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Steven Birge
December 17, 2013
I remember the good after-Christmas gatherings of the Sheffields and the Birges at 1547 East Woodbury Road in Pasadena when we were kids and Ruth and Elsie were life-long friends, Art and Lysle tinkering with the lights or toys that didn't work right, and Lois, Jeanie, Barbara and I making our floats for the Rose Parade in the long driveway. The turkey, stuffing, gravy, mashed potatoes, and peas, all passed to the left around the table that Stanley and Colleen still use. Grandma Hawley's crocheted white tablecloth, fostoria plates and silverware set just right per her instructions, Knowlton, Elmer and Vera, all crowded so tight in the dining room that nobody better want to get up. Living room full of wrapping scraps after the ceremonial opening of the presents. And finally the Rose Bowl game watched on television before the Sheffields packed everything for the drive back to Long Beach. Those were the days.
Lois Ellefson Cox
December 16, 2013
For almost all my childhood we lived across the street from The Sheffields. Our family was at their house or they were at ours for many fun get togethers. Ruth had a beautiful voice and sang in the choir at the church we all attended. When my grandmother passed away and my parents could not attend my Baccalaureat service for my high school graduation, Ruth and Art attended with me. I have never forgotten what a kindness that was.
God Bless You, Ruthie.
December 15, 2013
As a Music student at Long Beach State from 1961 to 1967, I was well aware how much Ruth gave to us. She was a giant among women, and took on hopeless cases of student poverty. Once winter set in, I had no coat to wear and Ruth noticed that. She procured one of Art's cast offs, a gaudy plaid brown jacket, and I wore it proudly for years. She personally 'saved' a lot of kids rattling around on upper campus. She was all give and no take; an amazing person.
Pax in aeternum, Ruth, pax.
In manus tuas, Domine, commendo spiritum meum.
Jeff Reynolds
December 15, 2013
I often gave Ruth a ride to Sigma Alpha Iota meetings. I never heard the story of her adoption until I read it in the obituary. Thank you for publishing such a great obituary. She and her husband raised two lovely daughters. My husband still remembers what a great teacher's aide Lois was for him at Jefferson Junior High school. Dorlyne & Howard Genrich
Ken Clark
December 14, 2013
I was the graduate assistant in the music department from 1972 to 1974 where I worked closely with Ruth. She was a great lady and will be missed by the hundreds of students whose lives she touched. Have a good journey, Ruth.
December 13, 2013
I love and miss you grandma!! Enjoy life in heaven!!
December 13, 2013
Aunt Ruth was a wonderful person. I have many memories of the family coming down to San Diego for picnics and party's or we would all go up to Long Beach. She always remembered my birthday. She was so loving. Blessings to my two cousins Jeanne and Lois. Beverly Sheffield Cooney
Dolly Ickler
December 13, 2013
I am a member of SAI and was a student of Paul Stroud in the '60's. We loved Ruthie. Please keep us informed of her celebration of life [email protected]
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