Bill Frey

Bill Frey obituary, Grosse Pointe Farms, MI

Bill Frey

Bill Frey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 31, 2024.
Bill Frey

December 3, 1943 - August 29, 2024

William Hugh Frey of Grosse Pointe Farms, Michigan, passed away peacefully on August 29, 2024, with his family at his side. He was 80 years old.

Bill is lovingly remembered by his wife of 50 years, Connie Frey; their children, Chris Frey of Ann Arbor, Michigan, and Jenny Fowler of El Cerrito, California; his daughter-in-law, Leslie Calhoun, son-in-law, Rich Fowler; grandchildren, Owen, James, Declan, and Lila; siblings, Dave Frey (Esther) of California, Virginia Griffis (David) of Arizona, brother-in-law Jeff of Oregon and many beloved nieces, nephews, grand-nieces, grand-nephews, and their families. Bill is predeceased by his parents, Hugh and Dorotha Frey, of Indianapolis, Indiana, and his sister, Jeanne Reaves, of Portland, Oregon.

Bill loved his family, and especially his four grandchildren. He also loved math, bicycling, paddling, sailing, singing, summers at Torch Lake, and always finding the scenic route.

Raised in Indianapolis, Bill graduated from North Central High School in 1961. He earned a Bachelor of Science from Purdue University in 1965 and a PhD from Stanford University in applied math engineering, concluding with a memorable postdoc in Belgium.

Bill's love of geometry led him to Detroit, Michigan, and the Math Department at General Motors, where he worked for 32 years. His research focused on developable surfaces, triangulations, and computational geometry, which resulted in mathematical models to represent the stamping of sheet metal in emerging computerized design. He was awarded 2 patents for variable curvature tube and draw die. When later advising his children and grandchildren on career paths, he always stressed the importance of finding work they truly enjoy, like he did.

A lifelong outdoorsman, Bill's adventurous spirit was sparked during his youthful sailing days with his siblings on Walloon Lake in Michigan. His adventures continued when he met his wife, Connie, through the American Youth Hostels in Detroit, bonding over French classes and sailing.

The combination of Bill's love of maps and the outdoors expressed itself in all sorts of unlikely adventures over the years. Practically unheard of in the 1970s and 80s, Bill mastered the best routes to bicycle the 12 miles from their house in Grosse Pointe Farms to his job at the GM Tech Center in Warren. Bill also felt it was "less hassle" to walk his beloved orange canoe, using portable wheels, the mile from their home to Lake Saint Clair. Further adventures followed when he outfitted that same canoe with a hand-made custom sailing rig.

Bill, Connie, Chris, and Jenny frequently traveled to visit relatives across the country in their iconic blue van. They often camped along the way, including at many National Parks. Annual gatherings of family at their cottages in northern Michigan created more opportunities for fun in the water and woods, card-playing, and singing.

Bill and Connie shared their love of the outdoors with their children, grandchildren, and the community. Bill led trainings on Effective Cycling and was a founding member of the League of Michigan Bicyclists. He switched from upright to recumbent bikes and was active with the Michigan Human Powered Vehicle Association.

Bill was proud of the many years that he served as an Assistant Scout Master to Troop 479, teaching essential skills in camping, cycling, and citizenship in the community. Through Scouts, he also taught generations of kids how to tie various practical and sailing knots.

Bill served on the local parks committee to improve the Grosse Pointe Farms Pier Park, a treasured walking spot. Later in life, he combined his love of maps and math with civic engagement by volunteering and making contributions to the state's new nonpartisan redistricting process.

When he was diagnosed with prostate cancer, Bill participated in a clinical trial to further knowledge on the treatment of the illness. He greatly appreciated the kind medical doctors, nurses, and staff who supported him on his journey.

A celebration of Bill's life will be held this fall, date and location to be determined. In lieu of flowers, donations in Bill's memory can be made to the League of Michigan Bicyclists (https://lmb.app.neoncrm.com/forms/in-memory-of-bill-frey) or the Grass River Natural Area (grassriver.org).

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December 7, 2024

Arthur Slabosky posted to the memorial.

October 10, 2024

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October 5, 2024

Ed and Georgia Randinitis posted to the memorial.

Arthur Slabosky

December 7, 2024

My nephew and I took an effective cycling class from Bill ca 1983. The class met at his house. We and some others had an organization going for a few years...the Greater Detroit Bicycle League. GDBL didn't go far. We did operate a series of tours of what was then the reviving East Riverfront of Detroit. Chene Park was built around then.

The same nephew and I attended the Human Powered vehicle championships in Indianapolis in 1984. (pictured in another message on this board. We stayed at Bill's father's house.

Paul Epton

October 10, 2024

I think we met as we were parking our bikes at GMR in the fall of 1978. A memorable ride while I still worked there was our commuter century: 100 miles plus a "full" day of work (courtesy of GMR´s flex time), all within 12 hours. That one got a write-up in the League of American Wheelmen´s magazine. A few years later, we bicycled to Indianapolis for that year´s LAW convention. It was Bill´s first time bicycle camping, and the trip more than doubled his mileage on his brand new Easy Rider. I had great fun riding behind him and watching pedestrians turn to stare at this weird recumbent bike.

