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Thomas Berube Obituary
Born in Hartford, son of Kenneth A. and Jamie (LaVoy) Berube, he lived in Enfield, East Windsor, Windsor, and Ellington before moving to Vernon last year. Thomas was a fraud investigator for Liberty Mutual Insurance Co. He was a graduate of East Windsor High School, Class of 1996. He earned his undergraduate degree from Central Connecticut State University, Class of 2004, and was presently pursuing his master's degree at the University of Phoenix. He had served in the Connecticut Air National Guard. He enjoyed backpacking, hiking, designing gardens, and had a fondness for animals. Tom was an avid reader, especially Sherlock Holmes novels. He was a loving and devoted, husband, father, son, brother, uncle, and friend who enjoyed spending time with his family and friends.
In addition to his parents and his loving wife, Amy, Tom is survived by his beloved daughter, Isabelle Rose Berube of Windsor Locks/Vernon; by his brother, Kenneth A. Berube Jr., and his wife, Elizabeth, of Manchester; his sister, BethAnn Berube, and her fiancé, Derek Dumas, of Enfield; his paternal grandmother, Adrienne Warters of Murfreesboro, Tenn.; three nieces; a goddaughter, Gabriella Berube; and several aunts, uncles, cousins, and dear friends.
His family will receive friends for calling hours on Tuesday, March 1, 2011, from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m. at the Ladd-Turkington & Carmon Funeral Home, 551 Talcottville Road (Route 83), Vernon.
Funeral services will be celebrated on Wednesday, March 2, 2011, at 10 a.m. at the Ellington Baptist Church, 264 Pinney St., Ellington. Burial will follow in Ellington Center Cemetery.
Memorial donations in Tom's memory may be made to the Ellington Baptist Church, Building Fund, 264 Pinney St., Ellington, CT 06029.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Berube
Debbie Camp
February 22, 2021
I can’t believe it’s been this long. I visit Tom’s Grave site often when passing through Ellington. My son Matt was a Very Close Friend of Tom’s and I was Lucky to meet Tom a few times. He was a very Nice Man. Hopefully Amy, you are well. Tom’s Memory will Live On Forever.
March 9, 2011
We've had Tom in our lives for over 15 years, our hearts are sad and broken now. We will love and miss him forever. D.H. (a.k.a. "just a dot") and family
Jerri Tarr
March 5, 2011
Amy, so sorry for your loss. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers in the days to come. May you find solace in the family and many friends around you.
Don and Rachel Robinson
March 2, 2011
Rachel and I are going to miss ya bro! We know we will see you in heaven! God Bless, Uncle Kenny, Aunty Jamie, Ken, and Beth, You will be in our prayers!
Selina Wormstedt (Barnett)
March 2, 2011
A heart of gold stopped beating, two shining eyes at rest, God broke our hearts to prove, He only takes the best. Rest in Peace Tom. We will never forget your smile or the smile you put on our faces & the happiness you brought to our lives. You will live on forever in our hearts & memories.?
My thoughts & prayers go out to Tom's family.
Brian Casey
March 2, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I spent some time w/ Tom at a conference in St. Louis. Although I did not know Tom well, it was evident how proud he was of his family as the phone calls home to his wife and little girl appeared to be the highlight of his day. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Sarah Frediani-Scougall
March 2, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your family will remain in my thoughts and my prayers. May you feel the peace of God guarding your hearts and minds durring this terrible loss.
Melissa Garner
March 2, 2011
Amy- I am so very sorry for your loss. I didnt know Tom, of course, but Heather told me how happy he made you. I hope you can find some peace in the time to come.
Anthony DiStefano
March 1, 2011
To Tom's Family,
My heart goes out to all of you.
Although Tom & I worked in separate departments I had the pleasure or our paths crossing by emails and phone calls. He was one of the nicest people I've ever had the pleasure to speak with.
Take comfort in knowing that he is in a good place where only the best of the best go which is what he was.
Sincerely,
Anthony DiStefano
March 1, 2011
Dick & I are so sad for you & your afmily...Your son sounded like a wonderful person who has done so much in such a short time. ..of course, his parents are the "best"...and he was blessed to have a wonderful family. Our thoughts & prayers are with you...Dick & annette Johnson.
