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John Calkins Obituary

John "Butch" Calkins, 63, of Hayden Hill Road, Torrington, died Saturday, (December 8, 2001) at Waterbury Hospital. He was the husband of the late Sue Ann Pergola, who died in 1993. Mr. Calkins was born in Torrington on May 10, 1938, a son of Wilbur E. Calkins of Harwinton and the late Catherine (Miran) Calkins. Mr. Calkins retired in 1989, after 27 years with the Connecticut State Police. He retired at the rank of Detective. He had been a member of the Torrington Lodge of Elks and the Massachusetts Beach Buggy Association. Besides his father, he leaves two sons, John Calkins and Richard Calkins, both of Torrington; a daughter, Nancy Caldwell of Litchfield; a sister, Sandra Calkins of Ridgefield; three grandchildren. Funeral services will be held at 9 a.m., Wednesday, December 12, at the Gleeson Mortuary, 258 Prospect St., Torrington. Burial will follow in the Hillside Cemetery. Friends may call at Gleeson's, Tuesday, 6-9 p.m. Memorial contributions may be made to the Connecticut State Police Academy, Alumni Association Educational Foundation, Inc., c/o Captain Peter Warren, P.O. Box 2794, Middletown, CT 06457.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 10, 2001.

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John Kamens

December 13, 2001

Butch was the deskman on my first day of "reporting in" to Troop "B" for my first real day on the job. He was a good guy and could be counted on to have a few good jokes to liven up the begining of a shift. He will be missed.

Robert Hull

December 12, 2001

"Badge #2" and I were classmates and I believe he is the first one of the class we have lost. He was a real professional and I am very sorry to hear of his passing.

Rich Covello

December 12, 2001

Served many years with Butch at Troop L & B & Western District Major Crime. He was a senior detective with a professional work product. Respects from my family and regrets at his early passing.

Jack Watson

December 12, 2001

"Butch" and I were classmates at the academy and worked together in the Western District. He was always a gentleman and a good and meticulous cop.

Jim Bausch

December 12, 2001

Sandy and I were sorry to hear that your father has passed away.

I served with your dad and grandfather in the State Police.

Our condolences to you and the rest of your family.

Joe Faughnan

December 11, 2001

A great loss of the second generation of a famous state police family. Butch was a good cop.

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