Alan Charles Wilson

1963 - 2023

Alan Charles Wilson obituary, 1963-2023, Vancouver, WA

Alan Charles Wilson

1963 - 2023

Alan Wilson Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 18, 2023.
Alan Wilson, October 4, 1963 - August 5, 2023. Our brother, son, uncle, cousin, and dear friend, left us far too soon... just two months before his 60th birthday. Our planet has lost a spark of light.

After giving pancreatic cancer the fight of his life for two and a half years, Alan passed away peacefully at home with family at his side. From his diagnosis until his recent rapid decline, he got up every morning looking forward to the morning light, a cup of coffee, and sitting down to make a plan for the day. One of his favorite phrases was "Rise and shine, we're burning daylight!" He lived with a daily determination to maximize his time and strengthen his ties. He kept his positive spirit and humor going until the end.

With family and friends, he checked things off his bucket list... he saw the whales in Alaska, visited the Napali coast in Hawaii, got back up to Mt. Hood to hike his favorite trails, traveled in Utah with old college buddies, took the Coast Starlight train back to his college town, visited his best friend in Arizona, took several trips to the Oregon coast in all seasons, and returned to the Yucatan, his favorite place in Mexico. And he got to meet his adorable baby grandniece.

Alan loved many things... aspens, dahlias, and broccolini, his beloved dogs, Rochia and Scrappi, kids - his nieces, nephew, and grandniece in particular - martial arts, backpacking, kayaking, traveling, woodworking, gardening, putzing around his house, building, fixing and tweaking things, for himself and others. Best of all, he loved turning otherwise serious moments into ones that brought a smile. He made people laugh - family, friends, co-workers, patients, and strangers he encountered wherever he went. We could always rely on Alan to tell us a funny story, especially when we needed a lift. Or greet us on the phone in one of his silly, disguised voices. He was the patient, fun, goofy uncle to his two nieces and nephew, letting his little nieces play with his hair, dressing up with all of them on Halloween, teaching them taekwondo kicks, and always playing little pranks on them when he came to visit.

Alan became a gymnast at Grant High School, which deepened his love for physical fitness and guided him toward his college degree in exercise physiology. He spent time learning cabinet-making from his oldest cousin, Jim, who took Alan under his wing. Woodworking became a lifelong love and their bond remained. His first adventure away from home began after he graduated from high school and moved to California. After graduating from Cal Poly San Luis Obispo, he moved to LA for his first job in cardiac rehab, which became his lifelong career. Soon after, he moved to Phoenix for a better job and a new adventure. He also began serious training in taekwondo and eventually got his Black Belt. He loved his practice and even turned a room in his house into a studio to teach kids.

While in Arizona and still working, he went back to school and got a degree in graphic design at ASU. Alan loved art and design... he drew amazing childhood pictures of his favorite things, like cheetahs. Although he didn't end up changing careers, he always enjoyed creative projects on the side. He eventually moved back to Portland to escape the heat and get back to the NW and his family. He settled in Vancouver WA, continuing to work as a cardiac rehab therapist at various hospitals through the years. Alan dedicated himself to helping countless people regain their health after their heart issues. That job also gave him lifelong friendships with co-workers and many hilarious stories about his endearing and colorful patients.

Alan's last job came about at the beginning of the pandemic when his department was closed. He and other brave healthcare workers moved over to the first drive-through Covid testing site for Providence Portland, starting out with a shortage of personal protective equipment. But he and his co-workers made it a fun job, joking throughout the day with each other and the fearful people driving through for their first covid test. They made it their goal to make people laugh and drive away with a smile.

Alan leaves behind his mother, Joyce Wilson, his brother and sisters, Kent Wilson, Colleen Richardson, and Andrea Sweet, his sister and brothers-in-law, Pam Wilson, Kip Richardson, and Dan Sweet, his nieces and nephew, Danya Fredette (Andrew), Aliza and Eliot Richardson (Riley), his grandniece Atlas Fredette, his cousin Gregg Wilson who has been like a brother, as well as his aunt and cousins, some who were a big part of his early childhood and others his whole life. And he leaves his very dear and loyal friends. He is predeceased by his father, Chuck Wilson.

