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Mariane Mehan-Rabideau
April 1, 2008
TO my family, and to those of us whom will never be the same again because we knew and loved Brian,
I believe we will know God is here on earth, when we can see him in each other, because of Brian I've gotten to know God a bit better. Spiritually, we do not exsisit in isolation. Unity is the key to our happiness, Brian was never alone he was surrounded by all of us. I personally will never spend another moment in time alone or lonely for Brian is in my every thought...every day. Happiness is a decision we make, not an emotion we feel. We must make the decision to move forward with our loss of Brian tucked in our hearts forever, and in our own time and way, make the decision to be happy again. Brian would want nothing less for any of us. I believe Brian showed me peace, dignity, love,and repect for myself and others, this will truly help to make my life complete. as I say to my own daughter every night when I kiss her cheek "thank you god for lauren" I now add... and Brian too!
Much Love,
Aunt Mariane
Dorothy M Mehan
April 1, 2008
Brian My gentle Giant from your Grandma Mehan. I am so sad and glad at the same time.One...because I can't talk about college and baseball any more but glad beoause you are in heaven. God Bless You.
Cindy Doorey-Zeglis
March 29, 2008
Diana & Family,
I was so very saddened to learn of your much beloved Brian's death.I know how courageous & strong Brian was in facing his cancer .He is an inspiration to all of us.My deepest sympathy.
Deacon Greg & Ellen Schneider
March 20, 2008
Dear John, Diana, & Adam,
We realize it hasn't been easy for you, and we wanted you to know that we are right there with you in spirit. With God's help, may the road rise to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warmly upon your faces, and the rains fall ever so softly upon your shoulders and, until you meet Brian again, may God hold you forever in the palm of His hand.
Forever loving you.
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Uncle Greg & Aunt Ellen Schneider
March 20, 2008
Today, especially, Brian, we would like to wish you a Happy 21st Brithday. We deeply miss you, and ask God to bless you richly on this very special day and always.
We love you!
Pat Curran
March 19, 2008
John & Diana,
I work with John, and I can't begin to tell you how much Brian's short life and death have saddened me and my co-workers. I only met Brian once briefly and regret not knowing him. John and I spoke often about Brian and his fight to live. I can say I am truly impressed with the way Brian cared about his family and friends, and the courage he had to continue living. God bless and take care of each other.
John
March 13, 2008
Diana,Nothing anyone can say can ease the pain we are feeling. I have to say what a wonderful mother you are to Adam & Brian. You've lost your mother, father, brother and now our Boo. Your strenght carried over to our sons. I have great love & respect for you. Thank you for being thier mom
Kari Plasha
March 13, 2008
Uncle John, Aunt Diana, and Adam,
I wish you peace and comfort in the coming days and weeks. ~ Kari
sharon jarvis
March 12, 2008
brain
I feel so lucky to have the privilege of knowing you have made me look at life a different way i will miss you
it was too tough for you, but you fought that fight and you did the best you could do,the best part was you didnt die alone,the day god sent you home
Joshua Davis
March 7, 2008
I lack the ability to convey in words the depth of my sympathy for all of you. Adam, I think about you and your family daily and wish you peace in this difficult time. Know that you are loved by many, so your hearts may find solace in that.
Elizabeth Ryan
March 7, 2008
DD, Adam and John --
All our love and support....
Shannon Gladue
March 7, 2008
My heart is with you all. I remember Brian and Adam when they were young. What wonderful children for parents to have. No more suffering Brian. Rest in peace buddy. You will always be remembered and always in our hearts. You are an inspiration to all of us Brian.
robert and mary bouvia
March 7, 2008
Jhon and family so sorry about such a beartiful life lost there are no words that can describe of losing a child so precious and dear. Brian will be playing the game he loved. may he rest in peace and god love.
Michelle Garrow
March 6, 2008
Diana, Adam, John,
My deepest sympathies to the Mehan family. It was a pleasure to have seen Brian grow from a toddler to a man. I'll smile softly when memories of Brian surface -splashing around in our pool on Bailey Ave. or playing baseball behind the middle school as a young child. I'm thankful I had the chance to know him.
carly & mikey lemieux
March 6, 2008
all of my love goes out to the family of brian.
very touching service today, and what a beautiful day. brian's looking out for plattsburgh.
Gena Rosenbaum
March 6, 2008
Adam and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Now Brian is in no more pain and will be with you always. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Steve Light
March 6, 2008
John, Diana, and Adam, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss. I will always remember Brian's quiet dignity and wonderful smile.
Amy (Brown)Solotky
March 5, 2008
John, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Daniel Lindsey
March 5, 2008
I wish that there was something that I could say that would make the pain of losing a child, friend, or sibling just go away. I just want the Mehan family to know that my thoughts are with you in this difficult time. Brian was an amazing person and his actions had influenced each one of us in different ways and will influence our actions for the rest of our lives. He continues to live in each one of us and was loved by all.
