Gary Allan Bennett

Gary Allan Bennett obituary, Buffalo, NY

Gary Allan Bennett

Gary Bennett Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 11, 2023.
Gary Allan Bennett, age 62, of Buffalo, NY passed away on Friday, September 8, 2023, as the result of a brief serious illness. Gary was born on June 29, 1961, to Ronald Bennett and Diana Hamill in Rochester, New York. Like his grandfather Allan Beaman, Gary became a carpenter and project manager for Santoro Construction across the Buffalo region under the direction of his boss and good friend, Mike Santoro. Gary loved to make others laugh, visit the Adirondak mountains of his boyhood, and play the bass guitar. However, those things didn't compare to the love he had for his children and the true joy they brought him. Gary is survived by his children Amylee (Ray) Marzella, Amelia, Angelina, Annaliese, and Isaiah Bennett, step-daughter Kaylee (Sam) Castronova and their mother Tracy Bennett; parents Ron Bennett (Anne) and Diana Hamill (Don Turner), brother John Bennett (Kelly), and half-brothers Brian (Lindsey) Bennett (MI), Peter (Dominique) Bennett (KY), Zachary (Meredith) Bennett (KY), and many, many loved extended family members and friends.

The family wishes to recognize the wonderful medical and palliative care team of the Intensive Care Unit at Erie County Medical Center; especially nurses Darlene and Sarah, social workers Samantha and Kate, NP Faith, Dr. Achazkai and Dr. Grimm. We are so grateful for the excellence and compassion we witnessed as you cared for Gary, your daily commitment to keeping us well-informed, and for the care extended to his children. We will never forget you!

A Celebration of Life service will take place on Saturday, September 16th at the North Chili United Methodist Church, 2200 Westside Drive, Rochester, NY 14624. Family and Friends will be greeted from 3:30 - 4:00 PM, followed immediately by the service and a reception. Private interment. In lieu of flowers, please consider a gift to the Open Door Mission, 156 Plymouth Ave N, Rochester, NY 14608 in Gary's memory.

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October 10, 2023

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James Boyack

September 14, 2023

Our prayers are with the family. Deepest condolences. The Boyack´s

Elizabeth Abrams

September 14, 2023

He was an amazing kind and caring neighbor!! I will miss him!!

Jamie Lang

September 14, 2023

Literally everyday on the jobsite he would make you laugh. Just an amazing soul.

Linda Bennett Dodge

September 13, 2023

My heart and prayers go out to Gary´s family

Tina Doelitzsch

September 12, 2023

I would like to send my heartfelt condolences to Gary´s family and his beautiful children. The best about Gary was his love for his kids. Sharing, smiling, laughing. I believe that is something we will all deeply miss. One thing I will always remember is his true heart and friendship. During my surgery he was the first to bring a smile and check in daily with how are you then follow it with something to make me laugh. I will miss his upbeat positivity, his encouragement to all, his zest and of course his letting us in to his world full of love for his babies. Life will not be the same without him.

Steve Muir

September 12, 2023

I would like to send my condolences to Gary's family. Thoughts and prayers to you all. RIP Brother

Karen Gath

September 12, 2023

My prayers go out to the family I am so sorry for your lost

Sandra Coppini

September 12, 2023

I love and miss you Superman..forever and always my bestie.

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