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Debbie Jean Harr

1964 - 2017

Debbie Jean Harr

1964 - 2017

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BORN

1964

DIED

2017

Debbie Harr Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 13 to Dec. 16, 2017.

Debbie Jean Harr
May 24, 1964 - December 5, 2017

Deborah Jean Harr, 53, of Hesperia, was born to the beautiful Patricia Kane Raynor on May 24, 1964, in Chicago, Illinois. She grew up with a passion for sports and excelled at all athletics she participated in. As a loving wife, devoted parent, and proud grandma, she lived everyday for her family. She took pride in each of her kids and grandkids and encouraged them to thrive in all they do. Debbie had a gift to be able to see people's potential when they themselves did not realize it. She would strongly encourage and persuade anyone that came in her path to go the extra mile. Debbie was well-known throughout the community as hard working, energetic, and spunky mom who loved sports and fitness. She played a crucial role at her daughter's dance studio, The Talent Planet, where she welcomed each and every student with a smile and was very influential in their daily lives. She lived a selfless life, always giving to others before herself. She was taken to be with the Lord on Tuesday, December 5, 2017. Heaven has gained the greatest angel. Debbie Harr is survived by her husband, John Harr, her five children: Katy Varner, Scotty Carlton, Justin Montijo, Ethan Harr and Lisette Harr; five grandchildren: Mikey Delgado, Talan Varner, Skylee Varner, Drake Carlton and Evan Carlton; sisters: Cindy Fero, Carolyn Sorbet, and Paula Neuppert; brothers: Jeffrey Raynor and James Raynor; many cousins, uncles, aunts, and lifetime friends. Preceded by: grandparents; Lila Kane, John Kane; parents: Patricia Kane Raynor, Richard Bowman; brother: Billy Raynor. The memory and celebration of Debbie's life will be held at Hesperia Christian Church on Saturday, December 16th, 2017, at 11 a.m.; 16775 Olive Street, Hesperia, California 92345.

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28 Entries

Cray

December 7, 2024

Hey sis , just sitting here
Missing your beautiful smile wishing you were here so we could go out and find some trouble to get into love you

Katy Varner

December 7, 2024

Miss you every single day mom!

Cindy Fero

December 7, 2023

Dear Debbie, we will never forget you , we love talking about you all the time , we know you are watching over all us , and we will never stop sharing all our favorite memories of you hug Mom for us , tell we see each again love you always , your sis

Cindy Fero

December 7, 2020

Debbie , we think about you every single day , you are so missed by so many . I still can’t believe your gone our family gatherings are not the same with you , but we keep your smiling face , your laughter and your funny and beautiful personality with us always ❤❤❤Love you sister

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Shanda Wong

December 7, 2020

Awwwwe this popped up In my email . How you were taken to soon Ms Debbie . May you continue protecting your beautiful family Rest peaceful beautiful angel

K V

December 7, 2019

Love you mom. You are forever missed!

David, Barbara, Lisbeth and Ella Cerna

December 29, 2017

Our condolences to the family. Debbie will be greatly missed. She touched so many lives. I can still hear her voice, her laugh out loud laugh. She was a one of kind person who really got to know you. Our prayers are with the family.

K V

December 25, 2017

Wanted to call you so bad today.. I miss you so much!!!

Dana Schaeffer

December 24, 2017

Rest In Peace

Dana Schaeffer

December 24, 2017

RIP my kind, wonderful and smiling neighbor. You always had a sincere smile and wave as we passed each other in are yards and driveways. I'm sending my love, strength and hugs to the family. Stay close to one another, need each other and cherish each other always. What a beautiful guardian angel above us looking down.

Cindy Fero

December 19, 2017

Debbie , it's only been two weeks since I last saw you and I miss you terribly, I still wake up every morning and wish all this was a dream you will be in my thoughts forever ❤Love you sis

Ann

December 18, 2017

John,
My condolences to you and your family in the loss of your dear wife Debbie. May you find peace from God. Rm. 15:33

Tina Cerna

December 17, 2017

Taken way too soon Debbie.

Your services were beautiful just like you. What an amazing turnout! I loved hearing all of the stories, they were all so you, I can hear you saying everything they would say.

The studio will never be the same, but I promise to help keep your legacy alive while I am there. I may just bring in my own can of window spray ( I buy the same kind because of you) and clean the windows just like you would, and I will yell at anyone who touches them and messes them up. :-)

Help keep us all in line up there, but mainly, watch over your beautiful family as they go through all of these unbearable emotions.

We love you and will miss you every day!

