Byron Jessup

1929 - 2020

Byron Jessup obituary, 1929-2020, Oceanside, CA

Byron Jessup

1929 - 2020

BORN

1929

DIED

2020

Byron Jessup Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 30, 2020.
Byron Jessup
March 24, 1929 - August 17, 2020
Oceanside
Long-time Oceanside resident Byron Jessup passed away in his home, after a battle with cancer, on August 17th, 2020. He was 91 years old.Born on March 24th, 1929, in Beaumont, California, Byron's family moved from Banning, California, to Oceanside in 1943. He fell in love with surfing and surfed Oceanside's beaches throughout his teens and twenties. He was a 1947 graduate of Oceanside High School, where he played football and was the team's defensive captain. His love of the ocean inspired him to become a beach lifeguard and served as the first Captain of Oceanside's lifeguard service. While Captain, he started the junior lifeguard's program to ensure Oceanside's beaches would have a continuing supply of guards. His beloved lifeguarding position was interrupted by the Korean War, where he served as an Army Sergeant teaching weapons and booby traps. Upon his return to Oceanside in 1953, he sailed professionally with the Scripps Institute, collecting sea specimens along the coast of Baja California and Mexico's central coast, and married his fellow OHS alum Meredith Bell. Together, they had two children: Kelly in 1959 and Cayce in 1962. After Meredith's passing in 1969, Byron married Marjorie Gatti and lived together in their beautiful Oceanside home, which overlooks the San Diego County coastline.Having put his surfboard away for good in the early 1960's, Byron and 11 others started the Oceanside Yacht Club in 1963, and he served as its Commodore in 1965. He was an avid boater, having several sailboats that he raced with great success throughout the 60's, 70's and 80's. He furled the sails for good when he bought his "Old Dad's" trawler in 1990 and cruised the Southern California coast with it through his 90th birthday. Byron was very proud to have all of his careers contain an Oceanside address. He was general manager for Berry-Bell and Eternal Hills mortuaries until his career change in the mid-70's to become a manufacturer of Old Dad's wood stains and top coatings for the unfinished furniture industry. Byron is survived by his wife Marge Jessup, daughter Kelly (Jon) Casebeer, son Cayce (Denise) Jessup, stepson Alan Gatti, grandsons Tristan Casebeer, Devin Casebeer and Cayden Jessup and granddaughter Cassidy Jessup, as well as his many friends at the Oceanside Yacht Club, Oceanside-Pacific Kiwanis Club, and the Oceanside Old Timers Club. He was preceded in death by his father Merle Jessup (1963), wife Meredith (1969), mother Lametta Jessup (1998), and brother Roger Jessup (2012).A celebration of life is planned for Byron at the Oceanside Yacht Club after COVID-19 restrictions are lifted. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, a donation be made to the Oceanside Yacht Club's Junior Sailing program.

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Steve Pinhero

September 1, 2020

Byron was a big part of my growing up, and was always so friendly with a kind word. His legacy continues through his wonderful kids Cayce and Kelly. My heart goes out to them and to Marge.

Bruce Gresham

August 31, 2020

Bryon came into my families lives in the mid 70's at the Oceanside Yacht Club.
My brothers, sister and I were the same age has his children Casey and Kelly. We reaped the benefits of Byron as a father and leader...someone who made things happen. We junior sailors had been outgrowing our tiny sabots. Then one summer day, a fleet of two-man. 13' Ghost sailboats appeared at the Yacht Club. What a kick in the pants they were. They were fun to learn how to sail. Talk about motivating the Juniors to rush to the yacht club and go sailing! The Ghosts are just one more thing that keeps us OYC kids in touch all these years later. I know now that buying the boats was a project instigated and supported by Bryon, Marsh Henshaw and others . (Maybe someone can add the other owners names?)

I had dinner with Bryon, Marge and Jon last summer at OYC. Bryon talked about his transition from Sailing to powerboating. (how m any Pacifiers were there?) He also talked about the key he had to the newly installed Elevator near the Bar at OYC.

Love to all

Bruce

PS.
Also what needs discussing is the Byron Jessup Display at the Oceanside Surf Museum. When he was a Life Guard they had these heavy plywood paddle boards to rescue people in the surf. Bryon met with this new, at the time, surfboard shaper who was building light surfboards with foam. Bryon and Hobie Alter designed and tested a foam rescue surfboard that is still in use by lifeguards today. Bryon said "to tell the truth I just wanted a rescue board I could surf on."

Maggie C

August 30, 2020

His presence will always be missed.

Jon Casebeer

August 30, 2020

Byron was an inspiration to me and my family. He accepted my kids wherever they were in life and always had something encouraging to say to them. He had endless stories about life, and his adventures on the water. We love him and will miss him.

AnnaBelle Beaman

August 30, 2020

He was a fighter, a consumate gentleman and I know he was deeply loved by his family. Condolences to Kelly and Cayce and their families.

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