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ELAINE MARIE GOLDBERG
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ELAINE GOLDBERG Obituary
ELAINE MARIE, suddenly, on Nov. 3, 2010. Beloved daughter of Joseph and Darrah (nee Smith) Goldberg and loving sister of Kristie (Alan), Jaime, Stephen, Careen and Joey. Also survived by many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Relatives and friends are invited to her Viewing Tues. from 7-9 P.M. at THE FLETCHER-NASEVICH F. H. 9529 Bustleton Ave. Her Funeral will be held on Wed., with a Viewing at 9 A.M. at St. Martin of Tours Church, 5450 Roosevelt Blvd. (at Cheltenham Ave.) followed by her Funeral Mass at 10 A.M. Interment W. Laurel Hill Cemetery.
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KENYAN SIMMONS
November 22, 2024
Rest in peace I don't know you but you are my sister
Joy Brewer
May 24, 2023
Dear Joseph, Careen and family,
I watched a documentary about Elaine and send my deepest sympathies. I saw amazing strength in her life story. At such a young age she saw the need for change and accomplished it. Wow, some never do that in their whole life. What a girl to be proud of!
I pray for renewal of strength and courage each day for you now. I pray that God sends peace that surpasses all our earthly understanding. Amen
Peter Miraglia
April 23, 2023
So sorry for your loss...
Joseph Goldberg
November 21, 2022
I´m late this year. Sorry, not Sorry I´m just having an especially difficult time with this 12 year anniversary. I know you Rest In God´s Peace and Love That´s comforting but I just love and miss you terribly. I´m tired of pretending I´ve learned to deal with your loss, when I know it´s just as hard as it ever was. I´m not in the best of health myself, so maybe we´ll be reunited sooner than later. We´ll just have to leave it In God´s hands
I love you Babydoll
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Daniel Burke 17215
November 6, 2021
May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be always at your back, may the sun shine warm upon your face..." "May joy and peace surround you, contentment latch your door. And happiness be with you now and bless you evermore.
Coleen Pallister
November 3, 2021
I still think of you as that little girl who would come hang out with my daughter and sing on my porch. You always had the biggest smile and talked my ear off. I Am lucky to have so many happy memories of you. When I think of you it always brings a smile to my face. Love you Elaine
Ben Diaz
November 2, 2021
Thinking of you always. Stay with your Dad. Say hello to my Dad. I´m sure you have already. Love and miss you
Tanya Martins
November 2, 2021
Wishing you were still here with us all! Continue watching down on your family and friends. We all miss too terribly. Love you E
Brittany
November 2, 2021
Hi Elaine,
I think I speak on behalf of everyone when I say "I miss you". I love you and hope you are enveloped by the warmth of eternal peace. Thank you for being a great big sister to me. Always in my heart!
Dad
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Tomorrow is eleven years. I´ve loved and longed to see you every day of those years and always will. My only consolation is knowing that you´re in Paradise. Continue to Rest In God´s Peace and Love Until I get there with you and all of our family members that are with you already.
Your friends haven´t forgotten you either. They post messages of love on Facebook and elsewhere regularly. You had a huge loving impact on everyone.
I love you with all of my heart and every breath I take. I´ll see you again when the time comes. Knowing that is how I get from one day to the next. Feel free to visit me in a dream in the meantime.
I love you Honey Pie
- Daddy
Sherri Rushing
May 9, 2017
To the beautiful family of Elaine Marie Goldberg, my sincere prayers are with you all. I can't imagine the void in your hearts. May God work a miracle to give you comfort and peace, as you reflect on fond memories of your dear Elaine. God Bless & keep You All Always & Forevermore!!!
Tanya Watts
August 1, 2015
I miss u sooo much u crazy beautiful woman!!!
SMT - 3rd Grade
May 11, 2013
Hey Babydoll,
Just thinking of you, as I do every day. I miss you constantly. One day we'll all be together again. That is the glue (my faith in God) that holds me together.
Love,
Daddy
Esther Notis
April 24, 2012
Joe and Family,
Thinking of you and praying for all.
God bless...
Esther
Christine Rich
January 28, 2012
I was very honored to be part of the fundraiser for Elaine last night. Thank you for sharing all your healing laughter. God bless all of you. - Chris Rich
brittany beck
January 21, 2012
miss you so much, not a day goes by that something doesn't remind me of you, just wish you were here to share in all our lives <3 BB
December 19, 2011
<3 miss you E<3
November 28, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving Elaine,
I love you and I miss you. I know you are with us too. God will keep us all together. I like to think of you and Grandmom making hamburgs and string beans together up there in heaven. All my love auht bet
November 24, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving Elaine- I know you are still with us !!!
November 24, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving, Honey Pie. I suppose I should have written on 11/3, but I ran around all day to every place I thought I might run into you.
