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Benjamin Harvey "Ben" Grimmer II

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BENJAMIN "BEN" HARVEY GRIMMER II, age 25, of Conroe went to be with The Lord on Friday, March 21, 2008. Ben was born December 2, 1982 in Humble, Texas. He is survived by his parents, Benny and Jan; Two sisters, Theresa and husband, Mike and their children, Samuel and Sophie, and Denise and husband, Damien and their children, Ashley, Tyler and Aaron; grandfather, Roy Williams. Memorial Services will be held at 2:00 P.M. on Sunday, March 30 at Theresa's Place, 17593 Hwy 242, Conroe, TX 77302. (281) 429-2200.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Mar. 28, 2008.

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Benny Grimmer

July 14, 2025

hello Ben wanted to say hello and i love you we are still seeing our red bird i love you i will see you later Dad

benny grimmer

March 22, 2024

hello Ben its been a long time since i talked to. though of all day yesterday. I love and miss you. I retired last year in november so i stay home with mom. were all doing well. Ilove and see you and see you laterlove Dad

Denise Grimmer Powers

November 10, 2023

I have not been on here in a long time, but..... Thinking of you today & wanted to say I love you Ben"Jamin" I know it bugged you when I said your name like that but it is making me smile today.

Benny Grimmer

March 22, 2023

Hello Ben it´s been a while since I said hello and I love you when I see a red bird I say you sent him the cheer me up or to say hi and I love you I love you so much and I will see you later love Dad

Benny grimmer

June 12, 2022

Hi Ben wanted let know Larry passed away Friday so be looking for him love you and I will see you later love Dad

benny grimmer

March 27, 2021

hello ben I know its been a long time sense I have said hello. I think of you all the time. needed to tell you how much I love you and miss you every day. I love you and I will see you later love Dad

December 2, 2020

Happy Birthday!! You know how much we love you and miss you! I know that you have Grandma and Grandpa with you. Just know your always in our hearts!! Love you!!

Benny Grimmer

March 22, 2020

Hello Ben I love you. i think of you all the you all the time. I love you and i will see you later. love Dad

March 22, 2020

Love you!!

benny grimmer

December 4, 2019

hello ben i have though of you a lot lately it was your birthday on Monday happy birthday and i will alwayslove you and think of you every day love you and i will see you later love Dad

December 2, 2019

Happy Birthday dear!! Love you and miss you so much.

Benny Grimmer

April 13, 2019

Hello Ben its been a long time to long needed to tell you hello and i love and have been thinking of you a lot lately. A lot of old freinds have me about you without knowing that you have passed. Ilove you and i will see you later.

March 21, 2019

Love you!! Another year has gone by, and we sure do miss you!!

December 2, 2018

Happy Birthday, We love you and miss you more than ever!! Dad sure wished he could talk to you. Papa Bush went to heaven on Friday. Love you always and forever. Mom and Dad

March 30, 2018

Love you and miss you!!

March 21, 2018

Well, it has been 10 years now. Where does the time go, it is still hard to believe. We love you and miss you so much every day. Love you always.

Denise Grimmer Powers

March 20, 2018

Love you, miss you & think of you daily little brother! So hard to believe it's been 10 yrs! You are & always will be my little Benjamin even though you hated it when I said your name that way miss you little dude
Love you forever
Denise

March 19, 2018

Missing you always!!!

Lisa Murphy

March 19, 2018

Missing you and thinking of you today and every day!!! You have been gone 10 years, almost and it's so hard to believe... We are all blessed to have spent the limited time with you that God had given us all...you are in Heaven walking along the steets of Gold with all that had since come with... I will always love you and remember how much we tormented each other. I would do it all again ...you are now and forever missed!!!

dad

December 21, 2017

hello Ben it's been to long sence i sead hi I allways thank of you. We are all ok needed to tell you happy birthday. I dont get on the computer as much as i used to.I love you as much now as allways have. see you later Dad

December 2, 2017

Happy Birthday!! It is hard to believe it has been 10 years since I was able to say that to you. I miss you and love you. Mom

Benny Grimmer

February 14, 2017

hello Ben It has been a long time since i said hello were are doing ok. hunting was god last year took some time of and went hunting and stayed home with mom working back in Houston. like allways we think of you all the time. I love you and I will see you later. Love Dad

December 2, 2016

Happy Birthday!! Love you!

