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Bert Thomas "Pacer" Aschenbeck
1989 - 2008
Bert Thomas "Pacer" Aschenbeck
1989 - 2008
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BORN
1989
DIED
2008
Bert Aschenbeck Obituary
Pacer was born Sept. 21, 1989 in San Angelo to Darrell Aschenbeck and Robin Stewart. Pacer loved athletics. He played varsity football for the Pottsboro Cardinals, and he enjoyed various types of outdoor activities such as riding four wheelers and dirt bikes. Pacer enjoyed snow skiing, and working with his father in the construction industry. He loved playing the guitar, spending time with his many friends and family. Pacer dearly loved his younger brothers Cody and Cord. One of Pacer's greatest accomplishments was being asked by faculty of Pottsboro Junior High to work with troubled youth in a mentoring program, to improve social skills and academic performance. Pacer will be mourned by many. For as a young man, he was loved by all.
Pacer was preceded in death by cousin Preston Cole Torres.
Pacer is survived by his father Darrell Aschenbeck of the home; mother, of Dallas; brothers Cody and Cord Aschenbeck of the home; grandfather and grandmother Bert Thomas and Helen Aschenbeck of Durant, Okla.; aunt Dena Torres of Sherman; uncle Tom Aschenbeck of Durant, Okla.; aunt Bernie Ann Gill and husband Richard of Deming, New Mexico; cousins Zane Torres and wife Rebekah of Sherman, and Pfc. Ashley Torres of Sherman; and numerous other relatives and a host friends.
Burial will be in Bennington Cemetery with Darrell Aschenbeck, Tracy Goins, Bert Thomas Aschenbeck, Robert Goins, Tommy Aschenbeck, and Zane Torres serving as pallbearers. Honorary pallbearer will be Pfc. Ashley Torres.
The family will receive friends at the Funeral Home from 6 -8 p.m. Tuesday.
Condolences may be sent to the family at [email protected]. Please reference the name of the deceased in all correspondence.
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sammie simpson
May 3, 2008
hey pacer i miss you very much and fell so sorry for you family for yall's lost and you were a great friend to have
from always sammie simpson
sammie simpson
May 3, 2008
hey Pacer i miss you very much and i'm with your family in this in grief and you were a great friend to have
from sammie simpsn
Shanda Palmer
May 2, 2008
Darrell I am deeply sorry for Pacers loss. That kid drank more virgin pina-coladas! It saddened my heart when I heard the news last night. If there is anything I can do please call me. Lots of love, Shanda Palmer
darrell aschenbeck
May 2, 2008
Thank all of you so very much, my children and me appreciate your thoughts .
My loss is great, and my heart is heavy, reading these has helped me find some comfort, Darrell, my email is [email protected]
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Julie Garcia
April 25, 2008
Darrell, Cord, and Cody,
My heart is deeply saddened by Pacers death. He will be missed by all whose lives he touched. May Jehovah give you the strength to carry on for you and your boys and may the wonderful memories you have of time spent with Pacer bring joy to your heart. We will continue to pray for you. We love you.
Love, Julie, Troy, Justin, and Nicholas
Tisha Kimbrell
April 23, 2008
I knew Pacer through friends of ours and mine and his friendship just grew we will greatly miss him and His family will always and forever be in my prayers.
I MISS YOU PACER!!! THANKS FOR BEING MY FRIEND
Tisha Kimbrell
April 23, 2008
I knew Pacer and he will be greatly missed by all of us and my thoughts and prayers will always be with you.
I WILL GREATLY MISS YOU PACER!!!!
Amy Burrow
April 23, 2008
Darrell and Family, I cannot express the sadness I feel for the loss of Pacer... I want to extend my deepest, heartfelt sympathy and may God stay beside you and hold Pacer near.
Phil Barton
April 23, 2008
I am saddened by the loss of your son. I have been praying for your family since I heard of the news on Sunday in church. I know words cannot adequately express what you're going through now...I do know that their is a Father in heaven who understands and knows the pain that you are all in...He lost His Son as well. I encourage you to lean on Him during this time. I did not know Pacer, but I remember the two younger boys coming to VBS at First Baptist Pottsboro when I was pastor there. If I can come alongside of you, or be of any assistance now or in the future, please feel free to contact me...until then I will be lifting all of you up before the God of all comfort.
