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Shawn McCarthy Obituary
Shawn T. McCarthy
Shawn was born in Santa Cruz, CA spent most of his life in the Pacific Northwest, but lived for some time in Hawaii and Lake Tahoe, CA.
Shawn died August 17, 2008 in Harbor View Hospital from injuries sustained in a motorcycle accident on Chuckanut Drive. He was a seasoned carpenter and really loved working with his hands-he was so creative. He lived his life fully with enthusiasm doing the many things he loved; scuba diving, traveling, fishing, crabbing, gardening, cooking, and spending time with friends and family.
We all knew Shawn loved us he; was such a caring individual. There was nothing he wouldn't stop doing to help anyone in need. He was so happy in his little cottage at the beach, and loved working on it to make it a better place to spend time with those he loved. He was a good and wonderful son and friend. Shawn's beautiful smile, contagious laughter, quick wit and honest attitude will always be missed by those who love him
A Celebration of Shawn's Life will be held at 1 p.m., on August 24, 2008, the Tulalip Tribes Administration Building, 6700 Totem Beach Road Tulalip, WA 98271.
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Memories and Condolences
for Shawn McCarthy
Terri Gallardo
August 26, 2008
Shawn,
Uncle Richard and I enjoyed meeting your community of friends and neighbors. It quickly became apparent to us just how loved you were by all. We will miss you, not only for now, but for all the times we had planned to spend with you. We promise to offer continued love to your parents. So sorry you did not get to meet Conner. We hope he will become the fine young man you grew to be. We are proud of you for now and forever.
The eagle is waiting.
Love,
Aunt Terri, Uncle Richard, Jenna, Daniel, Amy and Conner
Linda Campbell
August 24, 2008
I only met Shawn once in the time my sister Sherry has been married to his dad Tom. Shawn seemed like a really sweet and caring guy. I know how very proud Tom was of Shawn and how terribly hard his passing will be on him. Tom wasn't lucky enough to have Shawn living close to him, but I know how much he wished he'd had that luxury. Shawn had been the one true blessing only a father can know. Please remember Tom and his wife Sherry in your prayers, they also are suffering a sad and lonesome loss.
Nickie Schoenmaker
August 24, 2008
The first time I met Shawn he was moving in with Matt and I until the deal was done on his beach house, he was so excited about it. I helped him make his bed that first night and we bonded instantly, not many men make a bed so carefully and using hospital corners, I had found a kindred spirit. After he moved I used to joke that he was all alone out there on the res and he should move back with us. Then I met his neighbors, who quickly became his friends. Shawn had a way of making friends anywhere in any situation. I will miss him so much, but I know wherever he is now, he isn't alone, he is already making new friends, and telling them stories about all of us. See you again sometime Shawn.
Andria (Custodial Maint) KIng
August 24, 2008
I never met you but helping with the wake, your family really enjoyed having you in their you can tell by all the people that are showing up that you are and well LOVED. Im glad that we here at TULALIP was able to help in YOUR Grieving
Carl Hymer
August 24, 2008
To the best of friends and family, Curly was one of the most geniune friends I have had. I will always remember the afternoon boat rides we took togather and the awesome stories we would share while enjoying the view from the deck at the cottage. I love you lots and will miss you until we meet again... May your spirit and willingness live on in all our lives.
Diana and Brian Sall-Roby
August 24, 2008
Being Shawns' neighbor at the beach the past several years has been a delight. He was always there to help me out. Always there to answer my construction questions. Most importantly he was always there as a friend just to hang out with have a beer and enjoy the sights and sounds of the bay. Brian and I enjoyed your company and will miss you a great deal. To Shawns family, we are very sorry for your loss.
Joe and Mary Schoenmaker
August 23, 2008
We were so shocked to hear of Shawn’s accident and our hearts ache with his passing. He has been a friend in our family for many years, beginning up on San Juan Island when he became a great friend to our son Matt during their high school years. We feel lucky to have known Shawn both as a friend and an even as an employee for a short time – he was an awesome person. It was just a few weeks ago, he came by with Matt to return the trailer that they borrowed when he replaced his roof. We can still hear the guys laughing about their experiences while they were enjoying a beer on the deck. As parents, we sometimes disapprove of the people our kids befriend, but Shawn was a wonderful guy and we were very proud & so glad to have him in our son’s life. Shawn was genuine caring person that always had a big smile and a “hello” for everyone when he came in. We will all miss him so much.
