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Bette Physioc Obituary

Bette Physioc April 12, 1926 - March 31, 2020 Bette Physioc, age 93, passed away peacefully and gracefully on March 31, 2020 in Overland Park, Kansas. Bette was surrounded by the love of her family, near and far. Bette grew up the only child of Cecile and Howard Krone in Ridgewood, New Jersey. After college, she worked at the renowned advertising agency, McCann-Erickson, where she was one of the youngest female art buyers in New York City. She had the time of her life working in Manhattan. In 1951 she married Wray B. Physioc and a few years later they moved to Peapack Gladstone, New Jersey where they began raising their family before moving to Merriam, Kansas in 1961. Everyone who knew Bette would say she was the most wonderful mother; a bright, vivacious and generous woman with a keen sense of style and a keener sense of humor. Honest and humble. Creative and clever. Interesting and interested.Known for her big smile and great attitude. She loved family, friends, food, books and travel. If you said, "Hey, you want to go" she'd always answer "yes!". She had a full, remarkable life, but it was not always easy. At those times she would say, "Let go and let God" and then she would move on with a light heart. Bette reinvented herself after her children were grown. She lived on her own from 1986, having many jobs, interests and activities. A few of her favorite jobs were: an assistant teacher at Bishop Miege High School, a saleswoman at her beloved Hall's on the Plaza and as the consummate hostess and social director at Mountain Lakes Resort in Florida. No one, and this is fact, could write a more poignant note or be more sincere in compliments and critiques. She was gifted. She was a gift. Left to carry on the spirit of Bette are all five of her children Cathe Physioc McMillen (Craig), Bart Physioc (Dawn), Steve Physioc (Stacey) Beth Physioc Armbruster (Steve), Andy Physioc (Teri) and her 12 grandchildren and her 9 great-grandchildren. A family reunion is planned to celebrate Bette's life (she would hate to miss this party). In honor of Bette Physioc, the family asks that donations be made in her name to Great Lakes Caring Hospice at http://www.greatlakescaringhospicefoundation.org/

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Published by Kansas City Star on Apr. 5, 2020.

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Pam Leydon

January 2, 2021

My mother adored Bette. They were great friends for a long time. They were very much alike, artistically and temperamentally. It was a difficult road to be so inclined in the decades they inhabited. I am so sorry for your loss. I can see the two Bette/Bettys in heaven, enjoying each other's company.

MARSHA QUINN

April 12, 2020

Bette was always one of my favorite people in my life! She ALWAYS had a smile for you! And, if you asked for it, she had good, practical advice for you. She was a treasure and, yes, a gift to all that knew her! Bette, we all will miss you!
Love you, Bette!

April 12, 2020

Bette was always one of my favorite people in my life. She always had a smile for you! Or if you asked for it, some good practical advice for you. She was a treasure and, yes, a gift to us all who knew her! Goodbye, Bette! We all love you!

Walt Flynn

April 6, 2020

Bette Physioc, was one of the most, if not the most, warm and uplifting persons Ive ever known. My childhood memories are filled with gratitude for having known her and her family as a child. One could not help feeling optimistic in her presence.

Maura Houston

April 5, 2020

Dear Physioc Family,
The Houston family sends their love. Our mom, Helena, and Bette had such a great friendship. Mom (Rog) shared so many stories and giggles with Bette. We are so pleased that Bette was in mom's life. She will be missed. But her smile will light the stars. Love and prayers, Maura, Jamie, Briana Houston.

Patrice Ludwig

April 5, 2020

Bette is on my short list of favorite people in the world. I met her when I was teaching at Miege 40 years ago, and I can still vividly remember her infectious laugh, her positive outlook, and her unmatched love of people--and life. Her obituary was spot on about all that was wonderful about Bette. She was both a mother figure and a friend; she looked for--and found--the best in everyone. She will be missed but never forgotten. I am forever grateful to have known her.

Joan Benson

April 5, 2020

I am so sorry for the loss of Bette. My Dad came to the same Memory Care in January and was lucky enough to be seated by your Mom at meals. I had the pleasure of eating with them a few times. Bette was so observant and had things all figured out. She spoke of all of her children and loved you all so much. Such a sweet spirit and dressed up and lipstick on for dinner. May you all find peace during this difficult time and relish in the memory of her.

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