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Amber Lee Koetsier
1976 - 2015
Amber Lee Koetsier
1976 - 2015
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Amber Koetsier Obituary
Amber was born in Tulare, California on May 27, 1976 to loving parents, Ronald Earl Blain and Donna Lee Clayton Blain. She attended Garden Elementary, Cherry and Live Oak Middle Schools and graduated from Tulare Union High School in 1994. Amber continued her education at Cuesta College, where she played softball, Azusa College and graduated from Fresno Pacific with her degree in Psychology in 1999. That same year she married Ronald Lee Koetsier, Jr. in Visalia and they have made their home in Visalia. Amber was a wonderful homemaker and enjoyed being a wife and mother. Amber was a member of Grace Community Church where she was involved in Bible Study, MOPS and she was always sharing God's love by inviting people to attend church. Her favorite thing to do was to work out and teach classes at the gym. Amber's hobbies were shopping, people and spending time with her friends. Her family was of great importance to her and she cherished times spent together. Her children brought her much joy and she enjoyed all of their activities. Amber will be greatly missed by those who knew and loved her.
She leaves to cherish her memory, her husband Ronnie of Visalia; four children Dylan, Trey, Trent and Tori, all of Visalia; her parents, Ron Blain of Tulare and Donna Blain of Tulare; her father and mother-in-law Ron and Beth Koetsier of Visalia; her siblings, Allan Blain of Chewella, WA, Kevin Blain of Tulare and Coral Lytle of Tulare, her sisters-in-law Kimberly Ogden of Visalia, Kathryn Young of Visalia and Kandice Thorpe of Tulare; numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and many friends.
Visitation will be held on Tuesday, October 6, 2015 from 2 – 5 p.m. at Miller Memorial Chapel, 1120 W. Goshen Avenue in Visalia. Celebration of Life Services will be held on Wednesday, October 7, 2015 at 11 a.m. at Visalia First Assembly, 3737 S. Akers in Visalia.
Tributes and condolences may be made at www.millerchapel.com.
Arrangements entrusted to Miller Memorial Chapel, 1120 W. Goshen Ave., Visalia, CA 93291 (559) 732-8371.
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Kevin Blain
December 25, 2015
I love you Amber. I miss you. Ronnie and the Kids are doing well. Heaven feels closer knowing you are there. Dani and I will make sure Ronnie, D, Trey, and the Twins are protected and taken care of. As you know they are loved by many, as you are. your brother, Kev.
Rich & Dena Grant
October 8, 2015
So sorry for your loss. You all are in our thoughts and prayers!
Graham and Sharon Bauman
October 8, 2015
Graham & I are very sorry to hear of your loss of your dear Amber and want all the family to know we have been fervently praying for Gods peace & comfort to carry each of you through this time & days ahead. We love you all!
Mark and Jaclyn Wright
October 7, 2015
Our hearts go out to the family and friends of Amber. We will keep you all in our prayers. May God be with you through this difficult time and hold you close to his side.
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Stephanie (Beason) Tadlock
October 7, 2015
I remember growing up playing AYSO with Amber and Coral, seeing them perform at Encore Theatre, and going to school with both of them at Live Oak and then Tulare Union. Amber was always such a kind, sweet person who lit up every room she walked in to. It broke my heart to hear the news last week of her passing. My heart goes out to her husband and kids, Ron and Donna, siblings, and her in-laws. She had an impact on so many people throughout her life and she will be missed and remembered.
Antoinette Quezada
October 7, 2015
I met Amber years ago. She was shopping for her daughter in Justice for Kids. She had in hand a salad from Bravo Farms, we discussed our love for their salad's. Needless to say we discussed fitness. She was so kind and gave me helpful tips on eating healthy. Then she gave me her number and said to call her anytime and she would give me info, to participate in her class. From then on, I would see her children and her out shopping, we kept in touch other ways. She always had a smile on her face, and was very encouraging. My heart aches for her children and husband,or anyone who had the privilege of meeting her. My prayers have continued for the Koetsier and Blain family.Truly a God Fearing woman. I admired her. Rest in Peace pretty girl. You will be immensely missed...muah
Jeannette Johnson
October 7, 2015
May the "God of all comfort"wrap your hearts with the comfort that only He can give. We WILL see Amber again at the glorious appearing of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!
