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Mary
February 10, 2025
Daddy, as usual, I am thinking if you with a smiling, but tear-streaked face. It's been 21 years since you left me, and my heart still aches. Please continue to watch over me, and the rest if your bunch. We continue to grow in numbers - though not the way one would have imagined with as large a family we were! I guess that's a good thing! Miss you. - Mary
Mary
February 1, 2023
Daddy. Yesterday marked 19 years without you. Stephanie reminded us of one of the songs we played at your service - Dance With My Father. I cried my heart out thinking about the way you and mom loved to dance together. You did it so well, and we all loved watching you two. Know that you are forever loved.
Michael Higgins
December 27, 2022
Sorry to hear about your mom and dad. My mom, brother and I lived across the street from them in the late 70's until we moved away. Moe was an awesome man. At the time he was the first father figure I ever had and have carried him in my heart all these years. He introduced me to baseball as a kid at the Atwater league. And then to the Vaquero League at Pacific Park where he coached me. Car Color w a s the team name and still have the team picture. I thank him for giving me the l9ve of the game.
Susie Barboa
November 1, 2019
Great grandpa I miss u so much I don't believe we have me but it's me Susie and I love u with all of my heart ❤
June 4, 2019
Daddy,
Father's Day is approaching, and it will be our 15th one without you. I just want you to know that you are missed and loved. Ive had opportunities to share stories about you and mom with some of your great grand children, so that your memory will continue to live in them.
Dad, thank you for being the kind of person and father you were. Ok, you weren't perfect, but you were pretty darn close! I have so many beautiful memories of you, my prince, and just as when I was little, as an adult, my heart belongs to you, Daddy. Missing you and loving you still...
Mary
Dad in his boxing days with CYO, February 7, 1948
Adrian Montanez
June 3, 2019
I love you Dad!
Rudy Montanez
March 18, 2015
Hi Mom & Dad,
You know that we really miss both of you so much. As you know it's time for little league baseball. This year my Grandson Ricky "Moe" wanted to play baseball which kind of shocked us. He never before really showed no intrest in playing ball. So we signed him up and went out and bought him a glove and cleats, he is using my batting helmet and it fits perfectly all we need is a new bat. Teresa & I have taken him to the school to try to teach him to catch, field ground balls, and to hit.
We didn't even know what team he was on until March 4th. He played his first game on March 7th. He did pretty go he had 3 at bats with 3 hits, his fielding was good he stopped the ball, but his throw didn't reach the target on the fly they kept coming up short. His 2nd game was cancelled do to league insurance problems. His 3rd game he went 1 for 3 and his fielding was good he made the plays, and his throws reached the mark. He was given the game ball for outstanding effort.
As Teresa and I sat in the stands I could imagine hearing Mom yelling & cheering and seeing Pop along the fence coaching him from the sideline which brought tears to my eyes. Thinking boy how I miss them. Well I'll do my best to teach him the right way to play and about sportsmanship. It's going to take some time to get it right. So were running around on Saturdays between Bowling and Baseball is just keeping me busy. Well Mom & Dad it's time to go. Hey Pop be his Angel in the Outfield.
Love and Miss You
Your Loving Son
Rudy
His
March 3, 2015
Hi Daddy,
You've been gone 11 years. Mom's been gone 7 years, and it still hurts. Just want to say that I miss you and mom very much. Just the other day it was raining. I looked out the window and was about to say to Michael "I'm going to call my mom to find out how hard it's raining in Glendale." I realized my thoughts, and had to stop. The flood of tears took a while to subside, but I have to say what made them subside was thinking about all the funny stories you and mom would share about your early years as you adjusted to married life. I remember those stories well.
on a more recent note, Gloria and I recently attended Mass at Holy Family in Orcasitas. It was possibly the last services at that little place. We saw Auntie Evie and Uncle Manuel and our cousins. It donned on me that this December auntie and uncle will be married 60 years. How lucky the Valenzuela's are to still have them both. I wish I still had you both. -- I never imagined life without you.
Well, time to go, please continue to whisper a prayer for all of us down here. Love and miss you. -- Mary
Anthony
September 27, 2014
Hi Moe, I'd like to say hi for my grandma Alicia. She talks about you and the neighborhood often. Take care
gloria v lopez
September 17, 2012
Happy Birthday Dad! Love you and miss you!
Gloria
Rudy Montanez
August 9, 2012
Hi Mom & Dad,
I wanted to let you know that I miss you and love you both.
Anyway I want to thank you again Mom & Dad for talking me into not quiting my job with the City of Glendale. But it is time to leave in 22 days. I will be retiring after almost 37 years of service. I will be just 1 month and 6 days shy of the 37 years. I had planned on leaving next year with 38 years of service, but the City was offering us a Golden Handshake with a 5 percent credit which equals 2 years of service. I guess it was an offer I couldn't refuse. I tell you it was something to think about. Both Teresa and I were wondering if it was the right thing to do. Are we going to be OK and could we make it. While going to the PERS Workshop we talked about getting the information and decide after, and mail in the paper work if I was going to take the offer. But when the lady passed by with the numbers to turn in the paper work I took a number. Teresa said I thought we were going to think about it and mail it in. I told her that I decided that if I didn't do it then I would probably die here. It is a scary feeling wondering if I made the right decision. But as time is getting closer I am now looking forward to the thought of not having to work the 12 hour shifts. I can now spend more time with the grandkids. It's going to be a major shock to my system and I will probably drive Teresa crazy being home all the time.
Thank You Again Mom and Dad for all the thing you did for me and my family. We Love You and miss you.
Rudy M. Montanez
Newhall, California
christy ramirez
July 12, 2012
Tio y Tia,
Just passing by and thinking of you both. You are always in my thoughts. I'm very close to Atwater, I missed the neighborhood on which I have fond memories.
My life has changed so much, and in a new direction and in a loving circle of friends that are loving and loyal. I always share the love that I received as a young child. I may not have the church-religious faith, but I do have spiritual faith. Living the life that I should be and I feel your warmth and spirit with me always. I miss you so much tio. And Tia, I always tear up when I talk to you amoungst friends. How I truly miss our deep conversations and cooking in the kitchen. How sweet and fruitful they were.
Thank you
"love never dies, it always shines in the light" (who knew that I would love writing poetry)
-----Chris
Adrian
June 25, 2012
Hello Pop, this was my first Father's Day. I remembered the great times we shared. I hope I can be half the man you were & I pray my son looks up to me the way I look up to you. I love you Dad & I'm sure you & mom are looking down at my boy. I promise to tell him all about you.
Danny Navarro
March 30, 2012
Dear Dad,
Dan Navarro wrote this for you:
God who created heaven and earth and all things in it, then God created a special man. God tested him and put him through trials and through it all showed that God found favor in him. God blessed him with a loving wife and tested his patience and blessed him with eight sons and two daughters. Through his later years he was able to enjoy and love his grandchildren, his great-grandchildren and others who dearly called him grandpa or uncle even though they weren't. He accepted and loved everyone and cared for all who were in need; he truly followed Christ-like ways and followed God's decrees in his life, never letting the right hand know what the left hand was doing. He was truly unselfish and by his Godly deeds he was known to all and respected. When he went with our Lord Christ Jesus he left a legacy and left an example to be followed and be forever in all of our hearts--this gentle giant we lovingly called pop, daddy, grandpa and uncle; this man God blessed us with and known to all as "Moe".
Blessed is the man who perserves under trial, because when he stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.
James 1:12
gloria lopez
March 29, 2012
Happy Birthday Mom!
Did you see us today? We were all there to say goodbye to your brother, Uncle Richard. He is now there with you, Dad, Uncle George and Aunt Madelyn. It was wonderful to see all the cousins again but it is often only during these sad times that we see each other. The family gathered together right before the service to wish you a Happy Birthday. Rudy Jr. led the prayer. Because Uncle Richard will be cremated and not be interred until his one year anniversary; Uncle Richard's family (as well as the rest of the family) walk over and laid all the beautiful flowers over you and Dad, grandma and grandpa Alvarado, great-grandpa Carlos, Uncle George, Cindy and Roger. There were also flowers for Aunt Madelyn and Richard. You're all there, almost together (with so many other family members all scattered in that same general area) and Uncle Richard will join you in a year, to be buried with Uncle George. Now there a four left from that generation and we treasure the remaining aunt and three uncles.
Anyway just wanted to say happy birthday and also a happy birthday to little Mason who was born on your birthday 3 years ago today.
Love all of you,
Gloria
PS: Mom and Dad, we sold the house in SV. It will be belong to a retired couple who wanted a place for their grandchildren to play. We all have so many memories in that house and I know you and Dad would be happy to know that the house will be so appreciated.
Gloria Lopez
March 12, 2012
Dear Dad and Mom,
Opening day for the Vaquero League was this past Saturday. Connie has announced that this is her last year as league president. She has worked so hard these last ten years keeping the Vaquero League going and trying hard to keep her promise to you to not let the league disappear. She hoped that the family would understand that it is time for her to step down. Of course we do and we are so appreciative of her efforts to continue the work you started so many years ago. The family got together and surprised her with a plaque expressing our gratitide for keeping your dream alive. We also donated a sum of money to help with leaque expenses. We told her that because of her, this year, we are able to see one grand-child and four great-grand children play with Vaqueros. This would not have happened without her efforts. They opened up the official season with the traditional "Play Ball" shout into the microphone.