We are very grateful to his nurses at Eden Hospice who supported him and us through his final months... we couldn't have taken care of him so well without them. There will be no formal memorial service; his family will be gathering for a celebration of his life. Donations would be gratefully accepted in his honor at any of the organizations he supported: the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, The Oregon or Washington Humane Society, or Central City Concern.

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February 2, 2024

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Stephanie Chadwick

February 2, 2024

Alan was a special person who was always in high spirits, I am so sad I am just finding out about his passing. I met Alan and Scrappy in 2011 as his first basement roommate and we became fast friends and so did our pups. The first thing I think of when I think of Alan is his smile, he was always smiling and if he was angry, it wasn't long until he was laughing again. We shared a lot of good memories, installing the infamous chiminea, sharing morning coffees and evening beers on the back porch. Picture two people who know nothing about plumbing attempting to put in a shower and toilet in the basement, it took a while but was a success. After I moved out to across the street, Alan and I still stayed friends and helped each other when needed.

Remember when Alan started to Airbnb his house? There was a lot of camping and mini tips that year(s). We lost contact when I moved up Franklin to 45th and I remember getting a call about Scrappy, thankfully it was a false alarm. Unfortunately I only spoke to Alan a handful of times after that as out lives went separate ways over the years. I think about him often and that is how I found out about his passing.

Alan - You and Scappy are two like souls, always grateful and happy regardless of what life tossed your way. I am forever grateful for the chance to know you. PS. Take care of Lilah until I get there <3

David Nolan

September 23, 2023

Alan was quite simply my hero in high school. What's funny is we were not close friends at all at that time, but he was always so gracious and friendly with me that I naturally looked up to him (he was a year ahead). The other thing that I was impressed with was his athleticism, and I had witnessed his abilities as a gymnast when I was a sophomore. Alan has tremendous form and flexibility, and he made it look so effortless. I quickly decided I wanted the same thing, and I joined Mr. White's junior gymnastic team and began the pursuit of making the varsity team by the time I was a senior. It was Alan who drove me, showed me what it took to execute, how to build up strength, etc. Because of him, I gained confidence, which I continue to harness to this day.

After high school, we never really crossed paths again, until Facebook arrived and I took the opportunity to connect again. We shared photos, I had just had several kids, he was working on his house in Vancouver, and life seemed really positive and great for both of us. We never connected voice to voice during that time, but I cherished that we had found each other again, and I made sure I told him how much he meant to me in high school.

Years pass, and during Covid I had learned from a mutual high school friend (Ted Smith) that Alan was sick....my heart sank and I began to cry. I asked Ted to pass my contacts to Alan and I very much wanted to re-connect if Alan was up for it. We ended up speaking the next night and I was extremely emotional...but Alan was stoic, pragmatic, steady and even. He took time to explain what exactly is happening, what his prognosis was and how he was approaching treatment. So, he made me feel better while he was the one who was suffering....it just speaks volumes about how Alan conducted his life.

I will cherish the time we had together and I will be forever grateful for Alan letting me into his life. I am a better man because him, and his voice still rings in my ears to this day. The last we spoke I told him that I loved him....and he said "I love you too Dave..." That's a gift I carry with me every day....

This is not goodbye....I will see Alan and maybe he can help me with my dismount from the high bar again....

Damien St.John

September 7, 2023

My wife and I have known Alan for about 25yrs. When he started working with us it was quickly evident how positive he was and always smiling! We had so much in common and got along so well together. He is truly an amazing human being. I remember one day him doing some martial arts stuff and doing the splits with each heel on a chair and nothing holding him up. Strong physically and mentally. What I will always remember is the very frequent times Alan would say, "Pay it Forward"! So for me I will honor my friends memory by trying to Pay it Forward as much as I can.
Damien

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Shaun Johnson

September 7, 2023

I met Alan around 1995 when we worked together. We had a lot of laughs and reminisced about them often. He was truly one of the nicest people I've ever known. I think of him every day and miss him dearly.

Amy Ellsworth

August 27, 2023

Amy Ellsworth

August 27, 2023

Amy Ellsworth

August 27, 2023

You will be missed Alan. So many coffee meetups, celebrations, and shared stories of good/bad dates, house renovations, dog and patient circumstances. Glad to have known you. Hope you´re in an airstream in the sky.

