Alfred Louis and Marion Florence LaTorella

Alfred Louis and Marion Florence LaTorella obituary, The Villages, FL

Alfred Louis and Marion Florence LaTorella

Alfred Louis and Marion Florence LaTorella Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 4, 2025.
If you are reading this, well-we've passed. As Marion might say, if this were a party, we'd be the ones showing up a bit late: Fred still irritated about something, Marion in a colorful, flowy getup-then singing, dancing, and telling stories all night.

Fred left us on May 10, 2025, at 88, and Marion followed (because of course she did) on June 6, 2025, at 84. They wouldn't have had it any other way. Their passing leaves a huge void-but also plenty of smiles and nods from those who knew them best.

Born in the Bronx-Fred on September 27, 1936, and Marion on September 16, 1940-their paths crossed years later in Manchester, Vermont. Fred told the friend who introduced them, "I'm going to marry her." Marion, ever practical, took a bit longer to come around. Against everyone's advice... she fell-and fell hard. Fred brought the adventure and spontaneity, Marion - the pursuit of knowledge and impact. Together, they were like a well-balanced cocktail-equal parts bold, sweet, and unpredictable.

Fred-a bartender, disco owner, and real estate developer-filled every room with charisma and chaos. Marion-a secretary, waitress, shop assistant, and beloved teacher-balanced him with grace, a deep generosity of spirit, and a love for bright clothes and dancing. She once described Fred with a line from Bonanza's Little Joe: "He's strong enough to be gentle."

They built a life that was loud, loving, and delightfully unfiltered - filled with opera, crosswords, cursing, and wild nights shared with their ever-present crew, "the usual suspects." Fred loved their time with family and friends, and Marion (especially with Janet) could cook for an army and clean up before anyone noticed.

They traveled the world with friends. Fred once got just he and Marion kicked out of a hotel in Salzburg, so they slept on a park bench. The two of them visited all 50 states-road trips hand-in-hand, arguing about maps, blasting love songs, and making time for cocktail hour and a great roadside diner. Never a dull moment.

Fred's years performing at the Dorset Playhouse (every Playbill proudly framed at home) were a source of immense joy. Marion loved her students, tagging, and volunteering. She was a voracious reader, keeping a book journal, annotated with quotes, and critiques. She even turned Fred into a book lover ... on his bedside in Florida, his final read, "The Last Mile" (you cannot make this stuff up!)

They adored their two sons, Todd and Paul-though Paul might say it was a "wanna-strangle-you-but-I-love-you" kind of adoration. They watched ecstatically as each built their own unique life. They always said they hit the jackpot with daughters-in-law Erin and Liz, and Marion's dreams of granddaughters came true threefold: Sophia, Bella, and Esmé lit up their world. Though they lived across the country, Fred and Marion loved an adventurous trip to visit them... and the girls adored their Grammy and Pop Pop in return.

They are survived by Todd and Paul and their families; Marion's sister Janet Torregrossa and her children Tracy, Jesse, and Lee (and their kids Ty, Terin, Liam, and James); her brother Paul DiJulio and wife Paula; and nephew Randy Valentino and wife Jeanette. They cherished every member of their extended family, and friends were just family by another name-especially if they showed up for front porch happy hour and an "Alfie Special."

A joint celebration of their wonderful lives and love will be held on September 28, 2025, at 4:00 PM at The Wilburton Inn in Manchester Village, Vermont. Bring your stories. Bonus points for impressions.

Fred and Marion believed deeply in helping others and supported Wounded Warriors, St. Jude's, March of Dimes, and Habitat for Humanity until the very end. The family asks that you honor Fred and Marion by donating to your favorite charity with your time, talent, or treasure.

Marion always said, "It's been a grand ride, and I believe I lived it to the max. Ciao!"

Fred would've added, "What she said." And then, "Mar... we gotta go!"

Together, forever. What a ride!

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August 13, 2025

Donna-LaTorella MacIndoe posted to the memorial.

August 13, 2025

Steven Galente posted to the memorial.

August 13, 2025

Ann Marie Galente posted to the memorial.

Donna-LaTorella MacIndoe

August 13, 2025

So very sorry to hear about Uncle Fred and Aunt Marion! I have fond memories of visiting them in Vermont as a child! As different as they were, they complimented each other well. May they both rest in peace and be reunited with their loved ones!

Steven Galente

August 13, 2025

I'm so very sad to hear about my Great Aunt and Uncle! I remember all the times we were at Grandma's , playing cards all night long, eating good food and listening to funny stories!, and parking cars at Alfie's when I was a teenager! We seemed to have reached the age , where life stops giving you things and starts taking them away!

Ann Marie Galente

August 13, 2025

No words can express my sorrow for the loss of your parents, my aunt and uncle. They will always have a special place in my heart, for I love them both. our sincere condolences to the families. May they rest in peace together forever. In sympathy, Anne-Marie and Fred Galente

Patrick Honan

August 12, 2025

Both wonderful people. Sorry for the loss. Thanks so much for sharing the story.

Elizabeth Truoccolo

August 12, 2025

Mrs. LaTorella was my 5th grade teacher. I was actually just thinking about her last week as I begin my 14th year as a teacher myself. She was always funny, exciting, and always told us “perfect isn’t possible.” She reminded us too that “no one can ruin your day” and she put a new quote of the day on the board each morning. I have such fond memories of her and think back on my 5th grade year fondly. I am so sorry to hear of her and her husband’s passing. My condolences to the family. I will never forget her.

Elizabeth Truoccolo - former MEMS student from Manchester, VT

Bob Stannard

August 12, 2025

Two great humans who, even though they weren´t real Vermonters sure did force Vermonters to pick up their game some. They were both a joy to know and to be around. Never dull that´s for sure.

Patty DeNicola

August 12, 2025

This took me 3 tries to read to the end!....beautifully written!....
They were unique....and this captured them!...
BOY poor Heaven!...

Bill West

August 11, 2025

I heard about Fred hitting a golf shot into the water on Manchester Country Club´s 13th hole. He actually bit his leg and drew blood. That little pond became Lake LaTorella forever. He was quite a character indeed,

Karin P Ward

August 10, 2025

Fond memories of all the dancing with all the usual suspects. I´m grateful for the Love, Humor, Humility and Energy from this Power Couple! Cheers to Ma and Fred!!!

Diane Torella

August 10, 2025

We were so saddened to hear about both your parents. Love to your families.

Janet Ward

August 10, 2025

You left us with so many memories.
God Bless you.

Lorraine Guthenberg

August 9, 2025

In loving memory of a wonderful couple, Marion and Freddy. I will love you both and miss you always.

Bill iffert

August 9, 2025

Two Wonderful People!!!

Erin Dugan

August 4, 2025

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