Brown Gardner

Brown Gardner obituary, Waxhaw, NC

Brown Gardner

Brown Gardner Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 7, 2025.
Ovid Brown Gardner went to his heavenly home on Saturday, April 5, 2025 with his daughters by his side. He was born on September 3, 1941 to Ovid and Alice Gardner of Concord, NC and had a boyish childhood full of devouring 10 cent hot dogs, wearing out BB guns and digging in the creek behind the house. He progressed to summer jobs working at Concord Creamery, the local mill and picking fruit as a farm hand in Washington State.



Brown's life was characterized by strength and loyalty. He met his wife, Jane Thomson, in high school and they were married almost 60 years before her passing ten months ago. When Brown joined the US Army and was stationed in S. Korea after the war to protect the DMZ, he went AWOL for his own wedding. The family now laughs that their first date was snake hunting because neither liked snakes!



Brown served his profession with dedication. After earning an accounting degree from Pfeiffer College, he became a CPA and worked in Charlotte, Fayetteville and finally for BCBS in Durham for 20+ years. In addition, he served as Treasurer and Elder of several churches and Treasurer of the The Pines of Carolina Girl Scout Council for many years, buying copious cases of girl scout cookies to help the organization.



Being physically active was important to Brown - he was on the Concord Little League team that won the state title in 1953, played tennis on his college team and later adopted pickleball to play with grandkids. He and Jane often rode a "bike for four," went canoeing down the Cape Fear River and took their young daughters and two cousins hiking on the Appalachian Trail for a week. Brown and Elizabeth learned how to scuba dive and planned their first excursion in Florida and, in later years, Brown enjoyed ballroom dancing and continued dancing with his daughters until recently. Up until six months ago, he tried for 50+ push-ups daily.



In addition to his own career he taught his family how businesses work. For several decades, he partnered with a respected cousin in a forestry business with their children serving on the board. As his grandchildren got older, and to ensure they understood finances and business, he hosted a week-long 'Money School' in 2011 with classes and field trips to local businesses, banks and even the Federal Reserve. When the week ended, he gave the kids a share in an investment company he had set up and they have been running the LLC ever since.

Brown retired early so he and Jane could travel abroad and to 49 states (except Hawaii), stopping to get pictures at the state signs. Brown was a patient and supportive husband - helping Jane navigate as her vision declined due to Retinitis Pigmentosa. They moved to Waxhaw six years ago to live closer to Christy's family and made special connections there including friend, Liz.



Family left to cherish Brown's memory are his daughters, Elizabeth Hildreth and her husband, Dave, of Summerfield, NC and Christy Burch and her husband, Marcus, of Waxhaw, NC; six grandchildren, Sam Hildreth (wife Reagan), Alec Hildreth, Zane Burch (wife Alexis), Liberty Burch, Talon Burch (wife Summer), and Levi Burch; brother, Bud Gardner of Concord, NC and brother-in-law, Tom Collins of Charlotte, NC; nieces and nephews.



A celebration of life service will be held at 2:00pm in Marvin, NC at Banks Presbyterian Church on April 13, 2025 with a reception to follow. Condolences may be sent to 8022 New Town Road; Waxhaw, North Carolina 28173 or emailed to [email protected]. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Brown's memory to Lewy Body Dementia Association at lbda.org.

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April 14, 2025

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April 12, 2025

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April 11, 2025

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Joe Harvard

April 14, 2025

Brown was a dear friend and committed member of First Presbyterian Church in Durham, NC where I served as pastor. My wife, Carlisle, and I enjoyed our friendship with Brown and Jane who were lots of fun! What wonderful, feisty daughters! Remarkable Family!!
May Brown rest in peace and rise in Glory! Much love to his family!
Joe Harvard

Cara Hildreth

April 12, 2025

Christy,

I have thoroughly enjoyed looking at every picture of your father. Particularly his younger years. Thank you so much for sharing.

It is truly a blessing and a pleasure to have known Mr. Gardner.

Love, Cara Hildreth

Christy Burch

April 11, 2025

Cara Hildreth

April 9, 2025

Elizabeth, Christy, and Families,

Heartfelt prayers and my deepest condolences to you all. Mr. Gardner was the epitome of a Southern Christian gentleman. I have never met a kinder, sweeter man. The innumerable holidays that my family and I spent with Mr. and Mrs. Gardner were something that I looked forward to each year. I am thankful that I was fortunate enough to be with Mr. and Ms. Gardner the last time they were at David and Elizabeth's for the holidays.

May the memories of all the good times bring you peace and comfort.

Rest in heavenly peace, Mr. Gardner. You will be missed.

With All My Love, Cara Hildreth

Jim Hildreth

April 9, 2025

I have never met a finer gentleman than Mr Gardner. We talked for hours at David's & Elizabeth's home over the years, especially at Thanksgiving & Christmas; & to this day I remember so much of what he shared with me. A Christian man of that intelligence who was so willing to share his wisdom & expertise with his beloved family, & their families in turn...a generational blessing. What a husband, father, & grandfather he was. Mr Brown will be forever missed. My deepest condolences.

Jim Hildreth

Leigh Hildreth

April 8, 2025

Elizabeth, Christy, and Families,
I am so terribly sorry about your Dad. It was purely a Joy and Blessing to have been able to get to know him and spend countless numbers of Holidays with him and your Mom. He was such a sweet and kind man, and I know he will be sorely missed. As I expressed to Elizabeth, I hope you will all find comfort in the fact that he is now pain free, and is with Mom where they can continue their Heavenly love with each other.

Much love to all of you, Leigh Hildreth

Chris Darnell

April 7, 2025

I´m so sad to hear of Browns passing but I know Jane was so happy to see him again. I have such wonderful childhood memories of Brown. Kickball in the backyard on Highland was always more fun when Brown joined in. He taught me all about coins and little painted soldiers and the game of Risk. Love and hugs to Christy & Liz - y´all had one of the best dads!

Robin Winfree

April 7, 2025

What a special longtime friend and such a devoted husband to Jane. One special memory is of our group going to Virginia and the guys deciding to ride the Virginia creeper trail. My husband who had Alzheimer's was not able to ride by himself, so Brown got a tandem bike and he rode with Bob all the way down the mountain. What a special treat for my husband and a special memory. I will miss him.
Robin Winfree

Christy Burch

April 7, 2025

Some family pics from the last couple years

Carlene Wilcox

April 7, 2025

To the Bowns family .I pray for God's comfort and peace in your life at the passing of your father, brother,uncle,grandfather and friend.He will be missed.Such a wonderful person. I pray for your strength and days to come.I love you all.God bless you

Mary and Jim

April 7, 2025

What a beautiful tribute to your precious father and his wonderfully interesting life! Jim and I are grateful we got to know both your mom and dad in the last few years.

Mary and Jim Patrick

Christine Pfister

April 7, 2025

Brown and Jane were always so kind and friendly to me. He will be sorely missed. Love and prayers to all of you. Love, Christine Pfister

Stephanie Waller

April 7, 2025

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