March 1, 2011
We are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I wish there was something we could say to ease your pain. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayer's.
Mark and Brenda Alaimo
Chris Kibbe
March 1, 2011
My deepest sympathy. I have fond memories of playing basketball with Tom at the old youth group at Somers Baptist. He was a great person, and I will miss him. "John 14:1-3"
Amy and Tom's Wedding day
Judy Edmunds
March 1, 2011
Our deepest condolences to all of the Berube and Anderson families, and especially to Amy and Isabelle. It was our privilege to get to know Tom and his family over the last 2 years as he and Amy visited often to plan their wedding here at our Inn. The love and joy that Tom and Amy always radiated was inspiring and infectious. It just made you feel good to be around them! It was always so evident that Tom’s deep love of Amy and Isabella and his extended family was the center of his life. Although he was taken far too soon, I hope that that the deep love you all shared with Tom will comfort you though this terrible time. Please remember that this love you shared together never dies, it is in all of you, as Tom is too. Forever in our hearts.
With Love, Judy, Alan, Tristan and Mark Edmunds
paul alaimo
March 1, 2011
Words fall so short ......feel the moments......feel the warmth of the sun......listen and feel it all.......tommy is there......and will always be there for you to love.
Matt Hermann
March 1, 2011
He was on the nicest people I worked with over the years. He was kind, friendly and always had a smile. I am sorry for your loss.
Kera Morissette
March 1, 2011
Amy,
I was just looking through your photos on Facebook last week and was struck by how happy and in love you and Tom are in your pictures. What a blessing to have experienced that kind of love in your life. I will be praying that God may bring you some sort of peace in the days to come. My deepest sympathies are with you, his daugher, and his entire family.
Lauren Gonzalez (Reger)
March 1, 2011
To the Berube Family, I am so so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. He was a wonderful person, we have a lot of fond memories of him with my grandfather, Papa, whom he was really special to. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lauren Reger
Alicia Hughes
March 1, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the Berube family. Tom was a wonderful friend and co-worker. I never once saw Tom without a smile and a witty comment to brighten everyones' day. He touched so many lives and will be fondly remembered and missed by us all.
Amiee Gemme
March 1, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember that beautiful smile of Tom's as we passed each other in the EWHS hallway. Tom was a amazing person and has touched the hearts and lives of so many. Anyone who he came in contact with became his friend. My heart and my prayers go out to all of his friends and family. Tom, you will be forever missed...God bless.
Amiee Gemme
March 1, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember that beautiful smile of Tom's as we passed each other in the EWHS hallway. Tom was a amazing person and has touched the hearts and lives of so many. Anyone who he came in contact with became his friend. My heart and my prayers go out to all of his friends and family. Tom, you will be forever missed...God bless.
Roxanne Genay
March 1, 2011
My deepest sympathies to Tom's family, Isabelle and Amy. He was taken way too soon. I will love Tom forever for making my friend Amy so happy and showing her how true a love can be. God bless you Tom.
Timothy Jamieson
March 1, 2011
To the Berube Family,
Just heard the very sad news about Tommy and wanted to let you know how sorry we are to hear of your loss. I recall a conversation from many years ago, where Tommy, at a very young age, approached me to offer his encouragement and prayers as my father was battling cancer. I'm sure this is just one example of his kind and thoughtful demeanor. We will keep you in our prayers during this very difficult time.
Debbie Foster
March 1, 2011
Jessica & Izzy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Hold onto the memories and they will get you through this difficult time.
Mary White
March 1, 2011
My deepest sympathy to Tom's family. Tom was a student of mine in eighth grade English. I can still remember his bubbly personality and great smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tammy Davis
February 28, 2011
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Lori and Pat
February 28, 2011
Tom was a wonderful man, our heartfelt condolences to Amy and all the family.
February 28, 2011
Our sincere sympathy to Tom's family. I only met Tom twice but liked him very much. A very warm and special person. He will always be with you in your thoughts and remember all the good times.
