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for Charles Comer
Troy Young
June 6, 2012
I just found out about Charlie by reading between the lines of his fathers Obituary. The line " survived by his sisters" thru me for a loop so I searched the LC Sun news obits and come upon all this. I am so sorry for your loss. Charlie and i were fast friends back in the day and I was at most of those gigs in his slide show. I met you one day a few yrs back at Lowes, i told you guys about John Hatch's passing, strange huh? Anyway, god bless your soul Charles Comer. You will be missed.
charlie minn
November 10, 2011
I am the director of "a nightmare in las cruces" which examines the bowling alley massacre from 1990. I contacted Charles at KRWG in Sept 2009 and he couldn't have been more kind and gracious. He allowed me permission to use KRWG file footage from that horrific day back on Feb 10, 1990. The documentary wouldn't have had the same impact if it wasn't for Charles' generosity and care for what is easily the worst day in Las Cruces history. Charles even asked questions for me in the film and made a solid appearance answering questions. I never met Charles, but never needed to realize what a kind and generous man he was. I grieve like everyone else at his sudden passing and send my deepest condolences to his family and friends.
John Walker
August 4, 2011
I had the honor and privilege to be Charles’ instructor at the community college many years ago. Charles came to class (it was an Intro to Computers class), not too sure of himself, with many questions about the direction his life should take. He was not too sure if this “college thing” was for him, but I encouraged him to give it a try, promising that I would help him every step of the way in the class. It didn’t take long before I noticed a spark in Charles’ eyes that wasn’t there before. As his confidence grew, and he became more secure in himself, he began to see possibilities for his life that he had never imagined before! He, of course, excelled in the class, and the rest, as they say, is history. He went on to advance his education and moved into a successful career.
After this, I followed his life from afar, catching glimpses as he would occasionally drop by the community college with an update, or with a casual conversation with his father, Winston. Our lives touched but one more time, recently, as Charles was able to assist the community college through our Community Education program. He was able to work part-time and fill a void to keep our Community Education program afloat. Although he was able to help but briefly, Charles’ ideas and plans were a welcome addition to the program.
I was saddened to hear about Charles passing, knowing the big void he would leave behind. But I rejoice that I was able to play but a small part in his life, igniting a spark, and providing a gentle nudge with encouragement and hope. Charles was and is a great human being.
Marina Torrez
August 3, 2011
Susan, I am sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord give you strength through this difficult time.
Betty Patterson
August 2, 2011
Susan,
I am sorry I missed the service. I am here when you need me.
We all care so much for you!
Marty Corral
August 2, 2011
Susan, may the Lord give you peace and strength. Sorry for your loss. Charles was very proud of you and Katherine in whom I never met but he always talked highly of. You two were what he lived for, that was his pride and joy. I have memories of him, he was not only a good guy, but a good friend, the perfect neighbor, and the most reliable smoking buddy.LOL. Our timing was perfect when it came time for our smoke break. We always shared conversations together in the back alley when we smoked our cigarettes. Cleo (my poodle) loved him, and so did my daughter Crystal. He gave them both lots of attention. Charles, my friend I will miss you greatly. Your friend Marty
Cindy Smith
August 1, 2011
Dear Susan,
I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your memorial tribute. We will be praying for you and your family.
Sincerely,
Cindy Smith
August 1, 2011
Susan,
After reading some of the comments about Charles I wish I had known him. I am so sorry for your loss and please know that you and your family are in our prayers and that you are not alone.
Lorna Schriver
Debbie Guy
August 1, 2011
I am sorry to hear of your loss, Susan, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mario Jimenez
August 1, 2011
Susan, Charles will be missed. My prayers are with all of you.
Charles Gray
August 1, 2011
Charles was the best. The best co-worker, friend, and person i can say that i've ever met in this life. he will be remembered.
Buck Wade
August 1, 2011
Susan,
Your mom an I are very sorry for your loss. We were very happy for both of you when you got married. We liked Charles very much and thought you made a very wise choice. We will miss him as much as you. You have our deepest sympathy and prayers.
Love you,
Dad & Mom
August 1, 2011
Dear Susan,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Betsy Fuller
Ron Salak
August 1, 2011
I was so shocked to hear of Charles passing away. He did such a superb job as Assistant News Director at KRWG-TV and it was a joy to work with him. His ability to work with the students was outstanding. His passing is a loss to our community. God Bless!
