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August 19, 1915 - January 23, 2004 Helen Marie Hocker was born August 19, 1915, the first child of Jesse Benjamin and Anna Shipley Hocker, near Archie, MO, in Cass County. She attended rural Oak Grove School and Jr. and Senior High School at the Training School in Warrensburg, MO. Ms. Hocker completed a Bachelor of Science in Education degree from Central Missouri State in 1937. She continued her education and received a Master of Arts degree in 1943, from North Colorado University. She continued her graduate studies at the University of Minnesota, the University of Oslo, Norway and the University of Southern California. Ms. Hocker was retired chairperson and Professor Emerita of the department of health, physical education and recreation at Washburn University, Topeka, KS. Over her 45+ years of professional experience, Helen had gained national prominence in the fields of education and health. For numerous years, she had served many Topeka community organizations in leadership roles including the YMCA, Topeka Recreation Commission, Topeka Welfare Planning Council and the Topeka Intercultural Council. In 1982, the Helen Hocker Performing Arts Center in Topeka was dedicated in recognition of her many contributions over the years. In 1997, she was honored by Central Missouri State as a Distinguished Alumna. She began her educational career in Knob Noster High School, Knob Noster, MO, and also taught at Holton High School, Holton, KS, and in the Topeka public School district before joining the faculty at Washburn University. In 1951, she received a Fulbright grant to teach in the Netherlands. In addition to her work in the Topeka community, Helen had been involved in a variety of state, regional and national concerns and organizations. She had served as a member of the International Council for Health, Physical Education and Recreation, the American Association of University Professors, as well as numerous other organizations. She was past president of the Kansas Association for Health, Physical Education and Recreation. Her professional memberships included: AAUW, Blue Key National Honor Fraternity, Cheley Foundation, Delta Kappa Gamma, Golden City Forum, Helen Hocker Center for Performing Arts, International Center of Topeka, Inc., Kansas Retired Teacher's Association, Topeka Civic Theatre Academy, Topeka Parks & Recreation, Topeka Symphony, YMCA, Zonta Club of Topeka. She retired from her position as Professor at Washburn University in 1981. Since that time, she remained very active in many organizations until her health would not permit it. Since a stroke in August 2000, she had been in recovery at Brewster Place. She is survived by cousins and a host of friends. On February 20, 2001, the Topeka Symphony Board voted unanimously to confer her to Honorary Board Member Status for her service to the orchestra. On June 16, 2003, she received her last public service honor by the Topeka Parks and Recreation. A funeral service will be 10 a.m. Tuesday, January 27, 2004, at the Klasse Chapel at First United Methodist Church. A graveside service will be 3 p.m. Tuesday at the Sharon Cemetery near Drexel, MO. Ms. Hocker's body will lie in state from 1-9 p.m. Monday at Penwell-Gabel Mid Town Chapel. The family will receive friends one half hour prior to service time in the celebration room at First United Methodist Church. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Hocker-Shipley Scholarship, Washburn University, Topeka, KS, or the Hocker-Shipley Scholarship, Central Missouri State University Foundation, Smiser Alumni Center, Warrensburg, MO 64093-5226.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Jan. 26, 2004.

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Susan & Jerry Farley

January 27, 2004

Helen Hocker was a legend for Washburn University. She developed our health, physical education, and recreation department and fostered health and wellness programs throughout the world – from our own city’s parks and recreation department and the Helen Hocker theater to the Camp Cheley Foundation Board in Colorado to the national conferences she hosted to her Fullbright studies abroad.



She, along with Jan Nuzman, fostered the start-up of our women’s sports teams after Title IX was enacted, was instrumental in forming a strong faculty and coaching staff, including her influence in hiring Coach Bob Chipman.



One of Helen’s outstanding characteristics was her sensitivity and understanding of the plight and needs of others, especially those who worked for her or were her majors. Shortly after the tornado, her staff had 9 desks lined up in gym south, 8 part time with small children. They became known as “Helen’s girls” and were the heart and soul of the women’s physical education and athletic department under Helen’s guidance. As Patty Dick said, the Physical Education Department was a family and Helen was the leader.



Helen’s leadership seem to make every organization stronger, just ask Zonta members, the Symphony Board, and the Parks Commission.



When we started work at Washburn in July 1997, our first official function was to welcome Zonta’s Georgia Neese Gray lecturer, and we sat with Helen and Virginia on the front row. The next week, she was in the president's office to solicit support for the International House. Soon thereafter, we were invited to welcome the daughter of her Bosnian friend to Topeka and Washburn, as Helen’s Yugo group had arranged for her Washburn education. Ada Morenkan is a senior and will graduate this year.



Helen was a force to be reckoned with. We understand

“one of the last buildings to be replaced after the 1966 tornado was the old Thomas gymnasium. Meanwhile Helen ran the women’s physical education program out of gym south, better known as the tin gym for 17 years. Finally John Henderson came to Helen and said “maybe we can just expand on gym South and not have to build a new building. Helen looked him in the eye and said in her most indignant voice, “Everyone else on this campus got a Cadillac and we will not settle on a Chevy. And that’s how Petro Allied Health Center came to be.”

Her state of excellence was perpetuated through hard work and perseverance. Once she believed in a project, “no” was not an option.



We were new kids on the block, but Helen and Virginia quickly adopted us into their family of friends. They supported so many Washburn and civic causes, and we enjoyed seeing them everywhere. Helen tried to see that her friends became our friends, and we were grateful.



We will miss Helen in so many ways and so many places – from convocation in the fall to the Strawberry breakfasts in the spring, but maybe most especially at the front row of our basketball games.



Institutionally, Washburn is a stronger place because of Helen’s contributions. So is our city. But from a personal standpoint, we will be forever grateful for the blessing of her support and friendship.

Judith A. Miller

January 27, 2004

As a lifelong Topekan and Washburn graduate, I have known Helen for many years. It was my privilege, more recently, to serve with her on the Parks & Recreation Advisory Board where she was a always a voice to be heard. A strong advocate for the environment, and for the future for Topeka Parks, Helen was an advocate for the continuing struggle to preserve and develop the beauty of the city and the area. I hope her voice will continue to speak out for beauty and for fairness.

Judith A. Miller

Houston, Tx

Kent Shipley

January 26, 2004

Our sympathy is with you and the family

FRANCINA M. DAVIS

January 25, 2004

HELEN WAS A GREAT PERSON AND HELPED ME MAKE TOPEKA MY HOME AFTER I MOVED THERE FROM THE NETHERLANDS. I HAVE FOND MEMORIES OF ALL THE PROJECTS WE WORKED ON TOGETHER IN OUR VARIOUS ORGANIZATIONS. SHE WILL BE MISSED. FRANCINE DAVIS AND TOM GIMSE

Michelle Hansford

January 25, 2004

Helen was and always will be a very special lady to me. I'll miss her terribly........ The sweetest and the most caring person you could ever meet.......... I"ll miss her

terribley.





MIchelle Hansford

Linda Allen

January 25, 2004

Working as secretary for The Heartland Health Conference is a wonderful memory in my life. Helen was wonderful to our family and so supportive during the births of our children. Jon, Linda, Mark & Eric Allen.

Ruth Taggart Barker

January 25, 2004

In loving memory to friends and family of Helen Hocker.Helen was a great influence on my life as my teacher and my years on the faculty of the Health, Physical Education and Recreation Dept. at Washburn University. Her memory as a leader, an educator, and life to community service will live in our hearts forever. Love,Ruth Taggart Barker Washburn faculty 1964-1978

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