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Diane Hagan (Frey)
July 7, 2013
I only learned of Stephen's passing while searching for old friends online. Stephen and I worked together years ago, back in the late 70's in Tucson. He was a remarkable young man, I have always remembered him with fondness. My prayers are with all of you, Stephen's family and friends. Warm memories. He was a very special person, I will never forget him.
Kristine Ragsdale Rice
October 3, 2011
Stephen and I worked together for over two years at TIAA. Despite is crunchy exterior, he was kind and well respected. He was always open and honest, and would forwarn me of things to come when no one else would. He will be missed.
Nell Baird
November 4, 2009
Betty Lou and Val. was so sorry to hear about Stephen, any child has to be a terrible loss. Just wish I knew the right words or the right thing to do to help you. You will be in our prayers. Nell Baird
Medford, Oregon
alta Blair
November 4, 2009
Betty Lou & Val Demarco. I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. I did not know Steve but I can only imagine how much he meant to the two of you. My sister lost her son Michael last year and has had a very difficult time getting over the loss, if she has gotten over it. Thank God for the good memories you have and know that you can look forward to seeing your son again. You are in my thought and prayers Alta Stone Blair
Michelle Clark
October 27, 2009
There’s still emptiness in the office without Stephen. His presence has truly been missed. I met Stephen when he joined TIAA-CREF in Charlotte NC and we both relocated around the same time to the Dallas TX office. We would often compare adjustments to the move and how things progressed in our personal lives. It goes without saying but Stephen gave his all, and then some, in all that he pursued. And although he often projected an intense, professional, strong-minded persona, there was another side of Stephen I often recall and appreciate to this day. I remember one evening we were both in the office late; he stopped by my desk, told me to stop what I was doing because he had something to show me … I did. We walked to the lakeside of the building and he pointed out a beautiful sunset…it was breathtaking. Other times he would share his artistic eye with me; pointing out the stillness of the lake, the impact of sunlight on a structure... As I reflect, Stephen reminded me how important it is to stop, breath, and appreciate things we too often take for granted.
Susan Ogle
October 26, 2009
I first met Stephen in July 2007 when he sat next to me as I took my first phone call at TIAA-CREF. He was patient, supportive, instructive, and laughed heartily when I told him the buttons moved, when I couldn't find something (of course they hadn't). For the next two years Stephen teased me "the buttons still haven't moved".
Stephen became my Peer Coach in February 2008. It was my first year as a manager in a financial services company. Anywhere there is a manager, there is someone who is the "wind beneath their wings" and Stephen was the wind beneath my wings. He shared everything he knew, provided guidance and hints & tips, and resources so that our team could help our clients as best as possible. He sacrificed his own performance achievements so that others could achieve theirs.
There's rarely a day that Stephen's name isn't mentioned by someone on the team. Every time I was scheduled to leave early (and I rarely left on time), Stephen would walk over to my cube, tap his finger on his watch, give me a look and say "Weren't you leaving at .....". Just the other day, I was scheduled to leave at 6:00 PM, Chester came over around 6:15 and said - "I'm going to be Stephen today - weren't you leaving at 6:00?" I can only imagine Stephen laughing from above.
It was an honor to meet Stephen's family back in August, he worshiped all of you. Stephen's priorities were God, Family, Golf, that gold Caddilac, and his job. I know how much I miss him, and pray that the tears you shed and the saddness of these days are soon replaced with smiles and laughter from the memories he's left in your hearts.
Paula Wertman
October 26, 2009
Dear DeMarco family,
I worked with Stephen for the past 2-1/2 years at TIAA-CREF. Stephen was a very unique person and was so interesting. He had a wealth of knowledge that he gladly shared with others. Stephen entertained us with his stories and there was never a dull moment whenever he was around. It is still hard to think that we will not see him around the office any more. It almost seems like he is on an "extended" vacation playing golf and playing poker somewhere. All of our lives were enriched by knowing Stephen. We know that you miss him so much. Please know that he loved his family very much and often spoke of you. We are all better for having known Stephen. May the Lord bless and keep you all during this sad time. Stephen will will always be with us in our hearts!