August 1, 2011
Dear Susan,
I am sorry for what you and your family are going through.
I just read the tribute to his life was and it is beautiful. Thank you for sharing his story about his journey in life, and the beauty in it.
Sincerely,
Susan Acosta
Rosa Herrera
July 31, 2011
Mrs. Comer, I am sorry for your loss. God Bless him.
Rosa Herrera
Erik Ness
July 31, 2011
I really enjoyed working with Charles while I was at the N.M. Farm Bureau....he was a great journalist...curious...smart and always fair...and he understood the importance of agriculture...Vaya con Dios
Paula Groves
July 31, 2011
Mrs. Comer - we are so sorry for your loss. May God Bless you and comfort you.
Paula, Jordyn & Morgyn
Jackie Mitchell
July 31, 2011
Dearest Susan... I did not know Charles well, but I have such lovely memories of him as our neighbor. In our last conversation I was trying to lure out the last of a litter of feral kittens from under my house in order to find them homes. As a lure, I was using a fellow litter kitten and they were both singing and crying to each other. Charles could see and hear all this and was clearly concerned. Such a kind, gentle fellow, he also took on clearing the street debris from storm drains on our street after a rain. Susan, I was so moved reading his obituary, thank you for sharing his great and meaningful life. Jackie Mitchell
Teresa Chacon
July 31, 2011
Dear Susan,
After reading your tribute to Charles, I realized that you continue to take such good care of him. He was very lucky to have you.
Your friend,
Kirstie
July 30, 2011
Worked with Charles at "ILLUSIONS" at the Hilton in the good old days. I came across this by accident, somehow. Susan, I am so sorry for your loss. I just adored Charles.
Ginger Bellard
July 30, 2011
Charlie was a crazy man and he will be missed!
Brian Baltz
July 30, 2011
Susan,
I was a class mate of Charles at NMSU. I am deeply sorry to hear of his untimely passing. I have many fond memories of Charles. Sharing the laughs and that spark of life that instantly made him a partner in crime.
Once again lovely tribute to a most wonderful guy he will be missed.
Sincerely
Brian Baltz
Robert
July 30, 2011
Dear Susan,
I wanted to write briefly to say I am very sorry to hear about Charles. We played soccer together years ago. I really liked him. He had a uniqeness about him that reading the website brought back to me. I wish I could be at his party but my Daad Bob will probably attend.
with love, Robert
David Uribe
July 30, 2011
Dear Susan, so sorry to hear of your lost. Peace be with you and take good care of yourself in this time.
Marita Lindbeck
July 29, 2011
Susan,
I am deeply moved by your tribute to Charles. It is obvious that the two of you shared a rare, precious and lasting love. What a blessing for you to have experienced that together!
I have many fond & happy memories of Charles, of the two of you together and of the entire Comer family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!
Most Sincerely,
Marita Lindbeck
Debbie Hanson
July 29, 2011
You are a new friend Susan who we in NEA-LC and NEA-NM are so fortunate to have found. I did not know Charles, but one day you shared some information about him with me and you had a big smile as you talked about him. I am so sorry that he has left this life early but I know that his spirit will comfort you for the rest of your life. You are a dear person and you have many friends who will be here for you. Please contact me if there's anything at all you need.
Debbie Hanson
July 29, 2011
Dear Susan,
What a beautiful written tribute to your husband. I am so sorry for your loss and pray that God will give you strength and encouragement in the coming days.
Hugs,
Charm Winrich
Kathy Martinez
July 29, 2011
Dear Susan,
I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's passing. You have been in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you now and always.
Natalie Geiger
July 29, 2011
Dear Susan,
Thoughts and prayers have been with you since I heard the news. Your message on the memorial post was beautifully written, showing the deep love you two had that never leaves, but only inspires others to love as hard as you two have. May God bless you with strength during this difficult time.
Michele Sanchez
July 29, 2011
Dear Susan,
I'm so sorry to hear about Charles. I knew Charles through you and he could not have had a more loving and caring person in his life. May God give you the strength and courage to face the obstacles ahead. We will keep you in our prayers.
July 29, 2011
Dear Susan,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May god bless you during this very difficult time.