Albert is coaching your old team-Autobody. Without him stepping up, Autobody would have disolved. Your grandson, Daniel, is helping him coach.
Ronald is an umpire.
It was a beautiful opening day; Mary and I sat through five games watching the great-grandchildren play on their respective teams and cheering for them the way Mom would have done. It felt like the old days but at the same time much has changed.
Of course you have great-grandchildren all across the county playing ball where they live. Baseball is just a part of who were are--I guess.
Love you Dad and Mom.
PS: You now know that your cousin, Sixtos Montanez joined you this morning. He was a wonderful man and loved you very much. I will miss him.
November 4, 2011
Dear Dad,
Your brother, Gustavo, passed away last night. Now Uncle Gus is there with you and Tia Chuchi, Uncles Julio, Henry, Ruben, Polo, Rudy, Mama Chita and Papa Beto. The entire family is now together again. It is a great loss for us--Uncle Gus was the last remaining uncle of your generation. He reminded me of you, a great sense of humor and wit. I know he missed you and would tell stories of times when you were young. The last time I saw him, he and Aunt Mary were dancing away at my retirement party in August. We were not prepared for his passing. We were blessed to have such great Uncles and of course, Tia Chuchi. We will miss him as we miss all of you. We know we have a precious short time with Aunt Tonia and Aunt Mary, both over 85 years of age. We will work to keep them close to us.
Mom and Dad,
With sad news there is some great news-another grandson! Adrian has become a father for the first time. Adrian Jr. was born on October 27th! 8 lbs. and 12 ozs! The first pictures, people thought he looked like Dad, but I think now he looks like Adrian. But we know how quickly babies change (you should know, you had ten of us) so we'll see. This is the first grandson born that neither of you have been here to see and hold. However you continue to have many great-grandchildren. Since you're not here Mom, I am your stand in as grandmother. They've coined a name for me "grantie" which is a combination of grandma and auntie. He's so beautiful and Adrian is elated. He will be a wonderful father.
Please continue to pray for us down here. Things are a bit better but we're not out of the woods yet.
Love you both,
Gloria
Gloria Lopez
July 25, 2011
Dear Mom and Dad,
Well this is it. After 37 years I'm retiring from LAUSD. These years have gone quickly by and I can't believe that it is time to call it a career! I want to thank you both for all the sacrifices you made so that I could realize my dream of becoming a teacher--of the Deaf. My career has taken me to higher paths but none of it would have been possible without the love and support you gave me. I really thought you would both be here at this point of my life--and the plans I had for us to travel--well, for whatever reason, God decided something different for all of us.
Four days left and I can't imagine what next Monday will feel like. Just wanted to say thank you for letting me become the person I needed to be.
Bob also retired from the Post Office in June. I think he has just as many years of service if not more than I do. Hopefully we'll be able to spend more time visiting with each other and enjoy the family gatherings.
Mom, Dad,
Ray Madrid is up there with you now. I'm sure he and Aurora have found you--at least that's what the Madrid family told me after the service. I told them I had no doubt you all would be there to welcome their Dad.
Love you both,
Your daughter,
Gloria Lopez
May 16, 2011
Dear Mom and Dad,
Adrian Vicente Montanez, Jr. is on the way! We are all so excited and happy for Adrian and Mary. Your youngest son and the "baby" of the family is going to become a dad! He has told Mary and me that he will raise his son in a way that will make both of you proud. Little Adrian will become the youngest of all the grandchildren. His entry into our world is Oct. 21st. Until that time, I know that you with God the Father, will watch over this tiny soul who is making his way into our world. Keep him safe and healthy.
All the rest of the great grandhchildren (and great great grand child) are doing fine. This a current song that says "If heaven wasn't so far away I'd pack them all up and visit for a day" so that they could meet you and hug you. Then as we waved goodbye, looking behind and seeing you both wave back, we'd know that we are all in your prayers. They are a beautiful group of children. Things are still tough down here for all of us so don't forget to pray for us.
Love you both,
Gloria
christy ramirez
March 22, 2011
Dearest Uncle and Auntie,
Just passing through and writing a few words. I miss you both deeply.
I was in Glendale today and I went to visit Cuca and Ceci. I havent seen her in 5 years and I went to go look for her and found her. We had a beautiful chat about the good old days. She is aging gracefully and I know we dont have that much time but I'm going to try my best to see her more often. We are grateful for the beautiful relationships we have all shared.
Good news I'm being acknowledged for "Volunteers Awards 2011" for the community of Los Angeles County for Supervisor Gloria Molina's Office. I did work my butt off and supported the arts and east los community. Thanks to you, auntie and Grandma for showing me at a young age about volunterring and being a part of a community. This will be a great birthday gift and honor.
I remember and cherish our memories together and laughs. Now you all are just spirits that surround me.
Giving thanks to the creator for you all and family and friends and all relations.
I'm blessed and loved-
Christy
February 9, 2011
Dear Dad,
Over the weekend I had lunch with Sixtos Montanez and all of his family. Guess who was there--Sixtos brother Chuchi. He moved back to Mexico many, many years ago and just last April returned to the USA to live with Sixtos. He's six months younger than you and his memory is fading but the cousins told me that the one person he remembers and speaks about is you. I saw this tall, fraile, elderly man sitting at the table and when I introduced myself as "Richie's" daughter, his eyes lit up. (Of course he did not remember me as the little girl who was deathly afraid of his chickens and roosters). He asked what had happen to you and then told me a story about how he challenged you to a boxing match (knowing full well, that at that time, you were boxing professionally). He smiled as he recalled that he kept up with you punch for punch for eight rounds until you finally got the better punches in and he gave up. He was proud that he held his own for so long. I had a wonderful brunch with the rest of the Montanez cousins, they updating me on their branch of the family. So many are gone now. As I was getting ready to leave, Chuchi came up to me, planted a big kiss on my cheek and said "That's for Richie". I told him I would deliver it to you. So Dad, the kiss I'm sending up to you today is from your cousin Chuchi Montanez.
Love,
Gloria
December 27, 2010
Dear Dad and Mom,
Thinking of you during this Christmas season. This season is a time for tears of both joy and sadness. Joy, because Adrian, your youngest son, is getting married on Jan. 1st! This will be a very special New Year's celebration. A small wedding celebration is planned. He and Mary seem to be a perfect fit. You both would like her very much. There will be two special candles in your memory. They are using the candlesticks from your 50th anniversary celebration. Adrian will also be wearing a very special pair of cuff links which are lockets, and your pictures will be in them. This way you both will be with Adrian all during his wedding celebration. Say a prayer for them and bless this marriage.
Our tears of sadness is because Auntie Madelyn is now with you. She left on Christmas morning, telling Anna that she wanted to be with her mom, dad, and her sister (you mom). Auntie has missed both of you tremendously during these past several years. There wasn't a time when I visited with her that she would tell all of us how much she missed her sister. She was ill for a long time and she finally wanted to go to her rest. Most of us gathered at her house on Christmas day. I know she is happy being there with all of you; but we will miss her smile; her kind and gentle heart; her laughter and her goodness. Dad, I khow how you loved teasing my Tia, be nice.
Also welcome home Ms.Solis, Lenore's mom. You both knew her well and her long suffering (which started while you two were still here) is over. She is finally at a peace she so long deserved.
Happy New Year. Love all of you.
Gloria
Teresa Montanez
October 26, 2010
Thinking of you & Marie...
Rudy Montanez
October 5, 2010
Hi Mom and Dad,
Hey Pop last Wednesday while on vacation in Carlsbad I decided to go get a haircut. Do you believe that mom and dad. I did it with out being told to get a haircut. Ha Ha Ha
While sitting and waiting for my turn this woman was talking to a gentleman named Ed in the barber’s chair.
After she left the barber asked the gentleman if he was still playing softball and he said yes he was playing every Tuesday and Thursday at 10:00 A.M.
So being nosey I interrupted and said Oh so you’re a softball player? he replied yes and asked if I played. I said not anymore I retired from playing just last year.
He asked if I was 55 years old and I replied yes I was, and he said then come out and play. I told him that I snapped both calf mussels and can't run and I had a bad rotator and can't throw. And one of the barbers said that I fit in with all the others and we all had a good laugh. I told him I lived in the L. A. area and I played in the Burbank City League.
He said that he use to play in Burbank but played in the Industrial League and he played for Weber Aircraft. I said then maybe you knew my dad He use to work for Weber Aricraft.
He asked what's your fathers name?
I told him his name was Richard Montanez but some people called him Moe or Dick. He said I know Dick so he was your dad? I replied yes he was. He asked how you were doing.
I told him that you had passed in 2004 and he asked how mom was doing and I told him that she passed in 2007. He said that he was sorry to hear of their passing.
Anyway Pop he told me that every February the guys from Weber have a reunion at the Castaways Restaurant in Burbank. They have a board with a list of all the Weber Employees who have passed away.
