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Michael Oates
July 1, 2017
Dear Grandma,
It has been over 11 years since you have passed, and I still miss you dearly. I wish that I would have spent more time with you, but have nothing but the fondest memories of you. I will never see at a long, coconut doughnut without thinking of you, or walk into my old bedroom without thinking of all the sleepovers that we had. Mom was right, Christmas isn't the same without you, and never will be.
I feel so blessed to have had you in my life. Your family has grown quite a bit since you left us to go to Heaven. I now get the pleasure of sharing memories of you with my children. We have your picture in our kitchen, so I am constantly reminded of you. I wish you could have met Amelia, Luke (Lucas Evan), and Juliet. Amelia is strong like you were, Luke is kind and warm-hearted like you, and Juliet is silly and laughs lots like you did. You'd be so proud to call Rachel one your own. She takes care of our family, and sacrifices so much, just as you did...and continues the tradition of often having freshly baked desserts. It was refreshing to reread everyone's comments about you on this site about how you were truly a family first person. I have you to thank for me feeling the same way.
Until we meet again, which I truly believe and am excited for, I will have to settle for remembering you through stories and pictures, and spending time with you in my dreams.
With much love,
Michael
Michael E. Oates
December 26, 2007
Merry Christmas Grandma!
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December 26, 2006
Grandma,
Christmas wasn't the same this year without spending it with you. We really miss you so much, and received some nice gifts in memory of you. I hope you enjoyed Christmas with your family, and thanks for watching over us. We'll be thinking about you.
Love, Michael
Lori Lenzner
December 24, 2006
Dear Mom,
This is our first Christmas without you and we all really miss you. We know in our hearts that you are with dad and your mother and father. Merry Christmas with Love from Lori, Charlie, Chas, David, Crystal, Maureen, Deanne, Dennis, Matthew, Hallie, Jake, Sam, Gabrielle, Ned, Marlena, Joseph, Mindy, Colin, Judy, Bob, Rob, Kelly, Katie, Becca, Terry, Michael and Rachael.
Barbara Masielo
December 21, 2006
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Dear Judy, I was so sad to hear of your Mom's passing. I(and our whole family) always thought of her as a good neighbor and a dear friend. She always watched over my mom. She was the most kind-hearted and generous person I ever knew. Barbara
Chas Lenzner
September 8, 2006
Hi Grandma K!! Just thinking about you today. Hope all is well up there.
Love,
Chas
Harriet Barrett
June 7, 2006
Dear Judy, I thank you for your letter though it brought so very sad news. Your mother and I have been friends for many years and enjoyed so many nice activities together. I often wondered how she was able to carry on so bravely after your dear Dad passed away. Her great faith in God enabled her to carry on. You were such good daughters and I know helped her a great deal. She will be missed but you will be comforted knowing you will all be together someday, that is God's plan for us. My love and deepest sympathy to all of you. Harriet Barrett
Donna Petrelli
May 8, 2006
To the Kustes Family,I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother, Edna. I wanted to let you know how much she meant to our family. In the early 1950's she invited my mom, Virginia Petrelli to come to Southminster Church with her one Sunday. That simple invitation changed all of our lives forever. You see, later when my mother contracted Multiple Sclerosis and was confined to a wheelchair . . . several women from the church started coming and giving her physical therapy to keep her healthy. They came for over 10 years four times a week! Your mother's kindness to our mom led to her being alive many years more than she would have lived without the church's dedication to her. As kids we loved coming to your house on Castle Shannon Blvd. to see her on Halloween. We will never forget your mom. As I said . .She changed our lives. We will keep your family in our hearts and in our prayers. Donna Petrelli 1308 Hope Hollow Road Carnegie, PA 15106
Lynne and Chuck Stanich
April 26, 2006
Dear Judy and Bob, How sad we were to hear of your mom's passing. Please feel a warm embrace from afar and know that your comfort will be in our prayers. May your beloved mom rest in the Arms of Jesus. Love, Lynne and Chuck
Jim @ Lois Titus
April 25, 2006
Dear Lori & Family, When the death of a loved one occurs, it is almost impossible to convey one's feelings. We know your mom is finally at peace, and hope that thought gives you some solace. The greatest legacy a parent can leave, is their children, and knowing you confirms to us your mom did a marvelous job.
