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Pascente, Donald A. age 56, of Westchester, IL. Former member of the Chicago Police Department. Beloved husband of Sharon (nee Grochocki), loving father of Dawn (Joseph) Liberti, Jaclyn Pascente, and Gregory Stranski, dear brother of Robert (Marie) Pascente, beloved uncle of many nieces and nephews. Visitation will be at the Conboy-Westchester Funeral Home, 10501 W. Cermak Rd., Westchester, IL, (2 blks. west of Mannheim Rd.), on Thursday, from 3 p.m. to 9 p.m. Friends are asked to meet Friday, at the Shrine of Our Lady of Pompeii Church, 1224 W. Lexington, Chicago, for Mass of the Resurrection at 10:30 a.m. Entombment private. Memorials will be appreciated to the Lance Armstrong Foundation, P.O. Box 161150, Austin, TX, 78716. Member of The International Union of Operating Engineers Local #399 of Chicago and the Taylor Street Bike-Ski and Fishing Club. For further info., call 708-F-U-N-E-R-A-L.To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Sandra VanStedum
May 3, 2023
Remembering Don and all the laughs he brought to our family gatherings, thinking of you Sharon today 5/3/2023 and sending you my love
Maureen Lee
May 27, 2006
Dear Sharon,
I heard about your loss from Amy about 1 week ago. I am so very sorry. I know from all our talks at the salon, how much the two of you loved each other. He will never really be gone, he is just transformed and waiting for you one day. His mission here is done and he begins his reward for a good life lived. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this time. We lost our 35 yr old sister in law last summer and we know somewhat the pain involved with a sudden loss. May God watch over you and guide you, and give you the strength to face each new day. Take care. Love, Maureen Lee
Christine Wirt
May 22, 2006
Sharon and Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy during this difficult time. I feel very privelaged to have known and worked with Don. He was truly one of the best guys. Don touched many lives and he will be missed. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
ROBERT A SAIGER
May 12, 2006
AS A FRIEND TO A MEMBER OF THE FAMILY I WISH TO EXTEND MY DEEPEST SMYPATHYT FOR YOUR LOSS
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Joe LePore
May 11, 2006
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I grew up with Donny on Flournoy Street, worked in 12th District when he was a cadet, and knew his parents very well.
Sharon Giammanco
May 11, 2006
Dear Sharon,
I heard about Don's passing thru a mutual friend. I just wanted to say I am truly sorry for your loss. I know how much you loved Don and though we have not seen or spoken to each other for a very long time,I wanted you to know how sorry I am. I know this must be very difficult for you. Losing someone you love is not easy and sometimes you think you will never be able to go on, but you must believe that Don is in a much better place and will always be there to watch over you and your family. We lost my father in law going on two years ago and it is still very painful, but remember that you will be able to make it thru with Don's strength from above - and because of the love he had for you. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that with each passing day you will find the inner strength and peace that you need to carry on.
Sincerely,
Sharon & Tory Giammanco
Carol Stream, IL
TOM MCKENNA
May 11, 2006
TO THE PASCENTE FAMILY
I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES AND LAUGHS THAT DONNY AND I HAD WORKING TOGETHER "ON THE JOB." DONNY WAS THE TRUE DEFINITION OF A "GOOD GUY." HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL WHO HAD THE PLEASURE OF BEING AROUND HIM.
Frank Kramidas
May 10, 2006
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Tony Montgomery
May 10, 2006
The Montgomery family would to express their deepest sympathy and offer their prayers to you and your family! May God BLESS you and your family!
Donnie Sametz
May 10, 2006
Dearest Sharon,
All of the many nice things you have always said about your beloved Don is a testament to your wonderful relationship together. I believe, Sharon, that I truly know how you feel at this time. Knowing that, I am still at a loss for words. Your Don is in Heaven and I know that my Julie is there for him. Hang in there Sharon. You are loved by so many friends and relatives.
Dod, you will be missed, Ski Club
May 10, 2006
Dinner in Miami
May 10, 2006
Celebrating our 10th Anniversary!
May 10, 2006
Kevin and Amy Wallace
May 9, 2006
Dearest Sharon,
This is so very hard to accept.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Don will be missed greatly, he always had a smile on his face and a love for life attitude. He was a quiet but gentle and comical man. You and Don have shared wonderful times together that can never be taken away. Hold on to these memories and know how much he truly loved you. Sharon remember you are surrounded by family and friends that care and love you. We are here for you always.
