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Ruth Bochner Obituary

May 9, 1925 - March 11, 2017 Ruth Bochner passed away at her home in Santa Monica on March 11, 2017. She was 91 years old, her death the result of natural causes. Born Ruth Roher in Toronto, Canada, on May 9, 1925, the daughter of Harry Roher, a well-known Toronto bookseller, and Anne Roher, nee Deutch. Ruth studied piano at the Royal Conservatory of Music in the 1940s and was an accomplished pianist, performing across Canada at a concert level and winning several prizes in competition. In 1948 she married Lloyd Bochner, the Canadian actor. They made their home in Toronto, where they had three children: Johanna, Hart and Paul. Several summers in the early 1950s were spent in Stratford where Mr. Bochner was part of the Shakespeare Festival's original cast of actors. In 1960 the family left Toronto for Los Angeles when Mr. Bochner had been given a lead role in an ABC series. Ruth and Lloyd remained married for fifty-seven years, until Mr. Bochner's death in 2005. Ruth returned to school in the 1980s, studying at Antioch College West, and was awarded her Master's degree in 1988. She then began work in the Court Appointed Special Advocates program in Los Angeles, helping to represent, to guide and counsel disadvantaged, youthful offenders in their passage through the judicial system. Ruth and Lloyd spent summers sailing their 42-foot sloop in the Georgia Strait, off the coast of British Columbia, indulging their long-held joy in being alone together on the water. She is survived by her three children.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Mar. 14, 2017.

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Patricia Marotte

August 6, 2018

Dear Hart and family

Just read this re your mum. So sorry for your loss. I went to your dad's memorial but did not know of your mum's passing. They were kind to me when I came over in 1963 to be a "mother's Helper" Good memories. Patricia Marotte Perka

Blair Tefkin

March 18, 2017

Hi Hart, My sympathies to you and your family. She sounds like an amazing woman. Blair

KELLEY

March 16, 2017

MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BRING YOUR FAMILY A MEASURE OF COMFORT.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17

Freddi Rokaw

March 15, 2017

The Gitelmans from your old house on Cortleigh (Toronto) are sending their heartfelt condolences to the entire Bochner family. As Lloyd had written on the inner wall of the house in 1955, we will continue "to hear the echoes of your laughter and happiness."

~ Barbara Newman (née Gitelman), Bruce Gitelman, and Freddi Rokaw (née Gitelman)

G. B.

March 15, 2017

May you celebrate a life well-lived and cherish the many memories created along the way. May God's loyal love Comfort your heart at this difficult time. Psalm 59:9,10

Sanford Ragins

March 15, 2017

My wife and I were saddened to learn of Ruth's death. She was very kind to us during the years she and Lloyd belonged to Leo Baeck Temple. She was gracious, warm and most friendly. We hope she did not suffer in dying, and that all of you are comforted with your memories of her.
(Rabbi) Sandy Ragins

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