Phil and Betty Kash
April 20, 2006
Dear Judy, There is an unbroken thread that is woven from love, and it keeps family always together. Our thoughts and prayeres are with you and your family. Love, Phil and Betty
Susan Carothers
April 20, 2006
Dear Judy, Thinking of you with hopes and wishes that tomorrow will be a better day. I was sorry to hear about your mother. I didn't know until recently. I know you will miss her. Warmly, Susan
Bonnie and Robert Campbell
April 20, 2006
Dear Deanne, Judy and Lori,
I was so saddened to hear of your Mother's passing. I have many fond memmories of all the fun we had as children. Your Mother and Dad were always so kind to all the kids in the neighborhood and we never failed to show up for dinner and all the wonderful desserts your mother made. Bob and I want you to know that we have all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Terry Oates
April 13, 2006
Grandma,
I still can't believe you're gone, but I know that you lived a long wonderful life and are now in heaven looking over us.
Love,
Terry
Charles Lenzner
April 4, 2006
Dear Grandma K,
Every time I think of you I still can’t believe you are gone. Anytime you where around you made everyone feel special and even though you aren’t with us here physically you will always make us feel special when we think of you. Our memory of you will live on forever. We believe that you have sent us many signs during the weekend of your funeral so we know you are in Heaven looking down on us everyday. This means a lot to us, especially mom, so thank you for sending us all those signs. Life comes and goes too fast but you lived the perfect life and I know you wouldn’t have changed it for the world. You helped teach us good morels and helped mold who we are today, so you aren’t actually gone, you are living through all of us. We will always miss you and think of you every time where with our family.
Love, Chas
Bettie Williams
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy, Deanne Lori and your families, My memories are lovely of my sixty three years friendship with your mother, since 1943 and I will be aware of the nice times we spent together-Edna and I - for as long as I live. You three daughters will miss her, however, you will be blessed for being exceptionally good to her. My prayers are with you for comfort in your loss. With love, Bettie Williams
Gayle Creese
April 3, 2006
May memories comfort you. May beautiful memories sustain you during this time of sorrow. Your mom was a very loving and wonderful person. I'm glad I had her in my life. Thinking of you, Gayle Grubb Creese
Jennifer and Brian Boyd
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy and Bob, To say that our thoughts are with you and to offer our deepest sympathy in your loss. Jennifer, Brian, Brendan, Jeremy, and Noelle Boyd
Joe and Ann Wollenschlaeger
April 3, 2006
We're thinking of you at this time and wishing you comfort and peace.Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Joe and Ann Wollenschlaeger
Joanne and Ed Schade
April 3, 2006
Deanne, Judy and Lori, We were so saddened to get Deanne's phone call about your Mother. We know this must be a very difficult and sad time for all of you. Your mother was always a very energetic, outgoing person. I know she cherished all of the wonderful times with her grandchildren and seeing them grow up. A wonderful blessing for her. May the wonderful memories of the happy times that all of you shared help to bring you peace and comfort. I think back to the visit my mother and I had with your mother before my mother moved to Cincinnati. She talked about how much you did for her. Our caring thoughts and prayers are with you. Joanne and Ed
Ellen and Harry McKee
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy and Bob, I'm sad beyond words and praying the Lord will be with you and your family in the days ahead. Really sorry to hear about your Mom. I wanted you to know you'll be in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Ellen and Harry McKee
Donna and George Medich
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy, May you find assurance in His Word, strength in His Presence, comfort in His mercy and peace in His love. So sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Donna and George Medich
Alexa Farrelly
April 3, 2006
Mrs. Oates, May beautiful memories sustain you during this time of sorrow. So sorry to hear about your mother. We always thought she was so funny especially when she harassed you! I hope the memories of her healthy and happy years will be of comfort to you. Love, Alexa
Sandy and Bill Ladebue
April 3, 2006
Judy and Bob, I'm thinking of you and praying you will find comfort in the precious memories you hold in your heart. So sorry to hear of your loss. Peace, Sandy and Bill Ladebue
Jessica and Joe Phillips
April 3, 2006
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Oates, May love sothe you, may words comfort you, and may peace fill your heart. We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. May you keep your loving thoughts and memories of her close in your heart. Thinking of all of you! Love, Jessica and Joe Phillips
Art Wallace
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy, Deanne and Lori, I was saddened to read about your mother's passing in Friday's obituary notices. Sending sincere heartfelt sympathy to Judy, Deanne, Lori and your extended families at this sad time. May God bless you all and guide you to overcome your precious loss. Again, with sincere thoughts and deepest sympathy to all of you. Art Wallace
Newlonsburg Presbyterian Church
April 3, 2006
You loved and lost someone special to you, Judy, Caring thoughts and prayers are with you now. Your Newlonsburg Presbyterian Church Family.