Tony and Alice Magana
October 7, 2015
Sorry for your loss, asking the Lord Jesus to engulf you with his strength and peace. Tony and Alice Magana
October 7, 2015
Sorry for your loss. I know the Blain Family. It sounds like Amber was a wonderful Christian Lady. I have been praying all morning for each Family member, that God will give you Peace and comfort that only he can give.Love and prayers to all, Lisa Wiley
Danika Curlee
October 7, 2015
I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray God lays His hand upon you and gives you peace and strength as only He can. I only know Amber through other people. What a sweet beautiful person Amber was. I can only hope to leave a legacy as beautiful and loving as hers.
Susan Remaly
October 7, 2015
So sorry to hear of her passing. I have such fond memories of Amber from our time together at MOPS. I will keep her family and friends in my prayers.
October 7, 2015
Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow. Our heartfelt condolences. Dave and Margie Smith
Melanie Kearnan
October 7, 2015
My heart hurts for your family. I have such great memories of Amber at MOPS, bible study, and VBS. She will be greatly missed. Her smile would always light up the room.
Dave Kim Safina
October 7, 2015
Our deepest condolences as you grieve the loss of beautiful Amber. Please know that our thoughts and prayers will cover each of you. "BE STILL" With "HEAVEN BOUND" Blessings, The Safina Family. We are here if you need anything. ♡♡♡
John/Rhoda otis
October 7, 2015
Dear ones... we were so sad to hear of Ambe'rs going home...to be with the Lord... as many will miss her... we knew her only as such a cheerful , cute little girl with freckles... but in reading about her can feel the happiness she brought to others... knowing how hard it is for her family... we want to tel lyou we have been praying for all who were extra close to her... that the Lord will give comfort and peace...to all...
October 7, 2015
To the Blain Family - So sorry for your loss. Our prayers go out to you. Art & Diana Carrillo
Laura Abney
October 6, 2015
I am so sad to hear of Amber's passing. She was one of my first friends in MOPS and I loved her infectious spirit and love for our Lord. She was an incredible woman and I am praying for the entire family as they mourn her passing.
Jennifer Lewis Mawyer
October 6, 2015
I have the pleasure of knowing the Blain family for many years and to have gone to school with them all. I am also lucky to say not only coral and Kevin were childhood friends of mine but Amber was too. Amber was a sweet sincere positive person all the time. She will be greatly missed but never forgotten. I will continue to pray for you all.
andrea wilson
October 6, 2015
I met Amber about 5 years ago when I started working at a dental office here in Visalia. She was always so cheerful and I loved talking to her about family and all of her projects when she came in for her appts. She was always a joy to see. To the Koetsier family I'm so very sorry for your loss and may God bless you and keep you in his arms for comfort through this difficult time.
Emily & Roo
October 6, 2015
I met Amber on the soccer field :) Her husband and her assisted our coach Casey and Brian and they were a delight to know. We traveled a few times and she always wore a smile. I admired her as a wife and mother and being so involved with her family even with their busy schedules. She never had anything negative to say and made me laugh a few times. My heart aches for her children and husband. You all are in our prayers through this tough time.
October 6, 2015
Amber, may your light forever shine.
Kimberly Beavers
October 6, 2015
Kevin, I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Judi Hester Aus
October 5, 2015
My sincere condolences to your family. I worked with the Blain family in Real Estate many years ago.may God give you peace in your time of grief. Judi Hester Aus (Oregon)
Rebekkah Monitz Peone
October 5, 2015
I grew up in Tulare, and Amber was a childhood friend. Such a lovely person. So sorry to hear of her passing. Prayers for her family...
Tawni Fernandes
October 5, 2015
Amber I will always have a special place in my heart for you. Your bright smile and warmth lit up every room you entered...you always made an effort with me and everyone you met. You were always the first to reach out. I admired that about you and I was so grateful for your kindness. You were always so open and transparent about your life and willing to share. I cherished you and the person you were. I am so sad and heart broken. I will miss you Amber and you will be forever in my heart❤❤
Ron and Brenda Howard
October 5, 2015
In this sorrowful time, we wish to extend to you our hearfelt condolences. May our Lord comfort you and your loved ones.