Bryck payne
October 21, 2009
For those of us who got to work with Steve from the beginning. Not seeing him is still an adjustment we are all dealing with. He will truely be missed.
larry graham
September 29, 2009
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. I worked with Steve for a couple of years. I knew him as a honest hard working individual with integrity and a zest for life. I will miss him.
Dance Show, Sept. 2003
Sherry Wakefield
September 15, 2009
Dear Betty Lou and Val,
I am saddened by the news of Steve's death. I spent six years with Steve, three of which we were married, and have good memories of our time together. He had a kind heart and was always willing to help anyone in need. He was always concerned with others. He would get up early after a snow and go to his grandmother's house to shovel her drive, then go to my grandparents in the country to take them groceries and shovel their drive-whatever he could do to make sure they were taken care of. He was always good to me and my kids and we all have fond memories of him.
We met dancing and continued that throughout our relationship and marriage. He was so proud when we were on TV dancing shows in the 90s when country dancing was so popular. He was a great dancer and was the happiest on the dance floor.
Steve was a caring person and everyone liked being around him. He was always smiling and made everyone smile too.
I feel sad for your loss and will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Sherry (DeMarco) Wakefield
PS I have more photos and a video of one of our TV dance shows - just let me know if you would like to have a copy.
The DeMarco Family on May 10, 2009
September 8, 2009
The DeMarco Family on May 10, 2009
September 8, 2009
September 8, 2009
Tina
September 4, 2009
We offer our deepest sympathy. When tragedy strikes and takes the life of our loved ones, many cry out with great sorrow. Your tears are not unnoticed by the Creator of Life. Never was it his purpose for our human lives to be taken away. Although your deep pain will not easily disappear, prayer to God will bring comfort to you as you grieve. The Bible assures us God "is healing the broken hearted ones, and is binding up their painful spot." Psalm 147:3
The Printy's
September 3, 2009
Betty Luo and Val,
There are no words. Just know we are thinking of you. If you need anything, you know we are right next door.
Our deepest sympathies,
August 31, 2009
Betty Lou and Family,
So sorry to hear about your son Stephen. Joan and some of the girls (nursing school) sent this message around. Know we have not kept up but wanted you to know that we care. My email is dnbaird66@ msn.com.
Nell (Applegate) Baird. Now living in Medford, OR.
Clifford Birdsong
August 30, 2009
Dear DeMarco Family ~ I never had the pleasure of meeting Stephen DeMarco, if he was any thing like his father he was a good man,I and his father grew up to gether he is one of my best friends, I think of him and his family every day and am so sorry for there loss.
JMK
August 30, 2009
To the DeMarco Family,
Steve was an unforgettable character at TIAA-CREF. When someone needed to step up -- Steve was there. When someone needed help -- Steve was there. When someone needed a laugh -- Steve was there. I can see Steve now -- driving down the streets of gold, in his Cadillac, wearing his ostrich skin boots. Go get 'em Steve!!
Stephen - Senior 1978
August 27, 2009
Doug Hawkins
August 27, 2009
We knew Steve through Primerica and always thought alot of him. We're sorry he's gone at such a young age and know he'll be terribly missed by those who knew him best.
Amy Zenizo
August 26, 2009
Dear DeMarco Family~
My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time. I am sorry for your loss.
Amy Zenizo
Tom Hisle
August 26, 2009
To the Demarco Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss, I have wonderful memories of Steve during and after high school.
August 26, 2009
Dear Anona & Family,
We were very sorry to learn of your loss.
Ron & Joann Featherston
Paul Skurda
August 25, 2009
Dear Anona and her family,
My deepest condolence for your loss...my thought and prayer are with you and your family during this difficult time.
August 25, 2009
To the DeMarco family
I was so stunned and saddened to hear of Steve's passing. I had not seen him for a long time but have nothing but the best of memories of him.
