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John Yoakum Obituary

John David Yoakum, 18, of Shawnee, KS went to be with the Lord, Friday, October 13, 2006. Funeral Services will be 2:00 p.m. Thursday, October 19, 2006, at the First Baptist Church of Shawnee with burial at Pleasant View Cemetery, Shawnee, KS. Visitation will be from 6:00 to 9:00 p.m, Wednesday at the Amos Family Chapel of Shawnee. John was born in Merriam, KS. He was a senior at Shawnee Mission North. He is survived by his parents David and Sue Yoakum of Shaweee, KS; two sisters, Lisa and Katie Yoakum of the home and a brother, Sam Yoakum of the home; Paternal grandparents, Edna Yoakum of Rayville, MO and Maternal Grandparents Oliver and Marjorie Williams of Emporia, KS. John loved his Jayhawks, his Yankees, his bulldog, his friends, his family, and his Lord. He will be missed. Condolences may be expressed at www.amosfamily.com (Arrangements: Amos Family Chapel of Shawnee 913-631-5566)

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Published by Kansas City Star on Oct. 17, 2006.

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Micheala Stone

October 27, 2006

David and Sue,
I cant thank you enough for bringing such a wonderful young man into this world. Myself and many others will never forget him. He was loved so much that words cannot ever describe it. Im so sorry for your loss. im always here for you and your family.

Melissa Freeman (Rezac)

October 24, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss and think of you often.

Karen Mingoia

October 23, 2006

Dear Yoakum Family, We are so sorry for the loss of your son and brother. You are in our prayers. Sincerely, The Mingoia Family

brooklyn hawkins

October 21, 2006

im really going to miss you a lot.

Nikki Barrera

October 19, 2006

Yoakum Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I remember when John Katie Sam And Lisa would come over and swim or play basketball with my dad and me. He made such an impact on peoples lives! He was so polite always had manners. he will be missed by me and lots of other friends and family.
my love is with your family

love .NIKKi.

Keri Chailland

October 19, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jason & Keri Chailland, Alanah Love, & Dylan Kissinger

Diane Hinton

October 19, 2006

There are no words that will ease your pain at a time like this. Always remember the good times.

Diane Hinton

Kara Broadfoot

October 19, 2006

The students, their families, and all who were touched by this tragedy have you and yours in their prayers. He did not die in vain, many of his classmates have already decided to walk a different path since John has died. He left suddenly but his presence and life touched many and will continue to do so. God bless you all.

ashlee mills

October 19, 2006

i did not know john personally but his locker was next to my brothers and my best friend. your family is in my prayers.

October 18, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

October 18, 2006

Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kristie Gillpatrick

October 18, 2006

I am so sorry for you loss. God Bless you.

Patsy Harmon

October 18, 2006

Words cannot express the deep sadness we are feeling for your family. Treasure each memory and keep them close to your hearts. With love & sympathy.
The Harmon Family

Kevin Thimmesch

October 18, 2006

Our deepest sympathies are with you in this time of loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Kevin, Denise and Lauren Thimmesch

Kathy Howard

October 18, 2006

Dear Yoakum Family: May God bless your family during this time of sorrow. Austin Brown's Grandma

Carol Reed

October 18, 2006

Dear Yoakum Family,
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Your loss is one that we cannot begin to imagine and we pray that the love and support of your friends and family will help you through this difficult time. We are here for you whenever you need us.

The Reed Family (Carol, Rob, Charlie, & Erin)

James,Joanne,Letitia,& Lynette Brooks

October 17, 2006

You are in our thoughts and prayers during this rough time. We know the wonderful memories you have of John and your strong faith in the Lord will provide comfort for you during this time.

Dorothy Douglas

October 17, 2006

My dear dear Susie - I am so sorry for your loss. May the good memories and love replace the loss and saddness you are experiencing. Peace, Joy and Love to you and your family. Dorothy Douglas

Elaine & Mike Hathaway

October 17, 2006

Sue & David,
I was very sad to hear about John.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you and the family. May your faith
help you through this difficult time.
With sympathy,

V. Hunter

October 17, 2006

We As The Hunter Family Feels Hurt About Your Son Passing. Our Prayers Are With You And Your Family.

Erin Rivers

October 17, 2006

Know that John touched many lives and he will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Janice Sidelnik

October 17, 2006

My thoughts are with you all. May the cherished memories heal your hearts.

Dawn O'Malley

October 17, 2006

If our thoughts are prayers, then mine have been for you. May the peace and love of God surround you, carry you through life and lift the veil of grief when time. May you relearn to live as John did - with zest, zeal, passion and abundance. In only a short time John and my daughter became close friends. Our door and home was always open for him. I remember the night he came over and the heart-to-heart John and I had as he sat in the overstuffed chair, sipping water and petting the dog. As he spoke with clarity and firmness, I saw his great human potential, compassion and focus. After our long chat, he was always in my thoughts and remains there. He is a blessing. As my daughter said,"God, I love that guy. When you are with John you always have fun." He put many smiles on faces and even with our memories he still does.

Amy Burke

October 17, 2006

May God Bless you with beautiful memories that give you strength at this difficult time. Our deepest sympathies. The Burke Family

Ben Keech

October 17, 2006

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Tom Visker

October 17, 2006

I remember John’s enthusiasm and playfulness as a Cub Scout…..his individuality as a young adult. Our hearts and prayers go out to your family. May Heavenly Father comfort you in all your needs.

Tom, Sharon, Chris and Michael

The Martiny Family

October 17, 2006

Dear Yoakum Family,
Please know that the thoughts and prayers of the entire community are with you now. May you find comfort in each other, and peace in God.

Penny Wright

October 17, 2006

Dear Yoakum Family, Our family is so sorry for your lose. We can not even imagine what you all are going through. John was an outstanding young man, we had the pleasure of seeing him just a few weeks ago. We will miss him terribly. Our thought and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Penny, Phil and Jack Wright

Chirl Nachbar

October 17, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Bill and Darla Rowe

October 17, 2006

Our words don't heal the pain that has touched your hearts, but know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Our sympathy to your family.

Tricia Miller

October 17, 2006

Words can't even express how sorry that we are. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Mrs. Hiebert

October 17, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

George Sallas

October 17, 2006

May his memory be eternal.

Mike and Pam Renner

October 17, 2006

We can only imagine your sorrow. May God tend to your broken hearts and provide comfort through the support of loving friends and family.
Mike and Pam Renner

Mary Smith

October 17, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Charles Cannon

October 17, 2006

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

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