God Bless
Kevin and Amy Wallace
Marissa and Butch Pakosta
May 9, 2006
To the Pascente Family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you, you are in our prayers
Marissa Pakosta
May 9, 2006
Sharon,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you, Butch and I wish this didn't happen to two sweeter people. You both have so much love for each other and it showed. We loved how you and Don would TELL us we are meeting for breakfast on those early saturday mornings, we would roll out of bed, and you and Don would have already put in a full 10 mile ride on the path! We will always cherish those memories! Don't you worry, we will still meet up to listen to American English on those beautiful summer nights, Don won't be sitting with us, he will be jamming on the stage! He will always be your Gaurdian Angel forever!! We love you Sharon and we will always be there for you, for anything! Don was a great man, and he Loved you so much! We are so sorry that he had to be taken from you so soon, but that just means that he is off on yet another one of God's Missions! He will always be with you, like YOU said, "In Spirit!"
Love Always
Marissa and Butch Pakosta
Celebrating 10 terrific years!
May 9, 2006
Nancy Putz
May 9, 2006
Don was a really good guy and I will really miss all our lively conversations about the White Sox here at 500 N. Michigan. I am only glad he was able to experience their winning season last year. We will miss him.
Joseph Florey
May 9, 2006
Dear Sharon,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time! We know everyone loved Don, and that he was a good friend to so many people.
We are sorry that we can not attend the wake and funeral as we made prior commitments to go out of town.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Love,
Peggy and Joe Florey
Mary Jahnke
May 9, 2006
Sharon,
Although I did not know Donald very well, I do know how very much you loved and cared for him and cherished every day and every moment of your lives together. I was so deeply upset when I heard the news and you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly. Please know that if you need anything at all, I will be there for you every step of the way.
Sandy VanStedum
May 9, 2006
Dear Bobby, Marie, Dawn, Joey, Jacqueline and families,
Please accept our deepest condolences on the sudden loss of your brother and dad. He was a good man who is loved by many, many people. We wish you peace and comfort knowing that he is forever at peace in God's kingdom and, forever in your hearts, with you always.
Peace and love,
The VanStedum Family
Sandy, Ernie and Adam
May 6, 2006 Adam's Communion, celebrating in the courtyard at Holy Family
Sandy VanStedum
May 9, 2006
Dear Sharon,
You have our deepest sympathies.
It is difficult finding words during this time. This feels like a very bad dream that we all cannot wake up from.
We are so greatful to have been able to share so fully in Don's last day of life. Who would have known? I hope you find the comfort that I have in knowing how we spent that day - together as a family - In sharing our faith at Adam's 1st Holy Communion Mass, where, by the guidance of our pastor Fr. Brennan, we received absolution in reconcilliation and the chance to be "born again" ...and Adam was able to hear from Don what he loved most about him...how often do familiy members take the opportunity to share that deeply? It was a gorgeous day - not a cloud in the sky - and our kite flew so high. Thank you Don for helping to get it out of the tree for us ... and for being a such a good sport when the boys tied you up!
God's grace reaches us at all times. If we can live everyday of our lives like the last day of Don's life, then he will not have died in vein...
What I really need to say to you Sharon is take one step at a time - hold God's hand; He will lead you where you need to go. Know that no matter where you are right now, He will make a path for you that will lead you where you need to be. As you walk with Him, know you are never alone - not only is He always with you - we are also - your family. We love you and are here for your every need.
Don was a good man, taken too soon. Surely, he will be missed.
We love you,
your sister Sandy, Ernie and Adam VanStedum
Georgeann Georges
May 9, 2006
Dear Sharon,
I worked with Janice at Sears and learned about Don's passing. Please accept my sincere sympathy on your loss. I know you shared many happy years together. I am praying for comfort and peace for you and your family.
With respect,
Georgeann Georges
Janice Grochocki
May 9, 2006
My deepest sympathies to all family and friends. Don, you will be greatly missed beyond words. I love you! Jan
Marissa Flores
May 9, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
May 9, 2006
You will be missed. Thank you for always being a great guy to deal with and be around.
Your friends at 520 N. Michigan Ave.
Angela Roberts
May 9, 2006
May the peace of the Lord, our God, be with you during this very trying time. I'll keep your family in my prayers. Don was a great guy, and will be sorely mised here at the 500 North Michigan Avenue building.
From the Staff of Conboy's Westchester Funeral Home Funeral Home
May 9, 2006
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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