Gwen and Ken White
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy, A very belated but no less sincere note to let you know how sorry I am for the loss of your mother. I know you miss her but are glad that her suffering has ended. You have certainly been in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that the family and friend time around the memorial service was comforting. Enjoy the spring and the wedding preparations. Fondly, Gwen and Ken White
Elaine Gribar
April 3, 2006
With deepest sympathy to you and your family. Always, Elaine
Lindsay and Bill Merryman
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy and Bob, Rob and Kelly, Terry, Michael and Rachel, I have fond memories of your Mom and kind and loving woman that she was. My thoughts of her making everyone feel at home will always be with me. You and I have been so blessed to have such wonderful Moms. I feel sad with you when I think that she is no longer with us. I hope that you can find comfort in knowing that you have been a wonderful daughter to her, You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Lindsay, Bill and Lauren Merryman
Gini and Meredith Miller
April 3, 2006
Judy and Bob, To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under the heaven. Keeping you in thought and prayer. Gini and Meredith Miller
Helen and Harvey Hecker
April 3, 2006
Judy and Bob, At this difficult time, may you find strength, peace and comfort in your warm and loving memories. Sorry to hear the news about your mom. We are thinking of you and remembering all the visits your mom made. She was such a lovely person. Our sincerist condolences to you all. Helen and Harvey Hecker
Susie Siegel
April 3, 2006
Judy, May it comfort you to know that your loss is shared by those who care about you. Thinking of you. I am very sorry for your loss. Susie Siegel
Marie and Jim Ruane
April 3, 2006
Judy, A comforting word to make it known, in your hour of sorrow you are not alone. With our deepest condolences, Marie and Jim Ruane
Marcia and Keith Paulson
April 3, 2006
Mothers teach us to love, to see beauty, to take our place in the world and bloom there. We are all thinking of you at this time. Love, The Paulson Family
Karen Brock
April 3, 2006
Each soul is a beautiful flower that passes from this earth only to bloom anew in heaven's garden. With deepest sympathy for you loss. Karen Brock
Dodie Hagan
April 3, 2006
Heaven's garden holds a new bloom. With sympathy to you and love from a good friend, Dodie and Jim Hagan
Diane Sciullo
April 3, 2006
Remembering your mother with warm affection and deepest sympathy. Hold onto the wonderful memories of your Mother and keep them close to your heart. Our love and sympathy, Frank and Diane Sciullo
Mike Draghi
April 3, 2006
As you remember your mother, "those who gave our lives beauty live forever in our hearts." Mike Draghi
Henni Gilcher
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy and Family, May time's passing somehow help to ease your loss and sorrow. Our caring thoughts are with you and our hearts go out to you in the loss of your mother. Heinz and Henni Gilcher
Jen and Chrissy Kulju
April 3, 2006
Dear Aunt Judy and Uncle Bob, The sorrow that you feel today we cannot truly share, but may it comfort you to know we understand and care. We're sorry about the loss of your mother. You are in our thoughts. Love. Jen and Chrissy
Rosemary Wood
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy, Bob, and Family, We were so very sorry to hear of your loss. I only met your mother a few times but she was always so kind and caring. We hope warm memories bring you comfort. Love, Woody and Rosie
Alice Lieb
April 3, 2006
Judy, May each memory comfort you and bring you peace. We are so sorry to learn of your mother. The loss of our parents draws us to love more deeply, I think. With sympathy and love to you. Alice and Marty
Judy Radcliff
April 3, 2006
Judy, May each memory comfort and bring you peace. I still miss my Dad so much. Now I can laugh and remember stories and look at pictures. The memories do help. May God bless you and your family at this time and give you the memories to continue. Judy and Ty
Jane Kirsch
April 3, 2006
My favorite memory is that she taught us all to play spin-the-bottle in junior high. That was the first time Jimmy Martin kissed me. Thoughts are with you, Jane Kirsch
Leslie Hurwitz
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy, Your mother, what wonderful, fun memories I have of her. Her delicious and never stopping cakes. Plus, she knew or found out everything. I will miss new Edna's stories. You, dear friend, have been and are a wonderful daughter. You and your sister's always involved your mom with you. I am truly sorry for you not having her with you any longer. But from my experience, mother's never leave, many places and times they will bring smiles and tears. You'll know she is with you always. Much love, Leslie
