Curtis Stoelting

Curtis Stoelting

Curtis Stoelting Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 14, 2009.
STOELTING , Curtis Howard Unexpectedly at his residence, Curtis passed away May 11, 2009. He will be greatly missed by his loving and devoted wife Wendy (Kulas). Curtis was a loving son to Beverly and Howard Stoelting of Milton, PA. He will be deeply missed by his sister Paula (John Tobin) of West Nyack, NY, and brothers David (Heather) of Brooklyn, NY, Dan of Virginia, and Ben of San Francisco, CA. Beloved son-in-law to Grace and the late Greg Kulas of Ottawa, ON, brother-in-law to Brenda (Sean), Cindy (Bryan), Angela (late Earl), and Cathie (Jim). Dear friend and uncle to many nieces and nephews. Visitation at BAY GARDENS FUNERAL HOME, 1010 Botanical Drive (across from the Royal Botanical Gardens), Burlington, ON (Telephone 1-905-527-0405) on Friday, May 15, 2009 from 10:00 a.m. until time of Service in the Chapel at 11:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Heart and Stroke Foundation would be appreciated by the family. Please sign the online Book of Condolence at www.baygardens.ca .

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Iris & Ken Kripki

June 15, 2009

Wendy and Stoelting family,
I just heard of your very precious loss. How difficult and painful it must be. There are no words of comfort at a time like this but it helps to know that there are friends, associates and people that care. My prayers are with you as time will slowly heal your pain and that Curtis is at eternal peace. Remember Curtis's physical presence may be gone but the memories you have will be forever. I hope you can enjoy the many happy memories I know you have.
I had the distinct pleasure of working with Curtis and learned a great deal under his guidance. It was great having someone like him as my supervisor because we were on the same track of thought. Always in the best interest of our clients. Through the social events I had the pleasure of meeting you Wendy and understand how much you will miss Curtis. But the warmth and love you shared will be a memory you will cherish always.
May the Lord Bless you all and give you comfort, strenght and peace at this time.

Patrick Higgerty

May 23, 2009

Dear Stoelting Family:

I was very saddened to just learn of Curtis's passing and I extend my heartfelt condolences.

As an injury lawyer, I have had the distinct pleasure of working with Curtis on various cases over the years.

Curtis was a kind, gentle, caring, thoughtful and collaborative individual. Those a just a few of many words that describe his fine character.

Of course he was the very best at what he did professionally, which is why I always went to him for assessment of my clients' vocational losses.

No doubt, Curtis will be deeply missed by many.

Again, please accept my sincere and profound condolences.

On the day we all were leaving Grass Lake, I, Curtis' brother Dan, took this picture. Curtis said he enjoyed this trip very much.

May 22, 2009

Sheila Garland

May 20, 2009

Dear Wendy and the Stoelting family,

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Curtis's passing. He was a supervisor in my training to become a clinical psychologist. I sincerely appreciated his commitment to helping individuals with brain injury and I learned a great deal from him during my time at BIRC.

My condolences are with you.

Katie Bryanskaya

May 19, 2009

Dear Wendy,
I am deeply sorry about your husband's passing. This is terrible news to everybody who knew you here in Calgary. My deepest sympahty to you and your family at this hard time. You are in my prayers.

Jody Treleaven

May 19, 2009

Dear Wendy and family,

I was so very saddened when I learned the news that Curtis had passed away. I learned so much from him both professionally and personally. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tim Ng

May 15, 2009

Dear Wendy, I am very sorry and saddened to hear the loss of Curtis. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sylvia Cummer

May 15, 2009

Dear Wendy:
I was shocked and very sad to learn that Curtis has died. I know from our converstations that you had a very good marriage and his death will be a tremendous loss to you and both of your families. How fortunate that you made the move back to Ontario and are close to loved ones at this very sad time. Please know that you are being upheld in prayer. My deep condolences.

Cathy Chaffee

May 15, 2009

Dear Wendy,

Just heard of your loss. My thoughts are with you today and as you go forward in this difficult time. Life is so precious & we tend to forget or take it forgranted, until we loose someone special in our life. Wendy make sure you stay close with the people who love & support you thru this time. Take Care.

