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Brendan Shuba
June 18, 2024
It has been 14 years with out you grandpa, and although a lot has changed there is still times where I will sit there and think back to the time we got to spend together. The one that is burned into my mind is the 8 hour trip when you helped us move back from Edmonton, and the endless stories that you told to keep me occupied for that trip. at the time I just wanted them to end, But now I would give anything to hear you tell any one of them.
There is not a day that goes by that I don't miss you old man!
Darrell Haysom
March 22, 2010
I have been requested to post this, for you dad /grandpa:
Words of remember for Our Dad / Grandpa 3/9/2010
Harry Arthur Haysom: Born March 11 / 12, 1940 in Regina, married his childhood sweetheart wife Judy, Siblings Bernard ./ Barbara/ Marion / Frank
His Grandfather Harry Hodgson had a major influence on his life, which he returned in the later years – Grandpa Hodgson lived with us in the winter months was always entertaining however Dad always had patience for him.
At a young age Harry had a number of friends that today he was still in touch from the core / central area of Regina..
In his younger years he was based out of Chiliwack, BC in the armed forces – artillery and self proclaimed boxer. He had many careers though his life however the one everyone remembers him is the big man in a little truck as a courier. He was proud to do what he did and had made numerous friends along the way – and a special friend to this day in Ken Pollock. He will be remembered as the self employed courier wearing a toque in the winter and hat in the summer with suspenders on his pants, not watching the road looking around him analyzing all the activities but trying his best to make a living.
Personal Character of Dad:
Animals:
His beloved pets three legged - Black Lab – which cost more than our car at the time turned out to be his best investment. He trained and loved his dog – he invested thousands of dollars in vet bills but never batted an eye - he was part of the family.
Hunting:
Duck hunting excursions were always entertaining as a bullet carrier and dog handler watching my Dad and brothers try and shoot bag a couple of Ducks was comical – I recall one time I left the dog in the car because previously he pulled in the dugout so we decided to leave him in the car – MISTAKE by the time Dad and I come back he tore out the back seat - was he mad not really but was another good story to tell..
The days at the Beach
Sitting with Grandpa Hodgson at the cabin talking about life in general and what would be the next invention and who was the guinea pig
Working with PAPA Geordie cutting ice and stacking in ice house and working with the horses and
The unforgettable barn red Trailer
It was flooded with water fights but always a rule to never throw water in the bedrooms
Assembling the army tent for Saturday night – taking hours to put it up and take down it was fun.
To the infamous mini bike that had 5000 miles on it - uncles getting ripped off the bike by stringing a line across the road all in good fun – where mom left and come walking back battered and bruised from her wipeout him laughing at the whole ordeal – then the hide and seek games till wee hour of the mornings and having those relaxing fires at night talking about the days fun.
Teaching Mom how to drive with the three speed standard station wagon trying to parallel park between 45 gallon barrels and explaining to her how to maneuver between the barrels in a animated and heated borage of words
The boat house which everyone was welcome to enjoy
On the hot days we would engage in water polo (full contact of course, and if you left you shoes / boots unattended Uncle Gary would wear in the water – just because)
Endless hours on the boat water skiing tubing trick skiing boogie boarding – he was a avid Water skier – his famous saucer board and self proclaimed First Class boat driver.
His ideas were great but everyone else tried them such as the time my brothers and cousins built the ski jump
Days at the beach hut – participating floor hockey tournaments – RBYC water ski competition
Helping out with stranded planes at the beach with his buddy Ken Peters – to the days of the bath tub races he enjoyed it all
The long days at the beach always was welcomed with a good home cooked meal, he would ask always how was the day / how much fun / who was fighting/ did we clean out the boat and do we need gas.
Anyone that experienced this hospitality knows what I am talking about no one went away hungry and they were wiser from the stories he would tell.
He had a love of the water but his words will always stay with me it goes something like this: The water can be your best friend and you can enjoy but respect the water because it can be your worst enemy
The Cabin:
Renovation and addition of the cabin that became their home, he wanted to keep the originality of the home because his grandfather built it and tried to the bust of his ability to ensure this.
In construction period he would give instructions of what was required to be done next throughout the day – then when he came home so we could start on the next stage. Dad would get up early morning prior to going to work noticing how cold it was (because we ran out of propane) would put extra blankets on us to ensure we were warm.
Even to the point I believe he still wanted to dig one more out house hole (of course he would direct Rob and I where to dig the hole) and put the windy lodge. Still today the old green house shed converted in to a bunk house – that is what he wanted to keep the memories of the beach from yesterday to today.