Wendy Farah

August 24, 2023

I´ve known your family since Alan was a little boy. He was truly a beautiful human. Continuing to think about your beautiful family. Sending love, strength and courage. May his presence be in your daily lives. Love you all dearly. Wendy XO

Frank Meister

August 24, 2023

Grief is the Price we pay for love

Pam Wilson

August 21, 2023

Sharing morning coffee on Alan´s front porch. This photo was from July 7th and most of the time Alan had a smile on his face. We had some great laughs and I will miss you brother in law.

Kathy Stafford

August 20, 2023

To the entire Wilson family and extended family Kathy and Gary Stafford, (Former neighbors across the street. ) We are so saddened to read about Alan´s Passing. Our sincerest condolences and deepest sympathy extend to all of you. He was a wonderful and joyous man who loved life and was so fun to be around. He will truly be missed by all. A very handsome man with such a wonderful smile. We will be thinking and praying for all of you during this very difficult time
Stay strong and look to each other for love and support
All our Love

Michelke Grinberg

August 19, 2023

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Joyce, Kent,Colleen,Andrea and your whole family. I will always remember Alan as a wonderful childhood friend . The days growing up on NE 30th Avenue were such an ideal childhood and Alan was a big part of that. Although we lost touch after highschool we were able to keep in touch most recently through Facebook. He was always so kind, funny; and a bright, and positive light!! Rest in peace Alan. You will be greatly missed.
Michelle

Heidi Baldassare

August 19, 2023

Alan will always be a beacon of light in our lives! We can carry his spirit and love of life with us forever!
Love you , beautiful Wilsons, and see you all soon!
HB and SK

Anna Dudash

August 19, 2023

My deepest and heart felt sympathies to Colleen and the rest of the family. I´m sure going to miss those over the back fence conversations.
May you shine bright on the other side Alan.

Michael Buys

August 18, 2023

Alan what's an easy to be with friend and high school. Though we eventually moved in different circles, I always considered him someone I could easily reconnect with. I respect his fighting spirit and send my prayers to his family who miss him dearly. God bless.

Kevin Gallagher

August 18, 2023

I am so sorry to hear of Alan's passing
I was one of Alan's teamates on the gymnastics team At Grant. We trained on the parallel bars together. I was bigger and stronger than him but he was so much better than me. He taught me a lot. My memories of Allan are that he was very nice and super easy going.

Mike Buettell

August 18, 2023

I'll always treasure his great smile, fun times in Blue Jay and our deep conversations on the cruise in Alaska.

Patrick Roddy

August 18, 2023

My best friend until our different high schools took us on different paths. I knew of his cancer which reconnected us while he fought for his life. I am truly devastated and wish Kent, Colleen, Andrea and Mom my deepest sympathies. Look forward to seeing you on the other side my great friend, you will be missed, loved and never forgotten.
Patrick

Brooke

August 18, 2023

Alan ..I remember you from Grant High and I remember becoming better friends after High School when I worked with you at Old Towne Pizza in Downtown Portland... you were always smiling and it was great to meet up when I came back for visits... you will be missed my friend.

Sara Burton

August 18, 2023

Dear Wilson Family, I met Alan in the 3rd grade and he was an adorable boy, filled with great spirit and laughter. While I fell out of touch in recent years, he will always be remembered as a great childhood friend. Part of the Thompson-Brazee gang! Rest peacefully Alan, you will be missed by many. -Sara Burton

Douglas Rich

August 18, 2023

Alan was born just a few months after his father, Chuck, and I graduated from San Francisco Theological Seminary. The Wilson family has long been a source of friendship, recreation, counsel and comfort. I thank God for them all! Doug Rich.

Gretchen Bertman

August 18, 2023

Dear Alan,
The world has lost a tremendous amount of kindness but heaven has gained. You are like being wrapped in a favorite warm sweater. I have been blessed to have you touch my life. Sending you my love, Gretchen

Kerri Miller

August 18, 2023

Send my deepest sympathy. Alan was a great childhood friend that made me laugh often. He will always be remembered as a bright light of my childhood.

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