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Donald David Cates

1959 - 2020

Donald David Cates obituary, 1959-2020, Bremerton, WA

BORN

1959

DIED

2020

Donald Cates Obituary

Donald David Cates

February 24, 1959 to September 17, 2020

Donald David Cates was born February 24, 1959, the 8th of 9 children born to Ben and Louise Cates. He passed on 17 September, 2020. He grew up in East Bremerton on Hemlock Street, in a house and a neighborhood full of noisy happy kids. His childhood was a time of outdoor play, animals that ran free and parents who called the children in from play when it was time for dinner. The Cates family all sat at the kitchen table for dinner.

Don went to Olympic View Elementary, George Dewey Junior High and East High School graduating in 1977. An athlete all his life Don played sports from pee-wee level through high school. In high school Don excelled as a member of the wrestling team, competing at the state level multiple times. In addition to organized sports he and his brothers, cousins and friends played countless games of football in the front yard, baseball in the street and basketball at the reservoir at Olympic View. As an adult Don took up bowling and golf and played in the shipyard league for a number of years and continued playing into retirement.

Don married in 1979 and in 1982 and 1985 children Nick and Brynn arrived respectively. A father actively involved in his children's upbringings he coached sports teams and was a mentor to both his kids. Don was known for letting Brynn do his hair in the household when she was little, sometimes appearing around the house with hair clips in his hair. He coached multiple basketball teams that Nick played on, sometimes even getting a little too animated on the sidelines for the refs.

Don worked at PSNS for over 30 years. Rising to Shop 38 Superintendent from 2001-2004 and later working as a Nuclear Program Manager. He embodied and taught service to Mechanics, Navy, and our Country. Don's humble example transferred into teaching/experience to many of the members of Shop 38 and beyond that they rely as part of their foundation to this day. Don took great pride in his time at PSNS and treasured the friends and relationships he made over the years. His daughter Brynn followed in his footsteps and works in Shop 38 to this day.

After working for more than thirty years Don enjoyed the leisure routine of retirement.

Being woken up, much too early, by his cat Angus B Cat(who had his own online blog the Cats Log). The short drive to the espresso stand for morning coffee and a newspaper. Stopping by to see what his retired brothers were up to. Sports on television, especially golf and UW Husky football. Playing golf, as his health allowed. On many afternoons he could be found watching sports and "curing the world's problems" with friends at the Cloverleaf. Don was never one to brag but he did share his pride in his children as they grew in their personal and professional lives.

Don is preceded in death by his parents, his sister Cathy, his brother Fred, sister-in-law Lourdes and nephew Kyle Buttolph. He is survived by his children Nick (Madison) and Brynn, sister Debby (Jim), brothers Charlie (Kathy), Ben (Wendy), Ken, John (Tracey), Andy, brother-in-law Roger Buttolph and a number of nieces and nephews.

Don will be forever remembered as good father, brother and friend. A man with a warm smile and equally warm heart. Someone who people genuinely enjoyed being around. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

Due to Covid 19 restrictions a celebration of life for Don will happen at a later date.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Kitsap Sun from Sep. 28 to Sep. 30, 2020.

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Rebecca Johnson

November 12, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful Uncle. We will love you and miss you always.

Bruce Miller

October 21, 2020

Miss you my friend. We all do

Joe Randle

October 20, 2020

I am so sad to hear that my former shop superintendent has passed. Don was always the nicest guy in a room or meeting and was a great mentor. You will be missed my friend.

William Christian

October 5, 2020

Don was a great guy. Worked with him and he was always funny and had a great personality. He will be missed by many.

Bruce Kunick

October 4, 2020

I had the pleasure of working for Don when he was the
Shop 38 superintendent. He was a very caring and honorable man.

G. Bruce Miller

October 2, 2020

Bro Don you will truly be miss . Thanks for allowing me into your adventure life with you. I will miss but think about you on the golf course and miss are jabs at each other during the Apple Cup. Will meet again some day but you will be with us all in our hearts and minds. PEACE Bro

Rosanna Winger Rogers

October 2, 2020

Sad to read of Don’s passing. My prayers are with his family. I went to the same schools as Don, in his sister Debby’s class. Love the family. Don will be missed by all. Hugs

Candy Richardson

October 1, 2020

Don was always so nice. Remembering him wrestling and cheering him on from mat side. My best to the family during this time.

Lauri

October 1, 2020

I’ve known Don since Kindergarten at Olympic View and through graduation in 1977 at a East High School. What a sweet kind warm soul that I was fortunate enough to call friend.. RIP Don, we will miss you dearly but forever remember your kind spirit❤

Camie

September 30, 2020

A sweet soul who will be missed❤

John Masters

September 29, 2020

I had the great fortune to work with and for Don during my years at PSNS. He always had time to listen to us junior workers and work to mold us into future leaders. I joined the shop 38 golf league and enjoyed playing golf with him, even though....he whipped me more often than I had the upper hand. Thank you, Don, for your service to our county at
PSNS and assistance to all those around you. Love ya like a brother.
John (YO!) Masters

Darrel Nelson

September 29, 2020

I worked with Don for many years at PSNS in Shop 38. When it was time to be serious, he meant business. When it was time to have fun, he was hilarious. Don was always helpful and fun to be around. I am proud to say that Don was my good friend. Rest In Peace my Friend!

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