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Christopher GAY Obituary
C.D., M.M.M.
Suddenly on Sunday July 28, 2013, in his 66th year. Beloved husband and best friend of Shirley (Maheral). Dear Father of Andrea Elizabeth and Peter Matheson. Cherished Grampy of James and Victoria Foottit. Loving Godfather of Kristina Maheral Sundin. Dear brother of Melissa Tsangaris (Andreas). Proud Uncle of Theo and Matthaios Tsangaris. Predeceased by his parents Aubrey Matheson Gay and Helen Louise Roberta (Emmerson). Son-in-law of the late Elwood and Inez Maheral. Brother-in-law to the Maheral Family - Allan (Donna), Bruce (Rachel), Ken (Suzanne), Glen (Aline), Wayne (Patricia) and Connie (Claude Graziadei).
Chris was born and raised in Winnipeg, Manitoba. He joined the Canadian Air Force in September 1967 where he had a 13-year career before retiring in 1979. He then worked for Automatic Electric in Brockville. Following this, Chris worked at Microtel and BC Telephone in Vancouver, BC. He returned to Ottawa in 1987 with BC Telephone. While in Ottawa, Chris worked for several companies, including Northern Telecom, Lavalin and CAL, where he specialized in international business.
In 1996, Chris took a calculated risk and joined Resorption Canada Limited (RCL) to lead a world-changing waste conversion technology company. In 2005, RCL became Plasco Energy Group, where Chris held an executive leadership position. While at Plasco, he led the company's efforts abroad, including establishing Plasco's presence in China. To his very last day Chris worked passionately to ensure the success of this technology.
Chris will be greatly missed by his many family, friends and business associates. Chris requested that in lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the University of Ottawa Heart Institute or The Ottawa Hospital Foundation for Respiratory Research.
Friends may visit at the Garden Chapel of Tubman Funeral Homes, 3440 Richmond Rd., Nepean (between Baseline Road and Bayshore Drive) on Wednesday, July 31st, from 6 to 9 p.m. A Memorial Service will be held in the Garden Chapel on Thursday, August 1st, at 11 a.m.
Tributes, donations and condolences may be made at www.tubmanfuneralhomes.com.
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August 19, 2013
Shirley, I just learned of your loss today...Please accept my sincere sympathy. I know it is of no comfort at this time but how wonderful to be able to refer to your husband and the father of your children as your "best friend" until the very end! Pat Kiperchuk
Sandy Baillie
August 3, 2013
I am shocked and saddened to learn of Chris' sudden passing. I haven't seen Chris in more than a decade -- we last bumped into each other at QCH's neonatal unit when both of our daughters were giving birth. But, I have followed the fortunes of Plasco in the news and applauded its successes, knowing of Chris' early and ongoing commitment to high-temperature waste-to-energy conversion.
We were colleagues at CAL/EMS for several years and lived in the same rural community. Chris was always the consummate professional. But, I remember him more as a wonderful human being: engaging personality, wonderful sense of humor, empathic and fun-loving. And, of course, he had that admirable, inspiring entrepreneurial streak. As others have observed, though, Chris was first and foremost a family-man who was unabashedly proud of Andrea and Peter. It was obvious that he was devoted to Shirley and admired her professional achievements.
It is always heartbreaking when someone you admire passes away. But, it is especially distressing when a life force as positive, vital and powerful as Chris Gay is taken at such a young age. I hope that Shirley and Chris' entire extended family will take some solace in knowing that he was fondly esteemed by those of us who had the great fortune to work with him.
Catherine Crichton
August 2, 2013
I, along with many co- workers in the respiratory department were saddened to learn of Mr. Gay's passing. He was a very gracious and kind patient. My thoughts and prayers go out to his lovely wife and family.
August 2, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
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Chris, Andreas and Jesse at Beijing Airport in 2012
Jesse Shen
August 2, 2013
I am saddened to learn the sudden loss of my long-time colleague and friend Chris. I know this is a very difficult time for the entire family and my thought is with you. For many years, I had numerous occasons to work and chat with Chris. His passion and uplifting spirit inspired me constantly. His frankness and honesty ememplified the principle of friendship. His sudden passing left a big void amoung us and I am in the deepest sadness. My sincere sympathy to all family members. May he rest in peace.
Brian Smith
August 1, 2013
Shirley, Andrea and family. My deepest condolences at your great loss. Chris was a wonderful person. I was so honored to have known and worked with him.
August 1, 2013
Shirley,
We are sorry to hear the passing of Chris. The last time we met it was at the Luxury Motorhome dealer in Carleton Place a few years back. Our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Gaetan et Marie-Paule Dumouchel
Calumet Island, Qc
Paul Graveline
July 31, 2013
Dear Shirley and family,
Please accept our most sincere condolences,
Paul and Maggie Graveline
Judy & Danny Cashman
July 31, 2013
Dear Shirley & Family
Our deepest sympathy to you all at this very difficult time.
