Carl Gary Taylor

Carl Gary Taylor obituary, Derby, VT

Carl Gary Taylor

Carl Taylor Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 1 to Jan. 9, 2023.
Carl Gary Taylor, 66 of Derby, VT died on December 29, 2022 in Newport, VT following several years of diminishing health and medical complications. Carl lived with the challenges of chemical dependency which contributed to physical and mental health issues.

Carl was born in Miami Beach, FL on January 18, 1956 to Jack and Elly Erdmann Taylor of Bay Harbor Island, FL. He grew up on Biscayne Bay along with his brother Mitchell and many cousins roaming the Islands on bikes, playing in the yards, and doing all things related to water. Carl was raised in the Jewish faith, attended Hebrew School and became a Bar Mitzvah at Temple Emannu-El in Miami Beach, FL. He was predeceased by his loving parents, grandparents and many aunts and uncles. He is survived by his wife Susan Martin Taylor, daughter Jamie Lynn Smith, step-daughter Dawn Jensen Perry, brother Mitchell Taylor and wife Elizabeth of Miami Beach, FL as well as dear cousins and friends near and far.

Carl was a graduate of Lear School, Miami Beach, Fl. At Goddard College, Plainfield, VT, Carl received a Masters in Counseling degree. His time at Goddard was influential in his development. While there, Carl made deep, life-long friendships that he truly valued. He was avidly interested in many aspects of life, was a prolific reader, collected music from innumerable genres, and studied practices related to physical and mental health, spiritual life and metaphysics. He loved textiles, jewelry, traveling, fly fishing and gardening, for which he attained Master Gardner Certification.

While at Goddard College, Carl came to Newport, VT to do an internship with North East Kingdom Community Action (NEKCA). That year was instrumental in causing Carl to put down roots in the Upper Kingdom especially as the area abounds in bodies of water; lakes, streams, rivers, ponds, and all of the wonders within them. Carl worked for State of Vermont Social and Rehabilitation Services as a Social Worker. He then opened, with the support of his family, Newport Adolescent Programs, Inc. (NAPI) a private non-profit social service offering counseling, therapy, the New Friends Program, and school programs, all with an emphasis on relational experiences including outdoor and animal activities appropriate to children, adolescents, and adults of all walks of life regardless of ability to pay. This work was supported by Carl Gary Taylor Foundation for Children and did not operate under any other funding other than negotiated fees for services.

While introducing NAPI to professionals in the area, Carl met Susan who was working in private practice. A flurry of match-making activities ensued until a dinner date was secured for the two of them. That date lasted for two hours, Carl drove Susan home, shook her hand at the door, and later related to her that he drove away thinking "I am going to marry her." Susan began providing counseling services to the parents of children receiving services from NAPI. This collaboration led to NAPI adding another A to its name by providing services to adults as well. And the marriage came to be in 1993. Carl and Susan worked together over all the years of their marriage, providing a variety of helping experiences to the community. Their mutual desire to offer a safe place for growth and change to occur was the cornerstone of all of their professional endeavors.

In 2000 the Taylor's work at NAAPI expanded to include Equine Facilitated Psychotherapy which was at that time an emerging field. Carl and Susan bought a small farm in Derby, VT as a private property and hosted the therapeutic farm program which they had developed at NAAPI. In addition to the activities of the Program, they opened their property to groups and individuals for farm visits. In 2006 They moved from the other side of Derby Pond to the farm to make their home. Carl planted gardens, apple trees, River Birch, Tamarac. Together Carl and Susan developed best practices for the keeping of horses and donkeys, set up buffer zones to protect the waterways, and established walking paths to enjoy the property from many views. Carl considered this work to be one of the most fulfilling aspects of his life.

Carl was devoted to his dear Jamie. She brought much joy and comfort to his life. Watching her grow, being playful together, and supporting her as she moved into her independent life was important to him. Her commitment to developing her skills, her ethics, and life values pleased him to no end.

Carl was a generous and humble man. Through his Foundation and from personal resources Carl supported a vast number of organizations and people in their efforts to make a healing impact on this community and the wider world. In the last few years, Carl developed a desire to assist in keeping access to rivers available to the public. His collaboration with Vermont River Conservancy was dear to him.

There will be no services in keeping with Carl's wishes. Donations may be made in memory of Carl to Vermont River Conservancy Protect Access Program, 29 Main Street, Suite 11, Montpelier, VT 05602.

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February 3, 2023

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Nancy Goss

February 3, 2023

Dear Susan,
I am so sad to learn of Carl´s passing. I am still out of town. This obituary is a beautiful tribute to Carl and to your marriage. Sending you love and hugs and my deepest sympathy. Nancy GOSS.

michael wolfe

January 3, 2023

Dear Jamie,

I was very sorry to learn that your father had passed away. He was a true friend and great supporter of Stanstead College. On behalf of all of your friends here at your alma mater, I send you my most sincere condolences.

Thank you.

Michael Wolfe

Dugie Ross

January 3, 2023

Carl was a gentle soul who genuinely cared for his fellow man/women. His contributions to people in need in the Northeast Kingdom and to those of Stanstead, Quebec will be long remembered and his legacy will live on. The world needs more people like Carl and he will be missed.

Elizabeth Taylor

January 3, 2023

My condolences Carl we be missed very much alot of people depended on him , he touched alot of souls!! we always e remembered RIP ! God is within all of us!!

Sharon Nemier

January 3, 2023

I´m sorry to hear of your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you Susan and family.

Cathy LaPointe

January 3, 2023

I am so sorry to hear this! I truly admire the life that Susan and Carl created with all they did for the community in Vermont. He will surely be missed. My thoughts and prayers always!

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Kristin Mason

January 2, 2023

Thank you, dear Carl and Susan, for your support of Reining Hope over the years - your generosity helped to raise funds for children to participate in our therapeutic riding programs over the years prior to a change in business planning due to the Covid pandemic. I personally appreciated your thoughtful contributions. I am also thankful to have been able to work with the beautiful animals at your farm in another capacity as a Trigger Point Myotherapist and homeopathic healer for animals - it was my blessing for that opportunity and I hope they enjoyed it as much as I did being part of the healing process. Susan and Carl, you both were such a part of the healing in our community, I will always remember all the positives you presented to inspire others! With love and gratitude always - xoxo

Alice austin

January 2, 2023

I always enjoyed my chat when we saw Carl at Shaws. He didn't really know me, but always cheerful and polite.

Lisa carlis

January 2, 2023

You came so far, from addition... and rose up, to be of help to other struggling folks. What a great testament to you

Cathi

January 2, 2023

You will be missed!. Rest easy my friend.

Mitchell

January 2, 2023

Dear Carl,
Will miss you always, big brother. Grateful for the time we shared together. May God grant you everlasting life.

Nickie Noel

January 2, 2023

Dear Susan, I hope you find comfort in your memories of all the wonderful times you had with Carl, those will always be with you and for that you can be grateful. NIckie

Don and Andrea Hunt

January 2, 2023

Susan and family- Carl was a dear friend and we shall greatly miss the idea of his presence on this earth. I´d generally run into him lately at the grocery and we would share quick updates on our lives, but fondly remember our early discussions on NAPI, Carl´s fishing trips and our mutual desire to love and protect animals. Love and hugs at this sad time.

Michael Arkin

January 2, 2023

Theirs a saying, only the good die young. Carl you will always be remembered from playing football in the front of your family´s home, to the days at Lear, to fishing. Rest in peace.

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