Courtney Leigh Alexander

Courtney Leigh Alexander

Courtney Alexander Obituary

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REDFORD — Courtney Leigh Alexander was taken away from us far too early, on Tuesday, March 31, 2009. She was born in Plattsburgh on Sept. 7, 1990, to Paul C. and Cindy M. (Shiflett) Alexander.

Courtney was a senior at Saranac Central School. She would have graduated in June and had planned to study nursing at Clinton Community College. Courtney was in the Library Club at the school, which she truly enjoyed. She was a quick-witted, smart, intelligent young woman who brought joy to the lives of so many people. She loved to spend time with her friends and family, draw, paint, watch Jeopardy, and she especially loved her music and her books. She loved writing poetry and short stories. She was a diehard Boston Red Sox fan, who absolutely despised the New York Yankees!! Courtney loved spending time with her best friend, Stephanie Heath, who was taken from us as well. They will remain partners in crime as their adventures continue together.

Courtney is survived by her mother, Cindy Alexander, and her fiancé, Scott Waldron of Redford; her father, Paul Alexander, and his girlfriend, Joanna Bein of Riverview; her older sister, Chelsea Alexander, and her younger brother, Michael Alexander. She is also survived by her maternal grandparents, John and Shirley (Briquer) Shiflett of Plattsburgh; and her paternal grandfather, Thomas Alexander of Standish. Her future stepsiblings, Scotty and Kayla Waldron; her aunts and uncles, Bruce and Julie Shiflett of Plattsburgh, Deborah and Robert Wilcox of Peru, Michael and Cathy Rafferty of Peru, Kevin and Kasie Shiflett of Redford, Peter Alexander of Standish and Patty and Scott Stoddard of Fort Jackson. She is also survived by cousins, Amanda, Dee, Kylie and Madison Shiflett, Samantha Rafferty, Amber, Danny and Michael Bell; her godparents, Scott and Leasha LaPoint of Merill; her cat, Quinn; and many friends.

She was predeceased by her maternal grandmother, Diane (Lennox) Alexander, in 2006; and her uncle, Michael Alexander, in 1977.

Calling hours will be held at St. Joseph's Church in Dannemora on Saturday from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. A memorial Mass will follow calling hours at 1 p.m. at St. Joseph's Church as well. A dinner will follow at Assumption of Mary School, where Courtney attended elementary school.

Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family.

Those wishing to may make donations to the Saranac Fire Department, the Dannemora Fire Department or the Saranac Library Club in memory of Courtney.

Courtney, you will never be forgotten. Life was better because we had you, if only for a short time.

Arrangements have been entrusted to the Heald Funeral Home, 48 Court St., Plattsburgh.

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March 27, 2023

Darlene Charland posted to the memorial.

April 28, 2009

Lana Provost posted to the memorial.

April 19, 2009

Kathy & Tom Nelson posted to the memorial.

Darlene Charland

March 27, 2023

I'm so sorry Cindy for your loss she will be miss

Lana Provost

April 28, 2009

Cindy, I am sorry for all you are going thru. If you need me I am here a phone call away. Love and prayers.

Kathy & Tom Nelson

April 19, 2009

Dear Cindy and Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathys for your loss.Though we`ve never met Courtney we can still feel your loss in a very personal way, since we have 2 daughters of our own.May you find comfort in staying close to your family and friends at this time, and in the Lord.
God Bless you and take care.

Sheryl and Jeff Alexander

April 18, 2009

Cindy,Paul,Doo,Mike and family,
I have tried to think of the right words to say,I'm sorry and I Love you seem so insufficient. Cortney left her mark on everyone she came in contact with and we are better people for having known her. She will always hold a special place in our hearts and prayers.
Love, Sheryl and Jeff

Courtney Alexander

April 15, 2009

Our deepest condolences to family and friends in your great loss. You are in our prayers.
Carol & Jeff Hall

Sabrina Tucker

April 13, 2009

Cindy-
Our family would like to send our deepest condolences for your loss of Courtney. Just remember that God is in our hearts and HE is listening to us all. I wish I could come to personally give you a hug. We will light a candle for Courtney in our parish. ((((HUGS)))) Alan, Sabrina, Michael, & Daniel Tucker (inspire)

Wanda Richardson

April 6, 2009

Dear Cindy and family,
Sending you love and prayers from Montana and letting you know that we are thinking of you all during this time of sorrow. May the Lord give you strength, peace and keep your memories strong of Courtney in your hearts and minds. Please remember God loves you and is there to listen to your words of why.
Love and prayers,
Wanda Shiflett Richardson and Gary