Steve and my daughter, Sandi, dated off and on throughout high school so he was in our home a lot. I remember lots of things like the dark green car, when he broke his leg in karate, the endless band practices, etc. When he worked at Frost Garden Center he brought me the most beautiful houseplant. When the movie Saturday Night Fever came out, Steve and Sandi spent a lot of time practicing their dance moves.
My favorite memory is of his laugh. It was so infectous. You couldn't hear him without wanting to join in.
Steve was always very good to Sandi and respectful to her family.
I actually saw some pictures of Steve recently when I was looking through old family albums. I still have their prom pictures. The most recent one is when he first got out of the army. He sure made a handsome man.
My heart goes out to you and I will keep your family in my prayers.
God Bless,
Faye Nuss
Joe Harkins
August 25, 2009
Dear DeMarco Family: I am so sorry for your loss. Steve was always a good friend and we shared so many childhood memories. He and the rest of your wonderful family will always have a special place in my life. He will be missed by us all.
Diane Green Higgins
August 25, 2009
So sorry for your loss. I went to school with Steve just saw him at our class reunion last year he was the same old Steve. He will be deeply missed. Diane Green Higgins
Uncle Stephen and kids on Easter 2009
Jessica & Hunter Gillis
August 24, 2009
Uncle Stephen,
We miss your laugh and tickles and know you are watching from Heaven. We love and miss you. Many kisses.
Judy Robinson
August 24, 2009
BettyLou, my apologies...I addressed you as "MaryLou"...had another friend on my mind.
Deepest sympathy,
Michele DeFilippo Hammack
August 24, 2009
To all of you- I am so sorry to have heard about Steve. I am thinking of you all and sending prayers. Take care- I love you all
Karen King
August 24, 2009
Val and BettyLou, So surprised to see the obituary in the Lexington Herald. I can say one thing the Stephen DeMarco sure loved his mama and daddy. Stephen and I have spent many evenings dancing our feet off and he truly was a great dancer and he enjoyed it so very much. I do not know the reason of the demise but regards....I know that he is dancing. You all have my deepest sympathy. Respectfully,
Judy Robinson
August 24, 2009
MaryLou, my deepest sympathy to you & your family. May you be comforted & reassured by our Lord's promise that he who knows Him will live eternally in His Presence. I will be praying for each of you as you move through this most difficult time.
Eddie Brinegar
August 24, 2009
Betty, Val, Anona and Jeff. We are shocked and deeply saddened by the news of Steve's sudden passing. Our love, thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family
Aliucha Tijero
August 24, 2009
Bettylou; I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I believe that any life lived and shared is a good life.
Martha Ramsay
August 24, 2009
BettyLou: May the love and prayers of friends and famiy help you through this terrible loss. We will remember you in our prayers.
John McGregor
August 24, 2009
Betty,
I am thinking of you.
August 24, 2009
"The life given us by nature is short,
but the memory of a well-spent life is
eternal." Cicero 106-43BC
Special love and prayers to Stephen's
Family -Linda Vaughan
August 24, 2009
Bettylou I am so sorry to hear about your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very hard time.
Mary Roussel
NCIC
Shelia Williams
August 24, 2009
I pray that God will give you peace and understanding in this difficult time.
Rick Carpenter
August 24, 2009
Val & Betty Lou,
We were so sorry to hear of Stephen's passing. Toni sends her love and concern from Colorado. Stephen was a great guy and I always enjoyed talking to him when he was spending time with you guys here in the neighborhood. Please let me know if you guys need anything that I could help with.
Bernie Hoffeld
August 24, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
"The Boys" Stephen, Jeffrey & Eric
August 23, 2009
Friday Night Football--Bryan Station Sr. High--October 2008
Shannon Huckaby
August 23, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Steve was such a joy to be around. He sure knew how to make me laugh! I am so happy that he was able to attend our 30 year class reunion last October. We all had such a great time! I will always cherish the memories.