Pat Grubb
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy, Bob, and Family, Words cannot express how sorry we are to hear of your mother's passing. Keep your faith. She is at peace. Fondly, John and Pat Grubb
Billie Moser
April 3, 2006
With heartfelt sympathy to you and your family as we remember Edna, a life so very well-lived. Sorry for your loss, Billie and Tom
Sue Billings
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy and Bob, I was so sorry to hear of your mother's death. Even though you know that she is in a better place now, its' still hard to lose your "mom". Take care, Stan and Sue
Joyce Holmes
April 3, 2006
Dear Judy and Bob, I have great memories of your mom yelling at Benton and Michael. She is a very warm person. I am sad for your loss. Joyce and Jeff Holmes
Sue Duff
April 3, 2006
Lori, Judy, and Deanne
What a remarkable and strong woman Edna was. She did a wonderful job raising three girls on her own. How she loved her family.
She was like a second mother to me--your house was always more fun than mine. There was always a freshly baked cake and lots of laughs. My first trip to Florida was with her to your Grandmother's house.
I will always cherish my special memories of Edna, she was such a big part of my childhood. I'm sure she is at peace with your dad and they are both watching over all of you and your families.
Valerie Resh
March 29, 2006
Dear Lori and family:
Chris and I were sorry to hear about your mom's passing. We know how close you were. As I read the messages from your friends and family, I noted that she loved to travel. I remember your story about how you met Charlie while taking a bus trip with your mother. Seems her love of travel was instrumental in you creating your own loving family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you find comfort and peace in the days ahead.
Melodie & Paul Phillips
March 29, 2006
Dear Lori, Deanne, and Judy,
Paul and I only met your mom once, but we remember her as being a very kind and lovely lady. As I have read the tributes to your mom, you and your families were blessed to have had such a wonderful mom, grandmother, and aunt in your lives. Our thoughts and our prayers are with you.
Love,
Carol Huebner
March 26, 2006
My Aunt Edna: I always think of her as being happy. Everything was fun. She loved to travel and went many places to see whatever she could, but she most often traveled to be with her family. They were most important to her. She always made me feel like I was part of that family. I will remember her as a very special lady.
Julie Lenzner
March 22, 2006
Dear Kustes family,
I have so many fond memories of Edna, from my first tram ride downtown with her and Grandma Lenzner when I was about 5, to her lovely laugh and smile. She was always so much fun and energetic!She had a great spirit and a big heart and was always so happy and warm hearted. Edna is a great role model to look up to.I feel very fortunate to have known her and my memories of her are very dear.
Nancy and Kip Forlines
March 22, 2006
Lori,
When we received the sad news that your mother had passed away, we wanted to let you know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. At a time like this no words can comfort, but knowing others are sharing your grief may make it a little easier. The few times we met your mom she was a very lovely lady. To have been fortunate enough to live to be 90 years young she had to have been doing alot for others during that time. All the memories you have together no one can ever take those memories away and hopefully they can help ease the pain. Our thoughts and prayers our with you. Our deepest sympathy, Love Nancy & Kip
Sharon Leonardi
March 21, 2006
Lori, Judy, and Deanne,
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. She was a very strong and magnanimous woman. To have lost her husband at such an early time, and to have carried on and raised her family alone, was a remarkable thing. It was kind of her to be so generous to "take me in" during my student teaching semester. She treated me like one of her own while I lived with her and Lori on Castle Shannon Blvd. I always enjoyed the small notes she included in her Christmas cards to me. It sort of "kept me in touch" with what you all were doing. And too, I have fond memories of visiting with her mom, "Grandma Lorah" in Florida. My sympathies are with you all.