Rich Riberdy and Debbie Camp (Matt Vacon's Mom), Stafford, CT
Joan
February 28, 2011
For Amy & Isabelle, Perhaps a song was once written to explain such a loss as this...That same song should also express such a kind loving person as this...And through so many tears Remember... laughter also shared... Forever hold the many memories near to help guide you my Dear
SMSgt Douglas Margelony
February 28, 2011
Our prayers and sympathy go out to the entire Berube family from the airmen of the 103rd Civil Engineer Squadron.
Lee Keokoummane
February 28, 2011
Please accept my heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
Julie McCarthy
February 28, 2011
Amy I love you and know we have not been that close over the years, but I am here for u and still very much your best friend. I hope one day you can understand why God took Tom way too soon.You will always have a special angel looking down on you.Hold on to the love you guys shared. Some people searched their whole lifes for the love the two of you had. I love you Amy...
Robyn Malone
February 28, 2011
With sincere sympathy
Danielle Guevremont
February 28, 2011
We don't always understand why we lose the ones we love but God will give you the strength to get through this.My mom died way too young and I took each day at a time..one moment at a time.
Melissa Mayers
February 28, 2011
I havent seen Tom in years. I remember him as a very kind person. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Eugena Green (EHMS)
February 28, 2011
Ken, Jr., (Betsy) & family:
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I am praying for you!
Jennifer Jobin-Perkins
February 28, 2011
To Tom's family and Jess: There are no words to lessen the pain you are feeling at this moment. May the lord give you superior strength to navigate during your time of loss and sorrow. To Tom: While we are devastated by your loss, Heaven has gained an impeccable angel. May you soar up above freely with your new family of angles. May you be on Izzy's shoulder to guide,love her, and show her the way in life, just as you would here on earth. You will never be forgotten, and we will hold our memories we have of you so very near and dear to our hearts.
Kevin Dubay
February 28, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss and your entire family is in my prayers. Two verses helped me in the time my mom passed away and I pray they can help comfort you in your time of loss, Matthew 5:4 and Matthew 11: 28-30.
Jack Moriarty
February 28, 2011
Although I have never met Tom, I was told by my family in Vermont that Tom was an exceptionally great person whom everyone who had contact with him loved him instantly. May God Bless
Huguette Alaimo
February 28, 2011
To Tom's Family: You are in my thoughts and my prayers I am so sorry for your loss, May God Bless you.
Rachel Remillard-Bamber
February 28, 2011
Deepest sympathy to Tom's entire family especailly Amy who lost her husband way too soon. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
RITA BLACK
February 28, 2011
To the Berube family, we extend our condolences and prayers to you. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Rita Black and Yvonne Chance
Webster Bank
Drew Blanchette
February 28, 2011
I just recently got to meet Tom when I was hired at Liberty Mutual Insurance in 2009. He was a great coworker, and a great guy all around. He will be missed by everyone. I give my my deepest sympathies and prayers to Tom's family.
Deb Jarzabek
February 28, 2011
My heartfelt prayers go out to The Thomas Berube Family and friends. May God grace you through this time with His comfort, mercy and peace. You all are in my prayers.
Courtney Peltz
February 28, 2011
Sending prayers to the family. Amy, I love you dearly and pray for you and your family. I pray that Tom's memories will help you through this time. The Peltz Family
Joe Kutniewski III
February 28, 2011
Taken way too soon....
February 28, 2011
TO TOM'S FAMILY- MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY. I ONLY KNEW TOM AS A TEENAGER- A FRIEND OF MY SONS- BUT I DO REMEMBER WHAT A GREAT KID HE WAS. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, I KNOW HE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY. JILLE PATTERSON (LIVERPOOL, NY)
The Staff at Ladd-Turkington & Carmon Funeral Home
February 28, 2011
With sincere sympathy during this difficul time.
Brian & Kathy Brennan
February 28, 2011
Kenny and Jamie, our deepest sympathy goes out to you. We were so very sad to hear of your loss and we know there is nothing we can say to lessen the pain but we will pray that God gives you strength to get through this difficult time.
Sheri Motola
February 28, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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