Caitlin Bugbee

April 6, 2009

Alexander Family,
I send my deepest condolences to you all. I had a math class with Courtney back in 8th grade and i will always remember Courtney as such a nice friend and always willing to help others. she was funny and always had a smile on her face. She was a great person to be friends with and i am very sad to see her gone but yet she is always with us everyday looking down on us. I am very sorry that she had to leave us all so soon. I send you all my prayers and i know that in June she will be celebrating with all of her classmates. She may be gone but she will never be forgotten.<3 May Angels lead you in

janie cahoon

April 5, 2009

Dear Cindy ..
Know that you and your family are in my prayers .........
Love, janie

Dixie Brough

April 5, 2009

Cindy & Family, and Alexander Family,
We love you all and are so very sorry to hear about Cindy and her best friend. Our hearts and prayers are with you all right now. Please tell Uncle Jack and Aunt Shirley how very sorry we are and we love them.
Dixie (Shiflett) Brough & Family

Bonnie Shiflett

April 5, 2009

Cindy,Paul,Chelsie and Micheal, I cannot begin to find the words to comfort you in this tragic loss of your daughter and sister,Courtney. I remember her as being such a bubbly, always smiling girl. My deepest sympathies are with each of you in this very devasting time of sorrow.
Love You All Aunt Bonnie

DARLENE CHARLAND

April 5, 2009

DEAR PAUL AND ALEXANDER FAMILY,
I AM REALLY SORRY TO HEAR OF THE LOSS OF COURTNEY. MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHT ARE GOING OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.. SHE WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY PRAYERS...

April 4, 2009

Dear Cindy,Paul and family,
There is no words for the pain of losing your daughter Courtney.I did not know her a lot but I remember every time I saw her she had a beautiful smile and was so friendly.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Patricia Wolf, Saranac,New York

April 4, 2009

Tom, the Alexander and Shiflett families.
Our thoughts are with you at this saddest of times.
Rhoda Madoff
Jason Leclerc
Montreal, Canada

Christopher Marino

April 4, 2009

Courtney was an amazing young person, with a wonderful sense of humor. Words cannot express how much she will be missed at Saranac High School. It is defintately not the same , and very difficult to start my day now, without seeing her in my 1st period class. She had a very bright future ahead of her, however, we can take comfort in the fact that she is now watching over us, with Steph. YOu are all in my thoughts and prayers.

BERNIE&KATHY LASHWAY JR

April 4, 2009

Tom&the Alexander family, Sorry to hear about Courtney's passing.

kelly Rock

April 3, 2009

To the entire Shiflett & Alexander families.
We are so sorry for your loss. No words that we can say can take the giant hole from your hearts. Life does go on, but she will never be forgotten. If there is anything we can do for you now or in the future, please call us.
Kelly, Barry, Bret, Kyle and Meggie Rock

Missy Devan

April 3, 2009

To Courtney's Family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Courtney as well as I knew Steph but I never saw one without the other. I will always remember how inseparable those girls were and how much energy they always had, probably because Court always bought a starbucks energy drink almost every time she came in the store. She was such a nice girl and they were both there for me after my car accident back in october and I will never forget the concern they showed for me. You should be very proud of the daughter you raised she was a great girl. God Bless You.

Rest In Peace Courtney you will never be forgotten<3

kyle Relation

April 3, 2009

To My Best Buddy,

I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I wish there was something I could do to take your pain away. I will not be able to make it to the service because of my work schedule. Just know Cindy the my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Your Best Bud, Kyle

William & Dawn (Goddeau) Perry

April 3, 2009

Cindy & Family,

We are so sorry for your loss of Courtney. I can remember quite some time ago when she & my daughter Cheyenne attended AOM together...we had lots of fun rooting them on during basketball games!! Just know that our thoughts & prayers go out to all of you at your time of sorrow. If there is anything we can do for you do not hesitate to give us a call anytime. God bless you & your families.

KYLE RELATION

April 3, 2009

To My Favorite Buddy,
I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I cannot make it to the wake or funeral because of my work schedule. You are one of my best friends and I with there was something I could do for you and your family to make this easier. I will be in touch with you soon. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Love, Your Buddy, Kyle

Steve, driver #188

April 3, 2009

My condolences to Courtney's family.

