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Hodge GAY Obituary

GAY Hodge J, 67, Greenville, SC, passed away Sat, Aug 29, 2010. He was born in Lexington, KY, the son of the late Hodge and Eliza B. Gay. He is survived by his wife, Patricia Gay; daughters, Rebecca Lynn Gay, Lexington, KY, Melanie Sue Kim; and son, Hodge Gay, Phoenix, AZ; a step son, Christopher Yoxtheimer of Summerville, SC; grandchildren, Harli and Hanna Gay and Brandi and David Yoxtheimer. He is also survived by a sister, Margaret L. Pearse, Lexington, KY. Hodge was employed by Super Barber Shop and the Greenville County Detention Center in Greenville, SC. A private memorial service will be held. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the American Cancer Society are appreciated. The family wishes to thank all friends for their thoughts and prayers.

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Published by Lexington Herald-Leader on Sep. 2, 2010.

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Harold Anderson

June 11, 2024

I knew Hodge Gay from Lafayette High School and later from Zandale Pharmacy from Lexington Ky. We were both younger but I know we both learned a lot as we got older. He was a very pleasant and had a fun personality. I am now In Indiana due to my health putting me closer to my daughter. I am seriously sorry to hear of his passing. Many years has passed so I didn't have the privilege of knowing in his later years but I have noticed many pleasant thoughts of him. He seems to been a very responsible and respected man. My condolences goes to all his family members. I am Harold Anderson class of 1962 Lafayette high school

Steve Roselle

May 11, 2024

Not sure if I have right Hodge, if wrong I sincerely apologize, says California , The Hodge I knew was from Dayton Ohio, drove by where I Way. Lo gas was other day.. of course thought of Hodge, pulled up and got this, always wanted to reconnect after all these years.. didn´t know of his passing 14 years ago... time slips by.. send note of good guy always thought a lot of him...Steve Roselle

Melanie Sue Gay Zapata

August 29, 2023

It's been 13 years since you had to leave this earth. I miss you everyday Dad. This world was a better place because you were in it and always a phone call away. This world is not the world you and mom once knew, back when it was good. I love you forever, your little girl, Melanie.

Melanie Sue Gay Zapata

August 25, 2022

It's been 11 years since your passing. I miss you so much. This worlds gone mad and it's definitely not the same world you knew my father my friend. More importantly, it's not the same world without you here with me. I'll always be Daddys little girl. And your my hero!

Melanie Gay Zapata

August 27, 2021

My Father touched the lives of all who knew him. Another year without him here on this earth. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him. I will always Daddys little girl.

melanie Zapata

August 25, 2020

It's been 10 years since my Father passed away. I miss him so much it hurts. I will hold his memory close and dear to my heart. This world is not the same without him here with us, honestly, he made this world a better place. I know he's watching over me and my brother. We love him and miss him.

melanie Zapata

August 25, 2020

My Father, I miss him everyday. Now it has been 10 years since his passing. I hold every memory close and very dear to my heart. I miss him so much it hurts. I know my Dad is watching over me and my brother Hodge.

Tony Franco

January 9, 2017

My best friend,miss him more every day.it has been 6 years and i think of him every day,best friend,kindest man and most devoted democrat and kentucky fan.

Melanie Sue Gay Kim

October 16, 2010

As he touched everyone's life with the person he was and we will always remember, we will fondly hold his memory in our hearts. May you rest in peace my father my friend, Your little girl, Melanie

Jody Parker

September 27, 2010

Loved talking college football with Hodge when I got my haircut. Always talking Kentucky and many of the upstart California teams. I will miss Hodge. My Condolences to the family

connie swatzell

September 11, 2010

rest in peace mr. gay.. my husband had his hair cut by him for the last 4 years and we was so saddened by the lost of this wonderfull and nice man who we was lucky to get to know.. rest in peace sir and our thoughts are with your wife and family

September 1, 2010

I am so sorry. Hodge was my barber for over ten years. I always enjoyed talking with him about horse racing and Lexington, sports of all kinds, and politics. He was a good Democrat, but not the kind who always attacked the other side. Such a warm, kind, friendly man. I will miss him a lot. --Bing Somers, Greenville

nancy Mills

August 31, 2010

I offer my sympathy and prayers for Hodge and his family. I remember fondly getting the best crew cut in town from Hodge. I ran into him not long ago and was glad to see him. I know that the Lord is taking care of him.

Yours in Christ,
Nancy S. Mills

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