He said that he would check to see if your name was on the list, and if not he would make sure that you were added to the list. Just then the next free barber called me into the next room when I got seated and looked back into the other room the gentleman was leaving. So I was not able to get his last name. All I got was his first name Ed. He said that he worked in the ejector seat department.
I know that I had seen him before because he looked very familiar.
PS: Well Pop I have to thank you for giving me such a hard time many years ago when I was upset with my first City pay check and wanted to quit. You made me stop and think of all the benefits that I had working for the City of Glendale and, the benefits I didn't have working with (TAC) Traffic Appliance Corporation.
Come Midnight tonight I will have 35 years of Service with the City of Glendale. Thank You Pop for everything.
As you know Amy has given us 3 Grandchildren Cherish Adrianne Montanez (Cheri), Richard Matthew Madrid (ricky moe), & Christopher Joseph Madrid (chris), Rudy has given us a huge family in the softball community they call us mom and pop. Ana has given us 3 more Grandchildren (Jeremy, Jasmine, & Jered) and just over the past few months Ana and Jeremy met Emily Jeremys daughter and got to met their first Grandchild who is a few day older then Christopher.
Well I got to go for now and will be talking to you soon. I Love and miss you both.
Your Loving Son
Rudy
Henry Montanez
September 17, 2010
Happy Birthday pop just wanted let you Know how much You,Mom and Tia Chuchie are missed. We're on our way to visit Yvette and the Grand kids. She shares the same birthday with you and Bob.please watch over all of us.
July 12, 2010
Dear Mom and Dad,
I'm writing to you on the verge of my 60th birthday. Did you ever imagine you'd have a daughter who is 60 years old? I remember mom, when you had a friend who passed away at the age 42. I was 18 at the time and you said she passed away very young. I said that she wasn't that young and how much more did she want. You told me that 42 was young and wait until I was her age. You don't feel old--you said to me. Well, I remember this often as I passed 42, 50 and now 60. You're righrt mom, I don't feel old.
Your birthday came and went Mom, and as I predicted last year, Mary and I went to celebrate this day with little Mason, Melissa's son who was born 1 year ago on your birthday. I wish you and Dad could see him. He looks like Melissa.
Dad, a few months ago Mary and I went to an Angels' baseball game. We met an older gentleman who also coached little league. When we told him you also coached he asked your name. When I told him he said "Your dad is famous". He had never met you but he knew who you were. Mary and I were so amazed.
Dad, they have just upgraded the sign on the little league field named after you. Instead of a metal frame the city has replaced it with a much nicer sign "Richard "Moe" Montanez Memorial Baseball Field." There are two signs there now.
Adrian is getting married. I wish you were here to meet Mary R. Her maiden name is the same as your mom's. She's a teacher and they just purchased a home together.
The family keeps growing. Amy added a third child in Nov and your great grandson, Matt, added the first great-great grand son. Mom, Rick is a great-grandfather and he's a year young than me. Anyway, all babies are precious and so happy see the family continue to grow.
Time to go. Love you both.
Gloria
P.S. Dad, you heard about USC. It's going to be a long two years.
But the Lakers!! Yeah!!
gloria lopez
January 20, 2010
Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad!
Today would have been your 60th wedding anniversary! I really thought you would both still be here but I guess 54 years was meant to be your magic number. As I sat here looking out of the window at the rain, my mind went back 10 years to your 50th wedding anniversary. I remembered that it was raining then. We had a family celebration going to church and then to brunch. In May (when the weather was much nicer) we gave you the "big" party--and what a party it was--family and friends--eating, dancing and enjoying the day.
The family got together on Jan. 3 for our Christmas celebration. The family keeps growing and guess what Dad--Uncle Tavo, Tia Mary and Tia Tonia came to enjoy the day with us. The last time they were all together was at your funeral, mom. It was nice to see them on a happier ocasion.
Mom my aunts and uncles on your side were also there. They are wonderful and knowing you are both gone, really try hard to keep us together as a family. I think sometimes Uncle Eddie feels he has to take your place--he always tries to be with us. You would think we were all children instead of young graying adults (sounds better then emerging senior citizens don't you think?).
So, on this 60th wedding anniversary, which is right in the middle of both of your transition to the next life anniversaries, Happy Anniversray! Say hi to Tia Chuchi, the grandparents and the family up there. We miss you all.
Christy Ramirez
December 27, 2009
Merry Christmas!
Uncle,
I wrote this in memory of you and your time in the service. The gallery that I volunteer at had an exhibit and I suggested a Veterans Exhibit. We gave honor to that. I submitted your photograph and this poem.
This poem was you speaking to all of us in the past and present and the future.
Your name will always be love. I truly Miss you and Auntie. My eyes still tear up when I talk about you both.
Thank you for sending the people in my life.
I know it has been a tough year for all of us but were a strong family. And that prayers are powerful.
Thank you Auntie for saving my life and know it's time for me to share my stories.
Young solider
Life changes when you’re the unexpected
Waiting nervously thinking of will soon happen
No time to plan or stop on what is my future
Can’t think of death, when my life barely started
Three babies in this world
Young wife
Must serve, something must do
Don’t want to be a hero but a strong and respected man
Struggled and fought
To my fellow man I leave you honor and good will
To my children and their offspring
This is a story will always be untold
Is to painful and hurts to much to remember, holding back tears
Remember my life and my struggles for our country
And that I love you unconditionally
This man who was a son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, uncle, friend, and who loved his community
Stands proud and is recognized
Now he is a memory of a great uncle and his name is love
Life is always shining and living
Christy Ramirez – Dedicated to Richard “Moe”Montanez, who served in the Korean Conflict.
December 23, 2009
Dear Mom and Dad,
Merry Christmas!
Today, while I was driving to work I heard the song "What a Wonderful World" by Louie Armstrong. I thought of both of you but especially you Dad. You don't know it but it was the song the Vaquero League played when they dedicated their season to you back in 2005. I remember seeing doves fly and circle as that song was playing. Of course, that song was follwed by the song "Center Field" which started their season. We will always associate those two songs with you Dad, and mom, as she supported you year after year during your little league managerial years.
Some of us will be gathering at Tia Chuchi's house for Christmas Eve, as we have done for so many years. It's the closest place we have to home. The couple who bought your home will be celebrating their first Christmas in our house. (We still can't stop calling it mom's and dads' house.) I hope the memories they build there will be as happy as the many years of warm, joyous Christmas memories, we've had, starting with Mama Chita and Papa Beto and later on all of us.
Do you know another great-grandchild was born? Amy gave birth to Christopher Joseph Madrid on Dec. 3rd. I'm sure Amy will write to you about her new little one.
Things are still a bit tough down here and we'll need some prayers for 2010. It's a new year but we have some struggles ahead.
Say hello to all the family up there for us. Vera Gomez says she misses you alot, mom. Auntie Madelyn also talks about how much she misses both of you.
We still keep in touch with Uncle Gus, Dad. We know he is the last remaining Montanez Uncle. The rest of the Negrete/Montanez are up there with you.
Keep us in your prayers.
Love,
Gloria
September 17, 2009
Happy Birthday Dad!
Today would have been your 80th birthday! Can you imagine yourself ever being 80??? But you always looked younger than your years. (Remember how mom was insulted when someone thought you had married an older woman and mom was 4 years younger than you?) Anyway, hoping everyone up there is celebrating your birthday.
Football season is back and USC looks like they have a good team again. Tell mom that it looks like Notre Dame has a decent team this year. I always root for Notre Dame when they aren't playing USC. I'm the only one that does that. Adrian says he is his father's son (you Dad) and would never root for any team other than USC. He's a die hard as you were.
The family is doing fine, scary at times with this economic crisis but we try to band together.
Kisses and balloons being sent up your way. Happy Birthday Dad.
Gloria
Rudy M Montanez
July 16, 2009
Mom & Dad
I just wanted to let you know that I miss you both so much.
Hey Mon & Dad just a little baseball note I thought you both might enjoy. The Vaquero league beat CV in the distric 16 championship game. They are moving on to the section 2 playoffs.
Today is the 2nd Birthday of Richard Matthew Madrid your Great Grandson. Amy named him after you because she loved you and missed you. At home we call him Ricky Moe. He loves playing with cars and trucks, and baseballs. Cherish & Ricky really enjoy going out the ballfields on Wednesday nights. That's when the wole family get together. They enjoy it so much because they get to see thier Auntie Ana and her family.
Oh well Mom and Pop, I now know how much you loved being around your grand childern. I've learned how to spoil them just the way you both did for many years. I know that they all miss you both so much.
Little Rudy's Mens Fast Pitch Softball team (Rude Pac) is going to the Quad Cities along the boarders of Iowa and Illinois to compete in the International Softball Congress II Tournamnet of Champions. Teresa and I were going to go with him but, things change and we will not be making the trip. I guess I will have to hope the guys on the team will help take of him and keep him safe. Go Rude Pac !!
Well I guess it's time to go for now. I Love & Miss You Both.
Rudy
July 15, 2009
Mom & Daddy,
Just want you to know that I am thinking of you and miss you both terribly.
You will be happy to know that Michael returned to college and is really enjoying it this time around. He has changed his major to History (bet you never imagined that) and is doing quite well. He should wrap it up this year - math :( and is looking forward to transfering to a four year.