Of course, I love and miss you, but I fully expect you to be at the dinner table with us later today.
I'll see you there!
Love,
Daddy and all of your loving family
susan lavin
November 2, 2011
its almost one year that you were taken from your family. i pray for you, and your amazing family..they need u. please bring them strength...<3 you are loved and missed...
May 4, 2011
E,
Yesterday was six months. It is not getting any easier to be without you. In alot of ways it's more difficult. I just wish there was some way to get a second chance; to do some things differently. I'll love you always and miss you until we're finally reunited in heaven.
Love,
Daddy
Giulia Sambuca
January 4, 2011
This still isn't real to me. My mind cannot wrap itself around the idea that you are gone. I am still thoroughly convinced that you are just out and we haven't heard from you in a while. I look at your pictures/facebook so many times and I try to convince myself that you are not here, but it just does not work. I wish that I could have at least said goodbye, but I guess so does everyone else, right? The only thing keeping me somewhat sane about this whole idea is the fact that I know for certain that the amount of life that you had in your years here is probably more than most of the typical 21 year old people. You really wouldn't believe how many people you've touched. I wish you were here to see it. Actually, I know you're not far and probably do see it. But, I wish I could see your reaction to it. Keep your dad close please, along with everyone else in the family. It's not easy without you here and it probably won't get any easier. I love you and miss you so much, Elaine. I cannot wait for the day when I get to see you again.
Mary Ellen Jones
January 3, 2011
It's been two months today since Elaine was brutally taken from those who loved her. Her physical presence is with us no more, but her "light" shines brighter than ever. Elaine's vivacious spirit, the many loving memories that people have of her, even the memories of those silly and goofy things she was part of will live on along with the memories of the caring and special things she was a part of.
Elaine is a tribute to reality. She wasn't perfect, she never said she was...she was real. She was real, she was genuine, she was Elaine! She is loved and missed by all who knew and shared a part of her life. Elaine, rest now, your candle here lives on through the memories of you. No one will ever forget you! You earned your angel wings and I know you will use them to help those of us left behind. Love you, Momma Jones
What a smile !
Daddy
January 3, 2011
Today marks 2 months since you left. It is just as difficult to deal with, if not more so. I miss you so badly. I ask God daily for His help. That's all I know to do. I love you, Elaine. My Babydoll ...
stephanie mammola, smt '01
December 8, 2010
My thoughts and prayerd go out to you and your family. I'm extremely sorry for you loss its hard to grieve the loss of someone so long and accept it and move on. Only the good die young and god wanted her early.. seems like just yesterday we were hanging out in smd, Miss them times. Well miss u.
dana dallasta
December 5, 2010
I love you elaine, I can't stop thinking about/ you. You are simply amazing, I miss you every day, not an hour goes by without me thinking about you. Ill see you in my dreams. Miss u babygirl
December 2, 2010
i always loved your smile, and it will forever shine brightly <3 miss you beautiful wish i could have seen you more in the last few years...
Mary Beaulieu-Monaco
December 1, 2010
thanksgiving has come and gone and the holiday season is upon us .the loss of Elaine so fresh, still heavy on the hearts of those who loved her and always will .the miracle of Elaine is the out pouring of love so genuine and vast .so young ,so short a life and yet the impact she has left on so many lives ..everyone heartbroken yet the smiles and the laughter that come just from the thought of her .her aura and her essence still very much here with us .Elaine will never be truly gone .
the prayers and love of our family to yours this holiday season and always ,your daughter touched our hearts and lives as she has so many ..
God Bless You All .the Monaco family
Missy Dooner
December 1, 2010
Hey babygirl,
You were on my mind. I miss you sooooo much! Keep smiling down on us! Ill see you in my dreamsss! I love you!
Lindsey H.
November 28, 2010
Elaine,
I can't believe your gone, still. It was just yesterday you were driving me to big/little sister dance. Miss you, angel <3
Michelle B
November 26, 2010
I have been following Elaine's story, as it relates closely to my personal life. I would like to send my most sincere regards to family and friends. I am a Gwynedd Mercy College Nursing grad class of '07. My heart breaks for her family and friends and I pray that their heavy hearts find and keep peace soon. May God help Elaine nurse the souls of her family and friends back to health from heaven above. I am deeply sorry for your loss, and hope that all those close to her find Elaine's comfort she is sending.
Nicolette Hartzell
November 26, 2010
HEY GIRL..I STILL CANT BELIEVE YOUR GONE.. I KNOW UR UP THERE SMILING DOWN ON US. FLY HIGH BABYGIRL R.I.P.
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November 25, 2010
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November 25, 2010
November 25, 2010
Happy Thanksgiving BabyDoll. I love you and miss you. Give Gram a hug for me.
