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Kelly Dale Pinkham

1951 - 2019

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Kelly Pinkham Obituary

Kelly Dale Pinkham, 68, of Prairie Village, Kansas, passed away November 16, 2019, after a brief battle with cancer, surrounded by his family. Kelly is survived by his wife of 34 years, Kathleen Hake Pinkham, his mother, Shirley Pinkham Cunningham, his stepdaughter, Olivia Riscoe Riscovallez, her husband, Jerome Riscovallez, and their children, Ethan, Amelia and Stella, all of Prairie Village and his brothers, Chris (Nancy) Pinkham and Mitch (Mary) Pinkham and sister, Lori Pinkham Donnelly, and her children, Kevin and Madison Donnelly. Kelly was born July 25, 1951, in Wichita, Kansas, to Virgil (V.E.), deceased, and Shirley Pinkham. Kelly graduated from Wichita North High School, Wichita State University and the University of Missouri - Kansas City. Kelly enjoyed careers in a variety of pursuits, including logistics, finance and academia. Kelly was passionate about all of them. He will be remembered for his sense of humor and inquisitiveness about everything. He was a man of adventure and loved traveling and new experiences. He was a wine connoisseur and loved good food (but hold the garlic, peppers and onions, please!). He loved his Manhattan and his Red Dubonnet cocktail, often going to the bar to guide the bartender in making it correctly. Kelly loved music and books and had a huge personal library of music and reading material. Kelly was a warrior for social justice with a keen intellect and tremendous sense of humor. Kelly had an endearing nature and made friends wherever he went, whether in his work life, the golf course or just out to dinner in a new city. He could make connections with people and had a way of making everyone feel special. Kelly was intensely proud of his grandchildren, telling his friends stories about their accomplishments with a broad smile on his face. He loved spending time with them and Kathy, Olivia and Jerome. A celebration of Kelly's life will be held on Saturday, December 7, 2019, at the Unity Temple on the Plaza 707 West 47th Street, Kansas City, Missouri. Visitation at 2, Service at 3, followed by a Reception at Unity. Memorials to cancerresearch.org and KKFI Community Radio. To leave sentiments, cremationcenterkc.com.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Nov. 23, 2019.

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February 19, 2020

Kathy, I am so sad to just now hear this. I hope you have Peace and Comfort and know how much you are loved.
Caryn &Robert Hastings

Christina Luhn

February 12, 2020

Just learned of Kelly's passing. What a great friend in graduate school and after. Loved hearing stories of his grandkids. He will be missed. We are all better for knowing him. Sincere condolences.

Susie Orr Prosser

January 11, 2020

Condolences to Kathy and family. I so enjoyed Kelly in high school and getting acquainted in KC through business. I'm sorry to have just learned of his passing and hope your memories give you peace.

John Kenagy

December 9, 2019

My condolences to Kelly's family and mother Shirley. I knew Kelly growing up in Wichita, and always thought very highly of him.

John Kenagy

December 9, 2019

My sincere condolences to Kelly's family on their loss.
I grew up with Kelly in Wichita, and we knew each other in Junior High and High School. He was a good friend and always gave of himself selflessly to others. I enjoyed knowing both his parents, and always received kind support from them throughout my friendship with Kelly. Rest in peace Kelly.
Warmly, John Kenagy
North High Grad - 1969

Yan Liang

December 6, 2019

We were so saddened by the passing of Kelly! He was a great friend and mentor to us. Being graduate students living away from family, we have received so much help and support from Kelly and Kathy. Kelly's warmth, generosity, kindness and wisdom will be deeply missed! - Yan and Eric

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Yan Liang

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Charles Davis

November 28, 2019

Love you Kelly and all your family.see you again someday.
Charles (Chuvk) Davis

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Pavlina Tcherneva

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Rosalyn & Richard McKeague

November 27, 2019

So thankful and fortunate to have shared so many memories with Kelly, our brother-in-law and friend. Kelly left this world with fond memories in the hearts of everyone who had the pleasure to know him. He will be dearly missed.

Special prayers and thoughts go to Kathy and her daughter, Olivia, son-in-law Jerome, and grandchildren, Ethan, Mia and Stella.

So sorrowful now, but will find peace in remembering the good times we shared as family.

Ros & Richard

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Zdravka Todorova

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Mat, Gail,Harris and Raymond Forstater

November 24, 2019

We were very sad to hear of the loss of Kelly. He was the first to welcome us to Kansas City, touring us around, giving a wonderful overview. His warmth, generosity and zest for life will stay with us, along with many memories. Sending our sincere condolences and love,

Tom Moreland

November 24, 2019

So sorry to hear this, I have so many memories of good times and good conversations with Kelly, he was a very special friend in our younger days. Thank you Kelly for the friendship.

Yvonne Jameson

November 23, 2019

Dear Kathy,
I was saddened to read of Kelly's passing. He was far too young to leave this life. I hope that happy memories of your 34 years together - can it really have been that long? - will bring you a measure of comfort in the days ahead.
Please know that your friends are keeping you in their thoughts.
Lovingly,
Yvonne

Friends in Palm Springs

Sheila & Jeffrey Truesdell

November 23, 2019

Jim and Sarah Dore

November 23, 2019

Kelly, we will miss you. Our trips were always the best, exploring everything. Modernism Week won't be the same. Grace and prayers ascending for Kathy and the family.

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Unity Temple on the Plaza

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Celebration of Life

3:00 p.m.

Unity Temple on the Plaza

707 West 47th Street, Kansas City, MO

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