March 23, 2016

Ben,
Just wanted to say I love you and miss you so much. Tell everyone I love and miss them too. You are always in my heart. Love you this much behind me. Mom

December 25, 2015

Hello Ben needed to tell you Marry Christmas. Hunted open week end got a doe. We finished the job @ IAH will start one @ San Antonio in march. tell everyone hello I love you and see you later. Dad

December 2, 2015

Happy Birthday!! Love you!!

November 26, 2015

Loving you and missing you on this Thanksgiving Day.
Love always, Mom

benny grimmer

November 1, 2015

hello Ben it has been a long time sense I talked to you been raining all weekend. Rained all weekend last weekend.barn owls hatched little ones in our stand.had to trash it and get Raymond,s old stand and take it to hunt out of. maybe this year will be better than last year. guess i will go. I will let you know how things go next week.I love you and see you latter. love Dad

November 1, 2015

Hello Ben it has been a while since I sent you a message. We love and miss you every day. I know you are with Alain just let him know we love and miss him. You need to take care of each other. Love you always, Mom

Nina

July 21, 2015

Hey Ben... It's been a tough few weeks. Please look out for my little brother. I miss you both so much and love you to the moon.

June 22, 2015

Hello Ben Had everyone over for fathers day on Saturday. had a good time it thought of you sure needed a hug about that time.red birds are still here see one every day.I love you I will see you later love Dad

April 7, 2015

Hello Ben mother and I went to uncle loyd and ant Betty hunter's funeral yesterday uncle Loyd passed away 4/01/2015 ant Betty passed away on 4/3/2015. It was a very nice funeral.They both looked good. The 21 gun and the tapsand the flowers. were real nice. Though about you though about a lot of my freinds that are not here. I will always love you. I will see you later.love Dad.

February 25, 2015

Hello Ben it's been cold and wet for two months. mom and I are doing fine. We miss you and thing of you allways.I love you and I will see you later love Dad

December 4, 2014

Hi!Ben,Today is Grandma`s birthday so when you
see her today tell her happy birthday.I miss you both so much.See your Mom and Dad not as
often as I would like,but I know they are
there if I need them.I try not to be a bother
to them.I`ve had to ask your Dad for help
sometime when I screw up and can`t get up
they are always there.You were always there
when I needed help with anything.Ben I miss and love you.I`m still trying to work every day don`t do as much as I wish I could .I know I get on Jeff`s nerve some time at work
but he`s got a lot on his plate.I do what
needs to be done I just don`t as fast as
he would like.I used to live to work now I
work to live.It gives me a purpose,thanks
to your Dad and Mom I don`t have to work everday.But it keeps me active. Well Ben
enough of my rambling Love and miss you,
Grandpa.

December 2, 2014

Hello Ben Happy birthday. Been thanking of you all day. Don't know what to say but I love you and I think of you all the time. Hunting has not been good this year. lost the hog lease had to move all the thing off. Still can see you under the big oak tree. Tell everyone hello for me and I love them. I love you and I will see you later. Love Dad.

August 21, 2014

Hello Ben it has been a long time since i said hello. needed to tell you I love you and wish you were here to help my build this mew taxiway @ bush airport.so I will see you later. love you Dad

Denise

August 13, 2014

I think of you daily lil brother and miss you greatly. Red birds nesting at my job & at home in the back yard, love seeing them. I love Lil Ben.

benny

May 3, 2014

Ben just needed to say hello and tell you I am sorry I didn't talk to you last month. A red bird is settings on a nest in the tree by the front window. Feels so good to know there's going to be little red birds in a few weeks. I love you and I see later love you dad.

March 21, 2014

Ben, Well it has been 6 long years since I saw that smiling face. I sure miss seeing you. You know we love you and miss you everyday. Love you always, Mom

March 11, 2014

HiBen!Well here it is almost midnight I can`t sleep {allergy time}.I know it seems like only yesterday since you left us but I miss you and Grandma like it was just yesterday.Your Aunt Lynn and I think God sends us a sign when we need good news.Theresa was sick a while back we were worried about her.Then I was at Wallmart and saw tall young man that reminded me so much of you and I called Lynn to tell her and we both agreed it was from you that Theresa would be OK Thank you and God for helping us at a trying time.We all love and miss you.So please give Grandma a hug and tell her about the love that surronds you both.By now you all are among people who love. Grandpa Roy.

