David Boynton Bellerose

David Boynton Bellerose obituary, Oxford, MA

David Boynton Bellerose

David Bellerose Obituary

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It is with deep sadness that we announce the death of David Boynton Bellerose, 56, of Oxford, MA. He died peacefully at Rose Monahan Hospice Home after a nine-year battle with Metastatic Melanoma. He leaves behind his beloved wife of 34 years, Kimberly, who faithfully supported him through his journey. He was also loved by his two daughters, Alexandra, of Oxford, MA and Anneliese, along with her fiancé, Michael Benoit, of Rochdale, MA. He is also survived by his brother, John Bellerose and his partner, Wendy Monroe, of Newmarket, NH; his sister, Kathryn Bellerose Willard and her husband, Robert, of Thompson, CT; his wife's parents, Kenneth and Anne Dery of Woodstock, CT; his sister-in-law, Debra Dery LaFiandra and her husband, Craig, of Woodstock, CT; and his niece and nephews Ryan Bellerose, William and Jacob LaFiandra, and Emma and Zachary Willard. He was predeceased by his parents Arlene (Boynton) and Lawrence Bellerose of Clermont, FL. David lived a life dedicated to service. He was best known as a well-respected funeral director. Learning the trade from his parents throughout his childhood and teen years, he attended New England Institute of Applied Arts & Sciences, and launched his career at J.S. Waterman & Sons in Boston. He landed in Worcester County and spent the majority of his career at Britton Funeral Homes, Inc. of Auburn and Shrewsbury as a funeral director, embalmer, general manager, and eventually co-owner until 2013. He expanded his experience at Miles Funeral Directors of Holden and Sterling, and most recently served at Fay Brothers Life Celebration Homes in Worcester and West Boylston. Throughout his three-decade career he assisted thousands of families throughout the tri-state area, mentored dozens of other funeral directors, and helped innovate funeral service to better serve the community. In addition to his noble career, David spent a significant portion of his spare time volunteering for a variety of organizations. From 1987-1999 he was a call member of the Auburn Fire Department, active in all aspects of firefighting while working full-time. He was a 25-year member of the Rotary Club of Auburn, serving as President for three terms, and receiving the Paul Harris Fellow Award. He served on the Massachusetts Funeral Directors Association Board of Directors and was President-Elect in 2013, along with the Visiting Nurses Association Board of Directors and was President in 2012. He also contributed his time and services to the National Funeral Directors Association, Auburn Youth and Family Services, Auburn Chamber of Commerce, Corridor 9/495 Regional Chamber of Commerce, and the Auburn/Webster and Worcester Lodge of Elks. When he wasn't working or volunteering, David enjoyed a good game of golf, time at the beach in Narragansett or on the bay side of the Cape, and skiing in the winter. He was a member of the E/F Ski Team at Wachusett Mountain and in Colorado. He also spent many weekends getting inspired by the Food Network and loved cooking elaborate meals, especially during the holidays. Many Christmas seasons were spent cutting down a real tree and baking traditional cookie recipes. In the summer, David was best known for his impeccable yard and took pride in the golf course style stripes when mowing his lawn. It was a good day when he could enjoy his work from the deck with his family. Since his diagnosis in 2013, David was treated at the Skin Cancer & Melanoma Clinic at Massachusetts General Hospital. His family would like to thank Dr. Ryan Sullivan and team for their dedication and innovation throughout the years. They would also like to thank the team at Rose Monahan Hospice Home for their compassionate care and support. Family and friends are invited to celebrate David's life with visiting hours on Monday, May 9th from 4:00pm until 7:00pm at the Callahan, Fay & Caswell Life Celebration Home, 61 Myrtle St., Worcester. His funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:00am on Tuesday, May 10th at Blessed Sacrament Church, 551 Pleasant St., Worcester. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery, Riverside Dr., North Grosvenordale, CT. His family asks that memorial donations be considered to AIM at Melanoma, 5729 Lebanon Road, Suite 144-305, Frisco, TX 75034 or to the Box 4 Assocation c/o Worcester Fire Department Credit Union, ATTN: Box 4 Special Services, 34 Glennie Street, Worcester, MA 01605

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May 10, 2022

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May 9, 2022

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Wendy Harris

May 10, 2022

David was a kind man and I am grateful to have met him. I wish his family peace and love. I am so sorry for your loss.