I got to know her as she rode my morning bus the many times she was at Steph's. What a duo!

Always joyous, and very witty is how I will remember her. A loss of a great person. I will miss her.

R.I.P. Courtney

Adam Wood

April 3, 2009

Cindy, Scott and Family,

I deeply sorry for your loss.

April 3, 2009

cindy and family,
i am so sorry for your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. may god bless you in your difficult times.
Blanche (Perry) Cookingham Saranac, N.Y.

jessica morrow

April 3, 2009

you will be really missed courtney u will always be in my heart

Carrie Farrell

April 3, 2009

Paul and Cindy,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter Courtney. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Zhana McCorry

April 3, 2009

Cindy & Family,
Im very sorry for your loss. I know you talked of Courtney so much and how proud you were of her for the nursing program she was going to do. And of course the little things that got you mad but you still loved her. I wish you the best of luck and send my love & support to you.
~ Zhana ~

hi mom.................. love justin

Judy Alexander-Wasley

April 3, 2009

Paul & Family,
We're saddened by your loss of Courtney. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Judy & Family

pat bourey

April 3, 2009

Paul and Cindy,I was so sorry to hear of your loss. If there is anything I can do please don't hesitate to let me know. My prayers are with you both and all of your family.

joanne hebert

April 3, 2009

my thoughts and prayers go to the Alexander and Shiflet families.I had the Shiflet twins in my class at Assumption school.

Lillian and Ray Castner

April 3, 2009

Dear Cindy and Family,
Our deepest sympathies to you at this time of such sorrow. We know Courtney will continue to live on in your hearts forever. Heaven has a new angel.

Lil and Ray

April 3, 2009

Cindy & Paul and your significant others my deepest sympathy & prayers are w/ you and your families & may Courtney rest in peace eternally My heart and thoughts and prayers are w/ you all Linda Barber

Rachel Carter

April 3, 2009

Cindy and family,
My heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry for the loss of Courtney. I just lost my fiance' 3 weeks ago, and I believe that he and your daughter are in a better place. May the love of family, friends and memories bring you comfort. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Tiffany Baker

April 3, 2009

cindy and scott and family
I am very sorry for ur lost of courtney she will always be in my heart

April 3, 2009

Cindy,Paul and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can remember taking Jim and Kayla up to Standish to play with Courtney and Chelsea and they always enjoyed that. May you find peace.
Michelle, Little Jim, and Kayla Supley

Hope (Furnia) Staunches

April 3, 2009

Cindy,
I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jodi Vasquez

April 3, 2009

Dear Cindy and Family,

I was deeply saddened to hear about your loss. May the love of your friends and family help you get through this difficult time of sorrow. Courtney is now with the angels and will be looking over all of you.

Sincerely,
Jodi M. Vasquez
(friend of Cindy's through LCA)

April 3, 2009

To the entire family of Courtney:
I am so sorry for your loss, Words cannot express my sorrow. Your in my prayers.
Angie and Roger McKee

Ashley Rock

April 3, 2009

Cindy and Paul,
I am thinking of you in this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss, my her memories bring you comfort.

Maria C

April 3, 2009

To Cindy and the Alexander family, my sincere condolences on the loss of your daughter Courtney. Please believe that courtney is in a better place. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
maria

Nicole Delaney

April 3, 2009

I would like to send my thoughts and prayers to the family and friends of courtney.

mike and bridget burleigh & family

April 3, 2009

cindy and paul...we are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter courtney. you truly are going through "every parents worse nightmare". please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Canidce Clark

April 3, 2009

Cindy,Scott and the rest of the family. I am very sorry for your loss. She will remain strong in your hearts and she will let you know she is around. She was a shinning star that was getting ready to let the world know she was here. With her strong heart and beautiful smile she will never be forgotten. We love her deeply and will miss her. If you need anything please let me know my phone is open all hours for you.
Love the Clarks
Candice, Jamie, Stephia and Lakota

keyonna stickle

April 3, 2009

hey courtney,


everyone wishes you were with us again even me. your and steph's death hit the school hard, expecially the seniors. We miss you guys so much and i'm going to miss not having you on the morning bus when you were at steph's house. I'm praying for your family and that they get better dealing with this rough time! i am very sorry that you had to leave us so shortly and I wish I could have got to know you more, but your smile will always be in my memory. Rest In Peace and will never forget you one bit hun.


love always keyonna
freshman at SCS

Wade & Tammie Sullivan

April 3, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

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