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Matthew Trainor Obituary
MATTHEW N. on Nov. 15, 2004, age 24. Devoted son of Richard L. and Kathleen M. Trainor (nee Naughton), beloved brother of Chris and Erin Trainor, dear grandson of Thomas G. Trainor, Jr., loving nephew of Patricia Scanlon, Joseph Naughton, Thomas G. Trainor, III and Robert H. Trainor; also survived by many cousins. Matt was a graduate of Archbishop Ryan Class of 1999 and a sophomore nursing student at Holy Family University. Family and friends are invited to Matt's Life Celebration Wed. after 6:30 P.M. and Thurs. after 8:30 A.M. from JOHN F. GIVNISH OF ACADEMY RD., 10975 Academy Rd., Phila. and to participate in his Funeral Mass, 10 A.M., St. Martha Church. Int. Our Lady of Grace Cem. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Matt's memory preferred to the Matt Trainor Memorial Scholarship, c/o Archbishop Ryan High School, 11201 Academy Road, Phila., PA 19154.
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Memories and Condolences
for Matthew Trainor
Karla Renee Candelaria
November 10, 2021
Thinking you you and Kathy on the anniversary of Matt´s passing. I know words do not ease the pain that you still feel but know that you´re in my heart and prayers.
Maria Suarez
March 22, 2005
Dr. Maria Suarez of Holy Family University wrote the following about Matt Trainor. It appeared in the February 2005 issue of "The Tri-Lite", the student newspaper at Holy Family University. It is in memorium to him:
"It should not happen this way. Children should not go before their parents. Students should not go before their teachers. Sometimes it is hard to understand God's plan.
Matt Trainor, a student at Holy Family, passed away on November 15, 2004. He was one of those students who changes teachers' lives. He taught me the meaning of dedication, responsibility, and hope in the face of great adversity. While in my class, Matt would call me from the hospital: 'What did I miss today? What should I read?' He continued his studies until his lips were blue from lack of oxygen. He tried so hard, until the end, to live a normal life!
Matt was a young person with the dignity and strength of a great hero. He chose to train for a profession to help people, and this at a time in his life when most who knew him were aware of his need for a medical cure. Matt could have benefitted from a timely transplant. He is a reminder to all of us of the importance of organ donation. Keep in your thoughts those who, like Matt, need an organ donation to live. In his memory, please become an organ donor."
Toppa Sims
January 26, 2005
Ric,
I am so very very sorry to learn of Matt's passing. I remember all the chats we had about Matt - such a remarkable person. My deepest sympathy to you and all your family.
toppa
Gary & Roberta Stein
January 15, 2005
Ric & Kathi: I cannot say how deeply the news of Matt's passing has saddened us. I have known you for so long. There is something we say in memory of those who are gone:
"To the departed whom we now remember, may peace and bliss be granted in life eternal. May they find grace and mercy before the Lord of heaven and earth. May their souls rejoice in that effable good which God has laid up for those who honor Him, and may their memory be a blessing to those who treasure it."
LInda Herrin
January 15, 2005
Dear Ric and Family,
I would like to express my heartfelt sympathy to the entire family. I didn't know Matthew. I don't even know most of the family. I worked with Ric for a couple of years and didn't even begin to become friendly with him until the day that I left that job. I remember that in that conversation he spoke about his family including Matthew. I remember being impressed with the genuine love that was apparent as he spoke.
I know that your pain is very real as you have had a physical separation. You cannot see him and I am sure that you long to be with him. It may even feel like he's left your home. The truth is that it is those of us here who are away from home. Matthew has new life and new power. With that he will always be with you.
My condolences are as deep as your faith. For those of us who believe, death is a beginning of when one prepares for the eternal reunion with those we love. Matthew is changed not gone. The time that you spend together in eternity will make a lifetime on earth seem like less than a second.
May God be with you all to comfort and guide you until you meet again.
Melanie Brassell
December 31, 2004
Happy New Year! I can only imagine the party going on up there...
Donna Bowes
December 30, 2004
Hey Matt,
Merry Christmas and have a great New Year!!
December 28, 2004
Matt,
I only knew you for a short time, but in that short time you touched my life without even knowing it, you were such an optimistic person, with such a big heart and an even bigger smile! I still see that smile and sense of humor of yours when I think of you. Keep watching over your family and friends, and keep smiling.
