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Susan & Jerry Farley
January 27, 2004
Helen Hocker was a legend for Washburn University. She developed our health, physical education, and recreation department and fostered health and wellness programs throughout the world – from our own city’s parks and recreation department and the Helen Hocker theater to the Camp Cheley Foundation Board in Colorado to the national conferences she hosted to her Fullbright studies abroad.
She, along with Jan Nuzman, fostered the start-up of our women’s sports teams after Title IX was enacted, was instrumental in forming a strong faculty and coaching staff, including her influence in hiring Coach Bob Chipman.
One of Helen’s outstanding characteristics was her sensitivity and understanding of the plight and needs of others, especially those who worked for her or were her majors. Shortly after the tornado, her staff had 9 desks lined up in gym south, 8 part time with small children. They became known as “Helen’s girls” and were the heart and soul of the women’s physical education and athletic department under Helen’s guidance. As Patty Dick said, the Physical Education Department was a family and Helen was the leader.
Helen’s leadership seem to make every organization stronger, just ask Zonta members, the Symphony Board, and the Parks Commission.
When we started work at Washburn in July 1997, our first official function was to welcome Zonta’s Georgia Neese Gray lecturer, and we sat with Helen and Virginia on the front row. The next week, she was in the president's office to solicit support for the International House. Soon thereafter, we were invited to welcome the daughter of her Bosnian friend to Topeka and Washburn, as Helen’s Yugo group had arranged for her Washburn education. Ada Morenkan is a senior and will graduate this year.
Helen was a force to be reckoned with. We understand
“one of the last buildings to be replaced after the 1966 tornado was the old Thomas gymnasium. Meanwhile Helen ran the women’s physical education program out of gym south, better known as the tin gym for 17 years. Finally John Henderson came to Helen and said “maybe we can just expand on gym South and not have to build a new building. Helen looked him in the eye and said in her most indignant voice, “Everyone else on this campus got a Cadillac and we will not settle on a Chevy. And that’s how Petro Allied Health Center came to be.”
Her state of excellence was perpetuated through hard work and perseverance. Once she believed in a project, “no” was not an option.
We were new kids on the block, but Helen and Virginia quickly adopted us into their family of friends. They supported so many Washburn and civic causes, and we enjoyed seeing them everywhere. Helen tried to see that her friends became our friends, and we were grateful.
We will miss Helen in so many ways and so many places – from convocation in the fall to the Strawberry breakfasts in the spring, but maybe most especially at the front row of our basketball games.
Institutionally, Washburn is a stronger place because of Helen’s contributions. So is our city. But from a personal standpoint, we will be forever grateful for the blessing of her support and friendship.
Judith A. Miller
January 27, 2004
As a lifelong Topekan and Washburn graduate, I have known Helen for many years. It was my privilege, more recently, to serve with her on the Parks & Recreation Advisory Board where she was a always a voice to be heard. A strong advocate for the environment, and for the future for Topeka Parks, Helen was an advocate for the continuing struggle to preserve and develop the beauty of the city and the area. I hope her voice will continue to speak out for beauty and for fairness.
Judith A. Miller
Houston, Tx
Kent Shipley
January 26, 2004
Our sympathy is with you and the family
FRANCINA M. DAVIS
January 25, 2004
HELEN WAS A GREAT PERSON AND HELPED ME MAKE TOPEKA MY HOME AFTER I MOVED THERE FROM THE NETHERLANDS. I HAVE FOND MEMORIES OF ALL THE PROJECTS WE WORKED ON TOGETHER IN OUR VARIOUS ORGANIZATIONS. SHE WILL BE MISSED. FRANCINE DAVIS AND TOM GIMSE
Michelle Hansford
January 25, 2004
Helen was and always will be a very special lady to me. I'll miss her terribly........ The sweetest and the most caring person you could ever meet.......... I"ll miss her
terribley.
MIchelle Hansford
Linda Allen
January 25, 2004
Working as secretary for The Heartland Health Conference is a wonderful memory in my life. Helen was wonderful to our family and so supportive during the births of our children. Jon, Linda, Mark & Eric Allen.
Ruth Taggart Barker
January 25, 2004
In loving memory to friends and family of Helen Hocker.Helen was a great influence on my life as my teacher and my years on the faculty of the Health, Physical Education and Recreation Dept. at Washburn University. Her memory as a leader, an educator, and life to community service will live in our hearts forever. Love,Ruth Taggart Barker Washburn faculty 1964-1978
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