Reverend Dr. Donald Arthur Weems

1932 - 2016

Reverend Dr. Donald Arthur Weems obituary, 1932-2016, Saint Louis, MO

Reverend Dr. Donald Arthur Weems

1932 - 2016

Donald Weems Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 14, 2016.
Reverend Dr. Donald A. Weems, passed away peaceably, after a lengthy illness, on November 13, 2016, in St. Louis, MO, where he had lived for over 50 years. He was 84. He was surrounded by his daughter and her family, who had cared for him for many years.

Don grew up in Atlanta, GA, the son of Clarence Weems and Florence Wimberly Weems. He was always playing 20 Questions with the family, where invariably the answer was Georgia or Atlanta, as he loved his home state.

Don is survived by his sister Louise Smart, and sister-in-laws Jane Barr Stump, Judy Barr, and Wanda Barr; his children, Stuart Weems and daughter-in-law Catherine Oliver-Weems, David Weems, and Heather Weems-Elliott and son-in-law Marcus Elliott; his grandchildren Millie Phillips and her husband Chris Phillips, Barrett Weems and his wife Michelle Weems, Christopher Simmons, Alexandria Ann and Sofia Marie Elliott, and Douglas Weems; his great-grandchildren Cristian Ferrari, Barrett Weems, Jr., Mackenzie Phillips, and Marissa Ann Weems. He loved every one of us dearly.
Don is predeceased by his wife of nearly 60 years, Ann Barr Weems, and his beloved son Todd C. Weems.

Don attended Peabody College, in Nashville, TN at an early age, then Vanderbilt University, followed by McCormick Seminary in Chicago, with his doctorate coming from Harvard University. He was ordained in the Presbyterian Church in 1957. He deplored prejudice, racism, and bigotry, and strove to include all peoples in his life and faith, which led Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. to ask him to serve his ministry in the south. His faith, however, would lead him to several churches in Illinois, and St. Louis, where he took the call as head pastor at Trinity Presbyterian Church, serving there for over 35 years. During that time, he also served the national church, as Chair and Vice-Chair on several committees, as well as serving as Moderator of the Giddings-Lovejoy Presbytery, for two years, during the church reunion of the 1980s.

His life at Trinity was his heart and soul, and a celebration of God's world: the diverse and wonderful congregation; family services; midnight Christmas processions; mission trips; choral music and jazz bands; rainbows and banners - the celebration of all of God's gifts.

Christmas was the ultimate time of keeping God's faith, with gifts for friends and family, gathered from his many travels.

Memorial services will be 1 PM, Saturday, November 19, at Trinity Presbyterian Church, 6800 Washington Avenue, University City. The graveside service will follow immediately at Oak Grove Cemetery, on St. Charles Rock Road in St. Louis.

In lieu of flowers, please give all gifts of remembrance for Donald A. Weems, to the Weems-Scholin Scholarship Fund at Trinity Presbyterian Church.

Don's wife, Ann, in dedicating her first book, to him, wrote: To Don, who leaves rainbows in his path.

Arrangements under the direction of Gerber Chapel, Webster Groves, Missouri.

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William Craig

March 23, 2024

Donald Weems was a good friend of mine growing up in Decatur, Georgia. We graduated from Decatur Boys High School in 1949. His family has my sincere sympathy.

Jamie Wagner

November 21, 2016

I am filled with sadness at the passing of Don but am also filled with the love and light he shared with me and so many others. He was my pastor and a father figure who helped shaped who I am now. I will carry his light with me to the end of my days.

November 21, 2016

My heart is saddened with the passing of a wonderful man. I was very blessed to be part of Trinity youth group while in high school. The mission trips we took have always been part of what helped me become who I am today and with out Don, they would not have been the same.

I was blessed to be part of his son Todd's life and sorry that my life took me away from St. Louis as it also took me away from Trinity Church and the Weems Family. I will always remember all of the wonderful times I had with Don and wish his family my sincere condolences. I also will never forget Todd

Earl Mulley ( San Angelo TX.)

November 18, 2016

Dear Stuart, David, and Heather: sorry I can't be with you at this time, your second loss in just so few weeks. Please accept my sincere, sympathy, love and prayers in the loss your parents both in the same year. David and Heather, having been you fifth grade teacher I was witness to the results of the love your parents had for their four children. Although I can't be there Saturday. my thoughts and prayers will be there with you.
Much love,
Mary Myers Allen
314-863-0957

Pam LeLoup

November 17, 2016

As we celebrate Don's life, we celebrate a moment in time...a God moment...and give thanks for someone who so strongly influenced our beliefs and faith. We celebrate his brilliant leadership and ability to empower each person to find their path to sharing their God-given gifts. We witnessed and were part of a magical time at Trinity Presbyterian Church. The holy spirit was in our midst and continues in each of us as we move forward. Love and Shalom to the Weems family and all those who remember Don and our lives together. xxx

November 17, 2016

Rev. Don Weems was the soul of Trinity and an outstanding member of the G-L Presbytery. May others follow his sterling leadership in the UPC and may he rest from his labors in the presence of his wife, Ann. Others should emulate him in every way! N. Gail Weinrich (former member, Elder of CAPC)

Wendy Huning

November 17, 2016

My childhood was enriched by the fundamental foundation which Don Weems and Trinity Church gave to me and my family. A foundation of deep humanity and true Christianity which continues to support my life today, and for which I will always be grateful. My love and condolences to the Weems family.

Tom Wilhite

November 16, 2016

Don Weems was wholely holy and warmly human. Seriously committed to God , but devilishly humorous. A driven leader, but not a pusher. He was my great true friend and inspiration. It is sad to give him up, but he well deserves to now dwell for eternity in the bosom of God.

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