Cathy and Cruz Garcia
Karin Hite
July 29, 2011
There's a new star in the night sky looking down and smiling on you, Susan. Your message and memorial are honest and beautiful. I am so thankful Charles had you in his life. Its plain to see there is no greater love than what you two shared...be it 20 years or just a few, you made his every moment count.
Ralph Escandon
July 29, 2011
Charles, July of 2008 as I will always remember him, with his infectious and ever present smile. Rock on my Friend,
July 29, 2011
Susan,
You have so many very special memories of Charles-always treasure those. You and Katherine are in my thoughts and prayers.
Theresa Jones
Jason Rivera
July 29, 2011
Thoughts, prayers and condolences.
Gayla Weaver
July 28, 2011
Dear Susan,
I'm so sorry to learn of your sad loss. Christina reminded me that I called you Patti Wade or Waldo when you started work with us. Please accept my condolences. You have very precious memories of Charles.
Gayla
Christina Devereaux
July 28, 2011
Susan,
My God bless you and comfort you during this time. I remember the stories you would share about you and Charles (while you did your internship at the County Extension Office)and we would laugh! Always remember those times luv ya.
Minerva Goen
July 28, 2011
Katherine,
I'm deeply sorry for the loss of your
Dad. I remember him coming to pick you
up at Terrie's and he always had a smile
on his face. He was a very kind person. When I would run into him, he
would always give me a hug and tell me
how you were doing. He loved you with all his heart and soul. May "GOD" comfort you and give you strength.
Minerva Frietze Goen
heidi seelbach
July 28, 2011
People didn’t just know Charles, or meet him- You experienced Charles. So full of life, energy and love for everything but especially Susan and Katherine. After talking with Charles, a smile was on your face, a skip to your walk, mostly not knowing why.
Charles was the proudest dad ever. When talking about Katherine, he’d end up speechless (Charles not having something to say?), but by the look on his face, you knew his daughter was exceptional.
And Susan, you will always be Charles’s everything. He spoke of playing Wii, seeing a movie, eating good food with you, traveling…to Charles, every moment the two of you had together was magical. He was “giddy”, in love!
how to say goodbye to Charles. you can’t.
Diane and Charles Jeffus
July 28, 2011
I met Charles years ago, we worked at The Las Cruces Hilton together. He was a kind hard working person. Our condolences to the Comer families.
William A. Mattiace
July 28, 2011
Charles you were a great friend to all of us. A true asset to our community and you will be missed greatly. I know you're reading this from your palace in the sky! Susan, may there be brighter days ahead.
-The Mattiace Family
Ines Thunhorst and Family
July 28, 2011
Dear Susan
"Blessed are those who mourn,
for they will be comforted"
Matthew 5:4
We are so sorry for your loss.
Frank Thayer
July 28, 2011
Charles was always a dedicated professional while KRWG-TV was part of the journalism department, and he saw it as his mission to help student journalists become proficient broadcasters. It was saddening to hear of his unexpected death, and I know that his life mattered a great deal to us, as well as to his family. My prayers are with you. My best, Frank Thayer, Department of Journalism and Mass Communications, New Mexico State University
July 28, 2011
Dear Susan,
With heartfelt sympathy and kindest thoughts to you, in your sorrow. My prayers are with you at this difficult time. I believe that when someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. Treasure all those beautiful memories you have of Charles and your life together.
My Deepest Sympathy,
Kathy Alba
Scott Moore
July 28, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Charlie was a friend and teammate years ago. Not too long ago we spoke on the phone and it was like we hadn't missed a beat. He was so proud of his family and such a true person. So very sorry for your loss and the sudden nature of things.
The Moore Family
Bonnie Elder
July 28, 2011
I was a friend of Katherine's "De-te" (Terrie Slay). I know that Charles & Winston were always there for Katherine with all their love & support. Charles was a good dad to Katherine. He was a good man in many other ways too. Susan, thank you for the well-written and informative piece. My thoughts are with you.
Charles 1986
Poohbear and Janice Apodaca
July 28, 2011
Our Hearts and Prayers extend out to you for your loss. Charles will be missed by all
June 1986
Poohbear Apodaca
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August 1986
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July 1986
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Charles and Phillip
Poohbear Apodaca
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Charles and Mike T
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Charles and Friends at TKE
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Charles on Bass
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Assailant in concert with lead singer Charles
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Charles Summer 1986
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Carla Ligon
July 27, 2011
I had the great pleasure of meeting Charles back when Red Lobster had open.He was always such a fun young man to be around.My thoughts and prayers are with you and all his family.His loss is our loss.