*See you in my dreams*
Melanie Brassell
December 25, 2004
Merry Christmas!
Donna Bowes
December 17, 2004
To the Tranior Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your family and everyone who knew Matt. He always made me laugh! I still love hearing stories about him. I just wanted to let you know that I will always remember Matt and will always keep him and you in my prayers. He is definitly watching over everyone! He was very loved and cared for and will always be.
Matt, we all miss you!
SMS PRIDE!!!!
Love always,
Donna :)
Melanie Brassell
December 16, 2004
hey matt,
this guestbook things is strange and great at the same time. i love how some people write to your family and some people will write to you - either way, i just wanted to let you know that i've been thinking of you and your family and want to send along my love and wishes for a happy holiday. SMS pride :-)
love and misses...
Marianne Roche
December 14, 2004
Dear Ric and Kathi and Family,
Please know how very sorry I am to learn of Matthew's passing. He was fortunate to have such a wonderful and loving family. I am sure that he is smiling down on all of you.
Warmly,
Marianne Roche
Arlene O'Connor
December 10, 2004
Dear Ric, Kathleen, Christopher and Erin:
My deepest sympathy and prayers are really meant from the bottom of my heart for all of you at this most difficult time. I never met Matthew, but I felt like I did know him from what Ric told me about him. I do remember talking to him on the phone a couple of times and I remember his kind voice over the phone and how he thanked me for praying for him. I do not know everything, but I do know he is resting with Jesus and no more pain and suffering for him. I am sure he is watching over the four (4) of you now from heaven, and is happy that he was part of the best caring family ever. Ric, Kathleen, Christopher and Erin, I promise to never forget any of you. You are always on my prayer line. God Bless all of You. When you get a chance read Colossians Chapter 1 Verses 9 through 14.
Amy
December 10, 2004
Dear Ric and Family, My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this very difficult time. I pray that as the days pass the void you feel will be filled by your wonderful memories of Matt.
Karla Johnson-Candelaria
December 8, 2004
During the 30+ years Ric and I have been friends, we have shared many experiences and special memories about our respective lives and families; lives that would have certainly not been complete without our children. It has been through our friendship I came to "know" Matt. I knew of Matt's sense of humor, his kindness, his love for his family and friends, his strength, determination and strong spirit. Matt will be deeply missed by his all whose life he touched and brightened during his brief time on earth. My heartfelt sympathy and prayers go out to his extremely loving and dedicated parents, brother and sister and all those who were blessed by "knowing" Matt.
December 7, 2004
My thoughts and prayers go out to Matt's family and friends. May you find comfort in each other and in your special memories.
Marie Lieb
December 7, 2004
Dear Ric and Family,
I cannot even imagine how you feel..My thoughts and prayers are with you. I wish by the wonderful things I have read that I would have met Matthew....Marie Lieb and Michael Whalin
Stephen Graff
December 2, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. I just received the notice of Matt's passing yesterday, and I was saddened by it. Though I never met your son, I remember you talking about him, and I felt your strong devotion to him and love for him. Ask the Lord for his help and support during this time. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, and hopefully, we can stay in touch and get together some time in the near future.
With love,
Steve, Jackie, and family
Bob Beale
December 1, 2004
Dear Ric and Kathi-- I was so saddened to hear of Matt's passing. I felt I got to know him just a bit through all of your stories over the years, Ric. Please know you are very much in my thoughts and prayers.
marcia (french) pillow
November 29, 2004
Dear Kathy and Ric,
My heart breaks for your loss. It's in my mind as if it were yesterday when I came to see you in Albuquerque not long after Matthew was born. I have no doubt that he as a wonderful young man. God bless you and know that you all are in my prayers. I'll be in touch.
Lisa Godbee
November 29, 2004
To: Ric Trainor and Family
I'm really sad to hear about your loss. If you need anything at all just tell me. I am with your prayers always.
Mignon Mims
November 29, 2004
The 455th Bomb Squadron, 323rd Bomb Group Association wishes to express its deepest sympathies to your family for the loss of Matt. We were all hoping and praying for his new lungs but there was another mission in place for him. Keep your family close; they will bring much consolation in the days ahead. God Bless all.
