. He was so intelligent and kind. I am very sad and thinking of you Kathy. Please accept my (and many colleagues from EMC, I have talked to many) sincere condolences and prayers for your great husband.

David Miller

August 6, 2022

Very very sorry and saddened to hear about Scott. We had offices close by for many years and he was always such a pleasure to talk to about business, the Cape or anything else.

Phil and Kim Barca

August 6, 2022

With our deepest sympathy for your loss. Such sad news. Sending our love and prayers.

Debbie Banuk (aka Bigelow)

August 6, 2022

I graduated high school with Scott and have nothing but find memories. We were in many of the same classes, but he was a jock and I was a BF (band f..). I am so very sorry for your loss.

Lindsay Henderson Berube

August 6, 2022

My prayers ,love and condolences to all the Harrington Family

Dave Massey

August 6, 2022

My deepest condolences to the Harrington family, friends and loved ones. Scott was such a tremendous person. So kind, friendly and fun to be around. I have great memories of Scott back in the days at Westwood High School and beyond. I was one of the many to receive a bone-crunching hit on the the football field from Scott and yes, I saw stars. Rest in peace my friend.

Jim, Patty, James, Alex and Isabelle Brett

August 6, 2022

To Kathy, Jack and Scooter

We are so sorry to hear the sad news. We are very grateful to have known Scott as a friend and to have known him as an amazing family man. We will miss his kindness, warmth and generosity. We regret that we are traveling abroad at the moment and will not be able to attend the service honoring our special friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with Scott and your family.

Dave Rice

August 5, 2022

So sorry to hear. To JC, Steph,Brian and families, thoughts , prayers and condolences at this time of loss- from your Westwood friends.

Bob and Laura A

August 5, 2022

Kathy, our hearts are breaking. We are so very sorry to hear this unimaginable news. So many memories of our times in CA. We send our love and prayers to you and the boys

John Beggans

August 5, 2022

You will be missed. It meant the world to Sara and me to have you at our wedding. You were a great mentor and friend. I always enjoyed grabbing dinner on our way to a BC hoops / hockey game. I was so lucky to have you in my life. God bless the Harrington Family.

Melissa St Hilaire

August 5, 2022

Thank you for all the years of wisdom & laughter you shared. Scott, you were one of a kind! Kathy, Jack & Scooter you will be in my prayers. Thank you for sharing him with us over the years.

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Brian Russell

August 5, 2022

Scott and I went to Westwood High School together. I always remember him as an outgoing, hard working guy who we all knew would live an amazing life. Based on what I've read from family and friends, he certainly lived a wonderful life. Condolences from our family and the entire Westwood faithiful.

Putnam General

August 5, 2022

Coach Harrington had a gift for connecting with young football players. He led countless championship teams of boys with compassion, patience, proficiency, and a knack for having fun. His genuine care for every team member gave many the confidence to excel in team environments and set sights on high goals long past the Generals experience. His long-term commitment to the Generals allowed for every member of large families to be impacted by his leadership.

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Austin Longi

August 5, 2022

Hello Harrington Family,

I am extremely sorry for your loss. Such an incredible man who inspired and guided every last person he came in contact with. Loving and kind and wanted nothing but the best for everybody. This community is so grateful for him and your incredible family. Giving you all the strength to get through these tough times. We are here for you.

mel briggs

August 5, 2022

You are going to a better place where we all hope to meet again as friends, family and Eagles!!

Ed Trayers

August 5, 2022

Scott will be terribly missed at Oyster Harbors. I truly enjoyed our `small talk´ on the 1st tee.
From all of us at OH, our sincerest sympathy to Kathy. Always in our thoughts

Kelly Coffey

August 5, 2022

I am so sorry. I have many great memories of working with Scott. He will be missed.

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Claudia Jury

August 5, 2022

Scott you touched so many. What a wonderful legacy you leave to your loving family and colleagues. A life can be measured by a number of things including impact and you certainly had it in spades. We are grateful to have known you.

Chris Cavanaugh

August 5, 2022

Have some Great Memories of growing up with Scott in Westwood and the Briar Lane Neighborhood..He will be Greatly Missed. My HS Classmate WHS 81

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