Carla Ligon ( Las Cruces,N.M)
Mike Teitsworth
July 27, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. I had the priviledge to play a lot of great music with Charles and have great memories of our Rockin' days. He possessed an uncanny knowledge of everything, especially music. I learned much from Charles as both a friend and bandmate, and I think of him often; I will miss him deeply. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
David Morgan
July 27, 2011
For all who knew you, Charles, you were lifetime memorable. And for creating journalists of tomorrow, you mattered. Your passion for the craft will be unmatched at Milton Hall for years to come.
Yvette Nunez
July 27, 2011
Mrs. Comer,
I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless and bring comfort to you and your family.
Deborah Campos
July 27, 2011
Susan,
I am so sorry for your loss,my prayers are with you. God Bless you and comfort you.
Sheila Ortega
July 27, 2011
Susan, My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Danielle Nanez
July 27, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, we are so sorry for your loss.
Michelle Corella, NMSU
July 27, 2011
I had the good fortune to meet Charles a few years ago when I did some IT-related work on the NewsKing application for KRWG. Charles was so personable and helpful. He had a great outlook on life. I am so sorry to hear of his passing, but am grateful to have had the opportunity to know him. My deepest condolences to his family during this difficult time.
July 27, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Ford Ballard & Saran Rai
Sharon Montano
July 27, 2011
Susan, We are all very sorry for your loss. Big hug from big sis. I'll see you soon. Love you lots.
Dominick Fiumara
July 27, 2011
Susan, I will always remember Charles as being full speed in a conversation. He was very energetic and a great guy to know. When he was here at the workforce center I thought it was cool that we worked close by. I enjoyed his show from time to time and thought it was neat, after all how many people can watch a show and say "Hey I know that guy!". At any rate, that was a great piece that you wrote and I think you said it all. My deepest condolences to you, Winston and the whole family.
Selina Romero
July 27, 2011
Dear Susan,
I am very sorry for your loss. May God be with you during this time. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Marcy Oxford
July 27, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss, Susan.
Bob Nosbisch
July 26, 2011
After talking with Charles for only five or ten minutes about rock-n-roll, I would walk away feeling as if I had just been hooked up to a Starbucks espresso machine. The man was ON! He loved his rock music and it's only fitting that he was born on the same day as bassist Berry Oakley of the Allman Bros. Band, guitarist Dave Hill of Slade, and the great Muddy Waters.
Charles, I will always cherish having you as a journalism student, working with you at KRWG-FM, and knowing you as a friend. Rest in peace, my friend. You touched many, many lives and we are better people for having known you.
Gary Worth
July 26, 2011
Charles and I were in the trenches for years. We have war stories, and those make for the strongest bonds. We weathered the very best and worst of times. Was he my friend? My student? My colleague? My brother? My mentor? All of those and more. He finished sentences in scripts that I could only start. He raged. He cried. He laughed. He sang. Smart. Quick. Hysterically witty. You knew when Charles was in the room. He lived life large and felt deeply. He was honest and courageous and sacriligious and spiritual. He has been taken too soon from us. I am so glad he had Susan who grew more beautiful every year I knew her. I know how proud he is of his daughter. And how much he missed his mother. How much he really loved music, and art, and PBS, and NPR, and ideas and living life. To Susan, thank you for this WONDERFUL site and unique ceremony you are planning for Charles. It could not be more perfect. If I cannot be there in person due to distance, I will be in spirit. Please set up the camera and roll tape. Much love from Gary
Angelica Pharisien
July 26, 2011
Dear Susan, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Anna Marie Crider
July 26, 2011
May the Comfort of the Lord give you peace Susan, and a inner strength to cherish each year with the memories that both of you created together.
Anna Marie Crider
Lydia Kelley
July 26, 2011
Susan, I am so sorry for your loss.
Michael Otero
July 26, 2011
Charles and I worked together for several years at the Hilton. We shared a lot of misery and a ton of laughs together. He will definitely be missed.