Diane Shipulski

May 10, 2022

To the Bellerose Family: We are so very sorry for your loss. David handled the funerals for our Dad (in 2002) and our Mom (in 2009). He was one of the nicest people we have ever met. A true professional but with compassion. We will never forget his kind ways. Rest in peace, David. You will be missed.

Rev. Francis Roberge

May 9, 2022

To David's family, so sorry for your loss! I am a priest of the Diocese of Worcester and got to work with Dave doing funerals for many years. Not only was he a great funeral director, but I also got to know him as a friend. I knew his days were numbered and he lived every one of them to the fullest. May God bless him for a wonderful life of Service!
Father Francis A Roberge, St. Vincent de Paul Parish, Baldwinville

David & Linda Doherty

May 9, 2022

David's passing is such sad news. He was a delightful gentleman that made you feel like a good friend every time you were lucky enough to run into him. He fought such a valiant battle. We hope his family finds comfort in knowing that he was held in high regard and will be missed by everyone lucky enough to know him.

Jeffrey Haapala

May 5, 2022

So very for your loss. Haven't seen David in a few years but always enjoyed the conversations we had.

Donna Wrenn

May 5, 2022

I am very sorry for your loss. May his soul Rest In Peace.

Ginny BENOIT

May 5, 2022

Annie,Mike, Kim and Alex you loss a great man today and we will remember him always.
Love and sympathy the Benoit Family

Laurie Bell

May 5, 2022

David was the funeral director at Brittons funeral home when both my parents died in the late 80s and then again at day brothers when my granddaughter died in 2020. He remembered my family and I was truly touched. His compassion, kindness and exquisite professionalism in all three events was remarkable. i will remember him always. I am so sorry and sad to hear of his passing.

Jamie & Debra Heath

May 5, 2022

Rest in Peace David. You have served so many and so graciously. You were a fine humanitarian and will be missed by many. May your family find comfort in the peace in the memories they have of you. May you now rest in the comfort of the Angels. God Bless.

P M

May 5, 2022

I am so sorry for you girls! He will surely be missed.
Pat Messina

Linda LaBranche

May 5, 2022

Kim, Alex and Annie, and your family.... we are shocked and saddened to hear of David's passing... he was one of the most thoughtful and caring people we have ever met... from his taking care of us when my Mom passed in "94, to the pleasure of working with/for him for over 5 years at Britton... May God bring you comfort, and may precious memories sustain you... hugs and prayers, love, Frank & Linda LaBranche

Philip G Haddad Jr

May 5, 2022

David is and always will be a genuine class act to be remembered as such. Pleased to have had him in my life. Travel well my friend! Memory Eternal! Phil Haddad

Mark Mahlert

May 8, 2022

So sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family. I am currently in Florida so I can not make the services.

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Marian Smat

May 7, 2022

My deepest sympathies to you all,Al enjoyed working with David. May Your memories bring you through this tough time. May he Rest In Peace

Darlene Haglund

May 7, 2022

My deepest condolences to the Bellerose family.
I knew David from St Rochs but most importantly when he was in charge of my late husbands funeral services. He was kind to me and my family and helped with our needs.
My the memories that you made over the years, comfort you at this time. May David Rest In Peace and. God Bless you all.

Kevin Killelea

May 7, 2022

Sorry for Your Loss David was a true professional.

