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Robert G. Feder

1957 - 2025

Robert G. Feder obituary, 1957-2025, Manchester, CT

BORN

1957

DIED

2025

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John F. Tierney Funeral Home, Inc.

219 West Center Street

Manchester, Connecticut

Robert Feder Obituary

Robert G. Feder
1957 - 2025
Robert "Bob" G. Feder, 68, of Manchester, entered into eternal rest on Saturday, May 17, 2025, after courageously battling a long illness. Husband of Yvonne (Zych) Feder and son of the late William and Lois (Kluck) Feder, Bob was born on January 13, 1957, in Stamford, CT, and grew up in Manchester, CT.
As a veteran of the Vietnam War era, Bob graduated from the Marine Corps Institute and served in the United States Marine Corps from 1974 to 1978 reaching the rank of Corporal. After his time in the military, he returned to Manchester and married the love of his life, Yvonne, with whom he spent 46 years. Bob worked for 36 years in the United States Postal Service-the majority of those years were spent at the Silver Lane Branch in East Hartford. Bob, along with his wife, loved music and often attended blues and rock concerts together. A musician himself, Bob enjoyed playing blues on his harmonica and the guitar for his family and friends. He was also an avid Chess and Backgammon player and was a member of the UCONN Chess Club, New Britain Chess Club, and Connecticut Backgammon Club meetups at Birdhouse Coffee. He was a sports enthusiast and could often be found watching the Boston Bruins, Boston Red Sox, New England Patriots, and Tour de France cycling race. His faith was of the utmost importance to him and he was an active member of Concordia Lutheran Church in Manchester. Bob was a kind and compassionate man who loved his family, especially his four grandchildren and Dalmatian, Zack.
To cherish his memory, Bob is survived by his loving wife, Yvonne; his son, Luke Feder and his wife, Jamie, of Wantagh, NY, and his daughter, Stefanie DeLuca and her husband, Tim, of West Hartford, CT; his grandchildren, Miranda Feder, Matthew Feder, Vincent DeLuca, and Grace DeLuca; his siblings, Gail Feder, Roger Feder, Gwen Feder, and Charles Feder and his wife Nora; his mother-in-law, Marta Zych; his sister-in-law, Barbara Zych Nisyrios; and many loved nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. Besides his parents, Bob was predeceased by his father-in-law Stefan Zych, brother Richard Feder, and sister-in-law Evelyn Feder.
Relatives and friends are invited to the John F. Tierney Funeral Home, 219 West Center St. in Manchester on Tuesday, May 27, for calling hours from 10am to 12pm. A funeral home service will take place at 12pm, with a procession to follow to East Cemetery for a military burial.
Memorial contributions can be made in Bob's name to the following charity which was close to his heart, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital (www.stjude.org). The family would also like to thank the doctors and nurses at Helen & Harry Gray Cancer Center at Hartford Hospital for all of their hard work and dedication to their patients. For online condolences, please visit www.tierneyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Journal Inquirer on May 24, 2025.

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Linda S

May 27, 2025

Robert Feder family ,
I´m so sorry to hear Bob pass. He was a great carrier; on Jerry rd naubac ave East Hartford; we always talk about what happenings in post office; I was a clerk on Murphy rd & Weston st;
The best carrier is his jumper Charlie´s; all the other one are terrible; Bob was a super carrier on my street. I retire 5/31/22. And love it.

Dave & Catherine Noble

May 27, 2025

To the Feder family,
We were sorry to hear about Bob.Although we were unable to be there with you physically today, our hearts were with you.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Fond memories at India field.

Mark Bourque

May 25, 2025

Bob was a great guy , a man of Faith and a Marine. He is a model of courage we should all aspire to. The world is a poorer place without him and I hope that his family can find solice in that his suffering is over and he is in a better place. I told Bob a while back that if I were in a foxhole I would want him with me. He quipped a quote from Earnest Hemmingway, paraphrasing ...Well if I'm in pickle give me a good Marine, hell I even take a bad Marine!

Bob Cyr, NBCC historian and lifetime member

May 24, 2025

It is with a sad and heavy heart to inform you that Robert "Bob" Feder, one of our club members, passed away on May 17 at the age of sixty-eight after a long and very courageous battle with cancer.

Bob enjoyed playing chess with his friends at the club. He enjoyed participating in a variety of tournaments held by the club. Bob was a man of great integrity and was always in good spirits. Prior to joining our family in 2019, Bob played at the University of Connecticut Chess Club and chess tournaments in eastern Connecticut. Bob was a player of amateur stature, with his chess rating peaking at almost 1600.

Despite his illness, Bob told me that he was going to play chess for as long as he could. He truly was a trooper. The last major club event that he played in was the Bourque-Festa-Fields Chess Championship.

Beyond chess, Bob enjoyed playing his harmonica and loved backgammon. He was also actively involved in his church.

Bob was a friend to many of our members in the club and will be dearly missed by all. May he rest in peace in heaven for all eternity.

Diane Feder

May 22, 2025

Bobby it´s with a heavy heart to hear you have entered into heaven. I know my son J.J. will miss you also I will miss hearing the story of how you were doing. God Bless your family and your Brothers all will miss you and love you! Amen

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Memorial Events
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May

27

Calling hours

10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

John F Tierney Funeral Home

219 West Center Street, Manchester, CT 06040

May

27

Memorial service

12:00 p.m. - 12:30 p.m.

John F Tierney Funeral Home

219 West Center Street, Manchester, CT 06040

May

27

Burial

1:00 p.m. - 1:30 p.m.

East Cemetery

220 E. Center Street, Manchester, CT 06040

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John F. Tierney Funeral Home, Inc.

219 West Center Street, Manchester, CT 06040

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