Ralph Escandon
July 26, 2011
Dear Susan, I wish to express my deepest sorrow and condolences over your loss. It has taken me some time to come to terms with Charles passing. Charles was a good friend and when he left KRWG the place was never the same. He, Christian and I worked closely together on his show, on several projects at the station (he personally edited my fathers WWII story for "Our Stories" and the 3 of us would regularly go out and find a new place for lunch as well as visit Fidencio's at least 2-3 times a month. I regret that we did not see him more after he left but I understand. I will miss him dearly and I will always remember him, I hope he is one of the people waiting for me when it is time for me to go home. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this sad time and my memories of good times are with my Bro, Charles. God Bless you and help you through this difficult time. Ralph Escandon.
Milen
July 26, 2011
Susan,
May the warmth from friends and family surround you, and may you find some comfort in those reaching out to you and Katherine during this difficult time.
The words you have shared are beautiful. When I think of Charles, I smile. Through everything at KRWG, I always loved to watch his face light up when he talked about his family. He would tell many of us that worked with him how much he loved you, how much he loved his daughter, and how lucky he was because of you both.
When he did that, his face just lit up, something that is hard to describe, but anyone that knew him would know what I am talking about.
One of the things about Charles that I will never forget is that he cared. He cared about what he did/how he did it, and he cared about those he taught.
He genuinely cared about people.
He was a great teacher and friend to me, and even always went out of his way to say hello if he saw me walking by.
His memory will live on in so many ways, and it gives me peace to know that you and Katherine helped make his life rich in love.
Milen
July 26, 2011
My dear Susan,
My love,thoughts,and prayers are with you during this sorrowful chapter of your life.God will grant you the strength,faith,and peace to guide you through this pain.Please know that you are not alone.
Berta Covey
Arturo Portillo
July 26, 2011
I will miss Charles dearly. When I worked with him and we've talked, he would give me very helpful advice on my career and he was always right. I was fortunate to have Charles work on my short film and will always be grateful for his encouragement, his friendship and his honesty.
July 26, 2011
I offer my thoughts during this moment of trial. Louis O. Constantini
July 26, 2011
Dear Susan,
Although Jag and I have never met you, we have heard of you through our son Karma. Karma was very fond of both you and Charles, as well as Katherine. We met Charles a couple of times when Karma was visiting us. We liked him right away, and are grateful for the friend he was to our son. He will be missed. May God hold you in His arms and give you sweet comfort.
Our Deepest Sympathy,
Jag and Linda Cheema
July 26, 2011
I will always remember Charles as a ray of sunlight. Charles helped me when my kids were young. They called him Charles in Charge because he would come to the house, clean up a bit and then stay with them on the days they didn't have an after-school program. My carpets were always vacumed and the tile was always shiny! He was so proud of his daughter and loved Susan so much.
I am truly without words.
Janice & Matt Bownes
July 26, 2011
Susan, you've written such a beautiful memorial piece. I knew Charles in high school, and am close to his sisters and father. My husband and I would like to send you all our sincere condolences. Our hearts go out to you.
Donna Hatch-Siedow
July 26, 2011
Carlie was my brothers, John Hatch, best friend growing up. I was saddened to hear of his passing. My prayers are with you.
July 24, 2011
Susan and family - My heart is heavy, as I'm sure is yours. I'm so sorry to hear about Charles. My thoughts are with you. I'm so glad that the last time I spoke with him, we laughed and gave each other a supportive hug. He was truly special. Jo Galvan Nash (Las Cruces)
Denise Ojinaga (LaFrance)
July 22, 2011
I'm so sorry to hear of Charles' passing. I was his student at KRWG. He taught me so much, was a great writer (the Lead King) and had such a strong passion for what he did. Susan, you and his daughter were truly the loves of his life. You're all he ever talked about. Charles will be truly missed. In my prayers always.
Susan Comer
July 22, 2011
Fantastic picture Scott - thank you!
Renee Ruelas
July 21, 2011
We started out at competing stations in Roswell and ended up friends and working together at KRWG. You always made me feel that all my hard work was appreciated. Thanks Double CCs. From Double RRs
Scott Owen
July 21, 2011
Oops, actually 3rd of July, 1986. Left to right, Mike R on guitar, Mike T on Drums and the man, CLC on bass guitar.
Scott Owen
July 20, 2011
Happy memories of you fill our hearts forever. Despite the pain that we feel now, we must hold our heads high, listen to the music and ROCK ON!
3rd of July, 1984 - Assailant jams in the front yard! Who was there?
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