Nicole Loya
October 5, 2015
Sweet Amber will be missed deeply. My thoughts and Prayers to the Blain and Koetsier Families, for comfort during this very, very difficult time.
Joseph M. Medina
October 5, 2015
Amber was such a wonderful friend and blessing to me. Hearing of her passing took my breath away. My prayers continue to go out for all of Amber's family and friends. May God comfort you all through this grief.
October 5, 2015
My deepest sympathy and prayers. Maria S. Rodriguez
Lorena Bailey
October 5, 2015
Kevin, My heart goes out to you and your family. It is such sad news! I pray that God comforts you and impowers you with the strength you need to get through this time of sorrow and loss.
October 5, 2015
To the Blain and Koetsier Families, our hearts are heavy and sadden to hear of your loss. Amber was a beautiful soul, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers, may God comfort you through this healing period.
Lynne Rapada
October 5, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Condolences & prayers. Sincerely,
Lynne Rapada of Keller Williams Realty
Raymundo Valdepena
October 5, 2015
Ronnie
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Praying for God's comfort for you and your children.
Edwin & Kristi Koetsier
October 5, 2015
We were saddened to hear of your loss. Our hearts are heavy and our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you during this time. She was a beautiful person inside and out and will be missed more than she ever knew. You all are in our prayers.
Stephanie Ramos-Coppola
October 5, 2015
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Blain and Koetsier family. May God wrap his arms around Amber's Family and comfort them. Amber, you will be missed
Ed Irwin Jr.
October 5, 2015
I am so sorry for the lost Ron Blain family. I well remember your family in prayer. Ed Irwin Jr.
Sou Gibbs
October 5, 2015
My heart is saddened and broken, even though I didn't know you, Amber, personally. My prayers and thoughts go out to your family, whose name are well know in the community. May God carry the family through this Life..
October 5, 2015
Rest in peace, beautiful. You will be missed! <3
Mike and Missy Lewis
October 5, 2015
Mike and I love you all and are continually lifting you up in prayer. Our thoughts are with you.
Tommy Daniel
October 5, 2015
Ronnie,
Wendy and I were saddened to hear the news of your loss. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you, your children and all of your family. Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Jeanie Grimmius-McGuigan
October 4, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with the Blain and Koetsier families. Amber I didn't know you but had the chance to
Know your brothers this past year through business and they are genuine good people and I know you were too....
I grew up with your in laws in church and I know they love the Lord...
I'm praying peace and comfort to your husband, children and the rest of your family. May you rest in Gods arms until we meet in heaven.
Jill Dinkins
October 4, 2015
Praying for God's comfort for you and your children continually. I am so very sorry for your loss. Much love, Jill
Shanda Brink
October 4, 2015
To the Blain and Koetsier family, I send my condolences filled with prayer and love. May you feel the Lord's embrace at this time and always, as well as comfort and peace of his amazing grace. Amber was a sweet spirit her light will shine down from heaven above!
October 4, 2015
Words cannot express how deeply we care. How comforting to know your precious Amber is with Jesus, rejoicing with all those that have gone before! Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you.~~~ Much love, Wayne & Lynita San Diego, California
October 4, 2015
I met Amber in 7th grade after transferring to a new school district. We cheered together at Live Oak in 8th grade. Amber was the kindest and most genuine person I knew in her adolescence.
She was admired by all for her wit, intellect and beauty (not to mention her knack for fashion :) ). Above all else I admired Amber for her ability to motivate and inspire others in their time of need. She encouraged me to believe in myself. To not let the hurtful things children say to each other sting because they are unaware of the magnitude and power of their words at such a young age. She always saw the best in everyone and around her you wanted to be the best you in return.
I hope she knew how meaningful her acts of kindness, encouragement and maturity were during a time of influence, change and growth in my life. I will never forget her.
Julie Timms
October 4, 2015
I met Amber at a bible study at my friend's house years ago. I remember she was so kind and friendly. I only knew her in passing but knew her to be a wonderful person. My prayers are with Ronnie and the children. Praying for God's peace to surround them.
Rodger Kauffman
October 4, 2015
I am very sorry for your loss of a loved one. What an honor and comfort to know she is with Christ and with those that passed before.
Praying for the family.