His hypocrisy in selling his car to Rob - future son in law and tell him that he will not let her daughter drive in the vehicle because it was not safe.
The days of going to Copes / Hardware getting a pop / bar / chips talking with everyone and coming home – I know one thing the hardware has lost one of their best retail customers.
The days at the lake one of his best past times, Dad would sit on the pier /or in his truck with whomever would join / Mom / Rob / grandchildren and watch the Sunday night entertainment. Watch people load their boats falling in – backing into far / not being able to back in, he would sit there and laugh, watching thunderstorms role in and say watch the lightning bounce off the water – simple man with no demands enjoying what life had to offer.
Sports:
Loved wrestling – Stampede days – mad at Stomper – to the WWE special time with his grandson
Football – loved the Saskatchewan Roughriders, Attended grandsons games
Coaching:
Wheel chair basketball , once again sucked in some of my uncles to play
Hockey
Anafvets Spitifre - 12 years
Degleman Blades 5 years
Coaching my uncles and cousins playing hockey actually some of them were pretty good
Organizer with the 5 Star hockey tournament
Avid sports fan of his grandchildren
Family
Dad and mom opened their door to anyone in need, if anyone needed a place to stay or live they would welcome that individual. They may not have had much but what they did they shared.
His giving personality and Moms patience was a good combination, something he has passed down to all of his children
He took personal pride in his children in his own way he was proud of each one,
His Grandchildren had a special place in his heart throughout his life,Troy / Bryanna/ Brendan/ RJ/ Denby /Alexandra, he had special times with each of you those are the times we will remember and cherish – he had sparkle in his eye for each of you.
In Closing:
Dad had a big bark but once you got through that he was a gentle and caring, he had the ability to talk to anyone and pick out the positives
Dad would never back down from a good heated discussion – always stated his point and sometimes even convince you he was right, and if you did not believe him JUDY would BERIFY it.
His stories would go for ever and when you heard BUT HA get ready another story was starting - we will miss those days but the upside we all were lucky to hear his stories.
Dad had a the gift of conversation, I can tell you standing hear today is Dad / Grandpa in heaven - not yet – I think he is probably talking to everyone he knows on his way up, once he gets to those pearly gates he will have something to say to the mightier power. He will definitely engage into a heated discussion of why now and the reason around his calling
One thing Dad instilled to all of us was the ability to not be scared of a hard days work with that is why today we all have done well. . You can measure wealth in various ways – financially he may not have had a great deal of money, however Dad was extremely wealthy with his love for his family and sharing his life with all of us. You are only as rich as the amount of friends you have with that he was extremely rich.
We know the past 24 months came with their challenges, he kept his head up and dealt with adversity the best he knew how – with his dignity.
He was a humble man we were blessed to have him as a Husband / Father / Grandfather we will miss him but will always remember the good times and stories he has shared with us. We love you and till we meet again.
Love Darrell / Angelique / Denby / Alexandra
Rj Shuba
March 15, 2010
Harry Haysom was a unique kind of man. No matter what was said, he always could tell you a story about anything, whether he was there or not. Cherishing his Pepsi or Coke in hand, he was willing to be friends with anyone who listened to him talk. The old guy was smart though because he would quiz you on the stuff he said to make sure that you were listening. Grandpa and I are a lot alike and we both have love to talk, and when we tell a story even know it should or could take five minutes to tell we can make them go for about a hour. Every time I went to visit Grandpa, it was hard for us to talk. We would both have a story to share and sometimes neither of us would listen to the other one talk because we were too busy thinking of our own story. Grandpa and I watched a lot of football together, mainly Rider games, a lot of the time Grandpa telling stories the whole way though; the one I remember most is the Grey Cup game, and everyone knows how that game ended. Grandpa was so happy when he thought the Riders had won another cup even letting out a little cheer and raising his arms in the air. Almost spilling his mini pepsi can he was holding at the time. Then I had to tell them there were flags on the field. We then listened to what the flags were for, and then he let off into another story about how the refs were all from the east and were cheering for a eastern team and how it was bologna, which actually made me feel better about the game.
Overall, I loved him very much, and I know he loved me back. It hurts to know that i will never hear him talk about Danny Mc-sosa playing with his lip in a tense situation, or how Kawala Jones got that fumble recovery and ran it back for a touchdown. We shared a lot of good memories together, and he shared a lot more with me every time I saw him. He is missed by a lot, and loved by more.
thuhgt i would put this u for u grandpa just incase you could not hear the ending.