Love,
Daddy
Steven Samuel
November 20, 2010
Dear Goldberg Family:
You have our condolences and prayers for your loss. I was deeply saddened to hear this, I just received the news last evening watching the broadcast on TV. Joe stay strong for your family, the good Lord will see you through.
Steven Samuel,SEPTA
November 14, 2010
It has been over a week since the tragic loss of Elaine. Our family wanted once again to let you know that you are in our thoughts and our prayers everyday as you travel this road of grief and mourning. Elaine is in the arms of the angels now and feels no pain. I can imagine that heaven is a much more spirited place with her being there. Keep her in you hearts. She is waiting for you on the other side and watching over all of you now.
In God's peace,
The Jones Family
Chris Auman
November 12, 2010
To the family:
Having known you for many years, I know you are finding this a very difficult time. Elaine was very thoughtful and dependable when she was one of my servers at SMT. She always was willing to help out. I will continue to pray for her and for you.
November 12, 2010
Goldberg Family: My extreme condolences go out to all of you. Having known most of you for a number of years, I know that this time is hard, but Elaine is in a better place. We all have memories of her, mine being at St Martins and her begrudingly accepting to serve when we were short. But she was always diligent and gave her best. My prayers and sympathy will continue to go out to you and Elaine.
Chris Auman, Reading, PA
Tracy Teesdale
November 12, 2010
Dear Goldberg Family,
I am so sorry for your tragic loss. My daughter Sara went to St. Martin of Tours and girl scouts with Elaine. I use to help with the girl scouts and remember Elaine as always happy, smiling and very energentic. I remember all the good times we had with the girls at Camp Laughing Waters and down at Beach Jam. I have some great memories of the girls and will remember Elaine fondly. My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you.
Colleen Hetrick
November 11, 2010
Goldberg family,
I first want to say you were all so incredible yesterday, such kind words, and such an amazingly spot on description of Elaine.. (I was laughing and crying at the same time).
Secondly, Im sure you know this but you are in all of our hearts and prayers, there hasn't been a day that has gone by this week that I havent thought about or said a prayer for your family.
And thirdly, I remember a few years ago when my parents passed away I never wanted the funeral to end, I wanted to stay with those people who knew and loved them forever in that room, just remembering and supporting one another, and I want you to know that we may not be in the same room together ever again but you will always be in my heart and have my support.
And last I'd like to share a story..
Christy and I (we both worked at Lipkins with Elaine) were talking about old times with Elaine, we both went from being so drained and sad to laughing with in second of talking about her antics. Christy started a new story out by saying "Remember when Elaine..." At that very second Christy said her name I just happened to look up at the tv and it was showing a window of a cafe called "Elaine's" She is still with us and will always be with us.
God Bless
Alex Wyrwas
November 11, 2010
I've reflected over the past week or so on what has happened and I've been searching for an answer to somehow rationalize why this tragedy had to occur. After attending Elaine's viewing yesterday, I realized that despite this tragedy, I was comforted in knowing two things: I witnessed the Goldberg family's deep faith and conviction and oneness with God. Secondly, I saw complete and genuine love and support of family. Somehow after seeing these two things set into place, I realized that the family's faith and love will endure and that Elaine is now in the loving and caring hands of God.
Elaine, I will miss you and your wonderful and caring smile. I will never forget your sincere kindness to me.
Amanda Hensley
November 11, 2010
I'm very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with your family. The service was beautiful and The speeches made by her sister and her brother were amazing. Fly High Elaine. Your Free!!
November 10, 2010
I am so very sorry for your loss, I did not personally know Elaine Marie, she will always and forever be in your heart. God Bless and keep you in his loving arms, especially at this time. You are in my prays.
GMC Alumni (2008)
Cliff Lutter
November 10, 2010
I am so very sorry to learn of your loss.
I will hold you up in prayer that God will Bless your family and that you will somehow find comfort in knowing that Elaine is with her Lord and Saviour and is loving and praying for you right now.
Elaine Wurtenberg
November 10, 2010
Dear Goldberg Family, My son John and daughter Lindsay knew Elaine back in the St. Martin school days. I had the pleasure of being her "lunch mom" and substitute teacher. Her smile is what comes to mind when we hear her name. Bright, happy, always carefree. Her loss is tragic. Although her life was much too short, it is easy to see the impact she left on many in that short time. Our prayers are with all of you.
November 10, 2010
Words can not describe how deeply sorry I am for you loss... Your family is in my prayers. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a beautiful guardian angel to watch over you.