June 28, 2009
Dear Grandma and Grandpa,
I can see Auntie Gloria told you of your great grandsons birth! Mason Andrew was born on your birthday Grandma, and he is so hansdome! I know you were both watching over us that day, thank you. It is amazing to be a mother, the joy he brings to all our lives is such a blessing. Is that why you all had 10 babies!? :]
I love you both so much and miss you.
Love Melissa and Mason
March 30, 2009
Dear Mom and Dad,
What an amazing weekend! Some of us gathered at the cemetary on Saturday (March 28th) to wish you mom, a happy birthday. As always the entire family who are now interred there, benefitted from your birthday bouquet. What an amazing moment to find out that your granddaughter Melissa was at AVH having her baby! We knew she was due in April but it never occured to us that she might have it on your birthday. Mason Andrew came into this world on March 28th. Like all of your great grandchildren, he is beautiful!
So Mom, next year, although our thoughts will always be with you, we will be busy celebrating Mason Andrew's first birthday.
A co-worker said that this your mother's way of telling us enough of the sadness. Now it will be a day to celebrate the new life among us. It's similar to the day grandpa Henry died. You mourned the loss of your father but you also had a brand new grandson, Daniel, who was born that day. I know how long grandpa has been gone by the candles on Danny's birthday cake. Yet we all learned to celebrate the new life among us, putting them in the forefront, while in the back of our minds, silently remembering those who are no longer with us.
I guess, this is my way of saying "Happy Birthday Mom", and from here on end, it will be Mason's birthday in the forefront.
Love to you and Dad.
PS: Dad, the Vaquero season is on and from what Adrian tells me, both Omar Jr. and Jason Jr. will be donning Vaquero League uniforms. "Play ball!"
Scott Wallace
February 12, 2009
Mr. Montanez,
I will never forget your friendship when we went to the 13 year-old world series in 1980...My parents were not there and after the last game you put your arm around me and said words I have never forgotten. I only hope I can be a good role model as you were to me one day!
gloria lopez
January 20, 2009
Dear Mom and Dad,
Happy Anniversary! What a day to celebrate, especially with the inauguration of our first African-American president. The bells in heaven must be ringing with joy. Times are tough down here so we're hoping the new president brings about the needed change. Pray for him. Obama will need our prayers.
This month, Dad, you will have been gone five years, mom two years. As Christy has said, the house is gone to new owners. How strange it is to pass by and see strange people in our house. But it's not our house anymore. We did have one final family celebration in December and posted a goodbye sign for the neighbors.
Did I tell you that another great grandchild was born? Maybe I did but Audrey Chole was born to Jason and Rosie.
Another great grand child is on the way but I can't tell you who yet since it is still a secret. But I know you already know.
Miss you both very much. Love to all up there.
Christy
December 19, 2008
The three blue-jays meaning from which I posted earlier. Mary alice asked me to post, some of you may ask as well.
The Three Blue-Jays
After they all passed away, One day I went outside in the backyard and I saw a few blue jays flying around and they were so close to me. This has never happened to me and I'm scared of birds. That moment I wasn't afraid anymore and I always knew that Uncle, Auntie and Grandma are always near me. Giving me comfort and are with me in my journey.
That is the name of my one women show in May. This is going to be big deal for me. A big show and Healing.
Christy Ramirez
December 19, 2008
I wrote something small of my memories of Auntie and Uncle. Hope you enjoy it as I did writing it.
love you all,
The Coming to an End
December 14, 2008
I woke up to a cold early December Morning that made my body shiver under the blankets. I was still asleep but needed to wake up from a 3 hour Rest. Just thinking about today and remembering the years spent on 4111 Chevy Chase Drive.
Realizing that today was the final good-bye to 70 years on Chevy Chase Drive. And a tearful good-bye to an era , memories, and new friendships the staring of families, and the reunion of my grandmother Maria De Jesus reuniting with her mother that moved to the United States . And my grandmother meeting her half brothers.
This was the start of a family bond, 4 generations of cousins, aunts, uncles, sisters, brothers, countless birthdays' parties, Holidays, barbecues and many Sunday Mornings serving breakfast at Cristo Rey. And countless stories, memories, laughter, tears, but most of all Love.
My memories of going to Auntie and Uncle are countless, talking with auntie, many times in the kitchen, the living room and her bedroom. Watching TV with Porter and Uncle Moe, catching the highlights of the sports games. And figuring out a way to change the channel when they fell asleep. Visiting Tio Vicente and just being a kid and running around all over the place.
As I say goodbye, I will always remember the beautiful memories, the love of my family, the closeness and bond we all shared. That love and closeness I will always carry in my heart.
See you one day my blue-jays----
gloria lopez
December 10, 2008
Hi Dad and Mom,
Just wanted to say hello and let you know that we are finally selling the Chevy Chase house. By next week it will belong to someone else. This is going to be very difficult for all of us. All of our childhood memories, and yours too, Dad, are encased in the four walls of that little bungalow home. For almost 70 years that house has been in the family, starting with Mama Chita and Pa Beto. As we move, the neighbors are coming by and telling us how much they miss both of you and how much they will miss our family living in that little house on the corner. An end to an era. Looking back, we did have a wonderful set of friends and neighbors in that community--and our little church--Cristo Rey--where breakfast menudos and other fundraising kept your lives busy. Missing that little recreation center down the street where you, Dad, spent so many of your retirement days organizing sports programs for the kids. Even though we will be gone, we will try to keep up with the Vaquero League and help them out when we are able to--Albert is our main contact for the Vaqueros.
Dad,
Louie, Mary, Maggie and her daughters and I went to Mexico to visit the cousins there. They are so wonderful and it was great to see the entire family. It's been 20 years since I've visited (for Mary its been 30 years) and I forgot how warm and funny they are. Dad, your cousin Angel has yours and Uncle Gus's sense of humor and I can definately tell you share a common gene. We were also able to go to Guadalajara and more importantly to Guanajuanto where your mom and Tia Chuchi were from. We even met a Soria there! We visited with Marcia but didn't get to see her son, Paris.
Mom, by now you know that your cousin/brother David is gone and that Uncle David, Grandma's last surviving brother is now also gone. That entire generation is now upstairs with all of you. I didn't gave to say goodbye by Mary was there.
But did I tell you that Jennie had her baby??? I don't know but his name is Mateo. He's the cutest. Beady and Danny are now officially grandparents.
Also Jason and Rosie had a baby girl. I can't remember her first name but her middle name is Chole. I don't know how many great-grandchildren that makes but mom and dad, they keep coming!
So on Sunday, December 14th, we'll be saying goodbye to Chevy Chase.
Want to wish all of you up there a very Merry Christmas and say a prayer for all of us. Times are pretty tough down here.
Love,
Gloria
gloria lopez
September 17, 2008
Happy Birthday Daddy!
Today you would have been 79 years young! Hope that mom and Tia are by your side enjoying this day with you.
Well Dad, football season is here and it looks like USC has a real strong chance at winning another BCS championship. They are rated #1. They blew out Ohio St. I remember a Rose Bowl you took us to and Ohio St. and Woody Hayes beat our Trojans. It was good to see USC come out on top. Cross your fingers and hope they can sustain. They look awesome. Tell mom that Notre Dame won the first two games and look pretty good, but we're going to beat them come November.
The LA Dodgers are also looking at making the play-offs. Manny Ramirez has really sparked the team. I just hope we don't lose in the opening round as usual. The Dodgers are celebrating 50 years in Los Angeles. I remember the early games you took us to and watching Sandy Koufax and Don Drysdale pitch. It's been 20 years since their last championship. It would be nice to see another banner hanging from Dodger stadium.
The big news is that we're going to D.F., Mexico! A group of us in the family will be going to visit the family that your mom, Mama Chita, left almost 97 years ago. It's been 20 years since my last visit. I know you, mom and Tia have worked hard to keep this relationship going between the two families. We know once this connection is broken, the history of our ancestory will be gone forever. We want to make sure we pass this treasure to the next generation. Victor and Angel and their families are excitedly awaiting our visit in November. Tell mom and Tia we will be sure to light a candle for them at the Catedral de la Virgen. From there we are going to Guadalajara with maybe a side trip to Guanajuato. Isn't that where Mama Chita is from?
The family is pretty good, some better than others but we try to help each other in the way that you taught us. Jennie will be having a baby soon so we await news of the birth of Baby Matteo.
Well Dad, just wanted to touch base with you and say Happy Birthday. We miss you as always.
Love,
Gloria
Rachel Montanez
August 20, 2008
Grandpa n Grandma,
Hello it's me Rachie. I miss you both dearly.A lot has changed since you left us. Your grand babies are growing up having babies of their own. As you already know, I am a mother of 3 and my baby boy is named after you grandpa. Anthony Moe-Montanez Rosas. I figure, you can go around the neighborhood and ask if u know Richard Montanez, and sure, everybody knows DICKIE. But there's only one Moe! Well now there is two of you!! He has 2 nicknames A-Moe which the family calls him so no matter were we are there is always someone yelling "A Moe" at family gatherings. At home we call him Moe-mo' cuz well,thats his legal name.It should be no-no!! He is a handful, but not like my lil Joci,4yrs, she is well a lot like Lisa,hahaha, but her angelic lil face makes you forget whatever she did. My Cecily is exactly me. She is so smart and quite the little bookworm. I love the picture of the kids taken at your headstone on mothers day. It was unbelievable to see that when I set Moe-mo' down on the grass and showed him your name and told him who you were I took a picture of him leaning to you and when I developed it, only you were there,grandma thanks for stepping back for that 2nd pic and letting the Moe's have their moment. I have sent it to some of the family, but need more copies. I love you both very much and can't wait to see you again.Watch over us all, and thank you for the most important thing u taught this family, TOGETHERNESS.