Love in Christ, Phil
Dennis Winkler
April 22, 2008
I'm sorry about your lose at this time in your life I know what it means to loose a son for I have lost mine at 20 yrs. old. So be strong it will be OK when we all come together in the end.
David Bostick
April 22, 2008
There are no words that anyone can say to take away your pain and loss. The loss of a child is the most pain you will ever feel as long as you live. As a parent, that lost his oldest son almost 3yrs ago, the pain and loss will never go away, at times it will be easier than others, but will always be there. Our children know Cody and Cory, through your pain you have to be their for them also, sometimes we forget how our children react, or not react, to the loss of another sibling. I pray that you hold them tight and close. May God help ease your pain for whether we like it or not our sons are in an incredible place with no suffering. I encourage you to seek counseling not only for you, but also Cody and Cory. We didn't and I really wish we had. Our prayers and thoughts are with you not just today, but always.
May God give you strength and some kind of comfort is this trying time.
If he brings it to you, he will bring you through it.
God Bless Your Family
Leah Eastep
April 22, 2008
Darrell, Cody and Cord,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you constantly. I am so very sorry for your loss. Pacer truly touched the lives of everyone who met him and he will be greatly missed.
Danielle Agent
April 22, 2008
I didn't know Pacer well, I only met him a time or two.. but he always smiled and was so sweet. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends...
Bailey Patterson
April 22, 2008
I attended middle school at pottsboro with pacer and he will be dearly missed. I will never forget his goofy personality. My thoughts are with you during this time of grief.
The Staff and Board of Pottsboro Kids Club
April 22, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jason and Angela Gattis
April 22, 2008
Our deepest condolences to the family. Pacer will be dearly missed by all whose lives he touched.
Julie Williams
April 22, 2008
The Aschenbeck family is in all of our prayers. My parent's are neighbor's with the Aschenbeck's and live in their old house. I also student taught Pacer in Spanish his Freshman year. We will miss Pacer so much!
Amanda Weldon
April 22, 2008
Pacer!! You were an amazing friend and life just is not going to be the same with out you! I love you and im going to miss you so much! It hurts so much!! We all miss you and we will never forget you i promise!!
Love always,
Amanda Weldon
Debbie Canada
April 22, 2008
Pacer was one of my students in sixth grade and he was always very friendly whenever I saw him as he got older. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. He will be greatly missed.
Katherine Flores Ramsdell
April 22, 2008
Darrell, Helen, Bert, and all of Pacers family. My heartfelt condolences to all of you. Even though I had not seen pacer in Many years, he is still a part of our past when we were all in the same congregation. May our God Jehovah the God of all comforts be with each and everyone of you at this time.
tanya wallace
April 22, 2008
pacer you will always be in our hearts and we will miss you dearly.
Stacy and Lee Dewitt
April 22, 2008
There are no words to relieve the pain you must be feeling. You are in our thoughts and prayers. My son will always remember and miss him. I am so sorry for your loss.
Scott, Deanna, Danette and Meagan Young
April 22, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God Bless.
Lara Roberts
April 22, 2008
Your family will be in my prayers. Pacer was a great person, and always a good friend.
Kassidy Nason
April 22, 2008
pacer you will be greatly missed and know that you were loved by many. im glad that i got to know you and nothing will be the same now that you are gone.
Cheryl Cary
April 22, 2008
Pacer you were Loved by all. You will forever be in our Hearts. It is a great loss without Pacer in our live's. He was a joy to be around and I enjoyed him when we talk at school. I was a sub and I will miss him dearly.
KATHY AND COREY DRAKE
April 22, 2008
OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU
SABRINA DYER
April 22, 2008
MY HEART GOES OUT TO ALL OF YOU I LOVE YOU ALL
Don Barnes
April 22, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
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