Rodger & Glennda Kauffman
Lora Lucas
October 4, 2015
We are praying for all of you and hoping that peace will accompany your grief. Amber is a sweet, kind person who is now blessing others. Love and hugs. ♡
Tracy Nix (Noland)
October 4, 2015
Amber...I remember playing house when we were children, and I would always pick you to be one of my children. I remember all of us singing at Sunday night suppers at your parents house. Yours was a smile that could light up the sky, and I know it is illuminating heaven today. I hope you are at peace, sweet girl.
Bessie Jean Watson
October 3, 2015
Ronnie,
My prayer for you is that a peace that is immeasurable be placed on your shoulders, wrapped around your heart and ever-present in your mind. I am so very sorry to learn of beautiful Amber's passing. She is lovely, in every way.
Chris, Rekah, Christopher & Nathan Gridley
October 3, 2015
1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. According to the Lord's word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage one another with these words.
I only briefly knew Amber in school, so I never really knew her. I do remember that she was such a pretty girl with a beautiful genuine smile. My family and I are praying for youyou Ron, and your children during this time filled with sorrow and loss. I pray that you find the strength to get through this for your children Ron, they need you more than ever. You don't know me, but be assured you have tons of people praying for you and your children.
October 3, 2015
We are so very sorry for your loss!may you receive comfort from out heavenly Father
NIck snd Nanda Ver Steeg
October 3, 2015
An amazing lady! She will be missed!
Trisha Buford Sapien
October 3, 2015
Growing up, I knew Amber as Julie's fun, beautiful older cousin, but I was blessed to really get to know her as new moms at MOPS and always enjoyed running into her throughout the years and catching up on kids and life...we just chatted about having high schoolers not very long ago. Praying that God comforts, strengthens, and gives His peace that passes all understanding to the Koetsier and Blain families as they walk through this heartbreak.
Jimmy Joe Langley
October 3, 2015
I truly hope that in this time of sorry that you can understand that even I can only pray for you all and your families and hope this message can give you strength to continue to push on and celebrate her life and not her passing and to keep those kids close to your hearts and to continue to nourish them in life. May God Bless, I am truly very sorry.
Marisa Berquist
October 3, 2015
Ronnie and Family,
I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your sweet wife. You are in my daily prayers. Sending my love to you all, Marisa Sproles Berquist
travis masonheimer
October 3, 2015
Not sure what to say. Amber never knew how much easier Tulare union was once she was kind to me in front of a crowd of in kids. God Bless.
Roy Arriola
October 3, 2015
It is said one hasn't died as long as they are remembered.
. Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning hush, I am the swift, uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight, I am the stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die
Laura Ortiz-Smith
October 3, 2015
There are no words to express how sorry I am. I will Always remember Amber as a loving heart with a beautiful smile she made everyone feel loved all my prayers.
October 3, 2015
We are so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. May God grant you comfort and peace at this difficult time.
Chuck and Joy Griffin
JANET AND TONY MENDES
October 3, 2015
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.AMBER WAS LOVED BY SO MANY PEOPLE SHE WILL BE MISSED
Cynthia Corle
October 3, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with Amber's family during this time of overwhelming sorrow. May each one feel the arms of our Heavenly Father holding them and comforting them!
"Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal."
Donna Bertao
October 3, 2015
Rest in peace beautiful child of God. Love and prayers to the Blain and Koetsier families. I am so sorry for your loss.
Bethany Riportella
October 3, 2015
much prayers for the Blain's & Koetsier families. In a time when we cannot find explanation, God holds us near. May you all find a path to comfort in knowing you now have a very special Guardian Angel looking down from the heavens above. Loving thoughts, many prayers & sending hugs to you ALL!
The Delfino's
October 3, 2015
Our prayers are with each family member and especially with Amber. She will always have a special place in our hearts. May she rest in peace.
Jennifer Jordan
October 3, 2015
Thoughts and prayers to the family. Such a tragic loss.
Liz Toppan
October 3, 2015
Such a special person that was loved by so many. We will miss her smiling face every day.
Sylvia Guerrero
October 3, 2015
Sweet Amber my heart aches!! I know you are at peace in Gods kingdom and pray peace for your family! I will miss your beautiful smile and your gracious kind heart! You always validated my presence even if it was with a wink from across the room!!