Rachel Montanez
August 20, 2008
Grandpa n Grandma,
Hello it's me Rachie. I miss you both dearly.A lot has changed since you left us. Your grand babies are growing up having babies of their own. As you already know, I am a mother of 3 and my baby boy is named after you grandpa. Anthony Moe-Montanez Rosas. I figure, you can go around the neighborhood and ask if u know Richard Montanez, and sure, everybody knows DICKIE. But there's only one Moe! Well now there is two of you!! He has 2 nicknames A-Moe which the family calls him so no matter were we are there is always someone yelling "A Moe" at family gatherings. At home we call him Moe-mo' cuz well,thats his legal name.It should be no-no!! He is a handful, but not like my lil Joci,4yrs, she is well a lot like Lisa,hahaha, but her angelic lil face makes you forget whatever she did. My Cecily is exactly me. She is so smart and quite the little bookworm. I love the picture of the kids taken at your headstone on mothers day. It was unbelievable to see that when I set Moe-mo' down on the grass and showed him your name and told him who you were I took a picture of him reavhing to you and when I developed it, only you were there,grandma thanks for stepping back for that 2nd pic and letting the Moe's have their moment. I have sent it to some of the family, but need more copies. I love you both very much and can't wait to see you again.Watch over us all, and thank you for the most important thing u taught this family, TOGETHERNESS.
Gloria V Lopez
June 16, 2008
Happy Father's Day Dad!
We miss you and hope that you are keeping us in your prayers. So much is happening. We had several graduations in the family. Grandson Danny graduated from CSULA and he still wants to go into the police force. Granddaughters Melissa B and Judy M both graduated with their AA degrees from the same college! Your youngest grandson, Jesse, is graduating from high school in three days.
The Vaquero Little League is commenorating their first fundraising program book to both you and mom. We gathered little league baseball pictures of the grandkids and great-grandkids to put into the program book. There were too many however, so the pictures that didn't get in this year, will go in next year. The inside cover has a picture of you and mom. Connie wrote a wonderful tribute to both of you and your motto "No child turned away" continues to be the motto of the Vaquero league. We are all so proud of the league you both help to build and we give Connie credit for keeping it going. She does it for you, Dad, keeping your leagacy alive.
Tell Tia Chuchi "Happy 100th Birthday". We know she missed by
3 1/2 years but we wanted to celebrate nonetheless. A group of us met at Calvary Cemetary. We laid flowers, sent up balloons, sang Las Mananitas and Happy Birthday to her. We wish all of you had been here to celebrate. Remember how we said we would give Tia a big party if she were here. Well, it may not have been a big party but we celebrated nonetheless. Mary and I also laid flowers on your Dad, Papa Beto (and your mom, Mama Chita). It was the first time your grandson Michael has seen their resting place. Mary and I told him the stories we remembered about them. From there it was off to an amazing champagne brunch.
Lakers--I know you're agonizing dad. It was a close game but they won. I doubt they'll beat Boston but at least we want to put up a gallant effort. Dad, I know we're both tired of being beaten up by the Celtics. I showed Louie my diary entry at age 16 bemoaning our loss to Boston, and that was 42 years ago! Well, if they lose, we'll just have a couple of months to USC football!
Well Dad, time to say goodnight. Talk to you and mom soon.
Love,
Gloria
gloria v lopez
April 21, 2008
Hi Mom and Dad,
Well, another wonderful person from the Cristo Rey menudo breakfast club has gone up to join you. Coca Rivera said her good-bye yesterday at 5:00 p.m. Mary, Danny, Henry and I were with her a short time about three weeks ago. We were able to hug her and I told her that when she was ready to leave this world that you and mom would be up there waiting to welcome her. She nodded and I think she understood. We had an opportunity to pray with her and the Riveras prayed to have the strength to say goodbye just as the Montanez' (us) had to say goodbye to our mom and dad. Albert Rivera told us how much he missed you and mom. He said Palmdale was where he lived but his real home was in the old neighborhood.
So, one more fine lady from the old neighborhood has joined you. Please look for her and welcome her.
PS: (Let Tia Chuchi, Tillie Montes and Ursela Mata know.)
Love,
Gloria
Christy Ramirez
April 9, 2008
Well all of you know that today is my birthday (33). I can just hear Mom, and Grandma and pops singing Las Mananaitas. My fondest memories of Grandma playing "las mananaitas" .
I have you all in mind today, and Prayed for you and keeping the memories alive.
Miss you so much, I'm sending a heaven hug.
Chris
Henry Montanez
March 29, 2008
Happy Birthday Mom! I hope you and Pop are keeping watch over the family. We got sad news this week your friend Ursela pass on, I hope you all get together up there. It seems as though you guys are ready to start making menudo again the crew is almost all there, when we get there I to get some of that good ol' menudo. Tell Tia Chuchi we love her and miss all of you very much.
gloria v lopez
March 28, 2008
Happy Birthday Mom! I'm hoping Dad has remembered your birthday and has sung "Las Mananitas" to you. I know Dad can't carry a tune but he tries. I also hope that the Good Lord has given you a very special Easter season birthday blessing.
Since Easter came early this year, we have already gathered together as a family, at Albert and Chris' house, to celebrate this special day that the Lord has given us. Mom and Dad, it was so amazing to see all of your younger grandchildren and great grandchildren together. There were nineteen children, not counting, of course, your adult grandchildren who have given you some beautiful great-grandchildren. The older children hid the Easter eggs for the younger ones. There were so many eggs we couldn't find places to hide them. Anyway, the sounds of laugter and the sequels of delight, resonated, I'm sure, up to the heavens. Hopefully, you and Dad found a soft, comfortable cloud and watched us from above.
After the Easter egg hunt, the confetti eggs were what the older kids were waiting for; and as in years past, by the time the eggs were demolished, almost every head wore a colorful Easter bonnet of confetti. It was a beautiful day.
Mom, your brother, Uncle Richard was very ill and the aunts and uncles left to Sacramento to visit him. It looks like he may recover but you might say a prayer for him.
Well, Mom and Dad, Happy Easter to both of you and Happy Birthday to you Mom. We miss you both!
Gloria L
LISA MONTANEZ
January 31, 2008
GRANDMA AND GRANDMA
AS YOU KNOW YOU HAVE A NEW GREAT GRANDDAUGHTER.SUSIE CLARITA BARBOA.SHE WAS BORN ON JAN 21,2008.9LBS 1 OZ.SHE TO WILL MISS BEING IN YOUR ARMS.WELL GRANDMA IM DONE THIS WAS MY HARDEST YET.8 IS ENOUGH.GRANDMA I WILL TREASURE THE PICTURE OF YOU AND PEPSI(ESPERANZA).SHE IS THE LAST TO HAVE BEEN HELD BY YOU.I MISS YOU BOTH SO VERY MUCH.
HAY GRANDPA,DO YOU KNOW THAT PEOPLE WAY UP HERE KNOW YOU!!!I WORE YOUR SHIRT TO THE FEILD ON MY BOARD DUTY NIGHT AND SOME MAN ASKED HOW I KNOW"MOE" AND WHO WAS I TO GET ONE OF THOSE SHIRTS.WELL I GOT A LIL UPSET AND HAD TO THINK BEFORE I ANSWERED.WELL SIR IT IS MY HONOR TO INTRODUCE MYSELF.MY NAME IS LISA MONTANEZ OLDEST GRANDCHILD OF "MOE MONTANEZ".YOU KNOW HOW MUCH OF AN HONOR IT IS GRANDPA TO SIT THERE AND HEAR THAT MAN TELL THE PEOPLE AT MY FEILD ABOUT THE GREAT THINGS MY GRANDFATHER DID FOR THE KIDS THERE.I LOVE YOU GRANDPA.I LOVE YOU TOO GRANDMA,I MISS YOU BOTH VERY MUCH.CAN YOU TELL MY GRANDMA ALICIA AND MY YAYA I SEND MY LOVE TO THEM TOO.
Christy Ramirez
January 16, 2008
Auntie and Uncle:
your always in my mind and I miss you so much. I miss our talks. Gloria is right that is wasnt the same without you at Christmas Time. No matter how sad we are from your departure. we must all stick together and be united as a family. I know this was so important to you.
I know last year was a tough year without my mom here in CA. But I know you kept me lifted. Making an committment to my faith. Along the way I have found a new passion.(painting)
My next piece I'm dedicating to you and uncle. Grandma's came out really good, which is named Chuchi.
Guess what I learned how to make tamales, from my friend's mom. 8 hours of making tamales, it wasnt to bad for 90 lbs.
