Carl Merner Dare

1917 - 2014

Carl Merner Dare obituary, 1917-2014, Waterloo, ON

Carl Merner Dare

1917 - 2014

BORN

1917

DIED

2014

Carl Dare Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 9, 2014.
Carl Merner Dare 1917 - 2014: Carl Merner Dare passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 9 at the age of 96, having lived a very happy and full life. C.M. was a creative and successful businessman who was at the same time a very kind and decent person. The Doerr Biscuit Company was started by C.M.'s grandfather in 1892. Following the untimely deaths of his parents, Webourne and Irene Doerr, in the Spanish Flu epidemic of 1918, he was raised by his grandparents. C.M. joined the company in 1933, when he was 16, and became sole owner-operator in 1941 at the age of 24, shortly before a devastating fire burned the Doerr plant to the ground. Even without the fire, the Doerr Company had been struggling to survive for years, as a result of the Depression and the Second World War, and it is a tribute to C.M.'s leadership and vision that he managed to rebuild the moribund business into what is now known as Dare Foods (having anglicized the name in 1945). The company went on to become one of Canada's foremost snack food manufacturers. One of C.M.'s strongest characteristics was his insatiable intellectual curiosity. Circumstances having denied him a university education, C.M. attached great importance to higher education. Among other things, he actively encouraged his children and grandchildren to get as much education as possible. C.M. provided many scholarships to the Eastern Synod of the Lutheran Church, and he was an enthusiastic supporter of the CM Dare Scholarship Fund established by Dare Foods for the children and grandchildren of its employees. C.M. was also a community builder and philanthropist, although always humbly and quietly, and many of our regional institutions have benefited from his leadership and generosity, including, to name just a few, the University of Waterloo, the Grand River Hospital, Conestoga College, the Grand River Conservation Authority, the Ruth Dare Health Clinic in Rosseau, the Stratford Festival, the Kitchener YMCA, and the K-W Symphony, for which he had a special passion. C.M. was instrumental in the founding of the University of Waterloo, and he was the only surviving member of the original Board of Governors in 2007 when he was awarded an honorary doctorate on the occasion of the university's 50th anniversary. Coming as it did on the eve of his 90th birthday, this recognition meant the world to him. C.M. was predeceased in 2003 by his loving wife of 61 years, Ruth, and in 2013, by his good friend Jean Boland. He leaves three children - Bryan (Malkin); Graham (Sandy); and Carolyn (Harmon) - and eight grandchildren - Carla (Scott); Alexa (Patrick); Kaitlin (Jeremy); Tanya (Jason); Jacob (Courtney); Laurence (Natsuko); Sydney (Ryan); and Katherine (Jamieson). It was a great blessing to him that he was well enough to preside over a family get-together just over a week ago that included several of his grandchildren as well as his two new great-granddaughters, Olivia Bryan and Nora Thompson. The family requests no flowers or donations in C.M.'s name, but rather asks that those who knew him take a moment to reflect on the importance of living a good life. A memorial service celebrating his life will be held at St. Peter's Lutheran Church in Kitchener at 11:00 a.m., Wednesday, April 30th.

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Andy Maaser

April 30, 2014

Dear Bryan, Graham and families:
As a grateful employee, I mailed out a Christmas card to Mr. C.M. Dare in 2007. I wanted to express my appreciation for my job that I held for the past 19 years. Upon receiving the card, Mr. Dare went out of his way to find me and personally thank me for it. I was stunned that he would think so fondly of me.
Then again in 2012, I mailed out another Christmas card to thank him for the $2000 scholarship bursary that was awarded to my step-daughter, Cassie. And again, Mr. C.M. Dare went out of his way to call me on a Saturday evening and personally thank me for the Christmas card I sent him. We talked on the phone for 15 minutes, and I was so honoured that he would think of me with such kindness and concern. I was deeply touched by his care and compassion for me one of his employees.
I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you in your time of grief.

Sincerely,

April 30, 2014

Dear Bryan and Graham and families,

Your father was a man that I greatly admired and respected for his firm and good character. May God comfort you at this time.

Ken Hermanson
Former Candy Product Manager.

April 29, 2014

Dear Graham and Sandra, Bryan and Malkin, Carolyn and Harmon:
Sincere condolences to you and your families on the passing of your father, grandfather and great grandfather, extended on behalf of the Board of Directors, staff and volunteers of the Kitchener-Waterloo Art Gallery. The Gallery treasures its long association with your father, as well as earlier times with both Carl and your mother, Ruth.

Our thoughts and sympathy are with you all, as you celebrate and honour a life well lived.

Sincerely, Shirley Madill, Executive Director, KW|AG

David Golem

April 11, 2014

Dear Family Members: Bryan, I well remember visiting at you home and talking with your Father and Mother back in university days. They were always very welcoming, and interesting people. I did not know that your dad had been active with the College in earlier times. I believe I remember talking with your Mother about growing up on the prairies. The celebration that your parents hosted when the British pound sterling was devalued by the government still sticks in my memory, as does raising one of the tall Christmas trees that you had in the front hall. Your folks were special people, and my thoughts go out to you and the rest of the family at the loss of both your parents. My own Mother lived to age 96 but died in 2010 after a long life in which she made many special friends. While it wasn't easy to lose her, it was hard not to celebrate the fact that she had lived so many fruitful years. I'm sure you must have similar feelings too. I wish you peace and strength as you face the future.

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