December 2, 2013

Ben, I love and miss you more than ever on this day. Happy Birthday!! Love you always and forever. Mom

December 2, 2013

Hello Ben needed to tell you Happy Birthday.Ivan also said happy birthday. Tell every one hello for me. We will always love you.I well see you later . Love dad

November 18, 2013

Hello Ben I was hunting over the weekend and was not having good look down n out and there was our red bird maid things better. didnt kill a dear bet was with friends. see you later love Dad.

June 4, 2013

Hi Ben This is grandpa just wanted to let you know I miss and love you.Give grandma a hug and a kiss for me.Love You Grandpa Roy

March 22, 2013

Miss ya lil brother!!! Saw a lil boy yesterday and he looked so much like you at his age I had to stop and do a double take. Thanks for sending that red bird to visit me just when I need it!!! Love you Denise

Hotrod

March 21, 2013

It will always burn bright

March 21, 2013

Love you 20 million and miss you even more!!!!

March 21, 2013

We love and miss you forever...Love you Aunt Lynn

March 21, 2013

Ben, its so hard to believe that its been 5 years since you went Home... I think of you often and I know that you are ok! You are missed daily! We love you!

March 20, 2013

Hello Ben It been some time sence I said hello We are doing fine. we think of you every day and have you in our thoughts and payers and know that your ok. one day we will be with you again.and that is when its going to be ok. i love you and see you later. Love Dad

December 3, 2012

Hello Ben happy bithday and I love you. I have you on my mind allways. were all doing good. we miss you so much. one day we will be together again like old times. till Joe and Raymond and all hello and we love them just the same. see you later love Dad

December 3, 2012

Ben! We all love and miss you, I want to wish you a happy birthday.Tomorrow is Grandma`s birthday.Tell Her Happy birthday and give her a hug for me.Loveyou both very much.Grandpa.

December 2, 2012

Happy Birthday Ben....
We all love and miss you....

October 22, 2012

Hello Ben It's been a long time. I needed to say hello and say I love you. were all ok. see you later. love Dad.

March 21, 2012

Ben, 4 years and it still seems like yesterday. We all miss you so much. Wish I could hear you laugh and talk to me and tell me everything is going to be ok and that you are ok too. Love you always,
Mom

March 21, 2012

Helo Ben some things never change were allways thinking of you but today we remember all the time we spent together where we went and all the fun and how happy you were. we remember the hard times and wish that we could go back and change things andmake it deferent.I will allways love you and remember you. see you later. love Dad

Lisa

March 21, 2012

Its hard to believe its been 4 years...Seems like just yesterday I was babysitting you and Theresa...and we see how well that turned out!! :D
If you can, send down some of that positive energy! I think I know a few people who could sure use it about now! They all miss you so much!! We all do!!
Much Love!
Now and Forever!

Dad

February 1, 2012

Hello Ben I was thinking of you today as allways. I sure do need a hug about now. Tell Joe hello for me. And I love you both. see you later.

Roy Williams

December 4, 2011

Hi Ben just wanted to wish you a happy birthday and a up coming merry christmas.Miss you and Grandma very much.I know you are looking out for each other She loved you very much so I know she will look after you like and old mother hen.I love and miss you both.Joseph came back to Conroe from Austin and starts to work tomorrow. I hope it works out for him.He worked for this company before when he was down here they called him to come back to work.Ben I miss and Love you Grandpa.

December 2, 2011

My dearest Ben,
Words can't describe how much you are loved and missed on this day. I miss you so much every day. I wish you were here so I could wish you a very Happy Birthday. I love you and miss you so very much.
Love you, Mom

Dad

December 2, 2011

Hello Ben wanted to till you happy birthday. Ihad a bacon cheese burger for lunch today.though about the lost time we had one together I love you and miss you so much see you loter.Dad Say hello to Joe for me

Roy Williams

September 27, 2011

Hi Ben I know it`s been a while since I wrote I guess I figured your Grandma has had you working on something.I know you have met up with your Uncle Joe by now you tell him if he wants to build some thing you can lay it out and give him grade.Ben I try to get through each day but you and grandma are always on my mind and in my heart I love and miss you both.Grandpa!