You will always be in my heart and I love you so much. And one day I will see you.
your favorite niece :)-an inside joke, right uncle
Christy
p..s... you know who has baby jesus...
January 14, 2008
Dear Mom,
Today is the anniversary of the day that you left to join Dad. Yesterday, Ron, Adrian, Mary, Louie and I visited with you at San Fernando Mission. Look down and you'll see one beautiful bouquet after another. Bouquets, in your honor, were left at the many grave sites of family members. I think our family takes up that whole section of the cemetary! Dad, I found your brother, Uncle Julio (I didn't know he was there) so we left flowers for him as well.
Today, all day, my thoughts turned to you mom. I hope you are at peace and that you and Dad are happy.
Love you all,
Gloria
Gloria V Lopez
January 3, 2008
Dear Dad and Mom,
This Saturday we will be holding the extended family Christmas celebration. This will be our first Christmas celebration without you, mom. Louie also had to celebrate Christmas without his dad and Danny without his mom. As you know, we always light a candle for you and each one of our family members who are now gone. I found a wonderful silver Christmas tree with many tiny hearts which holds photos. For Thanksgiving, I placed in a photo of you and mom in one of the tiny siliver hearts, and in the other hearts photos of other family members who are no longer with us. As we lit each candle during Thanksgiving, all the photographs were also there. We will blow out the candles during Saturday's celebration. Please know how much you will be missed. It was hard going to Tia Chuchi's house on Christmas Eve, knowing none of you would be there. Some things were the same, but much was quite diffent. Gone, was Tia's "Baby Jesus" and other things that were so much a part of our Christmas celebration. However, good food was enjoyed by all. Mom, you were right, there was nobody to make tamales this year. I guess I shouldn't have been so stubborn and taken the time to learn. Sorry.
By the way Dad, your "kissing cousin" Kika passed away in October. I'm sure she's somewhere up there looking for you.
In November Mary and I went with Maggie, Larry, Jennie and Michelle to Paris and then Rome. Mom, I know how much you loved Notre Dame so Mary and I lit a candle for you at Our Lady of Notre Dame Cathedral. One of the side altars had the Virgen de Guadalupe so we lit a candle for you. The Gallardos also lit one for Tia Chuchi. We also wanted to light a candle at St. Peter's Basilica in Rome but candles aren't allowed. So we said a prayer for you and all the family at a mass said by Pope Benedict.
Well Dad--did you hear the Trojan fight song?? You must have heard it over and over again! USC won the Rose Bowl again, Dad. Remember the Trojan horse that Rudy, I think, gave to you so you could play the fight song each time the Trojans scored a touchdown? Well, we put your cap on the horse and we played the fight song in your honor each time the Trojan football team scored. They won, Dad. No national championship, but we'll always take a Rose Bowl win.
Well, got to go. Heard from Terre and Lizzie and both say how much they miss you mom. All of you look down on us this Saturday, around 4:00 p.m. We'll all be there thinking of you.
Love,
Gloria
October 5, 2007
Dear Mom and Dad,
By now you know that Danny's mom, Maggie Navarro, has joined you up there. She passed away on Monday. This has been a difficult year again for all of us. Dad, when you left, two weeks later, Susie's Dad also left. We were sitting in the same church with the same people mourning both you and then Mr. Chavez. A few months later, Mr. Gomez left. Some of the grandchildren lost both their grandfathers in the same year. Of course, the year ended with Tia Chuchi joining you.
Once again, the grandchildren are losing grandparents on both sides. Two grandmothers gone and a grandfather on Louie's side. Say a prayer for Danny, Mary and Michael. This is hard for all of them.
On the bright side, the new great-grand babies are thriving. All the grandchildren and great grandchildren, nieces and nephews are doing just fine.
Miss all of you. Say hello to the family up there.
Love,
Gloria
Gloria V Lopez
September 19, 2007
Happy Birthday Dad!
I know that I'm two days late, but Dad, we buried my father-in-law, Santiago "Chago" Lopez, on your birthday, Monday, Sept. 17th. Louie is going to really miss his dad, as we miss you and mom. We are both now without parents. Our family noticed that when you were laid to rest, it was on Louie's birthday. Now we laid Louie's dad to rest on your birthday. Isn't it amazing how our lives are all linked together? The family really helped me with everything I had to do. Lou's aunts and cousins were impressed with our family's willingness to pitch in. You would have been proud of all of them. I couldn't have make it through the last four days without their help and laughter.
Dad, Louie's dad Chago is an avid malia player so you, mom and Tia Chuchi now have your foursome. But watch out for Chago--like you Dad--he loves winning at cards; so a wink, a smile, a word, whistle or gesture might tip you off as to the cards he's holding in his hands. Mom, don't let Dad and my father-in-law partner up or you and Tia will never win a game.
Say a prayer for Louie, Dad. Right now he's feeling lost and lonely. In time, his memories will warm his heart without the tears. Miss you both. Happy Birthday, Dad.
Gloria
Rudy Montanez
August 26, 2007
Well Mom & Pop,
Hey Pop! Rudy Jr took his travel softball team to Des Moines, Iowa for the North American Fastpitch Association (NAFA)World Series. Well Pop he did it! Rudy's team was undefeated they went 6 - 0. They were Crowned the A Major Division World Series Champions. I know that you and Mom were in the front row watching all the games. Hey Mom I bet you were cheering the loudest up there in heaven. And Pop if you provided any unexplained help with the Umps thanks Pop.
Your Loving Son
Rudy
Gloria Lopez
August 8, 2007
Dear Mom and Dad,
Some sad news. Mom, your Aunt Carmen Rodriguez, passed away this morning at 6:00 a.m. I know that your mom, Grandma Virigina, is happy to see her sister again. Now the three sisters, Grandma Virginia, Aunt Tillie and Aunt Carmen are enjoying their reunion. Thought you might want to look for them and join them. Aunt Carmen was 92 years and mom, she had the most beautiful skin I have ever seen on a woman of her age. Mary, Danny and I were with her last night and did say goodbye. I know it will be hard for your cousins Darlene, Belinda, Janie and their families to say goodbye. They took such good care of her. That now leaves us with only one grand-uncle, David. The last of 12.
Also mom, your dearest cousin Lizzy Bryant, just lost her son Larry this past weekend. I know you knew that Larry had been very ill and after you left us, he called us to see how we were doing. Larry was in his early fifties. Much too young to die. So he might be somewhere up there also.
Last mom, your nephew Chris, Uncle George's son, passed away in May. He also was very ill and we did go and visit him in the hospital. He, like Larry, was in his early 50's. He left two beautiful grandchildren given to him from his son, Chris Jr.
So, happy are the recent additions to our family, but also sad for those who leave us. Wanted you to know.
Love you both.
Gloria
Also
Rudy Montanez
August 5, 2007
Hi Mom & Dad,
As you well know there have been 3 additions to the Family. On July 16th at 1232 pm Amy brought baby Richard Matthew into this world. I know that both of your were there watching over them. It didn't take long for his name to be shortened up. Rudy Jr & Cherish officially named him Ricky Moe. I Know you both would have loved to hold them. I know that they missed out on all your love and attention you would have given them mom & dad. Mom had the pleasure of holding Cherish but she missed out on holding Ricky. We all miss you and love you. Well I have to go because I am starting to cry again thinking about you and what these kids missed out on.
Your Loving Son
Rudy
[email protected]
Gloria Lopez
August 3, 2007
Dear Mom and Dad,
Before it gets too much later I need to announce that you have two more great-grandchildren. Amy's little boy was born on July 16th and she's named him Richard Matthew. The "Richard" is of course, after you dad. Not to be left out, on July 17th, Rachel had her little boy, and his middle name will be "Moe", which of course is the name most of your friends know you by. We already call him Little Moe, and Little Richard is "Little Ricky". Well, mom and dad, three great grandchildren all bearing your names in one way or another. Dad, I went to USC and bought two small USC jerseys for the boys. So they will be all ready to go when opening day of USC football begins. Looks like we are going to have a good team again, Dad. The preseason has already named them the #1 team. Mom, Notre Dame doesn't look so hot this year. They are young but they say they have the potential to be really good next year. So mom, all you can hope for is an upset--but we don't want to talk about that--we'll let you and Dad argue that out. We miss you both. All the new babies are beautiful and doing well. We miss all of you.
Love,
Gloria
Gloria Lopez
June 14, 2007
Dear Dad,
This is an early "Happy Father's Day" to you. I know everyone up there is doing well. Just wanted to let you know we miss you. This morning I heard the song "In the Living Years". Raymond selected that song to play at the Vaquero Little League Opening Day when they honored you shortly after you left us. Do you know that even today, each little league player wears your name "Moe" on a patch on their sleeves. You did a good thing, Dad, it your legacy continues. We have some happy news, Mom and Dad, your family continues to grow. Albert and Chris's Melissa had a new baby girl on Tuesday. Her name is Trinity Marie. The "Marie" is in honor of you mom. My only sadness is that this is the first great grandchild that neither you or mom will get to hold. This is the first one that will never be held in either of your arms. There are two more to go! Rachel and Amy will soon be having their new baby boys, so they will be the first three that will never get to know either of you. But, I suppose this is what the circle of life is all about. Dad, if you have any influence up there, see what you can do to help Ray. He needs prayers right now--you know why.
