Alan Barker

Alan Barker

Alan Barker Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 7 to Oct. 10, 2005.
BARKER, Alan Robert (1919-2005) Peacefully in hospital at Carleton Place, Ontario on Thursday, October 6, 2005 in his 86th year. Dearly loved by his wife of 58 years Melba Barker (nee Hogarth). Treasured father of Janet Messervey (Rob). Much loved grandfather of Maggie. Survived by his sister Isobel Nesbitt (Aubrey). Alan will be fondly remembered by his numerous nieces and nephews. Predeceased by his cherished son James Alan Barker, and his siblings Helen Drummond, Wallace Barker and Ruth McDougall. Alan's life was filled with devotion to his family, friends and community. He was a respected businessman and founder of the Alan R. Barker Funeral Home where he worked well into his eighties. Alan served in World War II Royal Canadian Corps of Signals from 1939-1945, M.I.D. Alan was a Life Member of the Royal Canadian Legion, Branch 192. He was the recipient of the distinguished Ontario Medal for Good Citizenship awarded by the Queen Mother in 1979 and was named Carleton Place Business Person of the Year in 1993. Friends may call at his funeral home 19 McArthur Avenue, Carleton Place, on Sunday from 1 to 5 p.m., Monday 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. and on Tuesday from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. thence to Zion-Memorial United Church for the Funeral Service at 2 p.m. Interment Auld Kirk Cemetery, Almonte. Donations to the Cancer Society would be greatly appreciated by the family. Royal Canadian Legion, Branch 192, Carleton Place will hold a service at the funeral home Monday evening at 7 p.m.

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Carol Dowdall

October 10, 2005

I extend my sympathy to Melba and family in the death of a Carleton PLace statesman - Alan. You are a special friend of the Dowdall Family. Your loving, caring personality and your funeral staff will always be remembered in the hearts of the Miller/ Dowdall Families.



God's Blessing to the Barker Family.



Carol Miller/Dowdall

Coquitlam, BC

Iola Blackburn (montomery-h.b.)

October 8, 2005

My deepest sympathy to all Alan's family.

Sincerly, Iola Blackburn

Louise Clifford

October 8, 2005

My sincere condolences to Melba, Janet and Family. Thank you for being such a friend to me and my brother. You saw us through many difficult times. The town of Carleton Place has lost a great man and no one will ever fill your shoes. God be with you, and give your family the strength to move forward. You will be sorely missed.

Louise Clifford, and Mel Stanzel.

Joanne Mott

October 8, 2005

My sincere condolences to Melba, Janet and Family. Allan you will be greatly missed by all of those that you have touched. The memories I have of you down at the cottage will forever be with me. You where a great person, as a friend and in the business world.

My thoughts are with the family in this very difficult time. God Bless you all! All my Love

Bev & Len Vallee

October 7, 2005

Our hearts & souls go out to Melba.

Alan was a very caring & wonderful man, & will be missed by many walks of life.

Rob Lavern

October 7, 2005

Alan was a great funeral director,showing compassion and kindness to both clients and colleges.

Allan's ethics were unquestionable, as a funeral director I am truly greatful for his contribution to the funeral profession. For a small guy he leaves very large shoes to fill.

sincerely,

Rob Lavern F.D.

Bryan W. Fuller

October 7, 2005

Former Owner of Queenway Ambulance Ottawa, and worked for Emergency Health Services.



Allan, may you rest in peace now and for ever.



Bryan W. Fuller

Michael (Mike) Brown

October 7, 2005

My sincere condolences to the family. Having worked in the industry in removal service, I met Alan and had the greatest respect for him.

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