Brenda May TOMPKINS

Brenda May TOMPKINS

Brenda TOMPKINS Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 25, 2018.
TOMPKINS, Brenda May Too Dearly Loved To Be Forgotten Too soon, on Monday, April 23, 2018, Brenda passed away at her home. She will be forever loved by her sister Patty Tomas, brother-in-law John, nephew Jesse, niece Emma and of course "Bug". Missing her also will be all of her community in the "Park".

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May 21, 2018

Wendy & Robert Pipke posted to the memorial.

May 13, 2018

Patty Tomas posted to the memorial.

May 11, 2018

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12 Entries

Wendy & Robert Pipke

May 21, 2018

Brenda we have planted a white Rose bush in the garden for you as white is clean like you always liked the walls to look. so Rob and I though it was the best one for you. We hope you like it. It well last for years just like our friendship. Braveheart has been down twice now to see you, he miss you too. Thank you for all you done for us, over the years, you may be gone but never forgotten.

On set watching one of her favourites

Patty Tomas

May 13, 2018

May 11, 2018

I have known Brenda since I was a teenager. Patty is one of my best girlfriends and Brenda was her mysterious older sister. My best memory was when Brenda was my last minute travel companion to the Dominican. She was a quiet calm for me during a difficult time. My angel...now she is one...she's always with you Patty. love, Rosalinda.

Martha Walker

May 9, 2018

Patty,

May time heal your sorrow.
May friends ease your pain.
May peace replace heartache.
And may warmest wishes remain.

My thoughts are with you and your Family

May 6, 2018

Rosie Pontarini

May 3, 2018

I have known Brenda since childhood. My dear friend Patty and I have remained very close - like sisters - my heart aches for my sweet friend Patty, Emma, Jessy and John. I know how much Brenda meant to the entire family. Such a small family and so Brenda was a very important part of them. Gone too soon. Love Rosie, John,Lizzie and Kordan, and Laura

Brenda loved the Tropics

Patty Tomas

May 3, 2018

Tony Palazzo

May 2, 2018

Brenda was a childhood friend for many years. We shared a lot of good times until we lost contact some 30 years ago. We had just recently reconnected. It was so nice to hear from her again. My heart goes out to Patty and her family.

Jenna R

April 29, 2018

I knew Brenda as she babysat for me, before she got sick. She was a great nanny and was apart of our family. Maison and Kylie were well behaved when she was around, and was a great role model to my children. She was nice, caring and would give the shirt off her back to help anyone out. She was always at family events for the kids at school, and was always there if I needed a helping hand as I worked a lot.
You will be sadly missed and I appreciate everything you did for me!

Love Jenna, Maison and Kylie

Nicole W

April 25, 2018

Although I only had the pleasure of knowing Brenda for a brief time I got to know her enough during our daily visits to know she loved her family and her little "Bug" too, they were everything to her. She was a very honest, intelligent and kind person who i will never forget. Im glad i got to be apart of her life.

Pina Menezes

April 25, 2018

My deepest condolences to the family. Brenda will be dearly missed, she was such a great & welcoming neighbor when we moved in across the street. I have shared many cups of coffee with Brenda and great conversations about life. She loved her family dearly. She has left us much too soon. Summers will not be the same at our cottage. #14

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