Margaret Grant

May 15, 2009

Dear Wendy, I was deeply saddened to hear of Curtis' passing. I worked with Curtis at BIRC for a number of years, and saw his kindness touch the lives of many people with acquired brain injury. He was very devoted to his work, and with his quiet direction and gentle humour, a role model to the staff. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Debbie Freind

May 15, 2009

Dear Wendy, I am so sorry to hear of your sad loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Sally Spear

May 15, 2009

Wendy,

I was shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of your husband Curtis. My thoughts are with you all at this time.

Allan Mandel

May 14, 2009

Dear Wendy

I never knew you but Curtis was an esteemed colleague of mine who had an appreciable impact on an often neglected group - people with brain injuries. Curtis worked for me for a brief period of time. I had enticed him to do so after a professional colleague remarked on how good a job he had done in preparing a psychological assessment. Curtis was a soft-spoken man but he cared about others and was very knowledgeable in his field. He will truly be missed.

Daryl Hebert

May 14, 2009

Dear Wendy,

I was truly saddened to hear that Curtis had passed away the other night. I worked with Curtis for 7 years at BIRC and he was a great supervisor and a wonderful colleague. I benefitted, along with the rest of our staff, from his guidance and his years of experience. He was our mentor and our role model, a leader who walked his talk.

We have lost a strong advocate for people with brain injuries with his passing. Curtis always had a soft spot for those people with brain injuries who did not have natural supports, those for whom life was a struggle and he wanted to be sure they got the help they needed.

Know that others are sharing our memories of Curtis and holding you close in our hearts.

Allan Dolynny

May 14, 2009

I am very sorry to hear about this shocking news. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Even though I did not know Curtis that well, I could tell he was "one of the good guys" by the happiness he brought to you.

Lianne Gemmell

May 14, 2009

Wendy,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Smile when you think of him.

Brian Concannon

May 14, 2009

Dear Wendy and the Stoelting Family:

We are very sorry to hear of Curtis' passing. He and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Marcy Strazer and Brian Concannon

Brenda Davis

May 14, 2009

Wendy,

I was so sorry to hear about your sudden loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Bonnie Blankert

May 14, 2009

Wendy,

I was saddened to see in this morning's paper that Curtis had passed away. I'm sorry for your loss.

I appreciated the guidance and knowledge that Curtis provided to me while we worked together for six years at BIRC. More recently, it has always been a pleasant surprise to receive a psychoeducational report that was prepared by Curtis.

I know he loved you very much Wendy. I always enjoyed the times he would ask me into his office to show me a gift he had purchased for you for a special occasion. He was always excited, in his own quiet way, and his love for you was apparent.

Curtis spoke about his incredible family from time to time and my thoughts are with them as well.

Take care.

Lisa Somers

May 14, 2009

Wendy and Family, We are deeply saddened by the loss of an amazing man. Curtis was a great support and we could always count on him for a listening ear. Love Peace and many prayers during this difficult time.

The Southern Alberta Brain Injury Society (SABIS) family

Mel Johnson

May 14, 2009

Wendy & family, I'm sorry to hear of your loss.
My sincere condolences,
Mel Johnson

Aimee Hudson

May 14, 2009

Wendy,
So sorry to hear about your loss, my heart goes out to you and Curtis's family.

Dallis Briggs

May 13, 2009

Dear Wendy and Stoelting family,
I am sorry to hear of the passing of Curtis. It is hard for me to hear of such a wonderful person leaving us so soon. Curtis was a great friend, colleague and mentor to me and the time that I got to spend with him was precious. He played an integral role in my becoming a psychologist and his teachings and approach to life will never be forgotten. I will miss him.

Dallis Briggs

Linda Walker-Sabo

May 13, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of the unexpected passing of Curtis. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you travel through your grief.
I will remember Curtis always as the cousin that wanted to make sure on my 13th birthday I would not turn into "one of those terrible teenagers."

Tom & Phyllis Walker

May 13, 2009

With loving Sympathy, Howie & Beverly.
May the Love you shared with Curtis,
light a path through your sorrow to a place
of comfort and peace.
God Bless !!
Love You,
Tom & Phyllis
xoxo

Shannon Sabo-Haag

May 13, 2009

Great Aunt Beverly & Great Uncle Howie,

I was saddened to hear about Curtis. Mom told me today. Oh, what a terrible loss. I am praying for you and all of the family.

May 13, 2009

To Wendy and all her Family

Our sympathies in the loss of your husbad Curtis.

Rae and Gerry Cowherd

Dorothy Morrison

May 13, 2009

To Cathie and Jim,

So sorry to hear of yet another loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and may your memories help you through this sad time.

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