Dad

September 19, 2011

Hello Ben just wanted to say that I love you and I know that you and Joe have a lot to talk about. If he hasn't found you yet it's because he's with Danuail.

June 8, 2011

Hello Ben I was looking at your things in the black box on sunday and found the old timer nife I gave you years ago.I had a good day when I found it. I love and mess you so much see you. Dad

BENNY GRIMMER

March 30, 2011

BEN IT'S BEEN 3 YEARS SENCE YOU WERE HERE BUT YOUR HERE EVERY DAY.LIFE IS NOT THE SAME ENEY MORE. IT IS HARD FOR ME TO SET AND RIGHT TO TRY AND SAY WHAT I WANT TO SAY.I LOVE AND MISS YOU DAD

March 21, 2011

Ben,
You know there aren't really words to describe how much you are missed and loved. Every day I think of you and what a wonderful man you were. You were just taken from us way too soon. I love you and miss you.
Mom

Roy Williams

March 20, 2011

Hello Ben,Long time since I wrote you just a few things to let you know how it`s going.I had Alain down last week he stayed with your Mom and Dad.Really enjoyed the time here helped me at work.Did a good job.Ben a day never goes by that I don`t think of you and Grandma with love and loneliness.Your Dad and Mom have been my rock since losing you and Grandma.There are times I would have been lost without them.Well just wanted to let you know we all love and miss you.Grandpa

March 18, 2011

Just letting you know that you are on our minds all the time. You are missed so much everyday by everyone's lives that you touched in your short time here. Please know that there is not one day that goes by that you don't cross my mind!! Even if its remembering the weekend you guys got stuck with me as the babysitter...and it all brings a smile to my face!! I love you!!

Nina Brink

February 25, 2011

Hi Ben,
Thinking about you today...
Love,
Nina

Dad

December 8, 2010

Ben Its been some time sence I said hello just needed to tell you happy birthday. I love you and miss so much. It will be Christmas soon.We will hang up your stocking like allways. love you by

DAD

August 20, 2010

helo Ben is so hard not having you with me every day. I went fishing last weekend with greg kirsh I cought a 20 pound catfish.sure would liked for you to see it.

May 14, 2010

Helo Ben its been some time sence i rought. We are allmost finished at Ellington and have started a job at Hobby. I have a job in conroe to start in june. I wish you were here to help me. I love you Dad and Mom. ps. our red bird is still here.see you

ROY WILLIAMS

March 27, 2010

Ben we just went thru the second year of your passing.It was as hard as the first year.I just wanted to tell you and grandma how much we loved and miss you and grandma.Uncle Jack Bell passed away Mon.of this week.I know you will see him in heaven he will be looking for Uncle Lonnie.Ben I want you to know we all miss and love you. Grandpa.Tell grandma we miss and love you both so much.
Love eternally Grandpa

March 22, 2010

Ben,
I wanted to tell you how much I miss you. You know it is so hard not having you here. I think of you everyday and I miss you so much, we all do. You are always in our hearts.
Love you always,
Mom

Lisa Denton

March 21, 2010

Its been 2 years since you were taken away from us. There is not a day goes by that I don't think of you! You will always be in my heart! I love you!!

dad

December 25, 2009

hillo Ben marry chrismas to you. Its so sad to have chrismas with out you here.Ilove you dad.

December 2, 2009

Ben,
Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday. You know how much I love you and miss you. You are always in my heart and my thoughts.
Love you,
Mom

( dad )

December 2, 2009

hello Ben needed to tell you happy birthday.we are thinking of you allways love you dad and mom

dad /and mom grimmer

November 18, 2009

hillo Ben this was a good picture of me and you i love you see you later love dad

November 18, 2009

you and me, Ben

November 18, 2009

Roy Williams Sr.

