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for Joel Obermeier
Maureen Manning (Krueger)
May 4, 2007
Oh my Sir Harry! I was shocked and saddened to hear of Joel's death. Please know that his family will be in my prayers. Such a gentle and kind man had to leave this life so soon. I will never forget you and the fun we had in "Once Upon a Mattress."
Jenine Jaspal
April 26, 2007
My cousin, Joel, has always had a special place in my heart. Four years older and a whole lot cooler than his little country cousin, he always made time to be with me, teaching me to play ping-pong and pool when I had to stand on a chair or stool to get over the table. We shared a love of music and performing and he and Cheryl allowed me to share in their wedding day as their pianist. Joel and I snuck around for weeks working on his surprise love song for Cheryl and were so excited to pull it off. I guess the best description of Joel I can think of is that he was a true child of God. Only one other person in my life has shown me the amazing grace of Jesus Christ in such a profound way and that was my mother. Now she and Joel are walking together in the presence of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ and I have two guardian angels watching over me.
Dimitri Kamolov
April 26, 2007
Dear
family and friends of Joel,
I was deaply saddened to hear our brother in Christ had passed. Joel
and I were classmates at St. B's and fellow actors in the school plays.
We had many good memories from the days of no worries. Today, as an
adult, life can be perceived much differently. I pray that Joel's
family and friends remember the lessons Jesus has taught us. My sincere
thoughts and prayers are with you all. It is true Joel always had a
smile or smerk on his face, even as a child. May God welcome you into
his home my friend.
Brad Weber
April 25, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Obermeier family, his wife and daughters during this very very difficult time.
I remember Joel was a year ahead of me at St. Bernadette's and at St. B's the spring musical we put on directed by Mrs. Larusso was one of the biggest things in our and our families lives at that time. Joel was the big 8th grade leading man with style and grace starring as big "Frank Butler" in "Annie Get Your Gun" who all the girls had a crush on. I was a little 7th grader trying out and performing onstage for the very first time. I was so nervous I could barely step onstage. I think I spent more time in the bathroom than onstage that first year. But watching Joel sing and act gave me something to aim for, a high bar to set when it came to performing. Knowing I was a little uneasy Joel would come over by me an lend a comforting word, assuring me everything would be OK. I knew it would be especially if Joel said so!
I played "Captain Von Trapp" in "The Sound of Music" the following year as the big 8th grader, knowing that I had to live up to the last leading man Joel Obermeier the previous year. He inspired, gave hope and was there in a time of need no matter how big or small. I realized I could never be Joel, but than again who could, but he helped me realize it's OK just to be you and do the best that you can do!
I now live in Los Angeles, CA have acted on stage, television and completed an independent feature film in 2005 called "Dare to Dream - The Alan Kulwicki Story" playing the lead Alan Kulwicki. If it wasn't for those early words of encouragement from Joel who knows what direction I would have taken?
I remember our families getting together and swimming at the Obermeiers and taking those long basketball trips to Dousman and Oconomowoc to play grade school basketball. All things I always looked forward to and enjoyed.
Joel is someone I always looked up to and admired.
He will forever be with us! God Bless this friend of mine! Thank you Buddy!
Karen Natalizio
April 25, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to Cheryl, Chloe, and Leah. Joel was a kind, wonderful person who will be missed by all that knew him.
BRYANT&MARI RAE WEBER
April 25, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
JOANNE RETZLAFF-ECKMAN
April 25, 2007
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR THE OBERMEIER FAMILY. JOEL WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON WHO BRIGHTENED EVERYONES LIVES. I WENT TO MESSMER WITH JOEL, AND HE WAS A GOOD FRIEND AND WILL BE MISSED.
Paul and Bernice Buttitta
April 24, 2007
It is with deep sadness that we send our sympathy to the Obermeier family on the passing of Joel. We remember him as part of our student family, otherwise known as "our extended family" at St. Bernadette School. Our prayers are with you.
Sharon Miksic
April 24, 2007
Steve and I, Dee and Jessica are deeply saddened by Joel's passing. He was a wonderful, kind-hearted man who we enjoyed having as a neighbor. I remember talking with him shortly after he was diagnosed and was struck by his resolve and feeling of peace, that he was prepared for whatever God had planned for him. On that blustery day in October, standing on Bayview Rd., Joel provided such strength and comfort to me, when I was the one who should have been providing it to him. Cheryl, Chloe and Leah, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Joel will be greatly missed but never forgotten.
