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Paul Hovdey Obituary

Paul Hovdey died of neuro-endocrine cancer at the age of 65 at his home in Nampa on December 23, 2009. His wife and son Ryan were present. Paul was born to Olive and Fred Hovdey on October 12, 1944 in Seattle, Washington. Paul was the second of five sons. His brothers Carl, Dale, and Dean were also born in Seattle. His parents moved their family back to the Stillwater Valley in 1953, where his mother's family homesteaded. Paul's youngest brother John was born in Columbus in 1954. The Hovdey boys became great friends and spent many special moments together. Paul attended school in Dean, Absorokee and Columbus, where he graduated from high school in 1962. That summer, the family moved to Missoula where Paul attended the University of Montana. In 1966 Paul enlisted in the U.S. Air Force and became an Air Traffic Controller. After four years of military service, Paul returned to the University of Montana and then became a civilian Air Traffice Controller in Great Falls, Montana. Growing up in Montana enabled Paul to develop a fierce appreciation of nature and all it's wonders. Paul was an avid fisherman, hiker, bicylist, golfer and skier during his lifetime. It certainly seemed appropriate that he would meet his wife in Yellowstone park after the eruption of Mount St. Helens in 1980 while on a bicycle tour with friends. An act of nature brought them together as the ash fallout that day became so thick that Paul and his friends were forced to find refuge at the Lake Yellowstone Hotel where Wendy was employed at the time. Paul loved to tell the story of how they met and they returned to Yellowstone Park many times throughout their marriage alone and with family or friends to enjoy the beauty of Yellowstone. Paul and Wendy were married on August 8, 1981. Their son Ryan was born on March 16, 1986. It was in Great Falls that Paul developed a love for remodeling and building homes. Paul was a strong, kind and gracious man who loved and was not afraid to express that love to his many friends and family members throughout his lifetime. He called his special friends "Bro" because they,too, were like brothers to him. He appreciated fine craftmanship and approached any project with a sense of purpose and care, whether it was in building a home or tuning a pair of skis. He was a great country western swing dancer and loved acoustic guitar music. He and Wendy loved living in Boise where they moved in 1990 and especially enjoyed dancing with friends at Alive After Five. Paul was a graceful skiier who loved to ski the "powd" especially at Brundage Mountain and he shared his enthusiasm for skiing with everyone who knew him. He built his family a home in McCall, Idaho in 2005, with plans to retire there eventually. Before he died, he told his wife Wendy, son Ryan, and any friends and family members that he could "I am going to miss you guys." Pablo, as he liked to be called by his close friends, was a hero to many of us, and we will miss his generous and fun loving spirit. Paul celebrated life with passion and integrity. Paul was preceded in death by both his parents and younger brother John. He is survived by his wife Wendy, son Ryan, brothers Carl, Dale (Chriss), Dean (Patty) and many relatives and friends. Wendy and Ryan would like to thank everyone who has supported them through Paul's difficult and terrible battle against cancer. As Bro Bruce said " We have been blessed with the BEST of times and friendship and that is a lot to be thankful for. " Paul would want you to please take every moment of joy that passes your way. One of the last dreams that he had was that he was in a ski shop buying new skis. He asked that we don't cry for him, he is free from the pain of cancer now. We did not want to say goodbye, but we will for now.... There will be a memorial celebration of his life in the spring to allow his family and friends some time to recover from their loss and enable them to celebrate his life in the way that he wanted: with music, love, laughter and happy memories. Memorials in his name will be appreciated if they are given to The Yellowstone Park Foundation. 37 East Main Street, Suite 4 Bozeman, MT 59715.

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Published by Idaho Statesman on Jan. 17, 2010.

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Karen Hauge Sykes

September 20, 2010

I'm very sad for your family. It was a strong and kind family as I knew them all through high school. Dean was special and will always hold a special place in my heart. I hope you all heal from this terrible loss. Karen Hauge Sykes, Honolulu, Hawaii

January 29, 2010

Oh Wendy...I'm so sorry. Paul was so incredibly dear, as are you. I will miss him. I have such terrific memories of both of you. Love, Patti (McIntyre) Faustini

Steve Weaver

January 27, 2010

Wendy,

I can’t tell you what an awful shock it was to learn that Paul passed. In all the years I knew Paul he was so robust and active that the thought of him dying at 65 is hard to take. Though we have not stayed in touch for the last several years I think about you two often.

I have a lot of stories I share with friends and one of my favorites is being on that road trip in Yellowstone when you two met. When we camped that night you were all Paul could talk about. My favorite part of the story is that you started seeing each other and married based on a letter sent to “Wendy - blond waitress” Yellowstone Lodge, Yellowstone Park. It makes me and those I tell grin every time. I Paul is grinning right now too.

If it has not happened already, please keep me in mind for the celebration of his life. You can reach me at [email protected].

My thoughts are with you and Ryan.

Steve aka Beaver

January 18, 2010

Dear Wendy,, I'm so sorry for your great loss. Paul was a wonderful man and I know how much you loved him. I will remember the fun times we have had over the years. I promise to see you when we get back from Arizona in the spring. Meanwhile know that you, Ryan and the family are in my thoughts and prayers. With love, Marge Dalzell

Marc (Andy) Anderson

January 18, 2010

Wendy,
Words don't seem to work at these times but as long as were here Paul will be also. I,m glad i knew him.
Love Andy and Linda

Margie Bullinger

January 17, 2010

Wendy & Ryan, I can't help but to cry. Even though he was my cousin we had a brother sister relationship and sharing the same birthday I believe gave us an even closer tie. I will never celebrate my birthday quite the same. I am so happy we got the oportunity to be together in West Yellowstone in October. My heart is heavy as I look at his photo and remeber...Know our thoughts and prayers of strenght are with you and are a phone call away if you need us. All Our Love Margie and Jim

Barb Perry

January 17, 2010

Wendy,
Doug and I had no idea. We are so sorry. Paul was such a wonderful person. I remember him helping us with building our home. He was such a generous person. We have missed seeing you both. I know that he'll be waiting and watching over you and Ryan. I have no doubt.

Sylvia & Jerry Cohen

January 17, 2010

Wendy, Jerry and I are deeply sorry and want to let you know that we are thinking of you in such a difficult time. We'll miss seeing you and Paul at Pengilly's. We've always enjoyed our conversations.

walter Lough

January 17, 2010

Wendy, Ryan and the Hovdey family my heart goes out to you in this difficult time. My prayers are with you. Look up as the next rainbow you see, will be Paul smiling down at you.
Walter Lough

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