Benson Pruefer Guenther

Benson Pruefer Guenther

Benson Guenther Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 18, 2008.
DECATUR _ Benson Pruefer Guenther, 70, of Avery Street in Decatur, departed from this life Wednesday, March 12, 2008, at home surrounded by his adoring family after a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer.
He was born Aug. 29, 1937, in Providence, Rhode Island, the son of the late Arthur and Gladys (Benson) Guenther.
Mr. Guenther was a graduate of Hope High School in Providence, R.I. He attended Brown University and also studied drawing and painting at Rhode Island School of Design. He was a private student of Wilfred I. Duphiney (Rhode Island’s State portrait painter) for a number of years in the 1960s. Throughout his lifetime, he had continued a private study of painting, drawing, sculpting and photography. Mr. Guenther was also a passionate writer of poetry and short stories.
Being from a family of famous musicians, he studied piano as a young boy with his father, Arthur Guenther, who was a jazz pianist for the Blue Moon Orchestra. Mr. Guenther was also the great-nephew of Gus Pruefer (designer and manufacturer of the Pruefer Clarinet). Ben Guenther’s life’s work was capped by a lifelong love of music in which he studied classical music and played piano till the end of his life. His gift and talent as a musician knew no bounds as his ability to play any instrument he touched (including clarinet, guitar, banjo, harmonica and accordion) was witnessed by many.
He was a member of the Rhode Island Air National Guard as a radar operator and served in the United States Air Force as an artillery man until 1964.
He was employed during high school at Narragansett Park Race Track as a money messenger/clerk and retired from the track after achieving the title of head cashier in the 1970s. Before leaving the race track, he also started his own business known as Sculpture Cast Inc., a Bronze Mold Making and Casting Company which still exists.
Mr. Guenther lived in various coastal towns of Rhode Island throughout his younger years. He spent seven years in Seekonk, Mass., before moving his family to Decatur, were he lived out the rest of his life.
Having been utterly captivated by the natural world around him, Ben Guenther was known to have had a very profound and spiritual relationship with many of God’s creatures.
He was an avid caver throughout his life and a member of the National Speleological Society. In the 1980s, he began an intense study of geology and paleontology which drew him to the Howes Cave Quarry. He initiated a geological exploration of the immediate area and encouraged educators to envision the quarry and mine environs as a natural history laboratory. His ideas took hold and with great enthusiasm he received endorsements from the New York State Museum, colleges and universities, high schools, elementary schools, and numerous other educational groups. Through his steadfast determination, his experience and practical application of work at the quarry he was invited to join Cobleskill Stone Products of Cobleskill, to take part in one of the most ambitious restoration projects attempted in recent times in the area.
Through Ben Guenther’s tenacious efforts and talent, The Cave House Museum of Mining and Geology was forethought and brought to reality. Through his commitment to this endeavor, he was invited to serve as a charter member of the Cave House Board of Directors and served as Education Director of the Cave House Museum and of Howe Caverns. He also served as the design engineer for the expansion plan to re-open portions of the Howes Cave system not seen in over 100 years.
In honor of Mr. Guenther’s passion and devotion regarding education, the Cave House Museum board of directors bestowed on Ben a resolution to create a library at the Cave House Museum in his name to be known as the Benson P. Guenther Library.
He is survived by his wife, Caroline (Bettencourt) Guenther, of 50 years, whom he married Sept. 13, 1957; his son, Benson Guenther, and wife, Sandra, of Oneonta; his daughter, Wendy Guenther, of Decatur, his daughter Christina (Guenther) Tavanian, and husband, John, of Providence, Rhode Island; and three grandchildren, Jessica Guenther of Oneonta, Aisha Guenther and Quentin Guenther of Decatur; his sister, Ardys (Guenther) Filippone, and husband, Joseph, of Block Island, Rhode Island and Cranston, Rhode Island; his niece, Selina Filippone ,of Cranston, Rhode Island; his nephew, Joseph Filippone, and wife, Susan, and two children Nathanial and Julianna Filippone, of Block Island, Rhode Island.
Calling hours will be held at Guffin Funeral Home, 108 Chapel St., Cobleskill from 6:30 to 9 p.m. Friday, March 21, 2008, and also from 11 a.m. to noon Saturday, March 22, 2008, in which will be followed by a service.
A cremation will take place at a later date followed by a private interment in Columbarium service in the spring in Swan Point Cemetery in Providence, Rhode Island.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Cave House Museum of Mining & Geology, PO Box 700, Howes Cave, NY. 12092.

