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Maye Crumm Obituary

Crumm, Maye Carter, age 92 of Parker, Colorado, died Thursday, March 17 at home. She was born March 7, 1913 to Dr. Jesse Taylor Carter and Mary Belle Pattison Carter in Bulls Gap, Tenn. She grew up on a family farm in Alfalfa, Okalahoma. She attended Weatherford College in Oklahoma and, received a Masters Degree in Education from W.S.U. She married Carl Woodrow Crumm on September 10, 1936 in Alfalfa, Ok. In the '40's, they moved to Kansas where Maye and Woodrow lived for 5 years. In 1947, they moved to Alamosa, Colorado for 2 years where Woodrow was a jeweler and Maye taught at the College. In 1953, the family moved back to Wichita where Maye became the Editor of the Beachcraft newspaper. Several years later, she accepted the position of Principal of Plainview High School in Wichita. She started Belle Carter School in 1958 and just a short 2 years later, in 1960, she purchased the Campbell Castle in Riverside to house her growing school. This castle thereafter became known as the Crumm Castle. Maye was the Head Mistress and Owner of the school until her retirement in 1989. She was a lifelong learner and scholar, whose poems earned her several national awards and were printed in several poetry books. In 2000, she moved from Wichita, Kansas to Parker, Colorado to live with her daughter Jennifer until her passing. Maye had two sisters, Neva Blanch Widener and Opal Pearl McGuire, both of which preceded her in death. Also preceded in death was her husband, Carl Woodrow Crumm Sr. and a great grandchild, Carl W. (Seth) Crumm IV. Survivors include two children, Jennifer, of Parker, Colorado: C.W. (Punny), of Larkspur, Colorado. Two grandchildren, Carl W. (Gebi) Crumm III of Castle Rock, Colorado; and, Christian Wulf, of Wichita, Kansas. Two great-grandchildren, Sara Marie and Caleb Wulf, of Wichita, Kansas. Memorial services and Internment will be held at Resthaven Mortuary in Wichita, Kansas on Wednesday, March 23, 2005 at 1:00 pm

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Mar. 20 to Mar. 22, 2005.

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Cindy (Williams) Opat

March 24, 2005

To the family of Maye Crumm: I am deeply saddened to hear of her passing. She was a very important person in my life as a young girl. She taught me confidence and helped to raise my self esteem. My memories at Crumm Castle are among the best memories of my adolescent years. I even have a painting of Crumm Castle in my home, and I will always think of her and her family when I look at it.



To Carl (Gebi), my sympathies to you especially, my friend. Please remember all the good times. Your grandmother was a very special lady; I am so glad to have known her, and through her, you.

Roxie Powell

March 24, 2005

Jennifer, Gebi and entire family;



Maye touched so many lives and we are better for having known her. My sister, Cindy, and I attended Belle Carter the 71-72 school year. Maye was nonjudgmental of any child that passed through her door and, only saw the potential of each child. She was ahead of her time-a true innovator. She was practicing "No Child Left Behind" long before the thought entered the political arena. She instilled in us that we could do or become whatever we wanted and when we thought we had done our best, she would remind us, that we could always do better if we tried!!



She loved and was very proud of you all. She spoke of you often. In addition, Gebi was the only child allowed to kick a ball in the Castle!! Though, She did have to make a few repairs afterwards.



Please, know my thoughts are with you. And, further know, She will always be in our hearts and minds.

Teresa (Teter) Vinson

March 23, 2005

Carl, Just wanted to take a moment to tell you how sad we all are at the loss of Maye. She was a pilar of the community and always managed to keep me in line. Though she has not been in Wichita for a while, we will miss her legacy. Warm hugs going your way. T

Karmen Schuckman Monahan

March 23, 2005

Carl,(Gebi) I am so sorry for your loss. Your grandmother was a very special lady. I have many fun and happy memories from our school days. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



Karmen Schuckman Monahan

Cynde Toland

March 22, 2005

Jennifer, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always have fond memories of your mother and you. I will never forget you and your mother. Cynde (Ballard) Toland

Suzanne Morgan

March 22, 2005

I want to express my sympathy to Jennifer and her family. I am so sorry for your loss. Your mother was a very special person and will be missed.

Ruth Allan Blue

March 22, 2005

To Carl (Gebi) & all the family, My sympathies to you for the loss of Maye. Though it has been a long time, she had a lasting effect on my life and I appreciate her for that. I've thought of our youthful adventures there often as I passed by the castle when back in town. Carl, I'd enjoy catching up someday if you'd like. Best to you always, Ruth

Patsy Allan Hunter

March 21, 2005

Hi Gebe, It's Ruth's Mom. Ruth forwarded the obit for your Grandmother. Brought back many happy memories of an earlier time in Wichita. My sympathies to you and your family at this difficult time. Your Grandmother leaves a legacy your whole family can be proud. She was definitely one of the good people on this earth. Take care. Fondly, Patsy Hunter

Jenny & Randy Bluml

March 21, 2005

Jennifer, Randy and I are so sorry for your loss. I truly enjoyed meeting Maye, she was a wonderful, sweet person. Our hearts are with you and your family.

Claudia Ferris-Harper

March 20, 2005

To Gebi and family: I am very sorry for your loss. Mrs. Crumm was a very classy lady and I have thought often of her and the good times had at Crumm Castle. She did some wonderful things for Wichita and it's youth.

Brett Walling

March 20, 2005

Thank You Mrs. Crumm for your dedication and service to the young people of Wichita, myself included.

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