Al Prather
August 23, 2009
Dear Val & family: Our family's prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of loss. The Good Lord needed his help now.
Ronald Saylor
August 23, 2009
Steve is my friend. We graduated from Bryan Station High School in June of 1978, the same time we went with our dates to the Rolling Stones "Some Girls" at Rupp Arena. We had our own rat pack with Aaron Sharp, Kevin Frank(1960-2004), Steve and me. I will always remember the great times at Houdini's and Circus disco where we worked. Yes, we considered ourselves disco kings. Funny now, but back then that's the way it was and it was awesome. I will always remember the Library Lounge and the parties with Anita Madden and that circle. The midnight movies at the Kentucky Theater were fun with Gimme Shelter and The Rocky Horror Picture Show being the best ones! One time at Bill Taylor's condo, Aaron, Steve and me dared Steve McQuire to eat a hot pepper. After he ate the pepper from hell, he begged for water, but instead we gave him vodka. Then we pretended to give him water from the kitchen faucet, yes it was vodka again. We fell to the floor with our ribs hurting from laughter. Sorry Steve. During spring break we drove down to Florida in his forest green Ford Pinto with Steve the driver, David Morris, Jeff Gerringer, and me. I know what in the hell were we thinking. We should have flown down like Cheryl, Debbie P., Autumn, Kim, Debbie G., and Breanda. Steve introduced me to Geno's grandfather of Geno's Formal Affair. This one time he told this old Italian man that I called him a bad name in Italian, so he chased me around the store yelling at me in Itlaian while everyone is laughing and it scared the hell out of me. Ha,ha, very funny Steve. I got to meet Steve's grandfather, too. A great and wonderful man from the old country. We were painting his grandfather's house and he offered us some of his home made dandelion wine. Well is was most uniqne, but appreciated. After prom night we got a room at the Catalina Hotel to hang out in. More people started showing up. I was afraid to get the room, so Steve went down got the room, but let me say I got it so I could look cool. Thanks Steve. I remember the time he took he on a 120 mph ride on his KZ 1000. I know crazy, but it was a rush! Steve got me a job at Frost Garden Center on New Circle. This one time I sprayed him with a high pressured water hose in his face and as I ran away from Steve, he threw a wooden stick at me that bounced off a pile of mulch and hit me on my head. Well he had to drive me down to St. Joseph Emergency room and I had my head shaved with 5 stitches. Mr. Frost was so mad at us. We never told him the truth( guess he knows now) and to this day that spot on my head has never grown back right. It sort of looks like a crop circle. Thanks Steve, but it's okay. You see, Steve had cool hair like a rock star. You know like Steve Perry of Journey. Later Steve joined the Army and I joined the Navy. Like everyone time takes it's toll in distance and other responsiblities we have. I know we sound like some wild and crazy guys and we were, but we were just boys waiting to mature and become men. Steve loves and respects his mother and father so much. His love for his brother Jeffery and sistet Anona is unparalleled. I will insure you that if anyone ever bother or hurt his siblings feelings they would regret it. Steve was very protective over them. Steve I could go on, but God doesn't allow that much time sometimes. I know you were a good friend on earth and that you will be a better angel in heaven. As a beleiver of Jesus Christ our lord and savior, I know you have true and everlasting peace. I lost my beautiful sister from cancer last month, but I know like your family and Kevin Frank that they will greet you at the gates of heaven. Please tell Kevin Frank I said hi. I will miss you now, but I will see you around. Your friend, Ronald.
D. Thompson
August 23, 2009
To The Family Of:
Stephen Jerome DeMarco
My deepest condolences and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. May God comfort you now, and in the days to come.
August 23, 2009
Both Janet and I were sad to hear of Stephen's passing. Our prayers are with you at this very sad time. Jan and Dick Martin
Eric Gillis
August 22, 2009
No better character I've found that I would be happier to call family...and he refused to call me an 'in-law'.
Fair Winds, Brother.
Billie Torres
August 22, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
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