Ed and Georgia Randinitis

October 5, 2024

Connie and Bill were our good friends for many years, they stood up at our wedding, we skied together and enjoyed many visits to their Torch Lake residence. Connie and Bill were meant for each other in many ways

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October 5, 2024

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Karen (Missavage) Dunnam

September 10, 2024

Here's Bill at the 1984 Human-Powered Vehicle championships, held at the Indianapolis Motor Speedway.

Jon Opdyke

September 10, 2024

I know Mr Frey from being a close friend of Chris growing up, going through scouts and staying close throughout the years. He was truly a kind heart and mentor to me and many boys through the years of scouts, teaching us canoeing, cycling, sailing, and star identification. He was someone who always did what made sense or what was most interesting regardless of what anyone might say or think. Some stories that come to mind are the canoe sailing rig that he built which inspired my dad to do the same. Or taking Chris´s Cub Scout pinewood derby car to the GM wind tunnel to ensure it was the most aerodynamic on the track. On big scout trips, with a canoe on the roof and a Pepsi in the cup holder, he always pulled out his maps to look for a scenic route, and taught us to appreciate the journey as much as the destination.

Eric Macks

September 9, 2024

My father, Vic Macks was in the American Youth Hostel Sailing club with Bill. When I started working at the GM Tech Center Engineering Staff building in 1984, Bill spent quite a bit of time reviewing with me step by step how he managed his bicycle commuting from home to work and back. I still remember the details about how he maintained clean and presentable "suit and tie" clothing at work while commuting by bike on a lengthy ride through busy and not very bike friendly streets of Detroit's east side on a long bike ride to work in Warren. He was a great inspiration to try bike commuting and a very kind person!

Arvid Martin

September 6, 2024

I worked in the Computer Science Department at GMR. My office was not far from his. I enjoyed many conversations with Biil. He was a very kind, easygoing person, and we shared many interests. I recall him biking to work.
RIP Bill

Michael Griffis

September 4, 2024

Growing up, Uncle Bill taught me many things that continue to be interests in my life: Sailing, Canoeing, Cycling, Knots, Math, Maps, and Frisbee, to name a few. He was always patient and willing to share his time and knowledge. As an adult he was kind and generous to my family and consistently up for a project, a game, sharing stories, or hearing a song. I still remember his guidance on how to position the boat while we waited for a puff of wind to fill our sails, intentionally flipping the sailboat or his canoe to teach me how to right them, and figuring out that the answer in my Calculus textbook was incorrect due to a rounding error in an early step in the proof. I am not sure he meant these to be lessons in life at the time, but on reflection, they sure feel that way. I am grateful for the time I was able to spend with Uncle Bill almost every summer for nearly 40 years. He will be greatly missed!

David S. Allen

September 3, 2024

Bill and I went through most of the K-12 years together, graduating from NCHS in '61. We bonded through sailing at the Indianapolis Sailing Club, where we initially raced as a skipper/crew team in 1960 and then as competitors once Bill acquired his own Snipe. I seemed to do much better when we were a team, which, upon reflection, was most likely due to his geometrically wired brain.
Bill provided me with detailed photos showing how he converted his canoe to a sail-canoe. After looking at them again, I think Bill might have had a third patent in hand!
I am left with many fond memories and look forward to seeing the Frey family at their celebration of Bill's life.
Dave Allen

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Wayne Pierantoni

September 3, 2024

I have great memories of Boy Scout meetings, campouts and high adventure trips with Bill and our sons. I´m sorry for your loss.

Ray Sarraga

September 2, 2024

I shared an office with Bill Frey for several years at General Motors and can attest to the fact that Bill was well liked by everyone at GM. His research work was known internationally. At conferences in Europe I heard his name and work referenced several times by speakers in these conferences. Bill will be sadly missed by all of us who used to meet with him for lunch after our retirements.
Ray Sarraga

vivian anderson

September 2, 2024

Great dad, husband and friend. Vivian Anderson

Peggy D

September 1, 2024

When I look at the night sky my mind always travels to you, Bill, pointing out constellations, and my father, Stan, who would get lost peering into the Milky Way.

Karen Fowler

September 1, 2024

I had the pleasure of meeting Bill at Jenny and Rich´s wedding at Torch Lake. He was kind and welcoming to us all and I´m glad to have celebrated their marriage at a place and with people he truly loved.

Rob Fowler

September 1, 2024

I met Bill at Jenny and Rich´s wedding in Michigan. I vividly remember our common interest in computer graphics programming, and the computer language Adobe Postscript. We talked a long time and I marveled at his knowledge and eagerness to share his enthusiasm about scripting with me, a young programmer. It´s a fond memory. I share my deepest condolences with all who knew and loved him.

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