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Cherish the memories!
Judy & Danny Cashman
Margaret Rondeau
July 31, 2013
Shirley,sorry about the passing of your husband.
Judy Brown
July 31, 2013
Shirley - my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. My sincere condolences.
July 31, 2013
Shirley and family
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time and my deepest sympathy. I will contact you once we return fom New Brunswick.
Anne
July 31, 2013
Shirley and family thinking of you at this sad time, so sorry for your loss.
Emily Dumouchel Kluke
Peggy (Stewart) Smith
July 31, 2013
Shirley, I am so sorry to learn on your husband's passing. Nothing can take the memories from you -- keep them close to your heart.
Ellen Aldrich
July 30, 2013
Dear Shirley, I am truly sorry to learn of the passing of your dear husband. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Ellen Aldrich
Sharon and Richard
July 30, 2013
Shirley, Andrea, Peter, James and Tori, along with the rest of your family...our deepest condolences on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I am thankful we had the pleasure of getting to know Chris. We will all miss his gentle soul, and his kind heart. Chris positively beamed when talking about each of you! His eyes would shine when he talked of his pride in Peter and Andrea's accomplishments, and there was a special twinkle when sharing stories of his grandchildren. Chris was a great example of a good friend and family man, as well as a dedicated company man, but he shone brightest when in his role of husband and best friend to you Shirley. Watching Chris look at you and talk to you with such pride and respect gave us a small window into the special bond that you shared. May your memories bring you peace in the days ahead.
Doug Mattina
July 30, 2013
Peter,
My thoughts and support are with you and your family at this time. My deepest condolences. Doug
Eldon Ostrom
July 30, 2013
Shirley & Family:
Our sincere condolences to you all on the passing of your husband & father.
May he rest in peace.
Madeline, Eldon, Murray and Ostrom family
Donna Stewart
July 30, 2013
Shirley and family. My thoughts and prayers for you at this trying time
Carol Anderson (Maheral)
July 30, 2013
Condolences to the family, you Shirley Peter and Andrea. Prayers are with you.
Jim and Kathleen Graham
July 30, 2013
Dear Shirley, Andrea and Peter,
We are so saddened to hear about Chris' passing. We cherish the memories of our times together and all the great laughs. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Joanne Lemmex
July 30, 2013
Shirley, Andrea and the entire family. My heart, prayers and thoughts are with you at this awful time. It was an honour to know Chris. He was a very warm, kind and generous man who will be missed from next door to places all around the world. May your memories help you all cope with your loss in the days and years to come.
July 30, 2013
Shirley,
We are thinking of you and your family at this time. When we heard of his passing we talked about how we enjoyed listening to Chris' stories. His experiences in the high tech world, your family camping experiences and his kindness and respect when he talked of you.
Colleen and Darren
Barbara Crawford Newton
July 30, 2013
Dear Shirley,
My deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kira Reid
July 30, 2013
Shirley and family, we are deeply saddened to hear of Chris' passing. We send our love and are all here to support you in any way you may need.
Kira, Bob, Reid and Ryan
July 30, 2013
My dearest Shirley,my thought and prayers are with you and your family at this time of deep sadness.
Avril
Fatima Machado
July 30, 2013
Our sincere condolences to Andrea and entire family. Chris will always be remembered for his warmth and kindness to everyone he met. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in these difficult moments. May his soul rest in peace.
God bless!
Fatima, Ana and Wilson
July 30, 2013
Shirley: I was very sorry to hear about Chris. I am away at present but want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers every day. I know you will have many family and friends to support you through these difficult next few days and I will be in touch as soon as I get home. Love ELona
July 30, 2013
My sincere condolences to Andrea and the entire family. I feel honoured to have worked with Chris. My thoughts and prayers to you all. May his soul rest in peace.
July 30, 2013
Shirley,our deepest condolences to you and your family.Thinking of you at this very sad time.Sincerely Jane and Tom Oneill.
Tamara Stewart
July 30, 2013
Dearest Shirley, Andrea and Peter,
It's the little things, the small, everyday ocurrences that you will remember. The laughs, the stories, the smiles. And even though it seems like you can never recover from your loss, it is these very memories that will help push the pain away and bring back the smiles.
As hard as it seems, you will get through this difficult time and emerge stronger. Please know that I am always there for you. Whether to talk or cry or even just sit in silence with.
Lots of love
Tamara xoxoxox
July 30, 2013
So sorry to hear about Chris's passing, Our prayers and thoughts are with you, Shirley, Peter and Andrea, his loving memories will last forever. Love Denis, Christine and Natasha.
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