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Miss you every single day. I love you dad.

Benny & Joan Papa Sr.

December 20, 2008

To Carol and family with our deepest sympathy for your loss . . .

Mary Torma-Kelly

May 12, 2008

My deepest sympathy to you Carol and to the Guenther Family. So sorry for the loss of your loved one. Ben was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.

Shirley Pearson and Al

March 24, 2008

Sadly missed. You will always be on my mind and in my heart.

Peggy Rybka Arnold

March 23, 2008

I remember the old days when I would see you in seekonk.You will always be in my thoughts.Now you have a new journey may we meet again.Your cousin Peggy

Kyle and Jen Smallin

March 22, 2008

Dear Carol, Ben, Sandy, Jess and the rest of the Guenther family,

Jennifer and I want to extend our sincere condolences to all of your family and those that were close to Ben Sr.

The loss of a loved one that has had such a wonderful impact on all the lives he touched is never easy. Please let us know if my wife and I can ever help with anything at all.

Thanks for being part of our lives,

Kyle and Jen Smallin

Pete Benson

March 22, 2008

Dear Caroline, Ben, Wendy, and Christina,

I am so sorry for your loss. I feel so fortunate to have had such a friend as Ben. He enriched my live with his most incredible spirit, wisdom, friendship and paitence. As everyone who has known Ben, we have all lossed one of the most special persons in our lives. I love Ben and everything he is. His spirit will live in me forever.

Barbara Dickerson

March 20, 2008

Dear Ardys, Joe, Young Benson, Chrissy, Wendy and Carol and grandchildren (I hope to meet someday). We knew Ben as a wonderful, caring, loving person. We are deeply sorry for you loss. Love, (Auntie) Barbara and John Dickerson

Mom, Dad & Sandy, what a nice day for a swim & some lemonade

March 20, 2008

Dad diving

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Jessica & Grandpa 2007

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Dad & Sandy on the day of the flood

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Dad & Ben, the day dad taught me to walk on water

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Dad & Handsome at 6yrs

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Dad & Handsome at 2yrs

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Jessica & Grandpa the kiss

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Jessica learning about nature with Grandpa

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Jessica & Grandpa's close up

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RI 1985

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What a good looking guy

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Look out world, here I come.

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Dorothy Visinho

March 19, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Angie Oldrid

March 19, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jessica Guenther

March 19, 2008

A Day with Grandpa


Soft spoken, always kind

Playing piano at bedtime

Long walks, big caves

Deer, raccoons, and chipmunks saved

One of his steps, two of mine

He always took the extra time

Howe Caverns, clean-up night

Go get Grandpa’s big flashlight

Grandpa’s workshop filled with molds

Silver lava overflows

Fossils, gems, my personal guide

What a day by Grandpa’s side


I miss you so much grandpa, and I look forward to seeing you again someday.

Nancy Hunt

March 19, 2008

Expressing my sincere sympathy to you, Carolyn and your family in the loss of Benson. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely, Nancy L. Hunt and family

Mina Stella and family

March 19, 2008

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Ardys Filippone

March 19, 2008

Dear Family, The loss of Ben is a loss to much more than those closest to him. He was a guardian of the earth, a forward thinker, dreamer, artist, family loving man, advocate for all the earthly treasures that are often taken for granted, and a true scholar. Imagine! If he had been granted more time what further jewels he may have uncovered. Love Ardys ( Check this photo album)

Jeremy Enck

March 19, 2008

Brandy and I send our condolences to the entire family.

Elliot & Luella Brodie, Frank & Carol

March 18, 2008

Ben, Sandy & family,
We are sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you all at this time.

Oh, that smile!

March 18, 2008

The masters of life know the Way, the voice that reasons beyond Cleverness and knows beyond Knowledge.

March 18, 2008

Wendy

March 18, 2008

Dad, You are eternally in my heart and spirit. Your devoted Daughter

Tex Seamon

March 18, 2008

From one Zoomie and 'rock' hound to another may the Lord keep you Benson,

leslie & peg chase

March 18, 2008

you are in are thoughts and prayers

Ben Guenther

March 18, 2008

I love you dad. Your son Ben

Ben Guenther

March 18, 2008

I love you dad

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