Kathy Davis
August 22, 2008
Search Light Mom's wants to tell you how sorry we are for the passing of your Shawn. If there is anything that we can do for you please let us know. We as mothers understand the day to day pain as we search for answers.
Love and Blessings,
Search Light Mom's
www.slmoms.com
JoAnne Haptonstall
August 21, 2008
Shawn was always a kick in the pants to be around. He was always making funny comments & he was never borring to listen to.
There was a time when he was having a get-together at his place, & I hadn't seen or spoken to him for quite a while, when he surprised me with a phone call to invite me to his party. It made me feel good that he went to the effort to obtain my number to extend the invite. That day he made the BEST seafood jumbalaya that I have ever had!
I also remember a couple of times that a group of us went camping together. One time we all went to Lake Chelan & Shawn brought his boat and Michelle & Dave brought their boat. We found a good spot, somewhere in the midst of the lake, tied the 2 boats together, and just enjoyed the lake, the sun, and the group of friends, hoping back and forth between the 2 boats.
Please accept my deepest sympathies to Shawn's family & friends. Shawn is one of the good people who, unfortunately, left this Earth, way to soon.
Holly Anderson
August 21, 2008
Shawn was not only one of my best friends growing up but also a great little brother and a terrific uncle to his nephew (Gavin) and niece (Wren). I can't help but laugh when I think of the fond memories I have of Shawn with my children. Shawn was always the "cool" uncle who snuck Gavin his first pocket knife and wrist rocket. On Shawn's last visit to Virginia his niece (Wren) showed up at breakfast one morning with a strip of white paper taped to her lower lip, she then proceeded to walk around all day saying "look at me I am uncle Shawn, so proud of her new soul patch." Although his memories will always be with me, my brother will be very missed and the uniqueness of our relationship is something I will never be able to replace. I love you Shawn and can't believe you are no longer with us in this world. My only comfort is to know you are in a better place and certainly sitting with Mimi, Papa and Uncle John watching and shinning your light on all of us. I love you and will look forward to the day I can once again put my arms around you and tell you how much you mean to me. Until then be an angel for all of us.......your sister Holly.
Barb Woodward
August 21, 2008
I didn't know Shawn, but want Sherri to know that I'm so sorry! It sounds like Shawn was a wonderful person who lived his own life. Tina Wilson has let us know, and we mourn with you and for you.
Christie Christianson
August 21, 2008
Sherri and Dennis....I'm so sorry to hear of your great loss. I remember Shawn building the ramp for your chair on my back porch so you could come quilting. And remember the BBQ at his place when he first moved in? And He was so wonderful to make you, Sherri, and I frames for making rugs. I'm thinking of you all......God be with you.....Christie Christianson
Michelle Chevalier
August 21, 2008
Shawn, We will miss that smile & laughter so much always had a great story to tell, made us laugh! We will never forget you my friend.
All our love,
Dave & Michelle Chevalier
John & Dana Graupmann
August 21, 2008
Shawn, There are no words to say or to explain the void that is left by your passing. We saw you thru your mom and stepdad's eyes as an open book with your so very open heart sharing large and small details easily with them. You always showed them love and respect and you were always there to lend a hand on their projects. Then we got to know you personally-you made me laugh so hard I nearly fell off your deck laughing at your antics, your sayings, and your perspective on things. John and I will miss you but will keep you alive as long as we live, in our hearts. Thanks for sharing your life with us & for being our friend.
Rosemary Mattick
August 21, 2008
We were neighbors at the beach and we will surely miss Shawn. He was helpful, fun and a real addition to the group. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Rosemary and Ed Casey - 7330 Hermosa Beach Road
Cheryl Graham
August 21, 2008
Shawn will be greatly missed by his many friends. I will miss Shawn so much but will always remember his good spirit and laugh - and all those times we had together.
Judy Colliers
August 21, 2008
Shawn, I'm going to miss you. You are one of the most real people I know. I loved hearing about what was going on in your life, and believe me the stories were never dull! Thanks for helping Matt with all the projects around my house. It was just a couple of weeks ago you were helping with the trailer. Well. . .it was more like you were telling Nickie and I how to do it. And I told you the old story about who will help me make the bread and who will help me eat the bread. I told you, you weren't going to get any bread, and you laughed. So I'm not going to say good bye, because I'm going to see you later. And, oh yeah, I'll bring the bread. Love ya Shawn. Judy
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