Anyway, Happy Father's Day!
Your Daughter
Gloria
Gloria Lopez
May 14, 2007
Dear Mom and Dad,
Happy Mother's Day, mom. Hopefully Dad remembered it was mother's day and picked a cloud full of flowers, sprinkled with some bright stars, and presented it to you. Where you and Dad rest was filled with beautiful flowers. Mary and I were there and Rick, Susan, Rachel and the great-grand kids were also there. It looks beautiful. We missed you mom, but I know you were happy to be with Dad. (After all, he was the reason you were a mother ten times). We love you mom.
Gloria
Christy Ramirez
April 11, 2007
Auntie and Uncle,
Well I didnt get to Celebrate with the family this year for Easter. I flew to Phoenix to be with my mom and the Mattas. I spent Easter and my birthday over there. Beautiful house and it was very big. My mom is happy there, she is with alot of people. Auntie I know you were always worried for her, but she seems happy. And that makes me content because I worried too like a mom.
On Monday, on my birthday exacly I thought of all you of you. Grandma playing "Los mananaitas" both of you ladies singing and uncle watching the game.As I get older I will always cherish the memories.And never forget "La Mananaitas" playing in the backgroud.
I love you all and miss you dearly.
Love your favorite niece :)
Christy
Gloria V Lopez
April 9, 2007
Dear Mom and Dad,
Yesterday was our very first holiday without you, mom or Tia Chuchi. All of our lives, one or all three of you have always been here for us. This will truely be a year of first without all of you. We celebrated Easter at Tia's house. All during the week we were all a little bit at a loss of what we were going to do. Our lives have always been automatically centered around the three of you. Finally, at almost the last minute, Mary picked up the ball and said we still have great grand nieces and nephews and we need to create for them the same wonderful memories the three of you have always given us and the grandkids. So, without missing a beat, Beady offered us Tia's house, and as always, some of us gathered there for our Easter Celebration. We offered our Easter prayer, feasted on some wonderful dishes and the Easter Egg hunt was on! Rachel's girls--Cecily and Jocee; Melissa's little Omar, Ronald and Helen's kids--Matthew, Alexis and Alyssa (who was in a beautiful dress that Mary bought for her) and finally Jason Jr. participated in the egg hunt. We missed Selena, Abel and little Miah (Leslie and Donald move to Arizona and took Marian with them); and little Cherish who moved with Amy to Texas. The other grandchildren and great grandchildren couldn't be with us especially since this was planned almost overnight. Your great grand kids are growing so fast. We had a wonderful time. Just wanted to let you all know that we made it through this first holiday missing all of you but knowing it is our turn to keep our family traditions alive and well for the great grandkids and grand nieces and nephews. We love and miss you.
Gloria
gloria lopez
March 29, 2007
Happy Birthday Mom! Today is your 74th Birthday! Hope you are celebrating your special day with Dad, Tia Chuchi and all the relatives that are up there with you. We all miss you very much.
Love,
Me
ps: I started this letter to you yesterday (March 28th) but didn't get to finish it until today. Sorry mom, you know me, always late.
Christy Ramirez
March 20, 2007
Uncle Moe,
Auntie is now with you and now at peace. I never realized how much she really loved you until the day she died.You two were the best and I will never forget the time you were there for me when I was 19.
It was a great honor to read a psalm at her funeral. She has always told me stories and we talked alot and became real close. Please take care of Auntie. I love her so much and I will give anything for another hug and kiss.
You'll will always be cherished and that I will always hold your memory dear to my heart.
Love you always,
your favorite niece:) christy
Gloria Lopez
March 20, 2007
Dear Mom and Dad,
On Saturday, March 17th, the whole family went to Disneyland! This was the gift that mom gave us before she left to join you. Eighty-one of us gathered together on a beautiful day, full of sunshine and love. We said a family prayer for you and then took a family picture in front of Mickey Mouse. We held banners thanking both of you for this very special gift. Each one of us wore a white ribbon with both your names printed on it--actually it was ribbon we had from your 50th Wedding Anniversary so many years ago. We we felt your love throughout the day. We also celebrated Adrian's 30th birthday at Disneyland. Your baby, the youngest of our family is now 30! He misses both of you very much.
Anyway, mom your dream came true--the whole family together, just as you wanted them to be. Thank you both for this very special gift. It is a memory that your children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and nieces and nephews will remember all of their lives. Thank you and we love you.
Gloria Lopez
January 23, 2007
Dear Dad and Mom!
You're anniversary was just this Saturday and now both of you are together again. Dad, take care of mom. She really had a difficult time the last few months and Henry and Mirna did do a wonderful job taking care of her. We are able to bring mom home and she left to join you from home, as you had done three years before. We are going to miss the both of you very much. Kiss mom and Tia Chuchi and both sets of grandparents (Alberto/Francisca/Henry/Viriginia)
for me. We love you.
Henry Montanez
January 15, 2007
Dear Dad Mom has gone on to be with you. Mirna and I tried to do our best to get her well but were unable to. She missed you so very much, and longed to be reunited with you. Now that she's there with you please take care of her. I miss you love you both so very much.
Gloria V Lopez
February 7, 2006
Dear Dad,
Amy is right! It is hard to believe that it has been two years since you left us. On the anniversary of your leaving us, mom and a small group of us visited you at the cemetary. Did you see us?? Did you hear us??? Amy's daughter, Cherish, played around your headstone. We have a picture of her visiting with you. As usual we came with arms full of flowers not only for you but all the family members nearby. Your nephew, Richard, as you know, was killed last year and he is buried not far from you. We found your brother, Uncle Julio, and also left flowers for him. Do you know that your best friend, Santillian, who followed you just four short months after you left, is buried nearby as well?? We see his family quite often when we visit you.
You do have a new great-granddaughter, Alyssa, and like all of your great-grandchildren, she's beautiful. On Sunday, we saw Jason's son, Jason Jr. and the whole family thinks that he looks like his great grandpa (you) when you were young. He does have some resemblance of you but I think he looks like Rosie.
Mom continues to struggle through her medical issues and at times she says she wants to join you but we're not ready yet to let her go.
We think of you often. Please pray for us as we so need them. We continue to pray for you. Love you dad.
Say happy birthday to your granddaughter Melissa, today is her birthday!
Your daughter,
Gloria
Amy & Cherish Montanez
January 31, 2006
Dear Grandpa,
It has now been 2 years exactly since you left us and i still can't believe it! It still feels like you were here just yesterday! A lot of things have changed since you left us. We are not as close as we used to be, at least not from my perspective. Grandma keeps getting sick and that worries all of us! We think she is almost ready to go up there and be reunited with her true love!!! She misses you dearly as we all do!!! Did you know you have a new granddaughter? Alyssa Mariah Montanez is Ronnie and Helen's baby. She's 3 months old, and she reminds me of you!!! I wish you could see all your great grand babies. They are all getting very big and are walking and talking now!!! It still saddens me because they never had the chance to know you!!! The good thing is that they will know you through all of us!!! We still wish that you could be here with all of us to talk and laugh and hold our children. One day we will all be together again!!! Then we'll have a big celebration!!! I love you grandpa and i really miss you too!!! Always watch out for us. I love you!
Gloria Montanez Lopez
June 11, 2005
Dear Margarita,
How ever did you did us? Mom and Dad often wondered what happen to Tio Alejandro and Tia Maria's family. How pleased he would be to know we've made contact. My Tia Chuchi (do you remember her?) just passed away in December at the age of 96. Please email me at my work: [email protected]
Margarita Gonzalez Arredondo
June 9, 2005
Sad to hear about Richard's demisse, but rejoiced to have found you. Many of you do not even know me, but I'm sure Gloria and, of course, Marie, remember me. I'm María Elena (cousin of Chuchi, Enrique, Julio, Gustavo, Rubén and Ricardo) and Alejandro's daughter. Now a grandmother myself. I presently live part of the year in New Orleans and the other part in Mexico City. My father died seven years ago and my mother -now a 94 great, great grandmother and very well, thank you- moved, and we lost address books and all means of getting in touch with you guys. I would love to hear from you.
Lots of love
Margarita
AMY & CHERISH MONTANEZ
February 6, 2005
DEAR GRANDPA,
AS AUNTIE GLORIA HAS TOLD YOU, YOU HAVE SOME NEW GREAT GRAND BABIES AND THEY ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL! I REALLY WISH YOU COULD BE HERE TO HOLD ALL OF THEM! I KNOW IT WOULD MEAN A LOT TO ALL OF US! I KNOW THAT EVEN THOUGH YOU'RE NOT HERE PSYCALLY YOU ARE HERE SPIRITUALY! EVRY NOW AND THEN MY LITTLE GIRL WILL LOOK UP AND START LAUGHING AND TALKING AND I KNOW THAT SHE'S TALKING TO YOU! WHEN THIS HAPPENS I CAN'T HELP, BUT TO SMILE AND EVEN CRY BECAUSE I KNOW SHE IS TALKING TO A GREAT MAN! ONE OF THE BEST I EVER KNEW! I JUST HOPE THAT SOME DAY SHE WILL FIND A MAN WHO IS AT LEAST HALF THE MAN YOU WERE! YOU ARE TRULY AN ANGEL IN LIFE AND DEATH! I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND ALWAYS!