Tony MacCudden
April 24, 2007
To the entire Obermeir Family I would like to express my deepest sympathy. Joel will be missed by so many people like myself. I am grateful for the chance to have reconnected with him a few years ago. His wisdom was far beyond his years and his journey over the past 2 years is inspiring beyond words. He taught us all that God's Grace is sufficient. I know we will see him again. It is that HOPE that I pray will be with all of you every day. It was an honor to be his friend. God Bless.
Countrywide Home Loans Regional Office 16
April 24, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Bradley Thompson
April 24, 2007
When I heard of Joel's passing I expected it to be front-page news. The real stars are the ones that we get to have as incredible friends, loved ones, and family members. Joel was one of the greatest men his loved ones will ever get a chance to know here on earth. Unless you had a chance to know Joel it is impossible to explain how sweet, charming, enthusiastic, and funny he was. Those of us who knew Joel are all very fortunate. He was a living demonstration of a man of faith. He never wavered on his love for his lord and savior Jesus Christ. He had such a strong foundation that he was prepared to handle his situation with tremendous dignity and joy. His humor, happiness, and appreciation never ceased. I can only hope and pray that some day I could be as strong as Joel has been. Please continue to pray for Joel's loving wife Cheryl and their daughters Chloe and Leah and the rest of his family and friends.
Michael Warwick
April 24, 2007
I had the privilege of knowing Joel and his family during my child-hood years. My deepest sympathies to Lynn and the entire Obermeier family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Christine Crowe (Hess)
April 24, 2007
Cheryl,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
The Crowe Family
Lina Cicero
April 23, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Obermeier family. It was such a pleasure working with Joel at Meridian Capital Bank. In addition to our business successes, we had so many fun times, including the COA Celebrity golf outing at Grand Geneva when we golfed with Moose Haas. The picture of our foursome with Moose is displayed in my office today and will always have special meaning for me. My husband, Sandy, and I have kept Joel in our prayers. Our prayers and thoughts are also with Cheryl and the girls and the entire Obermeier family.
Barb & Dick Natalizio
April 23, 2007
Dear Cheryl,
There are no words to take away the pain and sorrow you and your beautiful daughters are feeling today.
Although we can't visit with you now, we want you to know the sadness we have in our hearts for the loss of your dear Joel.
He was a great guy. An inspiration to all who had the pleasure of knowing him.
We will always remember the times we saw you both having dinner together enjoying each others company.
Our deepest & sincere sympathy to you and your entire family.
Love,
Barbara Reiter- Ghaleb
April 23, 2007
I was saddened to hear of the passing of our Joel. I went to St. Bernadette with his brother, Richard. I will keep the family in my prayers at this time of sorrow. God Bless.
Lisa Simerson
April 23, 2007
I had the privilege of knowing Joel through my home church in Brookfield. I no longer live there and have not seen him in many years but what a lasting impression he could make. I remember Joel as a fun-loving, awesome guy who always had a smile on his face. God does not make them any better than Joel. To the Obermeier family, you will see him again and he will have that same big beautiful smile. May God bless & comfort you now with wonderful memories of Joel and his life.
LeAnn Krumhus(Dix)
April 23, 2007
There are not enough words to describe what a wonderful, caring person Joel was. His smile lit up the room. His energy for life was contagious. We were deeply sadded to hear of the passing of such and inspirational man. Our thoughts and prayers go out to everyone that was fortunate enough to be a part of Joel's life.
Julie (Turriff) Rector
April 23, 2007
When I first heard the news that Joel was sick, it hurt me very deeply. I simply could not get him out of my mind. At the time, Messmer's class of '84 was nearing the age of 40. I had never admitted to getting older but guess what, we are getting older and the wrinkles and the flab and all that wonderfulness that I had been fretting over was happening. Shame on me for wishing it wasn't. Now we are nearing the doorstep of 41 and we are alive and well and have time to spend with our children and families. Joel did not make it to 41. I know because I have never forgotten his birthday. If there is one thing that we can take from learning that Joel has passed away so early, it's the appreciation of one more day, perhaps one more year or one more reunion we can spend with friends. God bless you, Joel, for reminding me of the real importance of life!