November 15, 2009

Hi`Ben i`ts been awhile since I wrote you a note, just want you to know I love and think of you daily. Aunt Kay has been down from Calif.We had great dinner last night with your mom and dad.Uncle Hotrod and his new lady friend where over also.Your dad has a new cooker/smoker and the food was great.Just wanted to tell we miss you
and hope Grandma isn`t working you to hard.Just wanted to say hi! and I love and miss you Grandpa

benny grimmer

October 14, 2009

hello ben I miss so much wish i could get a hug me and mom love you so much see you by dad

benny grimmer

March 15, 2009

ben i love you so much i cry every day when i thank of you your always in mine and moms thought and we miss you so much love you mom and dad

roy williams

March 9, 2009

Ben it`s getting close to the time we lost you ,we all miss and love you so very much .I know Grandma probably has you busy working on something . She as we all did depended on you for a lot of things cause we knew you could do it not because we wanted to take advantage of you or use you but because we respected your ability and we were selfish cause we wanted to spend time with you. Miss and love you grandpa.

Roy Williams

January 21, 2009

Ben; I know you are with Grandma cause she loved you to much not to be with her.She probably want a cd player in her golden limo.She always had some thing for you to do when you came up to Austin or when we came down here.Ben I miss and love you both so much I am looking forward to being with you both soon so I can give you both a big hug and I promise not to bring any of my clunkers for you to work on.I just want to sit down with you and Grandma and talk about the joy you brought to us when you were growing up and after you were grown the joy of just seeing you made us happy. I`m sorry I have`nt said so before how much I loved and miss you. We don`t know what to do some time when we think of how much joy you brought to so many peoples lives And how much you taught us all about unconditional love. We think of you and am sorry I haven`t told you this before how much you are missed. Love You Grandpa.

roy williams

January 21, 2009

Ben I know you are with Grandma cause she always had something for you to do on her car and now she can get her repairs done I`m so looking forward to being with you and her at least I can still hand youi tools and put my arms around both and tell you how happy I am to be with you.Your Mom and Dad miss you as we all do we all love you.
Grandpa

December 2, 2008

Ben,
I know that today is your birthday and your Dad and I miss you so much. It is just so hard to understand that you are gone. We love you so much and miss you everyday. We both look forward to the day when we can be together again. We love you,
Mom and Dad

Lisa Denton

December 1, 2008

Ben:
Tomorrow is your birthday and you have to know that its going to be a horrible day for all of us! You are gone to soon, and you are missed soooooo much! I wished you could have known how much you meant to us all! And how we would have all been there no matter what...
Please remember we all will see each other again! As a FAMILY! I love you!

Sarah Kirsch

August 27, 2008

Ben,
Just wanted you to know that we all think about you everyday and miss you more everyday! We love you very much!

Jennifer Mikulec

April 3, 2008

Ben,
I am very sorry I never got to know you. You have the most wonderful family and I know that they are missing you very much. I am sure your soul is in Heaven, you have people down here praying for you constantly, so please check in on your Mom and Dad every so often. Their arent enough hugs in the world to heal them without knowing you are watching over.

Uncle Hot (Roy) Williams

April 2, 2008

Ben, it is my loss that I never got to really know you. From what I saw at your memorial service, you touched a lot of lives in the short time you were with us. Now that God has taken you from us, it does not mean that you can not continue making a difference in other peoples lives. Now you are the Guardian Angel in the truest sense of the word. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

July 12, 2006 and yes there was a bit of a smile!

Aunt Lisa and Uncle John Denton

March 31, 2008

Ben:
There are no words that can say how I feel! I miss the little boy that I remember the one that was always silly, and used to make us all laugh! Even with the distance and time that has kept us apart, you're leaving has left a void in my heart...you are in fact just like losing one of my own kids! I watched you grow from that silly little boy to a wonderful grown man! You are with the Lord and Saviour now and he will protect you from whatever you need protection from, and he will be watching over us down here...Please know that I love you, always have and I always will! And contrary to what you may have shown, you loved us as well! Your eyes could never lie!

I love you, and I will see you again!

Jean Mullins

March 30, 2008

Jan & Benny,
You are in our thoughts & prayers. We are here if you need us.

Luther & Jeanie Mullins

Raymond Grimmer

March 28, 2008

Nobody ever said life would be good, I'm sorry you went home early. There are some things that are really hard to deal with, I wish you would have stayed with us may God bless and keep your soul and we'll see you again on the other side. we all love you

Rev Joshua Cathey

March 28, 2008

I am so sorry for your lost. May God walk with you and hold you in his loving arms in the difficult days that are ahead of you.

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