Alisa Lenhardt
March 21, 2006
Hello Kustes Family,
Thank you for including me in this awesome way to honor your mother. I believe I only met her once and she was delightful. It was an honor and pleasure even for a brief moment. I feel like I mainly know her through Lori. I admire Lori so much and I imagine that she is reflection of her mother as most daughter's are. So, I am sure she will be missed by all of you. It is with great joy that we know that she joins her lord and saviour after living such a long meaningful life and that she looks down with great joy on you as you go through your successes in life. Her legacy (among many others I'm sure) is a beautiful family obviously full of love. You all have so much to be proud of. Celebrate her life and pass on those great memories.
Patti McCune
March 21, 2006
I was truly blessed to have shared my time at CSU with Lori and the rest of the gang. What stands out in my mind about Mrs. Kustes was that she was always smiling, and, as Deanne said, intensely devoted to her family. At some parties I attended I was amazed at how she dug right in and helped look after her grandchildren and ENJOYED what others might have considered a chore. That is what put her over the top for me. Also, she was always very personable and interested in those she met. What a LADY, and I am sure she is enjoying her family reunion in heaven.
Maureen Nez
March 20, 2006
Grandma K, it was an honor to get to know you. Even though my time with you was brief, I already felt part of your family due to your kindness and affection. Those characteristics will always be associated in my mind with you. Thank you for everything and my prayers are with you on your journey home.
Judy Oates
March 20, 2006
Dear Mom, Holidays will never be the same without you. We will always miss your smile and loving thoughts about everyone around you. I feel you are now home in Mt. Lebanon with Dad. We feel your presence and know you are at peace. Love, Judy and Bob
Mike and Carol Webb
March 20, 2006
Lori, Judy and Deanne-
You have our thoughts, prayers and sympathies during this time of the loss of your Mother, Edna.
Deanne Blackburn
March 20, 2006
Dear Mom,
You were an only child and wanted all of us to have several children. You had three daughters and we each had three children. You have always been devoted to family. You adored all of your grandchildren and made them feel special. You also had a wide circle of friends. I have always felt your love even in the end when you needed more help from us. You sent me a sign from heaven that you are okay and with Dad. You have always loved God and attended church whether on vacation or at home. I hope to continue with love and joy in my heart for all the time we had together. Love, Deanne
Geri Lenzner
March 20, 2006
Dear Lori, Judy & Deanne,
One of my best first memories of your mom was from the time your children were really little and how important it was to her to buy her grandchildrens' shoes. I thought, "What a thoughtful, meaningful gesture." I always thought to myself that I would like to do carry that tradition on to my grandchildren. Now, someday when I do have grandchildren, everytime I buy them shoes, I'll think of Edna. She was such a sweet woman and we'll miss her.
Grandma K's daughters,grandchildren,great grandchildren
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Lori Lenzner
March 19, 2006
Mom,
You brought such comfort, joy, and love to each of your daughters, Deanne, Judy, and Lori, your grandchildren and great grandchildren. We all loved you dearly. When we shared time together, you always said you wanted to go to Heaven and you wanted to go HOME. We Believe that now you are truly in Heaven with our dad, Edward, and your mom and dad, Edna and David Evans, and that you are now HOME and in a happier place. You lived for 90 wonderful years, raised your three daughters in your house in Mt. Lebanon. As the years went by, you had much joy in the birth of your nine grandchildren and five great-grandchildren! What an accomplishment for a woman who was an only child! You had many surgeries and challenges in your life, but you overcame them all. We all have inherited your strong family values and no matter where all your family journeys will take them, you will always be in our hearts and prayers.
Love Always,
Lori
Susan Fleming Morgans
March 17, 2006
Dear Judy, Deanne and Lori:
My deepest sympathy to you and your families on the loss of your mother. Playing at your house is one of my fond childhood memories—your mother always made us feel very welcome, and as I recall, there was always cake at your house. In more recent years, I used to run into your mom at the bank and we always had a nice conversation. I am sure you will miss her very much. Judy, if you ever would like to get together, call me at 412-343-2390. I still live in Mt. Lebanon and would enjoy seeing you.
Sincerely,
Michael Oates
March 17, 2006
Grandma, you are loved very much and will be missed dearly.
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