I will see you on the other side my friend ❤
Tabby Grabowski
October 3, 2015
Our hearts are filled with sadness. Please know that your families are in all of our thoughts and prayers.
October 3, 2015
To the Blain and Koetsier family. May God wrap his arms around you and bring you comfort in your time of grief. May God her mercy and comfort the children and allow them to somehow understand why they lost their mother. Dwight and Sharon Howell
Mia Parenti
October 3, 2015
Our hearts are broken. Years ago through a chance phone call and not ever meeting us, Amber spoke with me for over an hour and encouraged me to come to MOPS and Grace Community Church. She prayed with me and loved on me without reservation. I will never forget how she let God work through her. Your forever in our hearts and prayers Koetsier and Blain families. - Love Mia and Patrick Parenti and Family
Trish Lambert
October 3, 2015
Rest with the Lord beautiful child of God. I didn't know you only about you.
Rod Tillery
October 3, 2015
Amber, you were one of the sweetest young ladies on earth. I will always remember you as someone that could see the best in everyone and could always make me smile. I'll never forget laughing with you after you drove home from the coast alone. You said you were so tired and couldn't keep your eyes open so you licked a lollipop and stuck it to your eyelids and stuck them open. So funny. You always made life better. You will be missed my friend.
Betsy Ibbs
October 3, 2015
Beautiful woman inside and out. My prayers for her family. May they find comfort and peace with God's arms wrapped around them.
Steve Saltzman
October 3, 2015
Prayers be with all the loving families left behind. God bless you...
John and Dena Benson
October 3, 2015
We pray that God will surround you all with Angels, wrap you in His loving arms and give you the strength and courage to face the days ahead.
Carrie Rivera
October 3, 2015
Dearest Amber.. You have left a pain in all our hearts ..
You will be missed more than you could ever imagine!!
You had the brightest smile.. Biggest heart and amazing gift with making others feel loved!!
Give my Niece a kiss for me..
Until we all meet up again..
Prayers for all!!!
Kathy Williams
October 3, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Amber yet in her passing she has touched my heart. Your family will forever be in my heart and prayers.
Tia Banks and family
October 3, 2015
May God comfort the Blain and Koetsier families during this painful time. And may God bring a peace that surpasses all understanding. May Gods loving arms surround you and may He comfort you. You all are loved deeply and prayed for daily. Amber is loved so much and will be missed by many. May God guide and protect her children. May Gods grace, love and blessings be in abundance. Stay strong and remember God loves His children❤.
C Renfro
October 3, 2015
Very Very Very sorry for your loss.. she was a wonderful... strong woman with good morals and values. I pray that God will hold her close and comfort .. some how the family. May God Bless and Keep her.
Stacy Dirker
October 3, 2015
Dearest and most kind Amber.I will always remember your sweetness to me.You are going to be missed greatly.Love you.
Jan & Leonard Smith
October 3, 2015
Our prayers are with you during this time.....May God give you a peace that surpasses all understanding and His angels wrap their arms around this family
Lester Moon
October 3, 2015
Our prayers are with the family. Although we are out of state, we will be with everyone in spirit.
Amy Andrade
October 3, 2015
Truly a beautiful women, the way she was with children was amazing. Incredibly saddened and heartbroken we all are. May you rest in peace.
Bill & Margery Day & Family
October 3, 2015
Praying for God's strength and comfort to carry you through.
Bobby & Deana Coburn
October 3, 2015
We are saddened to learn of the loss of your loved one. We are praying for your family, extended family and friends at this time.
Julie Armendariz (Smith)
October 3, 2015
My heart goes out to everyone who knew Amber. I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for God to heal our broken hearts.
Kema Carolina
October 3, 2015
Your smile is something I will always remember and it will be missed. Matthew 5:16, may your light continue to shine.
Alan & Janell Rotramel
October 3, 2015
To the Blain Family - Praying for you and all of your families at this most difficult time.
Love
Alan & Janell
Claudia Gretlein
October 2, 2015
My heart is saddened to learn of the passing of this beautiful lady. I haven't seen Amber in years but remember her from Mops. She was so outgoing and sweet. We became friends easily. When I was going thru a tough time she listened and gave me comfort. She was always loving and supportive. May God bless the family and friends with strength and courage during this very sad and difficult time.
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