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Paul Barresi Obituary

BARRESI, Paul J. (Rocco) Paul (Rocco) J. Barresi, of Greenacres, FL, formerly of Newington, passed away on April 8, 2009. Born in New Britain, he was the son of the late Paolo and Antoinette (Tambone) Barresi. He attended New Britain High School. He entered the U.S. Navy, Serving on the U.S.S. Roanoke during the Korean War. Paul was employed by CNG, retiring in 1996. He had been active in the Jaycees and was a member of the Middletown Elks Lodge 771. Paul's passion and hobby was Karoke. He always enjoyed performing a serenade. Paul will be remembered for his sensitive and generous heart, his relentless jokes and mischievous manner will be dearly missed by those who loved him. Paul is survived by his former wife and friend, Julie Barresi of Newington; sons, Paul Barresi of New Britain and Frank Barresi and his wife Marisol, of Seymour; his daughter Doreen Hellandbrand and her husband James T. Jr. of New Britain; grandchildren, Anthony and Milan Barresi, also the birth of a grandson due in September, Julie, Janna, and James Jordan Hellandbrand; a great-grandson, Jordan James Hellandbrand; a sister, Dolly Pignatella and her husband Tony of Southington. He also leaves many nieces, nephews, and cousins; an especially devoted nephew, Alfred D'Arena of Old Lyme; many cousins in Sicily whom he visited. He was predeceased by his infant daughter, Mariann; a brother Joseph Barresi; and a sister Marie Grace D'Arena. A private Mass and Military Burial will take place at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be sent to: Paul Barresi, c/o United Business and Industries Federal Credit Union, Attn: Denise Doty, 40 Chamberlain Hwy, Kensington, CT 06037.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 18, 2009.

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Constance Caron

April 27, 2009

Dearest Dolly, to live in the hearts of those we leave behind, is to never die !! Hold on to this belief Dolly as in the scriptures of Christ,s passing,,, Rocky lives !!! Oh the great Rocky !! The wonderful Barris,s of Crown Street, as Alma wrote, as all of us shared each family in our raiseung up days. I was afraid of the great stature of your Rocky but I know his journey which we all serve one day is met with love and blessings from many as is to you Dolly, Concetta Barrisi, So sorry for the loss of his presence for you but time must complete this for all. Be at peace dear family of Rocy He is a great presence for all who knew him , and I too must add,,,, those wonderful Crown street years.

Marisol Barresi

April 27, 2009

April 27, 2009

Hi Paul
I thank God for giving me the opportunity to meet you. You were always kind and loving towards me. I will never forget you. I will keep your memory alive in both Milan and your new grandson’s lives. By the way, you are the first to know what his name will be. I have decided to name him Rocco, after his grandfather. I know that you will be watching them from up above. May you rest in peace!

PAULA CHAMBERLAND

April 26, 2009

Uncle Rocky, I will always have the memory in my mind of you burying me in the sand at the beach in Old Lyme when I was a toddler. How about apple picking or peach picking in the orchard?? Or any time I spoke with you the funny and sometimes corny jokes....but no matter what they are fond, loving memories I will always keep in my heart of YOU! I know you are with your other brother & sister, including my dad, in the care of God.....I can see you all together...what a crew! Love you always, and will miss you, until we meet again, your niece Paula xoxoxo

dolly colella

April 24, 2009

Dear brother rocky I guss you know you left me the last of our family elders. you were always there with thoughfull and generous heart when we needed you. you will always be in my thoughts and prayers.Love always sister dolly

Frank Barresi

April 22, 2009

Dad, I will miss you more than words can say. The memories of us throwing baseballs together and the times you spent with Anthony and Milan will always remain in my heart. The love you showed me as a child has made me the father I am today. As you know me and Marisol are expecting a son in September. Who knows maybe you will see him in a Red Sox uniform someday. I will always be thinking of you, your loving son Frank.

Alma ( Lindelof) Seaburg

April 18, 2009

It has been forever since we all lived on Crown st in New Britain, but I remeber you all so very well, though I was the youngest,
I am so sorry for the loss Of Rocco.
May time and memories help you through this time.

Phil Ronczka

April 18, 2009

Sorry to hear about the passing of Rocco. I served with him on the USS Roanoke. May he rest in Peace.

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