Andrew Morrison
November 29, 2004
To the Trainor family,
I am sorry to hear about Matt. He was a good friend and he will be missed alot. I wish I could have been there to pay my respects but unfortunately I am overseas. My apologies. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Susan Randall
November 28, 2004
Ric & Family
May your love and memories of Matthew help to comfort you during this difficult time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you....Susan & Family
Jim and Mary Beth Ricks
November 28, 2004
You are all in out thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Your angel will be watching over you, as you have watched over him.
Gladys Rivera-Gabaly
November 27, 2004
Dear Kathy, Chris, Erin, Rick,
My prayers continue for your family. I have been blessed to know your family. I will miss Matthew.
Gladys
Tiffany
November 25, 2004
To erin and her family,
I only remember Matt in passing but i went to school with erin at Archbishop Ryan. My prayers are with erin and her family at this hard time. Happy thanksgiving to all of you and to most especially to Matt.
Tiffany
November 23, 2004
I am so sorry to hear about Matt. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends at this difficult time.
Bobbie LaForgia-Tyndall
November 19, 2004
To the Trainor family-
I had the privilege of teaching Matt at St. Martha's in grade 6.
I am so saddened by the news of his passing. I will keep all of you in my prayers.
Frank Varanavage
November 19, 2004
To all of Matt's friends and family:
I am so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. Matt was a great kid. Everytime I had a chance to talk to him, he always made me laugh.You are all in my prayers.
Geralynn Geist Dionisio
November 18, 2004
You are all in my prayers through this difficult time. Matt will truly be missed and never forgotten. He has many friends that will keep his alive. May he rest in peace with God in heaven.
November 18, 2004
To Matt's family and friends,
I was so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. I will keep you all in my prayers during this very difficult time in your lives.
Amy Lyons
November 18, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this hard time.
Colleen Matraszek
November 17, 2004
To the Trainor Family and all of Matt's friend,
My prayers are with you at this time. Matt was such a special person. I will always remember the SMS days, and the Heflin Circle block parties at your house!! You will be greatly missed, Matt.
Love your friend, Colleen
Daw Bowie
November 17, 2004
I send my sympathies to the entire Trainor family. You are the greatest example of a strong and dedicated family. Matt was a special person and he will be missed. I will always remember his never ending smile. I'm sure he's watching over us all from up in heaven.
Jen and Shaun McCormac
November 17, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Trainor, Chris and Erin,
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jaclynn Geist
November 17, 2004
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Trainor family and all of Matt's friends. He was a great kid with the biggest heart. He will be greatly missed but never forgotten. Stick together guys~~
Jaclynn
Pat Trunfio
November 17, 2004
We are sorry to hear about the loss of Matt, we send our prayers and thoughts to the Trainor Family.
Lola Zimmerman
November 17, 2004
Kathy, Rick, Chris and Erin,
I am so sorry for your loss. Matthew was a wonderful person with a big heart. Always remember that Matthew is with Aaron. My heart and prayers are with all of you. Love always, Lola
Nick Colacicco
November 17, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Trainor, Chris, Erin, and all of the Walton Park guys, I just want to say I am extremely sorry for your loss. Matt was a great kid and I was lucky enough to be able to call him my friend. If any of you ever need me, just know that will do whatever i can to help you guys through this tough time. I'll miss you Matt.
Harry & Lori Charlton
November 17, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
The Charlton Family
Brian Clay
November 17, 2004
Rick/Kathy,
I will always be grateful for having known Matt. His was a great spirit that will never be forgotten by those whom he touched. You will remain in our prayers.
Brian, Teresa, Brian Jr, Danielle Clay
Brett Bush
November 17, 2004
Sorry to hear about your loss, Matt was a great kid. My thoughts and prayers go out to Chris, Erin, and the rest of the family.
Scott Zeitz
November 16, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with the Trainor Family.
Karen Beukers
November 16, 2004
Kathy, Rick, Chris and Erin, I thank the Lord that I had the great opportunity to get to know Matt. He was such a wonderful human being. You guys couldn't do enough for him to live his life to the fullest. I am sure he loved that and I know he loved y'all. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Matt.
Mark & Susan McFadden
November 16, 2004
Trainor family, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
tommy pomrink
November 16, 2004
My thoughts and prayers to the Trainor family.
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