Kristi LF Class of 2005
jolene feather
November 10, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. The service today was beautiful .
valerie bolger
November 10, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Annemarie Krothe Petroff
November 10, 2010
Joe and Family,
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Nicole Benincasa
November 10, 2010
To the family
Elaine was a fun loving girl I didnt know her that well but when i did get the chance to hang with her she was fun and caring I worked with her mom darrah at shoprite and I cant tell you how sorry I am this shouldnt of happened she was so young My deepest sympathy is to you and your family
jeffrey donahue
November 9, 2010
i will pray for the family.list thing i said to her is how nice u look.life is hard.it not right.to the family u had a beautiful young women.that will always be in my prays
Laura McGuire
November 9, 2010
Elaine i cant believe your gone :(, i remember when my mom would babysit us after school and instead of doing homework we would play barbies. It seems like yesterday. You will be missed. Rest in peace
Colleen Rhodes
November 9, 2010
My daughter goes to school with Careen and I just wanted to let you know that you are all in my prayers. I wish I could take your pain away, nobody deserves to go through this, but I want you to know you are not alone.
Marie Siuma
November 9, 2010
Dear Joe and Family,
In times of grief, the Word of God gives us hope and comfort. "In my distress I cried to the Lord, and He heard me." Psalm 120:1
May God lift your hearts to Heaven where Elaine dwells in Eternal Peace with her beloved Grandmother.
Courtney Bright
November 9, 2010
Elaine,
I hope you can see from Heaven the impact you have had on so many people. Please watch over all of your friends and family. They REALLY need you now. I still cannot believe I saw you about three weeks ago and we just caught up on things. I hope you know that you were truly an amazing woman!
My thoughts and prayers are with Mr. and Mrs. Goldberg, Joey, Steve and Careen.
Kevin Ruff
November 9, 2010
It still hasn't hit me. So sudden...you will always be the closest thing ive ever had to a little sister. Watch over us up there with grandmom. I'm sure she's missed you. RIP EMG
hev devanney
November 9, 2010
we thought of you with love today but that's nothing new . we thought about you yesterday & days before that too . we think of you in silence, we often speak your name now all we have is memories & your picture in a frame . your memory is our keepsake with which we'll never part . god has you in his keeping & we all have you in our heart
fly high girl *
Dennis Dougherty
November 9, 2010
Joe, I am so very sorry to hear of your great loss. My deepest sympathy to you and you family. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
fran ruff
November 9, 2010
i can't believe that i have to go to your funeral tomorrow...i still literally cannot believe this happened to you. rest in peace Elaine
Jess LF Class of 2009
November 9, 2010
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
SMTParishioner
November 9, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
November 8, 2010
Dear Joe and Family, Our deepest sympathy to you in the loss of your precious daughter at this sad time in your life. God Bless. Fred and Sue Allen
Gabrielle Donahue
November 8, 2010
Elaine,
You will be missed so much. You were a great person! I still can't get over the fact that you're gone, you're way too young to not be here anymore. I am keeping your family in my prayers. REST IN PEACE - I'LL SEE YOU AGAIN ONE DAY.
Susie
November 8, 2010
My deepest condolences are with you Jaime and your family. You are all in my prayers here.
Ashlyn Dych
November 8, 2010
Another angel, granted power from the Lord, taking her wings so she can soar. She touched us all, in numerous ways, yet it's hard to believe that she will now lay in place. She'll be with us all, impeded in our hearts and she'll guide us through, those tough, saddened nights. ::May her safety rest on the right side of the Lord.:: I wish your family a safe transition. I will miss her greatly and I am deeply saddened of your family's loss. I will truly miss my friend. God Bless You All. <3
Gary Barker
November 8, 2010
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss.. I know all to well how it feels.. My deepest sympathy to all.
November 8, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences and prayers are with you as you grieve.
Joy Watson
November 8, 2010
Joe, my deepest sympathy to you and your family for the loss of Elaine. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you.
November 8, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Giulia Sambuca
November 8, 2010
Elaine,
Believe me when I tell you, you will be remember for years upon years. You've made an impact on so many people, it's truly unbelievable. Somewhere within this terrible time, I pray that the family finds some peace and understanding. Please help us to know you are safe. I think we'd all feel a little more at ease if we knew you were okay. I hope that there really really is a God, and I hope that he guides the family through this tough time. We all love and miss you dearly. But do not worry, you're time hear has created many wonderful memories for tons of people. Rest Peacefully, Beautiful Angel.
"It is not the years in your life that matter, it is the life in your years."
..I find it appalling that both, you and Lacey, had the same quote on your senior journals.
November 8, 2010
November 8, 2010
Dear Joe and Family: It saddens us deeply that you are mourning the death of your daughter Elaine. Please know that you are all in our prayers, as well as Elaine's soul. Sincerely, Nuncio and Violet Cali
November 8, 2010
i love you and miss u my little girl u r with pop-pop and granmom u r in good hands love mom
Sandie and Norm Davis
November 8, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
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