Rick Latour
March 5, 2008
John,
I can't imagine the sorrow you're feeling in this time of sadness. I'm sure Brian knows you were by him all through his life and he'll always be with you forever in your memories. He was a special young man.
Cliff Conners and Cindy Clifford-Ledyard
March 5, 2008
Our deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathy go out to Adam and his entire family. We are truly sorry to hear of Brian's passing.
Rory MacRae
March 5, 2008
I had the opportunity to meet Brian while I was a frequent guest speaker at Plattsburgh High School. In every encounter that I had with Brian, he was so friendly and kind. I was so sad to hear of his diagnosis. I fondly remember running into Brian at the Relay for Life event this past June where he was talking about how hopeful and determined he was in beating his cancer and rejoicing in his remission. I’m so sorry to hear that -- that strength, hope and determination was no match for his cancer. I hope that all of your fond memories may help to fill your mind, continue to warm your heart and lead you through this difficult time.
Darlene Jarvis
March 5, 2008
John & Di,
Jeff and I want to send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. I have been praying for you as you go through the hardest thing any parent will have to bare. My god bless you all.
Becky Nieves
March 5, 2008
John, my deepest sympathy to you and your family at this time of grief. There is nothing more precious than the love of a child. Remember that although Brian is not with you physically he is still alive and well in your heart. Remember that you have many friends who are here if you need us for anything.
John Brown
March 5, 2008
We wish you much strength and our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family
Chris Markwica
March 5, 2008
It was an honor to be your teamate and your friend. We only played together for one year but the impressions you left on me will be lasting. I am thankful to have had the privilege of knowing you. God be with you, and rest peacefully Brian, you will be missed by all who had the pleasure, and privilege of knowing you.
Valora VanHorn
March 5, 2008
Dear Mehan family,
I am so sorry to hear about Brian. I did not personally know Brian but felt as if I did just by listening to his Aunt Beth talk about this amazing young man. His journey may have ended here on earth but his spirit lives alive in every heart that he touched even those who he didn’t even know. I know it’s not easy losing a son and brother and it’s so difficult to find the words to help love ones get through such a difficult time but knowing that he loved baseball you can a rest assured that he is your Angel in the outfield and he is playing in the biggest league of them all. Celebrate the joy, love and excitement his amazing young man has given you over the years.
Erika Tobrocke
March 5, 2008
Brian, we will all miss you and your sense of humor. It is so sad to see you go, but good to know that you are finally through with all the pain. Adam I love you so much, and I'm always here for you my pal xoxo. My thoughts are with you and your whole family.
Paula Hatin-St.Amour
March 4, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Brian's family and friends.
Respectfully,
Katelyn Tobrocke
March 4, 2008
Adam, Diana, John, and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Brian was an amazing person who has touched us all throughout his years. He is loved and missed by many.
Lance and Patty Defayette
March 4, 2008
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Leslie Fox-Jones
March 4, 2008
You are in my thoughts during this difficult time. If there is anything that you need, please don't hesitate to ask.
Jenna Hayden
March 4, 2008
Brian,
You have made my life so much happier by being in it. I will never forget your humor, your easy-going personality, your talents, your compassion for others, your interest in everything around you, your dance moves and your overall passion for life. I will live each day thinking of you and trying to be as good of a person that you were. You have made this world a better place and I feel so lucky to have gotten to be a part of your life.
I love you and miss you more than words could ever describe.
You are my superman.
Courtney
March 4, 2008
I didnt know Brian all that well but i did go to school with him..i am ver sorry and my love goes out to all his family and friends
Eunice Bajart
March 4, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to all of the Mehan family. Our prayers are with you all.
Eunice and Jack Bajart
Micere Brunelle
March 4, 2008
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I didn't know Brian, however, I do know Adam. I'm sure Brian was full of life just like Adam. God Bless.
Terry and Joanna Goldfarb
March 4, 2008
John, Diana & Adam,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Brian's passing makes us reflect how precious time is with family and friends. We can't even imagine the pain and sorrow your are all experiencing. Our prayes are with you all.
Lee O
March 4, 2008
I didn't know u but Your Baseball coach is My global teacher Your in my heart
Betty Belcher- Perry
March 4, 2008
May the God of Peace be with you during this difficult time,the angels in Heaven Rejoice when one of the Saints comes home, may you find comort in this God's word, I am Bob Belcher's sister Betty my prayers will be for all of you.
God Bless
Nancy Fournier
March 4, 2008
Brian was from one of our beloved Christ Child Nursery families. My thoughts and prayers have been and will continue to be with him, his family and his friends. Know in your hearts that I'm with you in Spirit.
March 4, 2008
brian,
you were an amazing guy and you will never be forgotten. you were so caring and compassionate in everything that you did. my prayers go out to everybody that knew you. you will always remain in my heart.
Roger Barnard
March 4, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with Brian's family and friends. We feel honored to have had Brian as Our teamate.