Russell & Sherry Poniewaz
April 23, 2007
My family is greatly saddened to here of Joel’s untimely passing. We have had a share of this in our family recently as well and know the sorrow that comes with losing a family member at an early age. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Obermeier family and to those who knew Joel.
Nancy Owen
April 23, 2007
Sincere condolences to you all.
We will always remember Joel as the charming, good looking young man from St. Bernadette's School who was liked by everyone!
Sincerely,
Greg and Nancy Owen
Ray Dewalt
April 23, 2007
I have known Joel since the 7th grade and sadden by this news. Joel will be in a good place.
The Dewalt Family (Ray & Monica,Mina(Daughter),Ray III Dewalt
Deborah Wade-Smith
April 23, 2007
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the Obermier family. I haven't seen Joel since our days at Messmer, he called me mom and I called him my son. Joel was such a wonderful and loving person. He is with his creator now, no more suffering or pain which is a blessing. God showed mercy on his child and he is home with the Lord.
Michael & Becky Murray
April 22, 2007
We would like the entire Obermeier family to know how lucky we feel to have known Joel. You will often be remembered in our prayers.
Nancy Oman (Zanon)
April 22, 2007
I would like to express my heartfelt sympathy to Joel's family at this time of loss. Joel will always be remembered as having a smile on his face and loving life to the fullest. I went to high school with Joel and saw him only a few brief times after that, but he always left such a happy, fun feeling with each encounter. He just loved to make people laugh and will be greatly missed by many. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Linda Krajcik (Owen)
April 22, 2007
Joel will always be my Frank Butler (Annie Get Your Gun - St. B's). He has touched many lives and will never be forgotten. His family is in my thoughts and prayers. - Annie Oakley
John Hutchinson
April 22, 2007
I am very saddened to hear the news of Joel's passing. I do know that while this is very tough for all of us here on Earth, that Joel is being welcomed in Christ's arms right now. The first time I met Joel in 1990 he shared his faith with me, and how wonderful to know that it was so central in his life. My prayers to Cheryl and the rest of his family.
Connie Kelln
April 22, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Yvette Rodgers- Musial
April 22, 2007
I am very saddened by the news of Joel's passing. Though we had not seen eachother on a regular basis since him leaving Messmer High, in fact the last time I saw Joel was at the last class reunion, it was like no time had passed.... we picked up where we left off. I still remember being in the high school musicals with him, he had a rich and beautiful voice. I remember him in his football uniform ,but most of all I remember his funny, honest and sincere personality. To Joel's wife, children, family and friends.... though your loss is unmeasurable, Joel fought a long, hard and painful battle. He was a soldier in his own rite. His pain is now gone and he is about to begin the second part of his life. He will watch over you and keep you safe, he is always with you in your hearts and his presence will always be felt. He will wait for you with open arms and someday you will reunite. And as you can see from this letter he impacted so many lives in positive ways.... he will never be forgotten. My husband, my children and I will forever keep all of you in our prayers, hopefully emitting positve and strengthening energy.
Sandra Garbrecht
April 22, 2007
I was saddened to hear of the passing of our Dear friend Joel.
He and I attended school from kindergarten through High School and I have so many happy memories of him. He was a charming, warm and creative man. He will be greatly missed by all that knew him. Your family will continue to be in my prayers. God Bless you all.
Wendy Weldon
April 22, 2007
It is a true testimony of Joel's character that he valued and loved his family so much, that he battled on through his illness to have more time with them. Now that he is at rest, May his family find comfort and strength through the love of family, friends, happy memories and most importantly, faith. I have been keeping Joel's family in prayer for sometime and will continue throughout this difficult time. My deepest sympathies for the loss of Joel, your husband, father, son, brother, and dear friend. He will always be remembered in my heart as the charming boy I knew from 4th grade on. May God bless you, Joel and may He keep your family in His care.
John Wachniak
April 22, 2007
As a friend of Joel's from Messmer High School, I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My condolences to your entire family.
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