December 16, 2017

You are not alone during this time of sorrow and pain. May God give your family strength and comfort to help you endure this loss. As you remember your beloved one, the God of peace give you comfort and peace in every way. May you find strength from the love and care that surrounds you and comfort in the memories that you shared. Please accept my sincere condolences. 2 Thessalonians 3:16

Danielle Hendrix

December 15, 2017

Debbie,
Words cannot express how saddened I have been since hearing of your passing.
You've been a great inspiration and motivation to me since I've met you. Our 8am class at The Camp just has not been the same.
I miss my workout partner. Sometimes I think I still hear you saying Come on Dani, you can do it.
I wish we would have had that beer together like we always talked about.
Cheers My friend...may your mountains always be blue.

Cindy Fero

December 14, 2017

Debbie , we will miss your beautiful , spunky smile , you were the life of all our girl get together s , you always made everyone smile and have a good time , it will never be same with out you ❤ Love you sis , give hugs to mom for me love forever Cindy

Nicole Zavala

December 13, 2017

You were one of a kind, you touched the life of everyone you knew and met along your journey here Debbie. I will forever remember your bold, strong personality, your laugh and smile... and how nurturing you were to everyone you met... you were a sunshine person, and I always enjoyed seeing you when I did. You will be missed so much, but I will always see you through your Katy girl!

Martha Gale

December 13, 2017

Debbie you were taken way too soon from your family, and everyone that loved you. You will be greatly missed. I know you are in heaven watching over everyone that you love ❤

Roberts Family

December 13, 2017

What a tragic loss! You are greatly missed!

Carolyn Sorbet

December 13, 2017

I'm so going to miss you , give everyone a big hug for all of us

Beth

December 13, 2017

Our prayers and love are with you. Debbie's smile will always be the first thing that comes to mind. We love you.

December 13, 2017

December 13, 2017
Debbie,
I think about you every day! You always had such a bright light! While that light might be dimmed on Earth, it will go on forever in our hearts! You touched so many lives in your short time here that your light will be spread wherever we go!
I know you were so proud of your family! They will continue with your legacy!
Until we meet again, my friend!

Tracy

December 13, 2017

Gone to soon. Carolyn, my love to you and your entire family. There are no words that can ease your pain. She will be greatly missed. My condolences.

December 13, 2017

God will be with the family and give you peace.

Carlena Colas

December 13, 2017

I am so sorry for her tragic passing. She was a beautiful woman, inside and out.

Reina Reyes

December 13, 2017

Debbie you will be missed. You greeted Miley 4days a week with a smile, you were there for her and many more. Miley seen you more than some of her own family. Its definitely going to be different and difficult. Mark and I really enjoyed talking with you every time we went in. The words of Mark, "you thought you were cool, Debbie was the coolest!" We loved your spunk, your dont take crap from anyone, tough mama attitude. I also heard from many that you kicked butt in the gym! You had control & you loved your kids so much, you can see how proud you were of them. You may not be here but now you have more range to watch over all of them from up above. All though you belong here with us, we will try keep the studio clean and inline for you. We will miss chatting with you! Always on my mind and heart! #dancefordebbie Katy, Justin & family stay strong, stay postive,stay a tight family its going to be hard but You now Debbie wouldn't want any negative attitudes keep smiling like she always did! LOVE YOU ALL

Shanda Wong-Dolan

December 13, 2017

I'm so sad . My heart aches for each of you . The little time my daughters & I were apart of TTP felt as if we belonged there. It was a tough time for my girls an myself but above all I arranged their dance evenings to be in one night an I had to exchange my youngest with her father weekly . Miss Debbie not only cared enough to work with us but was an excellent listener without judgement nor belittling the other party. It simply encouraged me to be even stronger because I then felt a warmth of love from one amazing momma to the next . I was like a kid it seemed those nights cause I really couldn't wait to have my chats with you Miss Debbie. Life is incredible and truly I've been meaning to stop in the new location to not only say hello but sign my girls up again . I only wish now id done exactly that ::::tears in heaven ::::::oxoxo until we meet again . Dance because we're all watching
lighting this candle in memory of how you lit up the room and brought so much of God's love wherever you were ❤

Heidi Hague

December 13, 2017

Gosh Debbie I'm still in shock!! You were such an amazing strong woman full of life, laughter and selfless caring for others. I love u so much and will miss you like crazy!! To John, Katy, Scotty, Justin, Ethan and Lisette there are no words I'm so sorry for your pain! To Paula, Cindy and Carolyn I Love u all so much! God bless you Debbie RIP! And hug my mom, Aunt Patti, Grandma, Grandpa and Billy for all of us!! They will be laughing in heaven so much now that your there!!

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