The C.R. Tunes Mudhens baseball
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Cynthia & Steve Gagnier
March 4, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to your family. With deepest sympathy, Steve, Cynthia, Kristin, Kyle & Noah Gagnier
Matthew Whalen
March 4, 2008
John & Diana,
My deepest sympathies on the passing of your son Brian. I remember Brian as a baby, I regret not knowing him as the fine young man he had become. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
Kim Cartier
March 4, 2008
My heart goes out to all of you. My son Kyle who was 20 died Feb.28, last year of cancer. I know there are no words that can comfort you. From everything I have heard you were blessed with a wonderful son as I was.
Taylor Sullivan
March 4, 2008
To the Mehan family:
I am very sorry for your loss, Brian will be missed by everyone.
Curtis Bingel
March 4, 2008
Adam, Diana and John,
I cannot imagine the pain you must feel with your loss of Brian. He was far too young. My thoughts and prayers are with you, daily, and with every mass that I attend.
Mary Castine
March 4, 2008
You will always be remembered, Brian! My heart goes out to your family at this time and in the days ahead.
Amanda Guynup
March 4, 2008
You were such a great guy Brian & will be missed by many. You are in a better place now though. My thoughts are prayers are with the Mehan Family<3
Tom & Andrea Bull
March 4, 2008
There are no words to express the sorrow we feel for your family. We didn't have the pleasure of knowing Brian, but what we do know is that he was a true inspiration to this community. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Barbara Drake
March 4, 2008
My deepest sympathies for Brian's parents, Adam, and his other family members. I will always remember Brian as a great young man with great potential. A shinning star in all sports, especially his love baseball. You are at peace and can now keep watch over your family in their time of healing. You will always be in my prayers.
Alexsandra Simpson
March 4, 2008
Brian you were a great guy and very good in everything you did...you were a very strong person and your memories will live through everything you accomplished and fought for!! My sympathy goes to your family and the rest of your friends...you are up there with my sons father zachary smart and you guys can still look over all of us!! If any of the family needs anything please feel free to contact me i know how hard it is....but even though people leave us the memories and happy times will go on forever!!!
Justin Paquette
March 4, 2008
My deepest condolences go out to the Mehan family, I'm very sorry for your loss. I only had the privelege of meeting Bryan not long ago, but I know he was a very determined and strong young man. May his strength carry on in your family for eternity. My prayers are with you.
Erin Ryder
March 4, 2008
Why does it feel hard to speak at times when we want, so badly, to say the right words to strengthen and console...To Brian's family; may you find comfort in your cherished memories and may love be what you remember most of all. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Kerry Kivett
March 4, 2008
You will always be remembered, Brian! My deepest sympathy is with the family.
Michael Rivers
March 4, 2008
I'd like to offer my sincerest condolences to Adam and the entire Mehan family. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Stay strong. Brian's in good hands now...no more suffering.
Rickie LaRose
March 4, 2008
Dear Diana and Family,
Sorry for the Loss of your Son.He fought it until the Lord was ready for him. To young to die. My Grandson died in a fire 4 years ago. He was 18 months old. I can only Emagine the Pain and Sorrow you have in yours Heart right Now.Your in My Prayers and I hope that God will give you the Peace in your Heart to go on. Its a Very Hard time for you and your Family, and with Gods Help and Prayers you will recover.
My Thoughts and Prayers are with you.God bless Brian.
Jessica Lupo
March 4, 2008
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. You are all in my prayers.
Barbara Hayden
March 4, 2008
Diana, John and Adam,
Words seem inadequate with a loss of someone so young. Brian was a gift to everyone who knew him. So many people cherished him and loved him...He was really a special young man, and he will live on in our memories and in our hearts.
Love from the Hayden Family
Peter, Barbara, Ryan and Jenna
Sue Brunet
March 4, 2008
My heart goes out to all the Mehan's at this sad time. As Brian's third grade teacher I remember him as a bubbly, happy, little thrid grader with always a smile. Please accept my sympathy. Sincerely, Sue Brunet
Jason McCarty
March 4, 2008
Thoughts and prayers...
Sara
March 4, 2008
Brian we miss you so much. You are such an amazing person and you are the strongest person I have ever met in my life. Your family is absolutely incredible and I hope you keep watch over them every day, but I know that you will. I hope you're with Sean now. At least you have a buddy up there! We love you bri and you're always going to remain in our hearts every day. We'll help take care of your family, don't worry.
Sharon Cartier
March 4, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
athena angelos
March 4, 2008
My heart goes out to the enitre family with the passing of Brian. I remember Brian when he was just a little guy playing baseball. He had more energy than anyone else on the team! What a character he was!
Mary Fredericks
March 4, 2008
Diana, I can't begin to tell you the hurt that I have in my heart for you, John, and Adam. The only bit of comfort that I get is knowing that Brian is in a better place. He no longer hurts and can now be your guardian angel and watch over you. You are so in my heart. Love you, Mary
Dad
March 4, 2008
You brought such love and joy into my heart. No parent could have a greater son than you and Adam. I will never stop loving you or stop thinking about you I promise I will live every day to see you again.
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