Bryanna Haysom
March 11, 2010
Happy Birthday Grandpa! Thinking of you more than you know ... Love you forever :)
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Jeff Anderson
March 10, 2010
Judy,Randy,Brenda,Darrell
I was sorry to hear that you lost your Dad. Please accept our deepest sympathy, our thoughts are with all of you.
Joyce & Mel
March 9, 2010
Judy,Bill,Randy,Brenda,Darrell & Families_
Our heartfelt condolences & prayers go to all on this very sad occasion. Only time & fond memories, of which you have many, help to heal.Sincerely,
Mel & Joyce
Cayle Vermeulen
March 8, 2010
Judy and family,
I had the pleasure of working with Harry for 15 years and looked up to him as a friend, and almost a grandfather like figure. He watched me grow as an adult during my career and was always looking out for me and everyone else at our workplace.
To those who did not know him well, he may have come across as rough, but to those of use close to him, he was a warm, caring man who was always looking out for everyone else and rarely put his needs ahead of others.
I fondly recall every Christmas time when he would come in and discuss how he was looking forward to spending time with his grandchildren, his face would light up when he talked about them. The dollar amount he budgeted each year increased in our conversations, but so did his appreciation and love for his family. It was well known in our place of work that Harry loved his family time.
I have missed my conversations over the past 5 years with Harry as I moved onto Winnipeg and he retired shortly after my move. I was fortunate to speak to him on the phone several times over the past year, however, it was not the same.
My condolences go out to the entire family on the loss of this good man. Unfortunately I cannot be there to say good-bye in person, I will be wearing suspenders tomorrow to pay tribute to my friend.
Denise Rose
March 8, 2010
Dear Auntie Judy,
My thoughts are with you during this hard time. One chapter of your life has ended but a new one is being written.
Stay strong,
Love Bev and Richard
March 8, 2010
We have enjoyed many gatherings at Regina Beach with the Haysom's. We will never forget all the stories, the pranks, water skiing, socializing and laughing into the wee hours.
There are many lasting memories.
doris bohn
March 8, 2010
to Brenda and Rob and the Haysom families. my deepest sympathies go out to you are your fammilies at this sorrowful time. it is never loosing a parent. my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Doris Anderson
March 7, 2010
My most sincere condolences to all of Harry's family. Harry was larger than life and he meant so much to so many of us. He always had time to have some fun with us for the many times we trekked out to the beach. The times we all spent there made fond memories.
You are in our hearts.
Doris, Christine & Chris, Brett & Harley.
Rj,Brendan,Brenda and Rob Shuba
March 7, 2010
To Our Grandfather/Father you will be sadly missed throughout our lives, but are comforted in knowing you are in a better place and will be well cared for till we all meet again. We love you
Jim Marshall
March 7, 2010
Dear Judy & Family
I was sorry to hear the news about Harry. I have such fond memories of the times we all spent at the lake and how Harry taught me how to water ski. Although it is difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you in days to come.
With deepest sympathy
Ron and Loretta Frigon
March 7, 2010
Brenda, Rob, Brennan and RJ.
Please accept our sympathies in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts are with you all.
Brian & Kathy Butz
March 6, 2010
Dear Bill & Noreen and
Randy & Mary Lee
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May your memories bring you comfort.
John & Marlene Shuba
March 6, 2010
Our sincere condolences to the Haysom Family
Jack Marshall
March 6, 2010
Dear Judy & Family
My thoughts are with you in your loss.
No words can Concey the heartfelt sympathy that is felt fo you in your loss.
May it help to know others are thinking of you.
With Sympathy and Caring.
Ron & Marlene Lessard
March 6, 2010
Dear Darrell and Angelique and family. so sorry to hear of your dad's death. please accept our deepest sympathy, our thoughts and prayers are with all of your family.
Bryanna Haysom
March 5, 2010
Grandpa, I'll miss you forever! I wish you could have been here forever but I can't be that selfish ... I guess I just need to let you go and move on to bigger and better days :) -- Till we meet again Grandpa. I know you'll be waiting up there for me and watching over our family *hugs and kiss* xoxo
Missy
Florence Holt
March 5, 2010
Dear Darrell, Angelique and family: Please accept my deepest sympathy on the death of your father and grandfather. I'm sure that you will all have special memories of him for all to recall over the next few days and months. They will sustain and comfort you. I am visiting in Calif. and would prefer to extend my condolences in person. Will see you when I return.
March 5, 2010
Bill, Noreen, Curtis and Jaclynn,
Our sincere condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love Sandra, Greg, Jered, Celina and Jon
Roy &Wilma McKay
March 5, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Ev Pitz
March 5, 2010
Darrell, Angelique and family
So sorry to hear about your Dad. My sincere sympathy to you.
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