Gloria Lopez
February 2, 2005
Dear Dad,
I can hardly believe that it has been one year since you left us. It feels like only yesterday that you said goodbye to all of us. Much has happened in the last year. Do you know that you have four new great-grandchildren? Jason Richard is Jason's son; Joseph is Lisa's son; Cherish is Amy's daughter; and Jocee is Rachel's daughter. They are all beautiful babies and I wish they could have known you. We'll have to make sure they will know you through our memories and stories about you.
There was a beautiful dedication for you at last year's Vaquero opening. All the kids are wearing the patch with your name. We were all given plaques to honor you. Your old team, Autobody, won their first game for you.
Mom had a stroke in May and is now on dialysis. She's been living with Henry and Mirna in Palmdale but now she's ready to come home. She's back to her old self and is fiesty as ever. It will be good to have her back home.
Ronald is home now, Dad. We picked him up in August and he and Helen are trying to build a life.
We're planning the family camping trip. This will be the first without you and you will be terribly missed.
Well, Dad, it's time to go. Say hello to Tia Chuchi for us. Tell her that we love her. Please keep the entire family in your prayers. We need them.
Love,
Your daughter, Gloria
Albert & Christina Montanez
March 29, 2004
March 29, 2004
Dad,
Thank you for being a special person to me and Chris and our family. A day never passes us by without us thinking about you. You were always there for us no matter what. We love you very much and we know you are watching down upon us. Pop since you left every Saturday I walk down to the baseball field down at the little park and think of all the great times we shared there.
Love You Dad,
Albert & Chris and Family
Jesus Alberto Montanez
March 29, 2004
March 29, 2004
Dearest Grandma,
I know you miss Grandpa I know, I miss him too. I know its hard for you but, you have to stay strong. I just want you to remember that no matter what that I will always be there for you too. It might sound weird coming from your youngest grandchild, 14 years old. Things have been really hard too, everyday before I fall asleep I can't help but cry for hours. Especially because after Grandpa passed away that incedent that happened to my dad and David I became more upset and more stressed. I mean to say is that words can't describe how much I love my family even if I don't know them well they will always be loved by me, that just one of the things Grandpa taught me: The Importance and Value of Family. Please Grandma stay strong, you and Grandpa have taught me so much and will always be in my thoughts, prayers, mind and heart.
With Unconditional Love
From Your YoungestGrandchild
Jesus Alberto Montanez
(Jesse)
Norma Montanez
February 16, 2004
Dearest Moe~
I will forever hold on to the memories that we had together as a family. Thank you for teaching me what it is to be a family. Marie, Adrian and you have been such a blessing in my life. I thank you, for allowing me to be part of your lives. I am thrilled to have known that you had the opportunity to see me become a TROJAN FAN!!! But, most importantly having the opportunity in celebrating Adrian and I wedding. It was the most memorable day of our lives. Thank you for making it such a special day. Love you always!
Darlene Gonzalez
February 15, 2004
Cousin Moe, you will be missed by everyone, however, you have a legacy in your children and grandchildren. They have grown up to be successful and kind. They will carry your memory. We have another beautiful person in heaven. I'm grateful to have been at your 25th. Love Rudy and Darlene.
Cindy Valenzuela
February 13, 2004
I feel your loss. I will always remember and love Uncle Moe, he was a great man, very wise and full of life. My prayers are with you all. I love and miss you all !
Samantha Cifuentes
February 12, 2004
I was brought in to the family By Amy Montanez. She has been my best friend since I can remember. Thanx to her I have met a great family and I love them very much.I met Grandpa two days before he past and I could feel like if I have met him since forever. I am sorry for your last. R.I.P. Richard "Moe" Montanez
Armida Negrete-Torres
February 12, 2004
In saying good-by to my uncle, it just seems like yesterday, he was there in the neighborhood, laughing and joking. He stood out among a lot of people, only because he acted instead of just talking. He loved openly, by what he did and how he did it. He has taught me a lesson. And to his family I can only hope that his love will comfort you in the times to come.
Martha Gallardo Maltz
February 11, 2004
I want to thank Uncle Moe, Auntie and all my cousins for embracing us into your lives. If you had not, life for us would have been dull and lonely. All our childhood memories were because of you. We will always love and cherish you for that. Grandma has had a void in her heart since she heard Uncle Moe was ill. She would say that she took care of him when he was young and he'll take care of her when she's old. And he did; with his loving family surrounding her and his constant companionship,she and we were never lonely. She will miss him as we all will. Uncle Moe gave of himself so generously. He taught us that a person of modest means could be so rich--surrounded by friends, love and admiration. All those who have wonderful stories and memories of him, please continue to share them with Auntie Marie, her kids and the community so they can be an inspiration to us all. Love, Martha
CRYSTAL Nichols
February 11, 2004
Dearest Uncle
I am truly sorry for not getting to know you better. I just wanted to say i love you and it makes me feel better that your shining down on me and the family. You were a blessing in this life and now will share you r blessings in the next we love you
Love Your Niece
AKA Crystal Marie Valenzuela
Natalie Maltz
February 11, 2004
Dear Uncle Moe,
You are a wonderful man! You have been able to lend a helping hand whenever you thought it was neccessary. I thank you for that. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers. I luv ya!
Henry Montanez
February 11, 2004
Dad I love you and miss you very much. It was a privilege to have you as a father, your undying dedication to your family can never be equaled. Thank you for being there throughout my life. There will always be a void here that can never be filled by anyone else. You will always live forever in my heart.
Christy Valdiviez(Ramirez)
February 10, 2004
For my dearest and beloved Uncle Moe,
There is so much to say to you and words cannot express how I feel. I always considered you as a father. you and my aunt and my cousins were always there for me and leslie. you gave us the unconditional love.I will truly miss your hugs the most. You'll always have my heart and as I look up to you in the sky and smile I know that your looking at me and shining your love on me.I love you very much.
your favorite niece-our joke we share.
Christy
Rudy Montanez
February 10, 2004
Pop,
You know that I Love You very much. I want to thank you for all that you and mom have done for me and my family. I will miss you every day for the rest of my life.
If I could only be half the man you were, I would be a happy man.
I hope that I can make you proud to say to the lord That's my son.
I Love Pop!
Rudy
Gloria Lopez
February 10, 2004
Dear Dad:
My heart will always remember and always be filled with the light of your love. I am proud to have been your daughter!
Gloria
Amy Montanez
February 10, 2004
Grandpa,
I love you dearly and you will always be with me. It's been hard for me to move on without you, but I realized I don't have to as long as you're in my heart! And I want you to know that you always will be! For the rest of my family I LOVE YOU ALL and we'll all be alright as long as we live with love in our hearts and not hatred! And as a great man once said "Live life one day at a time!" (Richard "Moe" Montanez) I love you all! Grandpa you'll always live on in my heart and in the heart of many! I LOVE YOU GRANDPA MOE!
Love Always,
Amy
Mary Navarro
February 10, 2004
Dad,
You know how much I love you. I thought I'd let you know that Christina, here at work has acquiesced. After she attended your services, she said that you in fact, were better than her daddy. I said, "I know. My daddy's an angel in heaven." My heart belongs to you, Dad.
Teresa Montanez
February 10, 2004
I would like the family to know that it has been an honor being Moe & Marie's daughter-in-law for the past 28 years. You and your family have done alot for me and Rudy and our family. THANK YOU. I LOVE YOU ALL and I will miss Moe alot! Teresa
YOLANDA CALLEJA
February 6, 2004
To Marie Montanez & Family.
To me, Moe was "The Pillar of our Community". He did for us what no one else could ever do, or attempted. Our little North Atwater community has suffered a great loss and will be dearly missed and remembered always.
Love,
Yolie
MARGIE JIMENEZ-ALVAREZ
February 6, 2004
I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THAT I WILL MISS MOE ALOT HE HAS MENT ALOT TO US AT VAQUERO LITTLE LEAGUE WHEN WE NEEDED SOMETHING FOR BASEBALL HE WAS THERE FOR ME & CONNIE. ALWAYS I WAS VERY SADDEN WHEN I HERD THE NEWS THAT HE WAS VERY SICK THIS PAST YEAR. I WAS VERY UPSET AT MY SELF FOR MISSING HIS DEDICATION OF THE PARK. I KNEW MANY YEAR OF LIVING IN THE BARRIO. I ALWAYS USED TO TELL HIM HE HAD VERY GOOD LOOKING SONS, HE WOULD JUST LAUGH.I WOULD LIKE TO TELL MARIE SHE DID A VERY GOOD JOB WITH MOE & AND HER KIDS. MARIE I SENDING MY PRAYES OUT TO YOU. MOE I WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOU IN MY PRAYES AND THOUGHTS GOOD BYE.
CONNIE JIMENEZ
February 6, 2004
Dearest Marie
May god bless you during this hard time. Moe "We Love You",You will be missed, but your memory will always
live in out Hearts FOREVER
Love Raul & Connie Jimenez
Fran Olmos
February 5, 2004
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Olmos Family
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