Jack Davis

May 7, 2022

I will say this in honor of my colleague and friend.... a consummate man, professionally, personally....with a deep sense of humor, a passion for life, boundless energy and love for those who entered his sphere....devoted, dedicated and forever a gentleman and gentle soul...rest in peace my friend... I'll look to shake your hand and give you an embrace when we meet next....keep the lawn mowed in heaven until I get there, I'll be arriving on a multi-turn John Deer rider....

Brian Curran

May 7, 2022

Dear Kim, Alex, and Annie, Please accept our heartfelt condolences. We met Dave after Sunday mass at St. Roch's Church at the weekly coffee and donuts gathering where we all met and discussed our families, jobs, and health. There were quite a few from our church community that would gather. It began with 3, to, 5, 6, to some weeks 14 or more at our table. We would exchange stories about, work, family and especially what all our kids were up too. When Dave was not there we all became concerned. We knew it was probably a week where he was having treatment or a set back. We knew he would be back. Dave was a man of strong Catholic faith and he fought hard for his family. He also loved his job as a Funeral Director and was so proud he could guide and support families with their loss. Dave was a true soldier of God in all respects for his faith and family. Dave was a volunteer greeter at St. Roch's. It was so nice to see you Alex and your Dad at
St. Roch's on Ash Wednesday. I believe it was fate one last time. We will all miss you Dave, You were one
class act, humble and a gentleman. He was a determined to try and beat Melanoma, but said at the beginning he knew the treatments were only giving him extended time and being with his family was important and was his number 1 goal.
As he departed our weekly coffee group, he often said I am off to Market Basket where he and Vinney would often see each other again. Well Dave we know this is not the way you wanted it to end, but as we bid adieu, and we are raise our glasses and say goodbye for now and we hope when it is our time to depart you will be one of the greeters to guide us through. Rest In Peace friend you fought hard.
Brian and Sandy Curran

Maureen Sweet

May 6, 2022

Dear Kim, Alex and Annie - My most sincere and deepest sympathies to you. Dave sure fought hard to have more time. He could not have done that without all of you supporting him. He was so proud of you girls, and he always kept us up to date with your lives. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs

Matt Johnson

May 6, 2022

Rest In Peace! Deepest condolences!

Joseph Ciandella

May 6, 2022

Hello Dave, you will be missed by so many, including all of us from your melanoma group. I recall how often you would arrive, dressed in your suit and tie, a hat and dress shoes, looking great, and always with your signature hello and smile. You brought so much to our little group, words of wisdom, a toast to reality when we faced a hard discussion, and a follow up of encouragement, optimism and enthusiasm to see the best is yet to come. You always carried the group with a gentle hand and a safe, welcoming manner. You also brought a wonderful sense of humor to the session; your quick one liner could make the discussion veer off into a safe place. I can't image the group without you.
To Dave's family: I want to convey my deep sadness at your loss. What we, his friends feel, cannot compare to what your grief must be. I want you to know that Dave spoke of each of you many times in our little group, and he always spoke about you with love and concern for your well-being. Dave recognized how his illness affected each of you and frequently discussed how to protect you, communicate with you, how to manage so many details together and how to care for you all. His love for his family was evident in all he shared. Dave spoke with such pride in all of you. Such concern for his wife, such gratefulness for his family. You succeeded in supporting him, he said that you did that so many times. Your support was a constant that he was sure of and loved you all for. He seemed to always know he had you all, and you all were all he truly needed.
Much is communicated in a support group like ours, and we all came to know Dave for the fine Gentleman he was, the professional man, and the strong man he was. We loved him. We will miss him. I personally want to tell you how much he contributed to all of us, and how wonderful it was to come to know him over these many years. Thank you for everything, Dave. Your work is done, you did great, now rest in peace.

William Stone

May 6, 2022

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. I had the pleasure of learning from Dave while with the Rotary Club in Auburn. His compassion, thoughtfulness, and dedication to helping others was inspirational. He will be missed. A good man gone too soon.

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